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Physical attraction What do you look for?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Physically what do you look for in a man or woman? I know personality counts for quite a lot and you have to be able to have a bit of a rapport and have that bit of spark. Looks aren't necesarrily important for me but I do tend to have a certain physical type overall although there are exceptions when it comes to physical attaraction if they have an exceptional personality.
So any way. What does every one look for? |
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"Physically what do you look for in a man or woman? I know personality counts for quite a lot and you have to be able to have a bit of a rapport and have that bit of spark. Looks aren't necesarrily important for me but I do tend to have a certain physical type overall although there are exceptions when it comes to physical attaraction if they have an exceptional personality.
So any way. What does every one look for? "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well, one out of three aint that bad  I'll agree that I quite like a woman with nice legs although it's not a necessity. Eyes and smile are most definately a winner |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I cannot dissociate personality from looks - so I would not chase a particular look and I cannot imagine ever choosing to have sex with somebody purely based on their looks - it is that sense of humour, the warmth, the intelligence and the wit everytime. But I accept other people choose differently |
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By *ig badMan
over a year ago
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"Physically what do you look for in a man or woman? I know personality counts for quite a lot and you have to be able to have a bit of a rapport and have that bit of spark. Looks aren't necesarrily important for me but I do tend to have a certain physical type overall although there are exceptions when it comes to physical attaraction if they have an exceptional personality.
So any way. What does every one look for? "
Someone who is pretty both on the inside as well as the outside! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Personality,confidence and attitude for me.Looks tend to be secondary."
Presumably confidence is based on somebody being at ease, comfortable in their own skin whatever their looks, background etc? |
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"I look for someone who looks and behaves like me 
Obviously not getting many dates then 
Oooooooooooooooooooooooo Actually, we have one booked at the end of May
oh yes he/she/bi/gay must be a very lucky person
 2 smilies the same because we're BOGOF
Agreed smiles say so much about someone. mind you them politicians have a painted on one at times  "
We like your smile! |
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By *ig badMan
over a year ago
Up North :-) |
"I look for someone who looks and behaves like me
Obviously not getting many dates then
Oooooooooooooooooooooooo Actually, we have one booked at the end of May
oh yes he/she/bi/gay must be a very lucky person
2 smilies the same because we're BOGOF
Agreed smiles say so much about someone. mind you them politicians have a painted on one at times
We like your smile! "
I tend to grin a lot i have to admit. Have to say the same about you 2 though. Some people you get a good vibe from when you meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to think I would go for "my type" when at clubs etc.. the reality is that how a person is carrying herself at the club is what works for me!"
You mean being sober helps lol?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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a woman if shes got it all but then begins to speak and sounds a bit dizzy then this is a turn off for me. a woman has to have class in the way she dresses. looks are important to me otherwise i wont even bother. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Physically what do you look for in a man or woman? I know personality counts for quite a lot and you have to be able to have a bit of a rapport and have that bit of spark. Looks aren't necesarrily important for me but I do tend to have a certain physical type overall although there are exceptions when it comes to physical attaraction if they have an exceptional personality.
So any way. What does every one look for? "
Just for "swinging purpose" or the fulfilment of one of my many fantasies... a strong powerful man anytime. Somebody who knows what he wants, and gets it |
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
Cyprus |
I'm shallow.
They have to be good looking, with a nice arse and good manners.
I couldn't give a shite if they have a nice personality. They can be as boring as Max or Paddy providing they are cute and a fucking good shag. |
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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago
Notting |
Someone who is nice to look at, has a good cock and is a fantastic shag.
that was i may even see him again
As for the ladies - pretty with lovely tits
Shallow???
Who cares - its all about the fun and sex afterall |
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By *ig badMan
over a year ago
Up North :-) |
"Someone who is nice to look at, has a good cock and is a fantastic shag.
that was i may even see him again
As for the ladies - pretty with lovely tits
Shallow???
Who cares - its all about the fun and sex afterall "
Well your not here to shag a personality. He he he it helps though but with tits like yours! Mmmmmmm |
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I reckon there has to be something physical which grabs your attention in the first place because personality or not if they have been well and truly battered with the ugly stick the chances are conversation isn't going to happen. Personally nice hair and sparkly eyes do it for me. |
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Assuming we are talking about who we select to meet for sex on here....
If they don't get a thumbs up on the looks front (physically attracted to) .... then I am unlikely to want to find out if they have the right personality (mentally drawn to).
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Assuming we are talking about who we select to meet for sex on here....
If they don't get a thumbs up on the looks front (physically attracted to) .... then I am unlikely to want to find out if they have the right personality (mentally drawn to).
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think if you have been "swinging" for a while.
You tend Not to be so rigid in your outlook.
Its all about what happens when first meeting and if there is a connection.
If there is that "spark" and you think...oh yes !
Looks etc take a back seat as bieng the first thing your gonna think about. |
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"I think if you have been "swinging" for a while.
You tend Not to be so rigid in your outlook.
Its all about what happens when first meeting and if there is a connection.
If there is that "spark" and you think...oh yes !
Looks etc take a back seat as bieng the first thing your gonna think about. "
So do you just meet anyone without knowing what they look like?
I want a spark of "phwar yeah" before I get anywhere near meeting in person. |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
dirtybigbadsgirlville |
"Assuming we are talking about who we select to meet for sex on here....
If they don't get a thumbs up on the looks front (physically attracted to) .... then I am unlikely to want to find out if they have the right personality (mentally drawn to).
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Well said that sexy shoe clad woman |
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