The other night we went to a club and kinda chatted ect as you do.
Only 1 couple took our fancy but they seemed not to be interested in the slightest even to the point of seeming to avoid us slightly.
We decided to get dressed and head off home and as we put our coats on they came over and said are you going awwww what a shame. Why do folks do that i just cant understand it.
We just yes it is and Goodbye lol
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Yes thats nuts.....what a waste,maybe they need to look at how they come across becasue if they're giving out sod off signals when they're actually interested its not going to go well for em  |
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Funny you should say that.....
Was in the pub last week and was sitting next to a lovely female and we were chatting now and again but i was getting negative vibes so i just left her in the company of her friend.
Later on when i decided to go home i got up and she said is that me away and i said yes then see said oh well shame you couldn't stay longer, maybe see you another time.
FFS i just said to her make your mind up, this is my local so you know where to find me  |
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There is a fine line though,we're really friendly and will chat to most people
Some think that means we're up for playing though when we're not,but we don't want to look or be unapproachable
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"There is a fine line though,we're really friendly and will chat to most people
Some think that means we're up for playing though when we're not,but we don't want to look or be unapproachable
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Yup we know we have chatted to you lol
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We have had that at parties, if people are interested what's wrong in being upfront about it? If they are not interested then fine we won't sulk about it but giving off negative vibes is a big turn off and we won't go there twice lol xxx |
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"There is a fine line though,we're really friendly and will chat to most people
Some think that means we're up for playing though when we're not,but we don't want to look or be unapproachable
Yup we know we have chatted to you lol
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Yeh and you ran off and got ya coats  
If I remember I leant across the table and nearly tipped it over
What a great first impression |
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Same club a few weeks ago, after we got home 3 couples from that night mailed us and said we would have loved to played with you but never got the chance.
FFS we sat in the lounge all night and not 1 person from the 3 couples spoke to us all night even though we did chat to quite a few others in the same place.
To be honest we had no interest in any of the 3 but they could not have known that as we are happy to chat to most folks even when not interested in them.
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"We have had that at parties, if people are interested what's wrong in being upfront about it? If they are not interested then fine we won't sulk about it but giving off negative vibes is a big turn off and we won't go there twice lol xxx"
Yeah, were all for being more upfront and less subtle than we used to be. Have wasted some much time at parties with newbies that have given us the "we're interested vibes", but too nervous to actually do anything. And surprisingly, it's always the men who chicken out!!!!! |
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"There is a fine line though,we're really friendly and will chat to most people
Some think that means we're up for playing though when we're not,but we don't want to look or be unapproachable
Yup we know we have chatted to you lol
Yeh and you ran off and got ya coats
If I remember I leant across the table and nearly tipped it over
What a great first impression "
Awwww we thought you was lovely
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Some people are shy and it can be awkward in the company of strangers.
And that just doesn't apply to a club, it can be in any walks of life be it in a pub, meeting new people, job interviews, wedding speeches etc etc.
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"There is a fine line though,we're really friendly and will chat to most people
Some think that means we're up for playing though when we're not,but we don't want to look or be unapproachable
Yup we know we have chatted to you lol
Yeh and you ran off and got ya coats
If I remember I leant across the table and nearly tipped it over
What a great first impression
Awwww we thought you was lovely
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You 2 are too
Its a shame that people find it hard to say what they want until after the night is over......what a waste of playtime 
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"There is a fine line though,we're really friendly and will chat to most people
Some think that means we're up for playing though when we're not,but we don't want to look or be unapproachable
Yup we know we have chatted to you lol
Yeh and you ran off and got ya coats
If I remember I leant across the table and nearly tipped it over
What a great first impression
Awwww we thought you was lovely
Steve
You 2 are too
Its a shame that people find it hard to say what they want until after the night is over......what a waste of playtime
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Yes, well, we still had fun! Z xx |
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
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To be honest, I'm probably the worlds worst offender.
Jason's always moaning at me cus I never see anyone's body language, and I never imagine that someone could fancy me.
Trouble is, I'm actually very shy (stop laughing you lot) and I have no idea how to 'come on' to people
Mind you, it has it's advantages sometimes, Jason gets to do all the hard work and I just sit oblivious to it all until ordered to go into a room! |
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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago
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I have to say I am often the same as Maddie
I rarely (stop laughing) come on to a man in a club situation
I am so scared of the rejection
I often wait for him to make the first move or ask a mate to tell him my mate fancies you
I just don't get body language
Come over say hello and say you fancy me, then I get it
Say hello and its raining and I'll agree with you |
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