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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I mention it in my profile just out of fairness really. I'd hate someone to turn up and discover I'm not really what they're looking for. It doesn't cause me any problems though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to, because if my own insecurities mainly. Now I don't mention it at all. It's all in my profile and I don't chat to someone unless I'm pretty sure they have read my profile |
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By *am123Man
over a year ago
essex chelmsford |
i think u girls think about your size to much on the whole, us guys are not bothered in general well im not,as long as theres a mutual attraction fun is had by all. i like women for who they are  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"opps to slow but i was agreeing with whistler
You look hot from where I'm standing  "
Thank you i take that as a big compliment from a beautiful lady,also i choose the best camera angle.x |
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"i think u girls think about your size to much on the whole, us guys are not bothered in general well im not,as long as theres a mutual attraction fun is had by all. i like women for who they are "
You wonder why women worry about their size with people constantly on about size on here.... |
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"opps to slow but i was agreeing with whistler
You look hot from where I'm standing Thank you i take that as a big compliment from a beautiful lady,also i choose the best camera angle.x"
Well nowt wrong with you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My profile says I'm a big lass and my photos back this up. No need to mention it in a message. If I'm asked, then my profile clearly hasn't been read! "
If it gets mentioned in messages then you get the 'oh but your so beautiful/perfect/sexy' messages and they make me cringe...I don't know how I'm supposed to respond to those messages when my mirror and wardrobe make it clear I'm a heffer!! |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"i think u girls think about your size to much on the whole, us guys are not bothered in general well im not,as long as theres a mutual attraction fun is had by all. i like women for who they are "
You'd never know it, given the amount of shit fat women get on here. I think most guys would prefer slim women, given the choice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Size and photos on my profile, just so nobody can say they were expecting someone skinny.
Apparently I'm not as fat as I think I am though  "
Most women aren't!!!!! its all about ladies body image of themselves against the photo shopped images in the media |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"i think u girls think about your size to much on the whole, us guys are not bothered in general well im not,as long as theres a mutual attraction fun is had by all. i like women for who they are
You wonder why women worry about their size with people constantly on about size on here...."
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"i think u girls think about your size to much on the whole, us guys are not bothered in general well im not,as long as theres a mutual attraction fun is had by all. i like women for who they are
You'd never know it, given the amount of shit fat women get on here. I think most guys would prefer slim women, given the choice."
I disagree, |
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By *am123Man
over a year ago
essex chelmsford |
"i think u girls think about your size to much on the whole, us guys are not bothered in general well im not,as long as theres a mutual attraction fun is had by all. i like women for who they are
You'd never know it, given the amount of shit fat women get on here. I think most guys would prefer slim women, given the choice."
well thats just shallow in my opinion and makes em not worth meeting but each to there own i suppose  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i think u girls think about your size to much on the whole, us guys are not bothered in general well im not,as long as theres a mutual attraction fun is had by all. i like women for who they are
You wonder why women worry about their size with people constantly on about size on here....
A-fecking-men"
size is just a number it doesn't take into account the real person inside |
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By *am123Man
over a year ago
essex chelmsford |
"i think u girls think about your size to much on the whole, us guys are not bothered in general well im not,as long as theres a mutual attraction fun is had by all. i like women for who they are
You wonder why women worry about their size with people constantly on about size on here...."
yes generally by the women bringing it up as in this thread |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have it written in my profile and also people can see by my photos.. I dont see any need to mention it in a message also unless they mention n it first xx  "
Ditto
If they cant read, they aint the kind i wanna meet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My profile gives my dress size for what its worth and my photos show my shape and fat bits!! If it comes up in a message in a way that warrants talking about it I will but not otherwise, its not an issue for me, I'm a big girl like it or lump it!
Curious to know what was said to prompt your question now? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i think u girls think about your size to much on the whole, us guys are not bothered in general well im not,as long as theres a mutual attraction fun is had by all. i like women for who they are
You'd never know it, given the amount of shit fat women get on here. I think most guys would prefer slim women, given the choice."
I think theres a huge adoration for larger ladies on this site,theres always men saying how much they love them |
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"i think u girls think about your size to much on the whole, us guys are not bothered in general well im not,as long as theres a mutual attraction fun is had by all. i like women for who they are
You'd never know it, given the amount of shit fat women get on here. I think most guys would prefer slim women, given the choice."
I have to disagree I know a lot of men who like plus size women |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When Im meeting and have my full profile up - I have a detailed description of my size curvy hourglass size10-12 as Im 6 feet tall in heels - in the pics I look thinner - like an 8 but Im not so I make it clear x lol x Guys like curvy anyway lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its more than clear in my profile ... And I may be a tad strange as the ones that make reference to it are more likely to get to meet me ,,,, I hate the ones that say don't put your self down you are not fat !!!!!!!! Uuummm Hello !!!!!!! Take another look !!!! The best pet name a friend of mine has for me is "Lard Arse" it make me smile every time he calls me it !! ..... Don't want it to be the elephant in the room !! Pardon the pun !! Lol |
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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago
hertfordshire |
"i think u girls think about your size to much on the whole, us guys are not bothered in general well im not,as long as theres a mutual attraction fun is had by all. i like women for who they are
You'd never know it, given the amount of shit fat women get on here. I think most guys would prefer slim women, given the choice.
I have to disagree I know a lot of men who like plus size women "
me too thank god |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When Im meeting and have my full profile up - I have a detailed description of my size curvy hourglass size10-12 as Im 6 feet tall in heels - in the pics I look thinner - like an 8 but Im not so I make it clear x lol x Guys like curvy anyway lol x "
The question was for plus size women,since when was 10-12 plus size? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When Im meeting and have my full profile up - I have a detailed description of my size curvy hourglass size10-12 as Im 6 feet tall in heels - in the pics I look thinner - like an 8 but Im not so I make it clear x lol x Guys like curvy anyway lol x
The question was for plus size women,since when was 10-12 plus size? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When Im meeting and have my full profile up - I have a detailed description of my size curvy hourglass size10-12 as Im 6 feet tall in heels - in the pics I look thinner - like an 8 but Im not so I make it clear x lol x Guys like curvy anyway lol x
The question was for plus size women,since when was 10-12 plus size? "
I used to weigh almost 23 stone x in my mind Im always a big girl - I look down at myself and see a big girl x |
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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago
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"When Im meeting and have my full profile up - I have a detailed description of my size curvy hourglass size10-12 as Im 6 feet tall in heels - in the pics I look thinner - like an 8 but Im not so I make it clear x lol x Guys like curvy anyway lol x
The question was for plus size women,since when was 10-12 plus size?
I used to weigh almost 23 stone x in my mind Im always a big girl - I look down at myself and see a big girl x "
wow well done I wish I could lose some |
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"When Im meeting and have my full profile up - I have a detailed description of my size curvy hourglass size10-12 as Im 6 feet tall in heels - in the pics I look thinner - like an 8 but Im not so I make it clear x lol x Guys like curvy anyway lol x
The question was for plus size women,since when was 10-12 plus size? "
maybe she sees size 10-12 as a plus size |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When Im meeting and have my full profile up - I have a detailed description of my size curvy hourglass size10-12 as Im 6 feet tall in heels - in the pics I look thinner - like an 8 but Im not so I make it clear x lol x Guys like curvy anyway lol x
The question was for plus size women,since when was 10-12 plus size?
I used to weigh almost 23 stone x in my mind Im always a big girl - I look down at myself and see a big girl x
wow well done I wish I could lose some"
Thank you but I still feel the need to apologise for my size so I'm in tune with these threads x Im terrified a guy will turn up and think Im fat xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When Im meeting and have my full profile up - I have a detailed description of my size curvy hourglass size10-12 as Im 6 feet tall in heels - in the pics I look thinner - like an 8 but Im not so I make it clear x lol x Guys like curvy anyway lol x
The question was for plus size women,since when was 10-12 plus size?
I used to weigh almost 23 stone x in my mind Im always a big girl - I look down at myself and see a big girl x "
A size 10 big girl that accentuates her figure with tight figure hugging clothes push up bras and high heels....yes of course |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When Im meeting and have my full profile up - I have a detailed description of my size curvy hourglass size10-12 as Im 6 feet tall in heels - in the pics I look thinner - like an 8 but Im not so I make it clear x lol x Guys like curvy anyway lol x
The question was for plus size women,since when was 10-12 plus size?
I used to weigh almost 23 stone x in my mind Im always a big girl - I look down at myself and see a big girl x
wow well done I wish I could lose some
Thank you but I still feel the need to apologise for my size so I'm in tune with these threads x Im terrified a guy will turn up and think Im fat xx "
I understand. |
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"[Removed by poster at 05/05/14 19:58:07]
I saw that
So did I - it was a lovely kind post ! Lol x "
oh it was ment for you, I thought it looked like I was saying it to honeypot. So why are you replying to a thread that has no relevance to you?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"[Removed by poster at 05/05/14 19:58:07]
I saw that
So did I - it was a lovely kind post ! Lol x oh it was ment for you, I thought it looked like I was saying it to honeypot. So why are you replying to a thread that has no relevance to you?
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Oh sorry I didnt realise I had to pass a test before I replied to a thread !!!! I thought forums were OPEN !! lol x I made my point clear in my first post - Im not justifying my contribution to you thanks |
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"[Removed by poster at 05/05/14 19:58:07]
I saw that
So did I - it was a lovely kind post ! Lol x oh it was ment for you, I thought it looked like I was saying it to honeypot. So why are you replying to a thread that has no relevance to you?
Oh sorry I didnt realise I had to pass a test before I replied to a thread !!!! I thought forums were OPEN !! lol x I made my point clear in my first post - Im not justifying my contribution to you thanks "
apology accepted
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By (user no longer on site)
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"[Removed by poster at 05/05/14 19:58:07]
I saw that
So did I - it was a lovely kind post ! Lol x oh it was ment for you, I thought it looked like I was saying it to honeypot. So why are you replying to a thread that has no relevance to you?
Oh sorry I didnt realise I had to pass a test before I replied to a thread !!!! I thought forums were OPEN !! lol x I made my point clear in my first post - Im not justifying my contribution to you thanks apology accepted
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Ok but dont always assume us thinner woman ( who used to be plus size ) dont have issues, fears, terrors and lack of confidence cause we do !! Big time x |
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"If you have your size or photos on your profile do you mention your build when passing messages or not.
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My size is on my profile and my pics show my full body: there's no need to mention it further. |
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"[Removed by poster at 05/05/14 19:58:07]
I saw that
So did I - it was a lovely kind post ! Lol x oh it was ment for you, I thought it looked like I was saying it to honeypot. So why are you replying to a thread that has no relevance to you?
Oh sorry I didnt realise I had to pass a test before I replied to a thread !!!! I thought forums were OPEN !! lol x I made my point clear in my first post - Im not justifying my contribution to you thanks apology accepted
Ok but dont always assume us thinner woman ( who used to be plus size ) dont have issues, fears, terrors and lack of confidence cause we do !! Big time x "
no one assumed anything, start your own thread about lack of confidence that wasn't what this thread was about if you had read and understood the op
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
I don't mention it in messages or on my profile either. My pics were all taken in the last few months so it's hopefully obvious what I actually look like. I also have a private full length nude shot I have sent as well to leave people in no doubt as to what I look like without good underwear on. |
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"i think u girls think about your size to much on the whole, us guys are not bothered in general well im not,as long as theres a mutual attraction fun is had by all. i like women for who they are
You'd never know it, given the amount of shit fat women get on here. I think most guys would prefer slim women, given the choice."
I disagree! |
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"i think u girls think about your size to much on the whole, us guys are not bothered in general well im not,as long as theres a mutual attraction fun is had by all. i like women for who they are
You'd never know it, given the amount of shit fat women get on here. I think most guys would prefer slim women, given the choice.I disagree, "
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
I think it is important for everyone to be honest about anything out of the ordinary that is material to a meet, unless they have pics to show this.
Men/ladies - anything to do with size/age/looks, ie, if you are one extreme or the other,
TG - if they have a ruddy beard. It's nice to find that out before a sodding meet.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I don't mention my size, men have eyes.
If they still want to meet me after they've seen my pic, they can figure it out for themselves over a coffee."
See on the occasions I met you, I didn't think you were big at all. Always thought you've had a lovely figure. Well either that or a bloody good girdle
If it is the latter, can I borrow it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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What led me to post was a meet came round about 2 months ago ( one of my last ) when he arrived he went wow you are so curvy and tall - a real amazon i love it - I thought you would be short and thin from your pics !! Im so chuffed !!..... Me all I heard was bigger larger taller etc - It ruined my whole evening - my cheeks still burn at the thought - I was horrified someones perception could be so different from what I presented ! I immediately changed my profile to really set out exactly what I looked liked as I never wanted that again ( even though he keeps asking to meet ) and I even re emphasised it on messages as well x never again lol x |
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"What led me to post was a meet came round about 2 months ago ( one of my last ) when he arrived he went wow you are so curvy and tall - a real amazon i love it - I thought you would be short and thin from your pics !! Im so chuffed !!..... Me all I heard was bigger larger taller etc - It ruined my whole evening - my cheeks still burn at the thought - I was horrified someones perception could be so different from what I presented ! I immediately changed my profile to really set out exactly what I looked liked as I never wanted that again ( even though he keeps asking to meet ) and I even re emphasised it on messages as well x never again lol x "
He was paying you a compliment as I read it...I've been called a tall blonde amazon woman and I think what a lovely compliment.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What led me to post was a meet came round about 2 months ago ( one of my last ) when he arrived he went wow you are so curvy and tall - a real amazon i love it - I thought you would be short and thin from your pics !! Im so chuffed !!..... Me all I heard was bigger larger taller etc - It ruined my whole evening - my cheeks still burn at the thought - I was horrified someones perception could be so different from what I presented ! I immediately changed my profile to really set out exactly what I looked liked as I never wanted that again ( even though he keeps asking to meet ) and I even re emphasised it on messages as well x never again lol x
He was paying you a compliment as I read it...I've been called a tall blonde amazon woman and I think what a lovely compliment...."
Lol x thank you hun he was but you know what its like - all I heard was bigger curvier etc xx I would never ever have had the self confidence to join this site before x I think its amazing how great women look at all shapes xx |
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I always end up mentioning my plus size dimensions in messages. I'm so paranoid that someone will turn up and have a ohmygodsheishuge look on their face.
It tends to out the any holes a goal mentality and finds the people that really do like playing with us bigger lassies
T xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I always end up mentioning my plus size dimensions in messages. I'm so paranoid that someone will turn up and have a ohmygodsheishuge look on their face.
It tends to out the any holes a goal mentality and finds the people that really do like playing with us bigger lassies
T xx "
Totally agree,I always feel like I have to apologise for my size  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
I point out that I am short fat and old. I think I dress well for my height and shape and being naked doesn't offer that advantage.
Sizes can be misleading so I don't use them.
On the side discussion about confidence and feeling fat, I understand that to some extent. I am fatter now than I ever have been but about five years ago I lost some weight but because I was concentrating on what I was eating and weighing I saw myself as fatter than I am now.
I taught me an important lesson about size being as much a psychological as physical. If you see yourself as fat and think that is a bad thing then what you project is that you are not happy about being you.
I need to lose some weight but I can honestly say that gaining this weight over the last two years I have had a lot of fun, many lovely dinners out and yummy cocktails.
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Totally agree,I always feel like I have to apologise for my size "
Believe me you have nothing to apologise for. Maybe it should be our summer resolution to be more confident. You look lovely
T xx |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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Totally agree,I always feel like I have to apologise for my size "
That makes me wonder what happened to you to make you think you think you need to apologise? Is it mainly a female thing? I haven't met any men who apologise for their weight.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Totally agree,I always feel like I have to apologise for my size
Believe me you have nothing to apologise for. Maybe it should be our summer resolution to be more confident. You look lovely
T xx "
Thankyou and so do you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I always end up mentioning my plus size dimensions in messages. I'm so paranoid that someone will turn up and have a ohmygodsheishuge look on their face.
It tends to out the any holes a goal mentality and finds the people that really do like playing with us bigger lassies
T xx
Totally agree,I always feel like I have to apologise for my size "
I don't understand you ladies are all beautiful why are you apologising?x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer to keep it quiet that I'm the stunt double for the Michelin man.
It then either becomes a pleasant surprise or a horrendous shock depending on whether he is a turn on to the lady in question.
Also, I'm led to believe that I am in shape (round is still a shape??)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Totally agree,I always feel like I have to apologise for my size
That makes me wonder what happened to you to make you think you think you need to apologise? Is it mainly a female thing? I haven't met any men who apologise for their weight.
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My problem is I worry to much what people think of me (particularly men) just read your post and I think your attitudes brilliant! I probably sound a right sad case now..I'm not honest lol its just a confidence thing x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My problem is I worry to much what people think of me (particularly men) just read your post and I think your attitudes brilliant! I probably sound a right sad case now..I'm not honest lol its just a confidence thing x"
You talk an amazing about of bollocks.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have put it in my profile txt as received some nasty messages about my pics saying must be really old cos I dont look like them..bizarre as i regularly add new pics..guess my camera guy friend just talented lol....if they dont like it...feck em...im big and beautiful... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My problem is I worry to much what people think of me (particularly men) just read your post and I think your attitudes brilliant! I probably sound a right sad case now..I'm not honest lol its just a confidence thing x
You talk an amazing about of bollocks...."
Yeah I know,I am a sad case really |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My problem is I worry to much what people think of me (particularly men) just read your post and I think your attitudes brilliant! I probably sound a right sad case now..I'm not honest lol its just a confidence thing x
You talk an amazing about of bollocks....
Yeah I know,I am a sad case really "
tut tut enough already |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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Totally agree,I always feel like I have to apologise for my size
That makes me wonder what happened to you to make you think you think you need to apologise? Is it mainly a female thing? I haven't met any men who apologise for their weight.
My problem is I worry to much what people think of me (particularly men) just read your post and I think your attitudes brilliant! I probably sound a right sad case now..I'm not honest lol its just a confidence thing x"
Not at all. I grew up hearing my father telling my mother he would divorce her if she ever got fat (she went up to a size 14 during her menopause but she spent most of her life around a size 8/10). An aunt used to call me Fatso when I was a size 10. I'm aware of its affect now but it has taken me years to understand it was hearing things like that that had affected me.
I HATED myself when I was thin. I've now been fat for a lot longer than I ever was thin and you either learn to like what you have or you beat yourself up and that isn't productive.
I know I will lose weight again when I have my head sorted about other things. Right now it's not my priority.
Me telling you that you look lovely doesn't make you feel any better or believe that you look lovely. Until you believe it it won't matter how many people tell you that you are lovely.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Plus i am a curvy guy at over 17 stone,need to lose a few pounds though.you look pretty fit to me
And me, at 6'1, 17 stone ain't that big!"
17,11lbs and i hate my wobbly belly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My profile says I'm a big lass and my photos back this up. No need to mention it in a message. If I'm asked, then my profile clearly hasn't been read!
If it gets mentioned in messages then you get the 'oh but your so beautiful/perfect/sexy' messages and they make me cringe...I don't know how I'm supposed to respond to those messages when my mirror and wardrobe make it clear I'm a heffer!!"
You are no heiffer honey. You are (as are we all) goddess sized x |
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I have an "honesty" shot.. one that isn't deliberately angled to be the best.. one that tells it like it is. I send it before meeting as id hate to be shot down face to face. |
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"Plus i am a curvy guy at over 17 stone,need to lose a few pounds though.you look pretty fit to me
And me, at 6'1, 17 stone ain't that big!17,11lbs and i hate my wobbly belly."
3lb lighter than me then, n I'm only 5'8! N that's ddrwe loosing two stone. |
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I used to b ridiculously size conscious. But since having kids, iv realised, that the issue is in my head. Trying to cover up n worrying about Mt size and wobbly bits during sex, was taking a lot of the fun out of it for me, but Also frustrating for the guy I was with when I'm holding back and he doesn't care bout my size.
My size is on my profile, dnt have any body shots, so will discuss it, if they dnt like it,
NEXT!!! |
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Why are women always worried about what some man thinks? I'm a size 18 and proud and if a man don't like it then its his problem I spent years worried about my size and then realised one day that I had more men chat me up when I was out than my size 10 mate did and it made me feel great. Now I'm married to a lovely man who gets turned on seeing me naked and still I get chatted up so stop putting urself down ladies men love larger ladies its a natural size and one u should all be proud of use the assets u were given and be proud |
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"Plus i am a curvy guy at over 17 stone,need to lose a few pounds though.you look pretty fit to me
And me, at 6'1, 17 stone ain't that big!17,11lbs and i hate my wobbly belly."
A belly is nice to stick my bum into when spooning xx |
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I have always had pics so never mention a thing about my size on my profile,it bit Blooming obvious,mite joke it take hours to explore my wobbly bits,otherwise no point saying im big |
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My profile is clear I'm plus size, my pics don't show a slim woman lol I don't then reinforce my size in messages, I presume they've looked at both profile and pics, if they haven't that's not my problem |
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