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A video of my 'best performance' I hope!

By *ougaress OP Woman over a year ago

warwicksire, west midlands: 'plays' mostly clubs in

I’m having a typical night, (for me) at a Swingers Club, videoed. Its entirely for my own private consumption and later enjoyment.

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By *uton_coupleCouple over a year ago

luton

im going to have a vidio made of me eating my sunday dinner ( roast beef and yorkshire pudding )and im going to watch it in private for my own enjoyment

i dont think anyone would want to watch in anyway as its a horrible sight to see me with gravy cascading down my chin and all over the front of my shirt

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m having a typical night, (for me) at a Swingers Club, videoed. Its entirely for my own private consumption and later enjoyment.

OK we can take a hint.....how much for a copy then?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *ensual temptressWoman over a year ago

Southampton

gravey !!! mmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hope you have colliflower cheese with the veggies ohhhhh getting excited here ..tell us more !! lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"gravey !!! mmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hope you have colliflower cheese with the veggies ohhhhh getting excited here ..tell us more !! lol"

cauliflower cheese with roast dinner - and gravy???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Jack,

You perv, I'm telling Kate.

Paddy xx

"I’m having a typical night, (for me) at a Swingers Club, videoed. Its entirely for my own private consumption and later enjoyment.

OK we can take a hint.....how much for a copy then?

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By *arlot ScarlettWoman over a year ago

Bolton

"I’m having a typical night, (for me) at a Swingers Club, videoed. Its entirely for my own private consumption and later enjoyment.

And? I didn't think filming was allowed - I assume that all the other people in the club have been contacted and given their consent? or are you just going to ask on the night? What if someone doesn't want to be filmed? What if there are other paying customers in there that don't want a film crew there - might spoil the ambience? I can see a few problems with this idea! Are you taking over the club for this purpose? My heads hurting now!

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By *ensual temptressWoman over a year ago

Southampton

"gravey !!! mmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hope you have colliflower cheese with the veggies ohhhhh getting excited here ..tell us more !! lol

cauliflower cheese with roast dinner - and gravy???

ohh its scrummy !!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Jack,

You perv, I'm telling Kate.

Paddy xx

OK we can take a hint.....how much for a copy then?

I'm not a perv Paddy...I'm a bloke

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By *uss PussWoman over a year ago

east cheshire

"I’m having a typical night, (for me) at a Swingers Club, videoed. Its entirely for my own private consumption and later enjoyment.

bully for you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Jack it was my Irish humour...a joke...

Back fired I guess..

Apologies

Paddy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Jack it was my Irish humour...a joke...

Back fired I guess..

Apologies

Paddy"

I know it's a joke Paddy, no worries, didn't take it that way anyway mate. Anyway, if the truth's know, most blokes are pervs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

especially down here in cornwall lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m having a typical night, (for me) at a Swingers Club, videoed. Its entirely for my own private consumption and later enjoyment.

and ?????

should this have been posted in the fantasy forum too ????

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

and ?????

should this have been posted in the fantasy forum too ????"

Or the "LOOK AT ME!!!! LOL" forum.

Oh, wait.

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By *he BananamanMan over a year ago

WORCESTERSHIRE

hmm a good roast beef dinner seems very appealing!.

all the trimmings and videoed so i can watch it over and over!.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

didn't think that it was allowed in clubs or even that it was legal? even at a private function every1 would have to sign consent form. what if one person wasn't happy after the event with the filming and decided to take legal action

sounds like a good fantasy but can see lots of problems in reality.

better idea, have a private party at a residential address or hotel with friends who know you and dont care about filming and use a digicam

sounds like a fun idea to film yourself one night it club but i don't think it could ever work ....... wel not well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m having a typical night, (for me) at a Swingers Club, videoed. Its entirely for my own private consumption and later enjoyment.

Are you allowed to take cameras into a club? I always thought it was against the rules?

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By *ixson-BallsMan over a year ago

Blackpool

i know your not allowed them in la chambre without the owners express permission, so if its a private video thing going on with owners/members consent?....if so...go for it...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m having a typical night, (for me) at a Swingers Club, videoed. Its entirely for my own private consumption and later enjoyment.

Are you allowed to take cameras into a club? I always thought it was against the rules? "

It is x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m having a typical night, (for me) at a Swingers Club, videoed. Its entirely for my own private consumption and later enjoyment.

Are you allowed to take cameras into a club? I always thought it was against the rules?

It is x"

Well how can they arrange to record the fun? Am i being thick here or missing out on something?

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By *uton_coupleCouple over a year ago

luton

and ?????

should this have been posted in the fantasy forum too ????

Or the "LOOK AT ME!!!! LOL" forum.

Oh, wait."

i hate those "show off" look at me posts , we bought a new really big PLASMA TV a few months ago

and apart from starting a few threads about it we keep it to ourselves , so as not to make others jealous

its been a bit of a nuisance really having to bring the great big cardboard box in every tuesday , in case the dustman take it

but its all wet and soggy now so i think we will let them have it as all the neighbours have seen it now

anyway its right near the window SO YOU CANT FECKING MISS IT

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Jeez, this place is getting more hostile by the day.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m having a typical night, (for me) at a Swingers Club, videoed. Its entirely for my own private consumption and later enjoyment.

Are you allowed to take cameras into a club? I always thought it was against the rules?

It is x

Well how can they arrange to record the fun? Am i being thick here or missing out on something? "

Could be an arranged thing with the club,in a private room and i say good on her,Paul loves filming me with other guys,its really horny watching it together after the guys have gone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Jeez, this place is getting more hostile by the day.

does sound a little "look at me", but i don't think it's intentional. i think the op is genuinely excited and wanted to share that with the rest of us...nothing wrong with that either...plenty of folk publicise their firsts on here

enjoy it chick! hope it brings you lots of joy!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Jeez, this place is getting more hostile by the day.

enjoy it chick! hope it brings you lots of joy!

not her first she was on here in a while ago in a different guise definitely a look at me post but nowt wrong with that..i like people looking at me too ..as long as she isnt advertising for paying guests thats ok ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Jeez, this place is getting more hostile by the day.

enjoy it chick! hope it brings you lots of joy!

ahhhhh...well, i guess some folk are turned on by it...we've all done a bloody good job then!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All this filming in clubs not being allowed is bollox. Liberty have had film crews in there on numerous occasions - did they ask everyone who was there on those nights whether they were ok with it?

If it's going to publicise the club they'd be raving bonkers not to permit filming and if someone attending feels awkward about it then they can leave, can't they?

To the OP: Have a great night and post the piccies up for all to see lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m having a typical night, (for me) at a Swingers Club, videoed. Its entirely for my own private consumption and later enjoyment.

OK we can take a hint.....how much for a copy then?

Do you want to go halves?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"All this filming in clubs not being allowed is bollox. Liberty have had film crews in there on numerous occasions - did they ask everyone who was there on those nights whether they were ok with it?

If it's going to publicise the club they'd be raving bonkers not to permit filming and if someone attending feels awkward about it then they can leave, can't they?

To the OP: Have a great night and post the piccies up for all to see lol

Rude Britania made a series of films at LaChambre with willing swingers too.

As long as prior notification and permission is granted there's no problem.

As for people implying its a "look at me post",looking as good as that at 30,let alone 50,who can blame her!

XXXX

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By *ougaress OP Woman over a year ago

warwicksire, west midlands: 'plays' mostly clubs in

Never ever for sale or distribution.

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By *ougaress OP Woman over a year ago

warwicksire, west midlands: 'plays' mostly clubs in

The evening has been set up specifically for this and everyone entering will be made aware in advance.

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By *ensualfire88Man over a year ago

Edinburgh

Frankly. Whatever.

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By *ougaress OP Woman over a year ago

warwicksire, west midlands: 'plays' mostly clubs in

I pity those women who trawl through chat rooms or Forums, seeking opportunities to spread their bile. Most are erstwhile Bingo Players with little else to do in their lives; but please why do you need to decry someone else who is having a lovely time. Why cant you celebrate the fact that at least someone is having a life you can only fantasise about?

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By *ougaress OP Woman over a year ago

warwicksire, west midlands: 'plays' mostly clubs in

My God an intelligent person who doesn’t look for the negative in everything. Not only legally correct but sensible too.

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By *adchickCouple over a year ago

Cyprus

Can you tell us which club it is please, as I certainly won't ever be going back there.

Videoing anyone at a club, unless the club is shut to the general public, should NEVER be allowed, unless there are hundreds of notices everywhere (before you go in).

There are those of us with sensitive jobs who would lose them if anything ever got out and a loose camera around a swinging club is just asking for trouble.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

jeeeeez folks!!! put away the claws and handbags!!

Free country, good luck to the OP enjoy your night!

D&J XXX

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

" Most are erstwhile Bingo Players with little else to do in their lives; but please why do you need to decry someone else who is having a lovely time.

Why are you decrying Bingo players?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

go for it girl, have a great night.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" Most are erstwhile Bingo Players with little else to do in their lives; but please why do you need to decry someone else who is having a lovely time.

Why are you decrying Bingo players?"

Yes and why say we are players with little to do in our lives, each to his own, not my thing at all but quite frankly advertising it just smacks of slutty too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hmm very interesting read here. I detect a hint of jealousy in some, common sense in others. I myself agree with Pearl I have a job which requires discretion and would certainly need to be aware of any cameras, I wouldn't go in.

As for the fantasy is she looking for lots of people to watch too? Yes I can see where the turn on is, are we not all exhibitionists at heart? Personally, so long as all are aware go for it girl if you can. I'd like to meet you and take the ones that are slightly too old for you lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh yeah I got my Mecca bingo card last year, played once and then discovered I like these clubs better!! I also have a library card and a .......... get my drift?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I hope you have a great time and it lives up to all your expectations!

I do think at times there is a tendancy for it to be a harsh crowd on here..sadly

I also have to add..surely 'slutty' on a swingers site is not a bad thing???!!!

Whilst not my 'cup of tea' seems a little harsh and misplaced to denounce such an activity as slutty..when most on this site are here to fuck people that initially are little more than strangers lol!

vol

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By *umpkinMan over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

As a "rent-a-stud" veteran of three photo shoots

I`m going to say go for it!! It appears that you do have permission from the club to carry this out and it wouldn`t take much to exclude people from the filming area who do not wish to be included in your film/pictures and make such people be aware of what`s happening, especially if it`s done at a quiet time at the club.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

I can't understand why people accuse others of being slutty for having sex when they are on a swinging site looking for the same thing

To the OP have fun.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

i know most clubs dont allow camera's etc in them normally but i do believe that some will allow it on certain occasions

i am sure i even saw a profile on here that stated they had pics taken in Chams at a private party there.

as long as the club has given express permission and makes all that are attending that day aware of what is going on to allow them to make their own decsion whether or not to be involved then where is the harm??

to the OP - have fun, i'm sure you will

and need no encuragement from me lol

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By *ensual temptressWoman over a year ago

Southampton

"I pity those women who trawl through chat rooms or Forums, seeking opportunities to spread their bile. Most are erstwhile Bingo Players with little else to do in their lives; but please why do you need to decry someone else who is having a lovely time. Why cant you celebrate the fact that at least someone is having a life you can only fantasise about?

firstly if you post in forums you KNOW not everyone is going to post posative comments . after all its a forum and everyone entitled to there own thoughts and to exspress them . just because a person doesnt agree with you or has different view point doesnt make their view wrong or less valid ,just their own personal view !!

if ppl want to plaster what they are doing on the site or keep it their own personal business then thats their indervidual choice .theres no right or wrong way ,just whats comfortable for you . but if you choose to post then ppl will comment good and bad and just have to be adult enough to accept that not everyone will view things same as you . be rather boring if every post was going to be a back slapping exercise . personally i like to see all views as may be some aspect ive not considered or valid points made . if you dont like or find any value in comment then hey just move on to the next lol !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think your missing out a bit on the irony to be honest. Most people don't really believe your statement and that's why they react as they have. Me personally think its a look at me thread with no substance or as in the past it would be classed "all piss and wind" The fact you have come back and got upset really adds credence to this belief but for me it has made me chuckle so thanks for the humour intended or not.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m having a typical night, (for me) at a Swingers Club, videoed. Its entirely for my own private consumption and later enjoyment.

She's avin a larf ;-D

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

must be costly, if you have any further spare cash there's a crisis in India. :-I

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You know what, sometimes I can really see why some believe there to be a clique in these forums.

If for an example a regular and popular lady posted just like the OP the replies would be so very different, not petty little remarks.

Some of the replies here are uncalled for, no need at all, all speculation, petty name calling and just intolerance.

Bingo, that was a reaction to some of the posts here, I don't see why she has to defend what she said regarding bingo when she took enough uncalled for stick in the first place and simply responded.

India, do you know the OP doesn't give to such a cause already? and who's business is it anyway on what cash she does have, for all we know the club owner may be a friend and opened the doors on a normally closed say as a favour.

Slut, yet you are posting on a sex site ffs.

What a fecking laugh, we all consider ourselves open minded, seeking friendship.

Don't make me fecking laugh.

To the OP, keep on posting, then when you are a familiar name and become popular you can post threads and not be considered an attention seeker or a slut blah de blah. and guess what, it may surprise you here but you can also post about having sex

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oops, I meant.....

Don't make me laugh

Not this

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By *o DaddyMan over a year ago

Worcestershire

"You know what, sometimes I can really see why some believe there to be a clique in these forums.

If for an example a regular and popular lady posted just like the OP the replies would be so very different, not petty little remarks.

Some of the replies here are uncalled for, no need at all, all speculation, petty name calling and just intolerance.

Bingo, that was a reaction to some of the posts here, I don't see why she has to defend what she said regarding bingo when she took enough uncalled for stick in the first place and simply responded.

Slut, yet you are posting on a sex site ffs.

What a fecking laugh, we all consider ourselves open minded, seeking friendship.

Don't make me fecking laugh.

crikey!

that was a bit OTT don't you think?.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You know what, sometimes I can really see why some believe there to be a clique in these forums.

If for an example a regular and popular lady posted just like the OP the replies would be so very different, not petty little remarks.

Some of the replies here are uncalled for, no need at all, all speculation, petty name calling and just intolerance.

Bingo, that was a reaction to some of the posts here, I don't see why she has to defend what she said regarding bingo when she took enough uncalled for stick in the first place and simply responded.

Slut, yet you are posting on a sex site ffs.

What a fecking laugh, we all consider ourselves open minded, seeking friendship.

Don't make me fecking laugh.

crikey!

that was a bit OTT don't you think?.

No, not at all, have you read the thread? I've acted in a similar yet less abusive way, so suggesting my post was OTT then I imagine you agree with me also then.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To the OP, keep on posting, then when you are a familiar name and become popular you can post threads and not be considered an attention seeker or a slut blah de blah. and guess what, it may surprise you here but you can also post about having sex

if you are new to posting on this site, doesn't mean you are any less entitled to an opinion.

Nor does it mean you lack experience so couldn't possibly have nothing to add...

would be nice if we could all accept our aims, if not our opinions, are pretty much in the same field and try to be supportive and welcoming rather than suspicious and bitter of newbies

....just a thought!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never been to Liberty Elite or La Chambre but I do know that both clubs did tell everyone in the club that TV crews were on the premises and had the consent of all those who were there on the night (I think they held the event at a time the club was normally closed)

Chameleons has a strict No Cameras, No Mobile Phones(cos many have cams) No Video equipment but people have been known to sneak them in and use them in Private lockable rooms where unsuspecting people cannot enter when in use, I take it that they then had the permission of those in the rooms to do it.

Some of our profile pictures were taken all over Chameleons, but this was done on Christmas Day when the club was closed to the public and last Sunday morning before the club opened to the public.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

if you are new to posting on this site, doesn't mean you are any less entitled to an opinion.

Nor does it mean you lack experience so couldn't possibly have nothing to add...

would be nice if we could all accept our aims, if not our opinions, are pretty much in the same field and try to be supportive and welcoming rather than suspicious and bitter of newbies

....just a thought!"

Exactly.

To be honest I have been a member of several forums (mostly non swing related) and I honestly believe this one to be the least friendly to new posters and those that don't post often, I seriously believe other regular posters would have got a far better and friendlier response if they had posted exactly the same.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"and last Sunday morning before the club opened to the public."

You advertising the fact you have new pics?

Ok then, just for you, I'll go look.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some peeps are just not as likable than others, regardless how long they have been hanging around in these forums!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" Most are erstwhile Bingo Players with little else to do in their lives; but please why do you need to decry someone else who is having a lovely time.

Why are you decrying Bingo players?"

LOL!! best post in the thread,seriously i think if people take time to read her profile(OP) then they would have a better understanding..imho

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some peeps are just not as likable than others, regardless how long they have been hanging around in these forums!

I take a bow.

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By *ummy mummyWoman over a year ago

southampton-ish

" Most are erstwhile Bingo Players with little else to do in their lives; but please why do you need to decry someone else who is having a lovely time.

Why are you decrying Bingo players?

LOL!! best post in the thread,seriously i think if people take time to read her profile(OP) then they would have a better understanding..imho"

or even her second profile...lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"LOL!! best post in the thread,seriously i think if people take time to read her profile(OP) then they would have a better understanding..imho"

Not sure this is wise but.........here goes!!!

As stated in the above previous post the OP's profile explains all. She appears to be a lady who knows what she wants, where & how she wants it, who she wants it and when it's going to happen. Her profile also clearly states that arrangements for video/pics have been made with various clubs and suitors can wear masks if they prefer or skip the filming, watch the video action and then join in after the cameras have been turned off.

Now what's the problem with that? Why all the outraged 'not allowed in clubs' posts. Granted, the original message appeared to be a bit random but so what? Live and let live, shag and let shag. If it's not your cup of tea.....don't drink it!!!

TAKE COVER

[reaches for tin hat and dives behind sandbags - that's not a euphemism lol]

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

""LOL!! best post in the thread,seriously i think if people take time to read her profile(OP) then they would have a better understanding..imho"

Not sure this is wise but.........here goes!!!

TAKE COVER

[reaches for tin hat and dives behind sandbags - that's not a euphemism lol]

Well said

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

""LOL!! best post in the thread,seriously i think if people take time to read her profile(OP) then they would have a better understanding..imho"

Not sure this is wise but.........here goes!!!

TAKE COVER

[reaches for tin hat and dives behind sandbags - that's not a euphemism lol]

Not just a wonderful avatar.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Perhaps the O.P,s stunning looks,especially at 50,may be something to do with the acerbic comments.

As has been inferred earlier, if the O.P had been made by a less glamorous poster,there would probably not have been so many caustic remarks.

Sadly,that's how the thread appears to us anyway.

XXXX

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

"You know what, sometimes I can really see why some believe there to be a clique in these forums.

If for an example a regular and popular lady posted just like the OP the replies would be so very different, not petty little remarks.

Some of the replies here are uncalled for, no need at all, all speculation, petty name calling and just intolerance.

Bingo, that was a reaction to some of the posts here, I don't see why she has to defend what she said regarding bingo when she took enough uncalled for stick in the first place and simply responded.

Slut, yet you are posting on a sex site ffs.

What a fecking laugh, we all consider ourselves open minded, seeking friendship.

Don't make me fecking laugh.

What a great post !

Sometimes it is great to have other people other than mods saying thats over the top and you are spot on with a lot of what you have said.

I did leave on the ladies comments about the bingo as I thought that was quite tame to what I and others might have written if they had had a reaction this way.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some of us dont fantasise about it as its not something we want but good luck anyway

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think why this thread has become a bit controversial is because of who the OP is and the profile etc.

On looking at the profile, it has to be said the lady has a great body and is obviously in fantastic shape (Feebs looks down at her own sagging boobs and stetch mark tummy and sighs). The photographs are also quite explicit. Now this is not a problem as this is a swinging site and they are not shocking as such, we are all here for sex, but we all have degrees of what we will do etc and I have to admit for myself, I couldnt entertain doing any of the stuff those pics depicted, its too far out of my realm. Maybe thats why there was hostility towards the OP, because the profile and the pics do come across as being a bit "look at me, how great my body is, how many men i can have" etc and sometimes profiles like that dont give out a warm friendly feeling. (I know what i mean, i cant put it into words).

the lady is extremely sexy, beautiful and gorgeous and she certainly knows what she wants and is not afraid to go and get it and film it, but just a profile like hers would put me off straight away because im not that type of person and I think it has others too and that I believe is why there is hostility.

On the filming front, if someone did want to film and had permission, then maybe clubs could just partition off one room and if you wanted to be in on the action then go for it. I wouldnt want to be filmed at all (a) I have a sensitive job (b) i would die if my kids ever found out (c) the size of my backside, I couldnt bear to watch it on a widescreen TV (d) when i become famous and in Hollywood walking the red carpet with Brad Pitt, I dont want anyone pulling the video lol.

good luck to the OP and have a wonderful time

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By *he_original_poloWoman over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

flangipan

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"gravey !!! mmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hope you have colliflower cheese with the veggies ohhhhh getting excited here ..tell us more !! lol

cauliflower cheese with roast dinner - and gravy???

cauli cheese goes really well with

roast lamb

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You know what, sometimes I can really see why some believe there to be a clique in these forums.

If for an example a regular and popular lady posted just like the OP the replies would be so very different, not petty little remarks.

Some of the replies here are uncalled for, no need at all, all speculation, petty name calling and just intolerance.

Bingo, that was a reaction to some of the posts here, I don't see why she has to defend what she said regarding bingo when she took enough uncalled for stick in the first place and simply responded.

Slut, yet you are posting on a sex site ffs.

What a fecking laugh, we all consider ourselves open minded, seeking friendship.

Don't make me fecking laugh.

What a great post !

Sometimes it is great to have other people other than mods saying thats over the top and you are spot on with a lot of what you have said.

I did leave on the ladies comments about the bingo as I thought that was quite tame to what I and others might have written if they had had a reaction this way."

Just goes to show Ruggers - if your in with the 'in crowd' you can put up a thread telling the world that you've just farted and there'll be 1001 replies asking how did it smell and which way did it blow.

If your not part of the in crowd you may as well not bother typing

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By *ive it to usCouple over a year ago

cheshire

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think why this thread has become a bit controversial is because of who the OP is and the profile etc.

good luck to the OP and have a wonderful time

Agree totally there with the body, beautiful, slim, job, and as to filming, in my case as i despise my mumy tummy intensely, i wouldnt want to see it on video, they'd need wide angled lenses

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By *ive it to usCouple over a year ago

cheshire

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Perhaps the O.P,s stunning looks,especially at 50,may be something to do with the acerbic comments.

As has been inferred earlier, if the O.P had been made by a less glamorous poster,there would probably not have been so many caustic remarks.

Sadly,that's how the thread appears to us anyway.

XXXX"

it must be wonderful to be gorgeous and slim so maybe some of us are jealous

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" Most are erstwhile Bingo Players with little else to do in their lives; but please why do you need to decry someone else who is having a lovely time.

Why are you decrying Bingo players?

LOL!! best post in the thread,seriously i think if people take time to read her profile(OP) then they would have a better understanding..imho

or even her second profile...lol"

2nd profile?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

if you are new to posting on this site, doesn't mean you are any less entitled to an opinion.

Nor does it mean you lack experience so couldn't possibly have nothing to add...

would be nice if we could all accept our aims, if not our opinions, are pretty much in the same field and try to be supportive and welcoming rather than suspicious and bitter of newbies

....just a thought!"

Except she isnt a newbie to fab nor the forums

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By *ive it to usCouple over a year ago

cheshire

God arnt people nasty

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