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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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arrggggggggggggggghhhhhh!!
why do compulsive liars not keep track of their lies??
met a guy ages ago claimed he was single was just a social meet but i had feelin he was tellin porkies so never bothered seeing him again as liars and marrieds not my thing anyway loads o msgs later why wont u meet me blah blah told him why he accuses me of bein married cause invoice on my car floor had mrs in title?? then said he and his wife seperated all the usual stories then loads of accusations at me!! so never answered now recieved a message hi im single now will you meet me??
im away to bang my head off the wall in sheer frustration!!
and no i dont care if he reads the forums maybe show him how much of a twat he is!!!  xx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't you just love it when someone says 'take a chill pill'?
How patronising.........
You have every right to be pissed off honey and your instincts were obviously correct.
You rant all you like, it's good for you xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't you just love it when someone says 'take a chill pill'?
How patronising........"
God give me strength.......how appropriate was the OP's thread heading 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be a good liar you need a very very good memory if you have any notion of staying ahead of the game.
Fortunately not many people have such good memories and liars eventually get found out
Good, I say because ......
I hate and depise liars !! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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whats wrong with the heading?? would you prefer ARE ALL ALLEGEDLY SINGLE MEN LYING BASTARDS??
or do you not believe in god and found it offensive??
am i meant to give a shit really??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"whats wrong with the heading?? would you prefer ARE ALL ALLEGEDLY SINGLE MEN LYING BASTARDS??
or do you not believe in god and found it offensive??
am i meant to give a shit really??? "
That's what the Forums can be used for, if you need a Rant then Rant away and make yourself feel better, the Forums can be like a Shoulder to cry on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"whats wrong with the heading?? would you prefer ARE ALL ALLEGEDLY SINGLE MEN LYING BASTARDS??
or do you not believe in god and found it offensive??
am i meant to give a shit really??? "
you no that not all single guys are lie
I no i don't lie
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"whats wrong with the heading?? would you prefer ARE ALL ALLEGEDLY SINGLE MEN LYING BASTARDS??
or do you not believe in god and found it offensive??
am i meant to give a shit really??? "
I wasn't having a dig at you and no way was i offended, phuck all bothers me but it was the poster who said 'how patronising' and that why i said how appropriate your thread heading was.
Sweet Jebus, god give me strength, do i look as if i give a shit
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im actually waitin on some smart arse asking if its that time of the month!! xx"
Woman are dangerous when the painters are in and best to be avoided one week a month. Its only 3 weeks they are just about bearable.
But saying that, period sex is wild and awesome!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"im actually waitin on some smart arse asking if its that time of the month!! xx
Woman are dangerous when the painters are in and best to be avoided one week a month. Its only 3 weeks they are just about bearable.
But saying that, period sex is wild and awesome!!
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i do actually want to beat you to death with your kappa trainers!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im actually waitin on some smart arse asking if its that time of the month!! xx
Woman are dangerous when the painters are in and best to be avoided one week a month. Its only 3 weeks they are just about bearable.
But saying that, period sex is wild and awesome!!
i do actually want to beat you to death with your kappa trainers!!! "
I think he just likes to live dangerously lol!! But he's a sweetheart underneath ....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im actually waitin on some smart arse asking if its that time of the month!! xx
Woman are dangerous when the painters are in and best to be avoided one week a month. Its only 3 weeks they are just about bearable.
But saying that, period sex is wild and awesome!!
i do actually want to beat you to death with your kappa trainers!!!
I think he just likes to live dangerously lol!! But he's a sweetheart underneath ....... "
Oh and don't believe her when she says i have Kappa trainers.....am more of a Lonsdale man .........NOT!!
Give me Adidas Originals any day! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't you just love it when someone says 'take a chill pill'?
How patronising........
God give me strength.......how appropriate was the OP's thread heading
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I agree that it's not the thing to say when someone want's to air a view. Apart from patronising , it's condescending , dismissive, remote and self centred.
Now get God to give you strength x |
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"You seem to have a rant every day.
Take a chill pill
 she's a woman
What does that mean ????
Blimey - I think the knives are being sharpened.  "
oi -play nice - it's not Thursday afternoon you know! Z |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You seem to have a rant every day.
Take a chill pill
she's a woman
What does that mean ????
Blimey - I think the knives are being sharpened.
oi -play nice - it's not Thursday afternoon you know! Z"
Warrapenz on Thurs P.M's ? |
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"You seem to have a rant every day.
Take a chill pill
she's a woman
What does that mean ????
Blimey - I think the knives are being sharpened.
oi -play nice - it's not Thursday afternoon you know! Z
Warrapenz on Thurs P.M's ?"
There just seems to be more falling out on a Thursday afternoon - I don't get here much in the day but Thursdays do seem to be a little bad tempered! Z |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate and depise liars !!
I'm quite partial to liars actually, they tend to have a good imagination "
That's very true, I was married to one many years ago and her imagination was beyond compare. She had an imaginary man stalking her and threatening her with a knife, even to the point of preparing an 'e-fit' with the police and making that e-fit appear to be a bloke that I worked with ! After all came to all, the whole thing was a pack of lies which went on for 3 months and included £100's worth of damage damage to our car, house etc etc, all done by her own fair hands whilst I wasn't there and there were no witnesses, not to mention the waste of police resources !!
Oh they've got a good imagination alright - frighteningly good - thank Christ I got away while the going was good - well as good as it could be at the time |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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once again you had the choice to read or dismiss
i could see the point if i had posted a few threads like this but i havent??
i shall remember next time to private mail you and ask your permission before i start a thread 
very embarrased now to have offended you
that enough smilies for you
i do usually use the smilies a lot but cant find the exact one im lookin for just now.......... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Who was talking about smilies??? I was referring to basic punctuation.
It helps to know where you are in a rant as one rant can lead quite easily into another and get blurred without the use of punctuation and then your message is totally lost as people become bored with reading one long long long mundane droll and then you get shitty replies like mine as I can understand your frustration at single guys messing you about but if you speak like you type I am not entirely fookin surprised. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wishy, of course you're free to comment on any post you wish, and you're fully entitled to any opinion you have, some might agree some not, it's not really fair to call anyone a " dopey bint " though.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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can i ask just what exactly is with the personal attack??
so far i have been a bint because of the post even though i explained the situation and how it developed
now its because i didnt punctuate although i dont see anything in the forum rules about this?
then it was about the lack of smilies?
and in general single guys dont frustrate me as its only single guys i meet and usually i have made sure that they are single in the first place! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wishy, of course you're free to comment on any post you wish, and you're fully entitled to any opinion you have, some might agree some not, it's not really fair to call anyone a " dopey bint " though.
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If the shoe fits etc etc
It isn't rocket science to work out of someone is a liar/timewaster/married cheating twat is it? Most of us manage to work it out without any problems, but then some don't and get caught every time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Who was talking about smilies??? I was referring to basic punctuation.
It helps to know where you are in a rant as one rant can lead quite easily into another and get blurred without the use of punctuation and then your message is totally lost as people become bored with reading one long long long mundane droll and then you get shitty replies like mine as I can understand your frustration at single guys messing you about but if you speak like you type I am not entirely fookin surprised. "
and no i dont speak like i type as im sure most people dont. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Wishy, of course you're free to comment on any post you wish, and you're fully entitled to any opinion you have, some might agree some not, it's not really fair to call anyone a " dopey bint " though.
If the shoe fits etc etc
It isn't rocket science to work out of someone is a liar/timewaster/married cheating twat is it? Most of us manage to work it out without any problems, but then some don't and get caught every time."
as i said before, and if you can really bring yourself to read the post before yous stick your boot in , you will see that i had suspicions and it was a social meet that confirmed my suspicions .
it was also the first and last time that i had been caught out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be a good liar you need a very very good memory if you have any notion of staying ahead of the game.
Fortunately not many people have such good memories and liars eventually get found out
Good, I say because ......
I hate and depise liars !!"
this is like in one of my threads when why do users lie they get caught out eventually
i no i am single because i chose to be
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"can i ask just what exactly is with the personal attack??"
Absolutely, and I'll answer you.
I'm sick and tired of single guy moaning threads. And I don't think I'm alone in this. Plus it perpetuates the myth that ALL single guys are liars etc etc etc... but that's not true as we've met several single men that have been absolute gems, but the difference is: we spent a lot of time getting to know them before ever arranging to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wishy, of course you're free to comment on any post you wish, and you're fully entitled to any opinion you have, some might agree some not, it's not really fair to call anyone a " dopey bint " though.
If the shoe fits etc etc
It isn't rocket science to work out of someone is a liar/timewaster/married cheating twat is it? Most of us manage to work it out without any problems, but then some don't and get caught every time."
Regardless of the content of any post, name calling isn't required Wishy, you know better than that.
Being a little willing to give the benefit of the doubt could be a touch naive, but still not a hanging offence.
I'll say no more, my view is the name calling was not required, you have the vocabulary to make your point without resorting to that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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thats fair enough as iv stated previously i love single guys its the only kind i do meet usually and it is after chatting for ages first to suss things outbefore a social meet.i never rush into a meet.
and i know not all single guys are liars and i never said they all were im not in the habit of generalising people. once again i apologize if my post offended you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"can i ask just what exactly is with the personal attack??
Absolutely, and I'll answer you.
I'm sick and tired of single guy moaning threads. And I don't think I'm alone in this. Plus it perpetuates the myth that ALL single guys are liars etc etc etc... but that's not true as we've met several single men that have been absolute gems, but the difference is: we spent a lot of time getting to know them before ever arranging to meet."
all single guys liers hum
very untrue |
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"i apologize if my post offended you."
You've nothing to apologise for
You created a thread, members have the choice to read & contribute / read and move on, if the subject of the thread is not to their liking, so be it, but apologise, for what? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"thats fair enough as iv stated previously i love single guys its the only kind i do meet usually and it is after chatting for ages first to suss things outbefore a social meet.i never rush into a meet.
and i know not all single guys are liars and i never said they all were im not in the habit of generalising people. once again i apologize if my post offended you."
Hi  I've never asked anyone in the forums for anything but i'm asking you for this
Please don't justify yourself. You don't have to. If people choose to be offended that is fine. That's their choice. That's the kind of person they are. They are still here though aren't they? So ... just you keep on keepin' on. Never say sorry unless you've done something wrong xxxx Gran xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nice one Gran, see the barber didn't cut all the common sense out of you too "
Oh you just HAD to remind me didn't you!!
( Gran makes mental note - cross Ian off the Men to Shag list! ) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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cheers but i do think i did offend with the post which was never ever the intention.
to be called a dopey bint is rather offensive especially when the person doesnt know me.
any single guy i have met from here will tell you im generally savvy and do adore single guys that i choose to meet and well you really dont need to know the rest!! xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"and well you really dont need to know the rest!! xx
Yes I do I'm nosey "
we played snakes and ladders!!!im to dopey to play chess dontcha ya know!!!
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"and well you really dont need to know the rest!! xx
Yes I do I'm nosey
we played snakes and ladders!!!im to dopey to play chess dontcha ya know!!!
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I'd love to be a snake climbing up your ladder lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why do some people around here have to carve out a rammie when there was nothing there in the first place??
I'm sorry, but I really am getting fed up with people continually banging on with their own narrow agendas!
And as has been said you've nothing to apologise for. |
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
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'Single' male liars have a terrible habit of instilling so much mistrust that people eventually tar them all with the same brush.
Unfortunately, as the majority on here, they are the ones who get talked about more and THEY are the ones who get ranted about the most.
The most experienced of us are taken in by the 'marrieds' and the 'liars' day after day and although we tend to grow a sixth sense about things, there will always be those that slip through our radar.
There is no need to chill OP, you stated a very valid point.
WISHY......... I'm suprised at you!!! You've been on the scene long enough to know that there is always a percentage who will try and lie and cheat their way into someone's knickers.
I've been caught out in the past and believe me, I am nobody's fool. Chalk it down to experience OP and don't worry about it.
The unfortunate side consequence of meeting a cheater, is that women who do (and men who meet women who lie and cheat) tend to be so very careful the next time that some of the good ones get away.
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
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"Ok, we'll wait for the next single guy whinge/moan thread and see how long it takes before someone starts rolling their eyes. "
I thank my lucky stars that it's not a "rude people, no replies" thread. They REALLY hack me off.
Now Wishy........... go and tie Siren up..... that normally puts a smile on ya face |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok, we'll wait for the next single guy whinge/moan thread and see how long it takes before someone starts rolling their eyes.
I thank my lucky stars that it's not a "rude people, no replies" thread. They REALLY hack me off.
Now Wishy........... go and tie Siren up..... that normally puts a smile on ya face "
She's fucked off to bed, she's had enough of my mood swings tonight cos I packed up smoking a week ago. She said, "Night babe, before you kill someone." |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good luck with staying off the ciggies Wishy, "
hmmmmmpppff! ... funny how you feel you need to pack up (which I do) but then see other people smoking and you start thinking to yourself, "See, they aint fucking dead are they, smoking aint harmed them none!" - Your mind can be your best friend and your worst enemy sometimes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nice one Gran, see the barber didn't cut all the common sense out of you too
Oh you just HAD to remind me didn't you!!
( Gran makes mental note - cross Ian off the Men to Shag list! )"
And you were my last hope |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nice one Gran, see the barber didn't cut all the common sense out of you too
Oh you just HAD to remind me didn't you!!
( Gran makes mental note - cross Ian off the Men to Shag list! )
And you were my last hope "
Jesus.... in that case it's done in permanant ink .... Seduction sure isn't some folks strong points. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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awwwww Granny, maybe he meant "last" in a see Paris and die type way, perhaps he has looked at numerous profiles then once he saw yours realised there was no point in trying to improve on perfection? Yours will be the last profile he ever viewed?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"awwwww Granny, maybe he meant "last" in a see Paris and die type way, perhaps he has looked at numerous profiles then once he saw yours realised there was no point in trying to improve on perfection? Yours will be the last profile he ever viewed?
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Yes Nom , He clearly viewed me in the way that i view your seductive digits.... the pinnacle, the cherry , the unatainable catalyst of fire in my loins. ( insert salacious tongue pulling sarky smiley ) |
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"awwwww Granny, maybe he meant "last" in a see Paris and die type way, perhaps he has looked at numerous profiles then once he saw yours realised there was no point in trying to improve on perfection? Yours will be the last profile he ever viewed?
Yes Nom , He clearly viewed me in the way that i view your seductive digits.... the pinnacle, the cherry , the unatainable catalyst of fire in my loins. ( insert salacious tongue pulling sarky smiley ) "
I think we should put Granny in charge of smileys!!!!, thats a smiley I'd like to see!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"can i ask just what exactly is with the personal attack??
Absolutely, and I'll answer you.
I'm sick and tired of single guy moaning threads. And I don't think I'm alone in this. Plus it perpetuates the myth that ALL single guys are liars etc etc etc... but that's not true as we've met several single men that have been absolute gems, but the difference is: we spent a lot of time getting to know them before ever arranging to meet."
Wishy - there's a simple answer to your problem - don't read the bloody things if your sick of them.
Despite who or what you might think you are on this site - nobody forces you to read the threads.
If you don't like 'em - don't read 'em
Actually I'm glad someone has pulled you up about your arrogance - it's not before time !
I'm only too happy that the perso who did it, worded it so uch better than I ever could |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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These types of threads are turning out to be as volitile as married men threads lately.
Either the person the Original Posters are talking about turns up on the forums and defends themselves , and I can understand that as most of you would......why would anyone want to be discussed in a negative way in public and not want to defend themselves.....or it starts an all out war anyway.
Either way, whatever comments are made, a requirement of still being able to post is to respect other users without attacking or abusing them.
Posts have been removed and if yours was but you didn't attack anyone then it was probably because you quoted someone. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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ok so maybe it wasnt the best of word to use! bur a very good descriptive one for the occasion! :-
times it feels the forums its one rule for one, one for another.
i did the grown up thing and apologized of my post offended.
yes posts can decend into chaos dependin on whos opinion is in favour at that time. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"ok so maybe it wasnt the best of word to use! bur a very good descriptive one for the occasion! :-
times it feels the forums its one rule for one, one for another.
i did the grown up thing and apologized of my post offended.
yes posts can decend into chaos dependin on whos opinion is in favour at that time. "
It was exactly why I am trying to point it out this way.
If calling someone abint is offensive to one person, then calling someone a twat could be equally offensive to the person being called it.
For me if you are going to have one rule for all, then ALL have to not be abusive for it to work, otherwise it is double standards at its highest.
No one should be attacked on the forums, and why I have taken posts down.
If everyone has their say without any insults or attacks, then no one should apologise for anything on here........if people don't want to read the threads they don't have to, but I would also say if they want to comment on it, they can.
So it just boils down to, when getting a point across, do it without insulting anyone or abusing them.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"ok so maybe it wasnt the best of word to use! bur a very good descriptive one for the occasion! :-
times it feels the forums its one rule for one, one for another.
i did the grown up thing and apologized of my post offended.
yes posts can decend into chaos dependin on whos opinion is in favour at that time.
It was exactly why I am trying to point it out this way.
If calling someone abint is offensive to one person, then calling someone a twat could be equally offensive to the person being called it.
For me if you are going to have one rule for all, then ALL have to not be abusive for it to work, otherwise it is double standards at its highest.
No one should be attacked on the forums, and why I have taken posts down.
If everyone has their say without any insults or attacks, then no one should apologise for anything on here........if people don't want to read the threads they don't have to, but I would also say if they want to comment on it, they can.
So it just boils down to, when getting a point across, do it without insulting anyone or abusing them.
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your too clever and alert for a sunday!! xxx!!
peace and goodwill to all men even..... |
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