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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Were getting paranoid now lol..
We did the decent thing.. Paid up and had a supporter thing, very nice too.
Now we have that looked at me thing and we keep peeping lol.. and we have loads, some people seem to look, then look again, then again and again etc etc .. you get the drift. But.. don't mail us lol..
Whats wrong with us then I say...
Means we either seem up our bums.. or worse just plain ugly (Shurrup and be nice)
Advice.. Please!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Now im addicted to this and I believe I should be the only person on this site that should be allowed to opt out of showing that ive looked at people profiles lol
I wanna know who else has looked that has opted out of showing hahahahaha
There is nothing to stop you sending those that you like the look of a wink or a message
Some people are shy you know!
And would you really want mesages from everyone thats had a peek? 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There could be lots of reasons why people do make the initial contact, but certainly not because you are ugly (far from it) nor because up are 'up yourselves'.
Perhaps they are just shy and fear rejection, which is surely going to happen sooner or later.
Distance is also a factor, especially those to find it difficult to travel for whatever reason (no transport, kids,work)
Or perhaps they are just perusing the site to look for potential contacts later when time and circumstance allow it.
Having said all that, take a look at our profile and if you like what you see, well you know the rest
(ps, we have not paid up and cannot view the 'lookers', so it will be done in private lol) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Reference look and look again I do that, when in the forum and reading what people have written, I look at the profile has well to learn that little bit more of the person writing it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Reference look and look again I do that, when in the forum and reading what people have written, I look at the profile has well to learn that little bit more of the person writing it.
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Yep - That applies to us too.
And of course, there's the "Swiss cheese brained, numpty factor"
I'll see a post in the a forum, see the avatar/profile pic and username and struggle to remember "Is that the pretty one from Barnsley ?" so I'll look at the profile again - and again, later in the day.
Or couples that don't spend a great deal of time together. I'll (dammie) be trawling and pervin, and come across "something of interest" so I'll put that profile into the hotlist thing so I can easily find it to show HLB at the weekend because I'd forget if I left it to memory (See Swiss cheese brain) That is of course, if I click the correct button *blush* and not the feckin Wink button, or worse still - the bluddy "Invite Friend" button as I did yesterday *doubleblush* (See numpty factor)
But then again, sometimes I just like to look at the pretty ladies. Cos I is a perv.
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"i am hidden so no one knows when i perv lol
me too...stealth mode lol"
i wonder if more women than men go onto stealth mode ...please say there is as 57% of people looking at me recently were ..."straight men"
why they looking at me grrrrrr ???
get lost i am a women or couple zone only
please say you reckon more women lurk privately.
MR X
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh - and . . . . . . .
It can actually lead to (at least) prospecting messages.
For instance - I'm 48 so wouldn't send a "Wanna fuck" to a profile where the ages were 30-45. But if a pretty lady sees that we've looked at her, or couple, and think they might want to know more about us, they may message, or wink.
But . . . . . . Here's another question.
Does anyone get fucked off by it ? Would it annoy you if for instance I (usually just dammie) looked at your profile - and therefore public pics almost every day ?
*I dress up the "Wanna fuck" prospecting messages much betterer than that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thanks to everyone who posted in this Forum....I didn't even KNOW you could 'hide'.....doh !!!! That will teach me to read the instructions properly in future....lol !!!! |
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"Thanks to everyone who posted in this Forum....I didn't even KNOW you could 'hide'.....doh !!!! That will teach me to read the instructions properly in future....lol !!!!"
you just couldnt keep quiet could you ...now everyone will turn off and make it irrelevant ,,,,,,
leave it on ...you get more winks etr ...
promise ya |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i am hidden so no one knows when i perv lol
me too...stealth mode lol
i wonder if more women than men go onto stealth mode ...please say there is as 57% of people looking at me recently were ..."straight men"
why they looking at me grrrrrr ???
get lost i am a women or couple zone only
please say you reckon more women lurk privately.
MR X
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I tend to look at posters profiles, purely because they posted a message.
I also looked at the Audi showroom this morning, but didn't buy anything. It's free to look, worry if your getting hello's from people who don't read your profile. |
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By *lirty14uMan
over a year ago
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Bout 50% of my veiwers were also men. If they get somethiong out of it, then good luck to them, doesn't bother me.
This is more than compensated for by a contact I made with someone local and the prospect of a drink out in the near future!
I saw they looked at me and I sent a message sayiong hello...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I saw they looked at me and I sent a message sayiong hello...
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Hope you don't work in a shop.
Hate being pounced on as soon as I walk into a shop, then when you do want some help, no one around, lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh - and . . . . . . .
It can actually lead to (at least) prospecting messages.
For instance - I'm 48 so wouldn't send a "Wanna fuck" to a profile where the ages were 30-45. But if a pretty lady sees that we've looked at her, or couple, and think they might want to know more about us, they may message, or wink.
But . . . . . . Here's another question.
Does anyone get fucked off by it ? Would it annoy you if for instance I (usually just dammie) looked at your profile - and therefore public pics almost every day ?
*I dress up the "Wanna fuck" prospecting messages much betterer than that."
Its funny you should say.. and yes, there is one obsessed twonk who even after years of problems and i do mean years lol.. we noticed still looks about 6 times a day. this is someone who fits so many reasons why not to swing lol..
He's straight but meets Bi blokes alone behind his wifes back.. Tries to meet couples wives behind his wifes back.. Mails texts begs for meets.. we even had the police involved, so yeah it does piss us off lol. But we can't stop one person can we.. Sadly!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"LOL ahhh Notts, just think about all the people who have looked at you but are hidden.....now that can boggle your mind "
Lol.. true, true.. but what I can't see I can't miss lol.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"see, now i got tempted, looked at notts' pics, and then realised i wasn't meant to be!
soz!
x"
That's ok, we look several times a day, but as we hide, Notts will never know.
W |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmmm.. We havnt subscribed to the new bit yet, but we get paranoid perfectly well without it! Lol... We too write emails and hope for ones in return but we are beginning to believe we are mingers!!!  Lol... Oh well back to the keyboard..
j&N X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hmmm.. We havnt subscribed to the new bit yet, but we get paranoid perfectly well without it! Lol... We too write emails and hope for ones in return but we are beginning to believe we are mingers!!! Lol... Oh well back to the keyboard..
j&N X"
Well, I'm a minger, nobody finds me attractive, but I'm lucky as my partner is sexy. :D
W |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hmmm.. We havnt subscribed to the new bit yet, but we get paranoid perfectly well without it! Lol... We too write emails and hope for ones in return but we are beginning to believe we are mingers!!! Lol... Oh well back to the keyboard..
j&N X
too true wayne, change the pic would ya
Well, I'm a minger, nobody finds me attractive, but I'm lucky as my partner is sexy. :D
W "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hmmm.. We havnt subscribed to the new bit yet, but we get paranoid perfectly well without it! Lol... We too write emails and hope for ones in return but we are beginning to believe we are mingers!!! Lol... Oh well back to the keyboard..
j&N X
Well, I'm a minger, nobody finds me attractive, but I'm lucky as my partner is sexy. :D
W "
Too true wayne, change the pic would ya |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hmmm.. We havnt subscribed to the new bit yet, but we get paranoid perfectly well without it! Lol... We too write emails and hope for ones in return but we are beginning to believe we are mingers!!! Lol... Oh well back to the keyboard..
j&N X
Well, I'm a minger, nobody finds me attractive, but I'm lucky as my partner is sexy. :D
W
Too true wayne, change the pic would ya"
You saw through me fishing for compliments didn't you? tut at you.
W |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i'm hidden too, i dont wanna accidently click on some guys profile who has a face like a bag of spanners for him to start asking why i never mailed him, lol ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i'm hidden too, i dont wanna accidently click on some guys profile who has a face like a bag of spanners for him to start asking why i never mailed him, lol ..."
Which reminds me, why did you not message us when you viewed our profile?, before you hid yourself.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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lol, i look at most profiles, im a nosy bitch, and i actually looked cuz i got a tad confused wen u changed yr name, was just making sure it was still u 2 lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lol, i look at most profiles, im a nosy bitch, and i actually looked cuz i got a tad confused wen u changed yr name, was just making sure it was still u 2 lol xx"
Tut at you, your loss, don't bother looking again.
Wayne runs off crying, distressed with paranoia, screaming I'm gonna hide our profile, people look but don't want to touch, I'm not a ferkin shop window, argh, boo hoo.
ah it's ok now, Colleen says she loves me, so there, har de har to you. :D
W |
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By *eedsmustMan
over a year ago
Wigan-Gtr/Manchester |
"i love the "whos looked at me" and i havent hid myself,
wink wink notts lol"
Just being devils advovate now ok!
So try to be honest?
What if u went into hide mode so peeps cant see that u peeped on them? That u shouldn't be able to see whos peeped on u?
Seeing that all parties have paid up for "the offer of" seeing whos peeped on them yeah?
Would the hidden ones, stay hidden if they had to forfeit the right to look at whos peeped on them? Or would they come out of the closit so to speak hehee
Thats the dilema? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We find it strange still that people who you have already said a no thank you to still need to look 15 times a day lol...
If I was pervin that much i'd make sure no one could see pmsl..
(Already have done too pmsl) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with that....Ive just seen someone who we said no to still looking and id love to be able to block them from viewing the profile if im honest.....I know it should be taken as a compliment but it gets on my nerves in a way too |
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"I agree with that....Ive just seen someone who we said no to still looking and id love to be able to block them from viewing the profile if im honest.....I know it should be taken as a compliment but it gets on my nerves in a way too "
it could be they are just interested in what sort of people your looking for a moment and waiting for your next verification ...some people cant handle a knockback and have to try and rationalise it i reckon |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree with that....Ive just seen someone who we said no to still looking and id love to be able to block them from viewing the profile if im honest.....I know it should be taken as a compliment but it gets on my nerves in a way too
it could be they are just interested in what sort of people your looking for a moment and waiting for your next verification ...some people cant handle a knockback and have to try and rationalise it i reckon "
verifications are hidden now...Ive decided that they have nothing to do with anyone else so don't want them on show |
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"I agree with that....Ive just seen someone who we said no to still looking and id love to be able to block them from viewing the profile if im honest.....I know it should be taken as a compliment but it gets on my nerves in a way too
it could be they are just interested in what sort of people your looking for a moment and waiting for your next verification ...some people cant handle a knockback and have to try and rationalise it i reckon
verifications are hidden now...Ive decided that they have nothing to do with anyone else so don't want them on show"
well thats nailed my hypothesis then .,..well done .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah i think there shud be an option to stop peeps looking at your profile, them that ya dont wont too for very good reasons. "
ffs block people....still no bludy edit button |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yeah i think there shud be an option to stop peeps looking at your profile, them that ya dont wont too for very good reasons. "
I'd pay double for that one feature xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For the first time ever since we have been on sites someone has looked at our profile that I know from normal life!
Ooooooh it feels a bit weird
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'd tickle you... and its not even sunny.
We see a few we know from round here on site... We have our customers come in, even one who does a TV show for the BBC lol.. We know cause i'm nosy lol...
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
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"lol he was scared shitless...he'd have a panic attack if we walked in again lol..he was a bit cute though lol"
Welllllllllllll.....
We did stand their discussing his bum and wondering (very loudly) what size his todger might be.
Bless, he was only about 18.
Do ya think if we covered ya tits in Madras, he might lick it all of?
Orf to work now.......before I get into too much trouble!
Cya peeps and specially you Sar you sexy woman! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Great invention! I actually got my 1st meet here using that very tool. A lady viewed my profile 7 times in 24 hrs, I liked the look of her profile etc and you know the rest.
So yes privacy settings have there place but can also rule out a fantastic night. Though personally I hate the cpls who look and on there profile in big bold letters it says no single males! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"lol he was scared shitless...he'd have a panic attack if we walked in again lol..he was a bit cute though lol
Welllllllllllll.....
We did stand their discussing his bum and wondering (very loudly) what size his todger might be.
Bless, he was only about 18.
Do ya think if we covered ya tits in Madras, he might lick it all of?
Orf to work now.......before I get into too much trouble!
Cya peeps and specially you Sar you sexy woman!"
right madras it is for me then lol
and as for the licking off bit..im sure you could gently persuede him!
or we could just send j and j to go get more beers and jump on the poor unsuspecting lad?? |
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
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"lol he was scared shitless...he'd have a panic attack if we walked in again lol..he was a bit cute though lol
Welllllllllllll.....
We did stand their discussing his bum and wondering (very loudly) what size his todger might be.
Bless, he was only about 18.
Do ya think if we covered ya tits in Madras, he might lick it all of?
Orf to work now.......before I get into too much trouble!
Cya peeps and specially you Sar you sexy woman!
right madras it is for me then lol
and as for the licking off bit..im sure you could gently persuede him!
or we could just send j and j to go get more beers and jump on the poor unsuspecting lad??"
Oohhh, now there's a thought!
They can hold him down, we'll abuse him and ...........
Aaawww bless, we'd probably put him in therapy for the next 20 years! |
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