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"just had a discussion regards costs for rooms etc. We have always gone with the idea that cpls split the costs, single guys pick up the tab, and if you lucky enough to meet a single fem, you pay for everything? This is how its normally been done with us over the years, but just spoke to a disgruntled guy who says different, without starting a war (please) any ideas lol" Can see why he would be a bit disgruntled seeing as it seems once again (and did say seems)  that single men are supposed to be so grateful of getting a meet they are expected to pay for it all!
Seeing that everyone involved should be getting something out of the meet shouldn't the cost be shared?
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"just had a discussion regards costs for rooms etc. We have always gone with the idea that cpls split the costs, single guys pick up the tab, and if you lucky enough to meet a single fem, you pay for everything? This is how its normally been done with us over the years, but just spoke to a disgruntled guy who says different, without starting a war (please) any ideas lol" Well, if everyone is there to have the same fun, then the cost should be split by person, IMO. Nobody is better than another in these circumstances, so if a couple meet a single, then it should be split 3 ways, if two couples meet, then 4 ways or half per couple, and so on. | |||
"just had a discussion regards costs for rooms etc. We have always gone with the idea that cpls split the costs, single guys pick up the tab, and if you lucky enough to meet a single fem, you pay for everything? This is how its normally been done with us over the years, but just spoke to a disgruntled guy who says different, without starting a war (please) any ideas lol" why should single guys pick up the hotel bill if everyone getting fun from it then all costs should be shared surley ? | |||
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"just had a discussion regards costs for rooms etc. We have always gone with the idea that cpls split the costs, single guys pick up the tab, and if you lucky enough to meet a single fem, you pay for everything? This is how its normally been done with us over the years, but just spoke to a disgruntled guy who says different, without starting a war (please) any ideas lol Well, if everyone is there to have the same fun, then the cost should be split by person, IMO. Nobody is better than another in these circumstances, so if a couple meet a single, then it should be split 3 ways, if two couples meet, then 4 ways or half per couple, and so on." After saying that, we once had an hotel whilst staying in Leeds for the fest, decided to take the hotel rather than tent option that time, lol, we made arrangements to meet two guys and didn't expect a penny from them as we was using the hotel to stay and not specifically for the meet. | |||
"Jeeze! poor guys! I pay for my own room and never expect anything from anyone. Besides as a single female I know if the meet isn't to my liking the room is mine and I am safe, I can't be left stranded. As said before, food or a club etc. can be paid for in return. xxx " Im with you there... | |||
"because he brings nothing else to the meet and it is a case of supply and demand" 
You mean nothing else but the cock the couple are wanting and have asked to 'use' for the meet then? 
Am still delighted i don't do hotel meets | |||
"we once had an hotel whilst staying in Leeds for the fest, decided to take the hotel rather than tent option that time, lol, we made arrangements to meet two guys and didn't expect a penny from them as we was using the hotel to stay and not specifically for the meet." Yeah, if I/they already had the room booked for another purpose and they/I was just taking the chance to meet them then I wouldn't expect them to share the cost or for them to expect me to. | |||
"We always understood it to be the way the op states. The reasons? Single guys in general who want to meet couples should pay for the room because he brings nothing else to the meet and it is a case of supply and demand Single guys meeting single fems have generally paid or split if offered by the fem. More a chivalrous thing than for any other reason Couples who want to meet single fems pay because single fems are in demand and it is back to supply and demand, so single fems don't need to pay! Couples who want to meet couples split the cost because both sides are equal, that is 2 x fems and 2 x males It may be unpalatable, but there are loads of single guys out there all trying to get laid, if they don't offer something extra, it aint gonna happen! When we used to meet single guys we used to book and pay for the room, they would pay for the meal, but we do know that this was not usual! " wow, put this way, it really puts the ladies in a degraded light.
It seems, it's men paying for pussy, if you can bring a pussy with you then we'll split the costs. | |||
bloody equality got a lot to answer for here me thinkin its proper to pay half!! no more bra burnin for me!!! xx | |||
"wow, put this way, it really puts the ladies in a degraded light.
It seems, it's men paying for pussy, if you can bring a pussy with you then we'll split the costs. "Thats what i thought, then I thought I must have misread it,... | |||
"Jeeze! poor guys! I pay for my own room and never expect anything from anyone. Besides as a single female I know if the meet isn't to my liking the room is mine and I am safe, I can't be left stranded. As said before, food or a club etc. can be paid for in return. xxx Im with you there..." I once had a meet with a really great guy, everyone liked him. I went to meet him, all was going okay but he really turned on me. Upshot of it was I left a vibe stuffed up his arse and walked out... I got in my car, was shocked, disoriented and it was the early hours of the morning. But I learned a valuable lesson from that meet. I bought a satnav and I book and pay for my own room. | |||
"as a single female i've always offered to split costs , and even if this is refused there are other ways of sharing cost ( paying for something to eat etc ) " . What she said! | |||
" Upshot of it was I left a vibe stuffed up his arse and walked out...." bet that taught him a valuable lesson too
I would make the same arrangements for the exact same reasons. | |||
" Upshot of it was I left a vibe stuffed up his arse and walked out.... bet that taught him a valuable lesson too
I would make the same arrangements for the exact same reasons."I really miss that vibe too it was my favourite pink one | |||
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" I really miss that vibe too it was my favourite pink one "You just have to let go hun and remember that it was just fulfilling its vibe destiny and protecting you to the end... Just remember all the happy times you had together | |||
"well i dont need hotels cos i live alone but if i did meet at a hotel I would expect to pay my share, if not the room, I would pay for the meal and drinks and so on only fair, single men should not have to pay everything, we are all equal and should pay equally ". Indeed! The only exception for me is when I drive a significant difference for a meet. Then I would expect a pint and a pub meal in return, at least!  | |||
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"Reading this has really opened my eyes, I now see through others eyes a single female is a 'commodity' "better than a commode lol!! xx
if any single guy wants to pay for a wk end in a hotel with me in the off chance he may get his nuts emptied scobo castle sounds nice........ xx | |||
"Reading this has really opened my eyes, I now see through others eyes a single female is a 'commodity'
better than a commode lol!! xx
if any single guy wants to pay for a wk end in a hotel with me in the off chance he may get his nuts emptied scobo castle sounds nice........ xx"lmao! | |||
"Reading this has really opened my eyes, I now see through others eyes a single female is a 'commodity' "Aye seems so and single males should just be so grateful for an offer of a hotel meet, cover all the costs and not complain lol | |||
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"well i dont need hotels cos i live alone but if i did meet at a hotel I would expect to pay my share, if not the room, I would pay for the meal and drinks and so on only fair, single men should not have to pay everything, we are all equal and should pay equally
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Indeed!
The only exception for me is when I drive a significant difference for a meet. Then I would expect a pint and a pub meal in return, at least! "I accommodate, but if meeting at a hotel then I wholeheartedly expect to pay half the costs, whether it be room/meal/drinks. After all, if I agree to meet someone for fun then I obviously want his cock as much as he wants my pussy.... | |||
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"I'm sorry, but your arrogance is breathtaking!! So you're simply doing the guy a favour? You and her aren't really getting anything out of the meet? I trust you've officially registered as a charity!!! " Was that to me cos I just said I WOULD pay.... | |||
PS, there is nothing wrong in the single male booking the room if he prefers to show good faith ( eg they will turn up) but then so should the couple, the cost should be equally split at the earliest opportunity though. | |||
"Maybe its my warped mind, but if a single male is "expected" to pick up the tab, that stinks, really really stinks. Firstly everyone plays everyone pays, seems straightforward,no??? Secondly why would anyone expect one person to pay for everything? Thirdly , if one person pays for everything then that seems like they are paying for a service, thats uncomfortably similar to prostitution, I think thats a very very different proposition. I am ashamed to think anyone even entertains such a thing as a possibility.
PS, there is nothing wrong in the single male booking the room if he prefers to show good faith ( eg they will turn up) but then so should the couple, the cost should be equally split at the earliest opportunity though. "Everyone plays so everyone pays | |||
"I'm sorry, but your arrogance is breathtaking!! So you're simply doing the guy a favour? You and her aren't really getting anything out of the meet? I trust you've officially registered as a charity!!! Was that to me cos I just said I WOULD pay...." I think that was intended for the OP | |||
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"Maybe its my warped mind, but if a single male is "expected" to pick up the tab, that stinks, really really stinks. Firstly everyone plays everyone pays, seems straightforward,no??? Secondly why would anyone expect one person to pay for everything? Thirdly , if one person pays for everything then that seems like they are paying for a service, thats uncomfortably similar to prostitution, I think thats a very very different proposition. I am ashamed to think anyone even entertains such a thing as a possibility.
PS, there is nothing wrong in the single male booking the room if he prefers to show good faith ( eg they will turn up) but then so should the couple, the cost should be equally split at the earliest opportunity though. "sooooo have u booked the spa wk end at scobo castle for me yet??????? xx | |||
"If i can i will pay half most of the time but being a single mum cant always afford a night out. And if the guys is willing to pay or to treat me then why not." I think thats totally OK, if the guy chooses to,fine , his choice. Its when the expectation is there for EVERY single guy to pay, thats just wrong | |||
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If I meet a Single Lady I always pay but Couples normally insist on chipping in, whatever everyone agrees | |||
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"shut up moaning single men, pay for your pussy pay for it!!!!!!!!!!! "pmsl | |||
"because he brings nothing else to the meet and it is a case of supply and demand
You mean nothing else but the cock the couple are wanting and have asked to 'use' for the meet then?
Am still delighted i don't do hotel meets "Yep! But you must remember that there are loads of "cocks" out there all lookin to climb into that moist silky tunnel! It's why we don't understand why there are so many single guys on the scene! It's easier to go to the pub or club on a Saturday and pull there! | |||
"i am a single parent my ex has kids fri nite till sat nite so i can accomadate and cook a nice meal for the right guy/couple.....if the guy or couple want me to go to a hotel and have drinks and a meal i expect them to pay as i cannot afford and i am willing for them to come to my nice clean home... and i can entertain them there...lol... for free xx" you never promised me a meal !!!!!said I had to bring me own butties and a bottle of water !!!! | |||
"I'm sorry, but your arrogance is breathtaking!! So you're simply doing the guy a favour? You and her aren't really getting anything out of the meet? I trust you've officially registered as a charity!!! Was that to me cos I just said I WOULD pay...." Not sure how you work that one out, no, it was directed at the OP! | |||
" wow, put this way, it really puts the ladies in a degraded light.
It seems, it's men paying for pussy, if you can bring a pussy with you then we'll split the costs. "I don't think it sounds like that at all. If two couples are meeting then both are equal. But the law of supply and demand kick in and single ladies are supposed to be the "Unicorns" so couples don't ask them to play. Single guys are tick on the ground so if they want to play..... I MUST refer to the last para on my post though... We never did that. This is what we were told by many couples when we first got into the scene | |||
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"I'm sorry, but your arrogance is breathtaking!! So you're simply doing the guy a favour? You and her aren't really getting anything out of the meet? I trust you've officially registered as a charity!!! Was that to me cos I just said I WOULD pay.... Not sure how you work that one out, no, it was directed at the OP!" Soory, my bad. must learn to read all the way through, lol xx | |||
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"i am to special to pay for anything "does that work on a shopliftin charge or are you really the queen!! ??xx | |||
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"because he brings nothing else to the meet and it is a case of supply and demand
You mean nothing else but the cock the couple are wanting and have asked to 'use' for the meet then?
Am still delighted i don't do hotel meets
Yep! But you must remember that there are loads of "cocks" out there all lookin to climb into that moist silky tunnel! It's why we don't understand why there are so many single guys on the scene! It's easier to go to the pub or club on a Saturday and pull there!"
Ya what????
The couple would have said yes to meeting this 'cock' though by the time a hotel room was booked.
So you are saying the lure of a pussy means single men just have to accept they need to pay for that 'moist silky tunnel'? There is another name for that type of meet I think lol | |||
"i am to special to pay for anything
does that work on a shopliftin charge or are you really the queen!! ??xx"i am the queen | |||
"because he brings nothing else to the meet and it is a case of supply and demand
You mean nothing else but the cock the couple are wanting and have asked to 'use' for the meet then?
Am still delighted i don't do hotel meets
Yep! But you must remember that there are loads of "cocks" out there all lookin to climb into that moist silky tunnel! It's why we don't understand why there are so many single guys on the scene! It's easier to go to the pub or club on a Saturday and pull there!
Ya what????
The couple would have said yes to meeting this 'cock' though by the time a hotel room was booked.
So you are saying the lure of a pussy means single men just have to accept they need to pay for that 'moist silky tunnel'? There is another name for that type of meet I think lol "_umour only needs pussy they dont need no cock, they aint paying for shit. gooo _umour get pussy money homieeeeeeee | |||
"I have to say that every meet in a hotel that I have had I have paid for !!! never once have I had a couple offer to pay halves I have never minded before but do draw the line when on some profiles they actually stipulate that the guy pays for a nice hotel nice meal and drinks !!! after all you are gonnna enjoy me after !!!! mmmm work that one out !!! I have no probs paying for a room but dont like being pushed into it, I travel all over the UK and have most rooms paid for by the company but most of my meets I pay for the room myself and to be honest we are all having the same fun !!! most of them dont even bring a drink lol " seriously???
away to change profile im missin out on some freebie hotel stays!! and nickin the complimentary toiletries!! xx | |||
"i am a single parent my ex has kids fri nite till sat nite so i can accomadate and cook a nice meal for the right guy/couple.....if the guy or couple want me to go to a hotel and have drinks and a meal i expect them to pay as i cannot afford and i am willing for them to come to my nice clean home... and i can entertain them there...lol... for free xx you never promised me a meal !!!!!said I had to bring me own butties and a bottle of water !!!!" but u had to go and crash ur car!!!!!! if u had come u wud have had the best meal u have ever had and me for dessert, and breakfast xxxxx | |||
"I have to say that every meet in a hotel that I have had I have paid for !!! never once have I had a couple offer to pay halves I have never minded before but do draw the line when on some profiles they actually stipulate that the guy pays for a nice hotel nice meal and drinks !!! after all you are gonnna enjoy me after !!!! mmmm work that one out !!! I have no probs paying for a room but dont like being pushed into it, I travel all over the UK and have most rooms paid for by the company but most of my meets I pay for the room myself and to be honest we are all having the same fun !!! most of them dont even bring a drink lol " When you coming to Central Scotland Mr Hand? | |||
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"I have to say that every meet in a hotel that I have had I have paid for !!! never once have I had a couple offer to pay halves I have never minded before but do draw the line when on some profiles they actually stipulate that the guy pays for a nice hotel nice meal and drinks !!! after all you are gonnna enjoy me after !!!! mmmm work that one out !!! I have no probs paying for a room but dont like being pushed into it, I travel all over the UK and have most rooms paid for by the company but most of my meets I pay for the room myself and to be honest we are all having the same fun !!! most of them dont even bring a drink lol When you coming to Central Scotland Mr Hand? "oi u beat it i need hotel towels more than you!!! xxxxx | |||
Come to think of it i haven't been to Newcastle for a while | |||
"Yeah Kitty, it's your pussy we want lol xxxx" pay for my 5* hotel big mac meal and breakfast and its yours hhahahaha | |||
"i am a single parent my ex has kids fri nite till sat nite so i can accomadate and cook a nice meal for the right guy/couple.....if the guy or couple want me to go to a hotel and have drinks and a meal i expect them to pay as i cannot afford and i am willing for them to come to my nice clean home... and i can entertain them there...lol... for free xx you never promised me a meal !!!!!said I had to bring me own butties and a bottle of water !!!! but u had to go and crash ur car!!!!!! if u had come u wud have had the best meal u have ever had and me for dessert, and breakfast xxxxx" yea yea all bloody talk now lol lol | |||
"I have to say that every meet in a hotel that I have had I have paid for !!! never once have I had a couple offer to pay halves I have never minded before but do draw the line when on some profiles they actually stipulate that the guy pays for a nice hotel nice meal and drinks !!! after all you are gonnna enjoy me after !!!! mmmm work that one out !!! I have no probs paying for a room but dont like being pushed into it, I travel all over the UK and have most rooms paid for by the company but most of my meets I pay for the room myself and to be honest we are all having the same fun !!! most of them dont even bring a drink lol When you coming to Central Scotland Mr Hand?
oi u beat it i need hotel towels more than you!!! xxxxx "I'll get them for you whilst I'm there.... xxx  | |||
"I have to say that every meet in a hotel that I have had I have paid for !!! never once have I had a couple offer to pay halves I have never minded before but do draw the line when on some profiles they actually stipulate that the guy pays for a nice hotel nice meal and drinks !!! after all you are gonnna enjoy me after !!!! mmmm work that one out !!! I have no probs paying for a room but dont like being pushed into it, I travel all over the UK and have most rooms paid for by the company but most of my meets I pay for the room myself and to be honest we are all having the same fun !!! most of them dont even bring a drink lol When you coming to Central Scotland Mr Hand?
oi u beat it i need hotel towels more than you!!! xxxxx
I'll get them for you whilst I'm there.... xxx "deal!! xx | |||
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"well I am hoping to cum to Scotland in the summer was in Peebles just before xmas but that was a flying visit lol so when I do stay over we need to clarify bhata all the towels and toiletries are mine on the first visit any visits after that there all yours lol please bear in mind I am scouse after all and do have to uphold the tradition lol" OOOh, does that mean I get a repeat?? lol x Shut it MzN - I got in there first!! | |||
"just had a discussion regards costs for rooms etc. We have always gone with the idea that cpls split the costs, single guys pick up the tab, and if you lucky enough to meet a single fem, you pay for everything? This is how its normally been done with us over the years, but just spoke to a disgruntled guy who says different, without starting a war (please) any ideas lol" see... this is where people think that they hold the power over others and think that because they are higher up the swinging totem pole so to speak, this is the way it should be.... I think differently..... I don't know, how many people have said this in the thread (haven't had the chance to read it) and I may be repeating a lot of it..... but isn't the point that if everyone is having fun, be that single fem, single male or a couple, then shouldn't everyone contribute equally? you are there because you like the potential person/people you are playing with so why should you get a free ride, so to speak, at the expense of someone else? | |||
"well I am hoping to cum to Scotland in the summer was in Peebles just before xmas but that was a flying visit lol so when I do stay over we need to clarify bhata all the towels and toiletries are mine on the first visit any visits after that there all yours lol please bear in mind I am scouse after all and do have to uphold the tradition lol OOOh, does that mean I get a repeat?? lol x Shut it MzN - I got in there first!! "god sake share with a friend wumman!! xx | |||
" wow, put this way, it really puts the ladies in a degraded light.
It seems, it's men paying for pussy, if you can bring a pussy with you then we'll split the costs.
I don't think it sounds like that at all. If two couples are meeting then both are equal. But the law of supply and demand kick in and single ladies are supposed to be the "Unicorns" so couples don't ask them to play. Single guys are tick on the ground so if they want to play.....
I MUST refer to the last para on my post though... We never did that. This is what we were told by many couples when we first got into the scene"Supply and demand, this is about fun, adult fun, supply and demand likens this to a business, being sex, I can only say prostitution. I really don't understand this way of thinking at all, why would you meet a guy if you're getting nothing from it? is it a case of using the lady to get a free hotel room?
How do/would you choose the guy you may meet, would it be by hotel room or one you both feel you have some connection with?
and here's a thought, going off what you said earlier that the guy should pay because he brings nothing to it.....
The lady brings along her good self for the single guy to enjoy, the single guy brings his good self for the lady to enjoy, and the OH male brings himself for the lady to enjoy too, now, the one bringing the least to add to the new dimension is indeed the OH male, as the lady can play with him whenever she likes, surely, but the single male is the one adding the biggest difference in the norm here, so going off your reckoning then the OH male should pay as he brings the least the meet.
If two/three/four/five etc people meet for sexual liaisons then surely all are going to get a thrill.
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" wow, put this way, it really puts the ladies in a degraded light.
It seems, it's men paying for pussy, if you can bring a pussy with you then we'll split the costs.
I don't think it sounds like that at all. If two couples are meeting then both are equal. But the law of supply and demand kick in and single ladies are supposed to be the "Unicorns" so couples don't ask them to play. Single guys are tick on the ground so if they want to play.....
I MUST refer to the last para on my post though... We never did that. This is what we were told by many couples when we first got into the scene
Supply and demand, this is about fun, adult fun, supply and demand likens this to a business, being sex, I can only say prostitution.
I really don't understand this way of thinking at all, why would you meet a guy if you're getting nothing from it? is it a case of using the lady to get a free hotel room?
How do/would you choose the guy you may meet, would it be by hotel room or one you both feel you have some connection with?
and here's a thought, going off what you said earlier that the guy should pay because he brings nothing to it.....
The lady brings along her good self for the single guy to enjoy, the single guy brings his good self for the lady to enjoy, and the OH male brings himself for the lady to enjoy too, now, the one bringing the least to add to the new dimension is indeed the OH male, as the lady can play with him whenever she likes, surely, but the single male is the one adding the biggest difference in the norm here, so going off your reckoning then the OH male should pay as he brings the least the meet.
If two/three/four/five etc people meet for sexual liaisons then surely all are going to get a thrill.
"That post is very definitely the single guys way of thinking and I can understand it! However, it is obvious that loads of couples see single guys as a toy to play with. They are getting something from it and as a very popular couple from another site told us, "single guys are a dildo with a pulse!" Yeah, of course this is about fun, but that is the reason single guys get laid, because it is fun for the couple or lady. She doesn't bring her good self along for his benefit, it is for her pleasure! No matter what protestations this will bring from posters, all of us are here for one thing, to get pleasure. Single guys are not exempt! You really trying to imply that you just want to give pleasure to a lady with no thought for yourself? Leave that one for the profile!!! BUT.. We don't meet singles because they have let us down badly in the past, not because we are holier than thou and don't want to use them lol | |||
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"I've been in contact with a Couple for a while now and have just received a message from them saying you pay for everything as were in demand and we will meet, now I would of offered but to insist on me paying is just rude and shows little in the way of courtesy and respect, cheeky sods "Maybe you should direct them to this thread
I can't believe the cheek of some people,how far are they up their own arses that they have that sort of attitude | |||
" wow, put this way, it really puts the ladies in a degraded light.
It seems, it's men paying for pussy, if you can bring a pussy with you then we'll split the costs.
I don't think it sounds like that at all. If two couples are meeting then both are equal. But the law of supply and demand kick in and single ladies are supposed to be the "Unicorns" so couples don't ask them to play. Single guys are tick on the ground so if they want to play.....
I MUST refer to the last para on my post though... We never did that. This is what we were told by many couples when we first got into the scene
Supply and demand, this is about fun, adult fun, supply and demand likens this to a business, being sex, I can only say prostitution.
I really don't understand this way of thinking at all, why would you meet a guy if you're getting nothing from it? is it a case of using the lady to get a free hotel room?
How do/would you choose the guy you may meet, would it be by hotel room or one you both feel you have some connection with?
and here's a thought, going off what you said earlier that the guy should pay because he brings nothing to it.....
The lady brings along her good self for the single guy to enjoy, the single guy brings his good self for the lady to enjoy, and the OH male brings himself for the lady to enjoy too, now, the one bringing the least to add to the new dimension is indeed the OH male, as the lady can play with him whenever she likes, surely, but the single male is the one adding the biggest difference in the norm here, so going off your reckoning then the OH male should pay as he brings the least the meet.
If two/three/four/five etc people meet for sexual liaisons then surely all are going to get a thrill.
That post is very definitely the single guys way of thinking and I can understand it! However, it is obvious that loads of couples see single guys as a toy to play with. They are getting something from it and as a very popular couple from another site told us, "single guys are a dildo with a pulse!"
Yeah, of course this is about fun, but that is the reason single guys get laid, because it is fun for the couple or lady. She doesn't bring her good self along for his benefit, it is for her pleasure! No matter what protestations this will bring from posters, all of us are here for one thing, to get pleasure.
Single guys are not exempt! You really trying to imply that you just want to give pleasure to a lady with no thought for yourself? Leave that one for the profile!!!
BUT.. We don't meet singles because they have let us down badly in the past, not because we are holier than thou and don't want to use them lol "Definitely a single guys way of thinking? Yet that post was posted by me, the guy from a couple.
If the single guy is for her pleasure then surely this strengthens my views rather than yours, as all of us are here for one thing, to get pleasure.
And, Yes, the pleasure I get from this is the ladies pleasure, it's the ladies pleasure that does it for me personally, so yes I guess I am implying that I am happy to give pleasure to the lady with no thought to myself. | |||
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"I've been in contact with a Couple for a while now and have just received a message from them saying you pay for everything as were in demand and we will meet, now I would of offered but to insist on me paying is just rude and shows little in the way of courtesy and respect, cheeky sods "tell them you are meeting me and some more of my single bi fem pals instead... we are even more in demand and don't insist on you paying ! | |||
"I've been in contact with a Couple for a while now and have just received a message from them saying you pay for everything as were in demand and we will meet, now I would of offered but to insist on me paying is just rude and shows little in the way of courtesy and respect, cheeky sods
tell them you are meeting me and some more of my single bi fem pals instead... we are even more in demand and don't insist on you paying ! "Wish I'd of thought of that lmao | |||
"I've been in contact with a Couple for a while now and have just received a message from them saying you pay for everything as were in demand and we will meet, now I would of offered but to insist on me paying is just rude and shows little in the way of courtesy and respect, cheeky sods
tell them you are meeting me and some more of my single bi fem pals instead... we are even more in demand and don't insist on you paying !
Wish I'd of thought of that lmao
"hahahaha next time you get a stroppy demanding meet tell them you're doing a gang-bang that day.... six bi fems and you! | |||
"I've been in contact with a Couple for a while now and have just received a message from them saying you pay for everything as were in demand and we will meet, now I would of offered but to insist on me paying is just rude and shows little in the way of courtesy and respect, cheeky sods
tell them you are meeting me and some more of my single bi fem pals instead... we are even more in demand and don't insist on you paying !
Wish I'd of thought of that lmao
hahahaha next time you get a stroppy demanding meet tell them you're doing a gang-bang that day.... six bi fems and you! "6 ! I'd need a week for that | |||
"However, it is obvious that loads of couples see single guys as a toy to play with. They are getting something from it and as a very popular couple from another site told us, "single guys are a dildo with a pulse!"" "a toy to play with"? - Not another PERSON there for the same type of fun then?
"a dildo with a pulse!" - Could that be anymore insulting to another HUMAN BEING?
I think you might be missing the point, in that, by the time it gets to the stage of arranging a meet in a hotel the couple (or single even) would have decided that the single male (or whoever it may be) had something going for them that made them stand out from the crowd, and that they wanted to have MUTUAL fun with them!
So I would hope that out of respect for the other people the couple wouldn't be thinking that he, she or them were just "a toy to play with" or "a dildo with a pulse" or even just a free hotel for the night!
Am still delighted that I don't do hotel meets | |||
"I've been in contact with a Couple for a while now and have just received a message from them saying you pay for everything as were in demand and we will meet, now I would of offered but to insist on me paying is just rude and shows little in the way of courtesy and respect, cheeky sods
tell them you are meeting me and some more of my single bi fem pals instead... we are even more in demand and don't insist on you paying !
Wish I'd of thought of that lmao
hahahaha next time you get a stroppy demanding meet tell them you're doing a gang-bang that day.... six bi fems and you!
6 ! I'd need a week for that "That's okay us fems keep each other occupied while you take a break | |||
"I've been in contact with a Couple for a while now and have just received a message from them saying you pay for everything as were in demand and we will meet, now I would of offered but to insist on me paying is just rude and shows little in the way of courtesy and respect, cheeky sods
tell them you are meeting me and some more of my single bi fem pals instead... we are even more in demand and don't insist on you paying !
Wish I'd of thought of that lmao
hahahaha next time you get a stroppy demanding meet tell them you're doing a gang-bang that day.... six bi fems and you!
6 ! I'd need a week for that
That's okay us fems keep each other occupied while you take a break "I don't know about a break, but I'm feeling the need for a cold shower right now. | |||
"I've been in contact with a Couple for a while now and have just received a message from them saying you pay for everything as were in demand and we will meet, now I would of offered but to insist on me paying is just rude and shows little in the way of courtesy and respect, cheeky sods
tell them you are meeting me and some more of my single bi fem pals instead... we are even more in demand and don't insist on you paying !
Wish I'd of thought of that lmao
hahahaha next time you get a stroppy demanding meet tell them you're doing a gang-bang that day.... six bi fems and you!
6 ! I'd need a week for that
That's okay us fems keep each other occupied while you take a break "Now your talking, two for me, one to Iron, one to Cook and two to be on standby | |||
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"I've been in contact with a Couple for a while now and have just received a message from them saying you pay for everything as were in demand and we will meet, now I would of offered but to insist on me paying is just rude and shows little in the way of courtesy and respect, cheeky sods
tell them you are meeting me and some more of my single bi fem pals instead... we are even more in demand and don't insist on you paying !
Wish I'd of thought of that lmao
hahahaha next time you get a stroppy demanding meet tell them you're doing a gang-bang that day.... six bi fems and you!
6 ! I'd need a week for that
That's okay us fems keep each other occupied while you take a break
Now your talking, two for me, one to Iron, one to Cook and two to be on standby " no need for language like that! cook? iron? tutttttt! | |||
"I've been in contact with a Couple for a while now and have just received a message from them saying you pay for everything as were in demand and we will meet, now I would of offered but to insist on me paying is just rude and shows little in the way of courtesy and respect, cheeky sods
tell them you are meeting me and some more of my single bi fem pals instead... we are even more in demand and don't insist on you paying !
Wish I'd of thought of that lmao
hahahaha next time you get a stroppy demanding meet tell them you're doing a gang-bang that day.... six bi fems and you!
6 ! I'd need a week for that
That's okay us fems keep each other occupied while you take a break
Now your talking, two for me, one to Iron, one to Cook and two to be on standby
no need for language like that! cook? iron? tutttttt! "I'll do the cooking and ironing, so long as I can at least take a peek. | |||
"i think its shocking single guys r expected 2 pick up the tab xx"That's twice I've been asked and both were in Scotland ! I'm saying nothing | |||
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"well if any guys travels 2 me only thing he'd pay would be his flight id put him up an do dinner least i can do after him taken time 2 come visit xx" Would you do a bit of Washing and Ironing as well stunna ? | |||
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I stumbled upon this thread in a search cause I was about to post asking whether people thought it was OK for a couple to say, "we are prepared to go halfs with couples with hotel costs, but pay all for single female,and expect single male to pay all if invited".
I thought that wasn't on, and reading the posts in this old thread, it seems most (but not all ) would agree with that. Which is nice.
Even if it was the other way around and the single females were being hit with the bill, I'd still find that just as hard to swallow, as I hate inequality.
One thing I'm undecided upon though is whether a threesome with a couple and a single person should split the costs by 2 or by 3... how have people done this usually? | |||
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"should be split between the number of people. in my opinion!!" *Nods in agreement* | |||
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"IF i was to have a hotel meet, there is noway i would be paying. I have a perfectly decent house here and thats where i choose to meet. Actually dont even no why ive posted this as there is noway id get of my fat arse to go to a hotel for a meet anyway" I usually get my cappuccino's free, but I've just bought this one that's covering my screen...you owe me lady!
I'm with you there Diamonds...even down to the fat arse! | |||
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"just had a discussion regards costs for rooms etc. We have always gone with the idea that cpls split the costs, single guys pick up the tab, and if you lucky enough to meet a single fem, you pay for everything? This is how its normally been done with us over the years, but just spoke to a disgruntled guy who says different, without starting a war (please) any ideas lol" why should a single guy pick up the tap just because hes single? im a single woman and i would never expedct a guy to pay for a room, i always go halfs and on occasions payed for the whole room people dont half take the piss out of men on here its so unfair | |||
"just had a discussion regards costs for rooms etc. We have always gone with the idea that cpls split the costs, single guys pick up the tab, and if you lucky enough to meet a single fem, you pay for everything? This is how its normally been done with us over the years, but just spoke to a disgruntled guy who says different, without starting a war (please) any ideas lol why should a single guy pick up the tap just because hes single? im a single woman and i would never expedct a guy to pay for a room, i always go halfs and on occasions payed for the whole room people dont half take the piss out of men on here its so unfair" I disagree about peeps on here taking the piss out of men. It's sweeping generalisations that ive that impression not facts. | |||
