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Polite request for face picture
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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couple contacted us asking if we would meet up... replied and sent a face picture of us two asking nicely if we could have one back...Answer was dont u read profiles we dont send pics at all...how should we know how we are meeting??? Am lost here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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u have just learned a valuable lesson!!
how the hell would anyone want to meet without seein a face pic and are they so criminally ugly or have somethin to hide??
probably just random weirdos! me personally i dont send a face pic until i have seen one xxxx |
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By *im53Man
over a year ago
Boldon |
"couple contacted us asking if we would meet up... replied and sent a face picture of us two asking nicely if we could have one back...Answer was dont u read profiles we dont send pics at all...how should we know how we are meeting??? Am lost here "
most probebly would never have met you any way  so no need for photos |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sent a few face pics after a request to do so but never got a reply back.
I guess i must be ugly to some but best to move on.
If my mammy says i am a handsome chappie thats good enough for me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sent a few face pics after a request to do so but never got a reply back.
I guess i must be ugly to some but best to move on.
If my mammy says i am a handsome chappie thats good enough for me "
naw she meant chappie as in the dog food!!! xx |
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"Sent a few face pics after a request to do so but never got a reply back.
I guess i must be ugly to some but best to move on.
If my mammy says i am a handsome chappie thats good enough for me "
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, we all like different things, but if someone had the courtesy to send us pics if we'd asked for them we would always reply without fail even if its a thanks but no thanks. Z |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sent a few face pics after a request to do so but never got a reply back.
I guess i must be ugly to some but best to move on.
If my mammy says i am a handsome chappie thats good enough for me
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, we all like different things, but if someone had the courtesy to send us pics if we'd asked for them we would always reply without fail even if its a thanks but no thanks. Z"
Beauty is in the eye of the BEER holder. |
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"Sent a few face pics after a request to do so but never got a reply back.
I guess i must be ugly to some but best to move on.
If my mammy says i am a handsome chappie thats good enough for me "
il vouch for u grecian ur a handsome bugga .....now u owe me a shag lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Web cam perhaps. 
hey, someone who actually thinks out of the box 
I only add friends to msn
not random shags
Folk see me here
I wanna see them here
simples xx   "
It's not all about YOU though, or us for that matter, it's about respecting peoples preferences, and if a profile states we never send face picture then why ask? |
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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago
a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5 |
"Web cam perhaps.
hey, someone who actually thinks out of the box
I only add friends to msn
not random shags
Folk see me here
I wanna see them here
simples xx
It's not all about YOU though, or us for that matter, it's about respecting peoples preferences, and if a profile states we never send face picture then why ask? "
Indeed you are corrct
But dont ask for them if your not prepared to send them I guess
folk need to ask for what suits them
but my profile is all about ME
and what I want is paramount to ME
XXX |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Another thing that is bugging me (ooooerrr missus) is that it clearly says on my profile that do not send a friends request unless they ask or we have chatted first. Yes you have guessed it people still do send them.
They might think its rude of me not to accept their request but if they can read the Queens English they might understand why i have rejected them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Web cam perhaps.
hey, someone who actually thinks out of the box
I only add friends to msn
not random shags
Folk see me here
I wanna see them here
simples xx
It's not all about YOU though, or us for that matter, it's about respecting peoples preferences, and if a profile states we never send face picture then why ask?
Indeed you are corrct
But dont ask for them if your not prepared to send them I guess
folk need to ask for what suits them
but my profile is all about ME
and what I want is paramount to ME
XXX"
Agree with what your saying, but the OP never said the other party asked for photos of them, and going by the response they got they must have it written on their profile that they dont send face pics out.
Unfortunately some people prefer cam 2 cam rather than sending face pics on the internet.
If they dont cam either then thats asking to meet blind, and thats a whole different story, but the OP never mentioned this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've done a few blind dates, and have been pleasantly surprised too. Kate and I actually met on a blind date so it doesn't fill us with any fear at all We understand, it's not for everyone, but you can always walk away.
Have to say though, we agree and empathise with OP, that if someone asks for pics, it's polite to receive theirs by return. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Did they ask for pictures though? As far as I can read the OP sent a picture and requested one back, agree it’s petty, but if they have written on their profile they do not send face pictures we’d have to respect that.
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
Cyprus |
If someone won't sent you a facial picture, treat it as though they have something to hide.........
You had a lucky escape me thinks.
I met blind once....... never again. He had no teeth.........
And I ain't joking!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Did they ask for pictures though? As far as I can read the OP sent a picture and requested one back, agree it’s petty, but if they have written on their profile they do not send face pictures we’d have to respect that.
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That's the way I read it!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone won't sent you a facial picture, treat it as though they have something to hide.........
You had a lucky escape me thinks.
I met blind once....... never again. He had no teeth.........
And I ain't joking!! "
SUCKING HELL maddie thats funny xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't send pics. I have nothing to hide. My profile says I don't send pics. It says I will let you see me on msn. Or show you a pic on msn .. I don't and wont send pics. I can understand people not wanting to meet without a pic.
I have met blind. Just for the hell of it. I don't go expecting to play. I go expecting to meet a human being which is better than staying home doing nowt. And, they might just be a potential sex partner for the future.
There's more of a buzz beforehand from that than meeting with someone i've met before even if I really like them.
For the record. I don't consider myself ugly. I am not shy.
Im only telling you this for an alternative perspective.
Did they say they liked the look of you ?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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just to clear the question they asked for a face picture right from the start..never asked for cam (err even if I dont like it might do just to reassure someone)...thought it was just that if they ask and we ask nicely back that they would send...anyway did what u suggested MOVE on enjoy life and laugh... |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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I have face pics in my private gallery, just so people can check that I don't have a beard or anything (beards and crossdressing are a bit of a no no for some reason).
Personally, I wouldn't ever ask anyone to do anything that I wouldn't do myself. I think a few people on here are a bit one sided in what they are prepared to do themselves and what they expect others to do for them.
Each to their own, I guess. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"just to clear the question they asked for a face picture right from the start..never asked for cam (err even if I dont like it might do just to reassure someone)...thought it was just that if they ask and we ask nicely back that they would send...anyway did what u suggested MOVE on enjoy life and laugh... "
an they didn't send you 1 back sounds to me it ant a couple profile (fake) or time waster
would report it an then block them
fake users should be reported |
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
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"just to clear the question they asked for a face picture right from the start..never asked for cam (err even if I dont like it might do just to reassure someone)...thought it was just that if they ask and we ask nicely back that they would send...anyway did what u suggested MOVE on enjoy life and laugh... "
People say to respect their view not to send facial pictures......
Fine......
But it's a bit of a fucking cheek if THEY ask for them.
You had a lucky escape in my opinion. |
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"just to clear the question they asked for a face picture right from the start..never asked for cam (err even if I dont like it might do just to reassure someone)...thought it was just that if they ask and we ask nicely back that they would send...anyway did what u suggested MOVE on enjoy life and laugh... "
 Next time send them a smile they might send one back......hahaha
Kev xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"just to clear the question they asked for a face picture right from the start..never asked for cam (err even if I dont like it might do just to reassure someone)...thought it was just that if they ask and we ask nicely back that they would send...anyway did what u suggested MOVE on enjoy life and laugh... "
Thats a whole different story... cheeky fookers indeed.
now wonders if they had verifications for meeting others |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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just to answer last one...nope no verifications at all...me someties daft...sighs live in helenconfused . com world at times and forget to check things like verifications...I know all will give me a spank now... but learning as go on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i got a message from a couple which read:-
face pic please
I thought, what, not even a hello but what the hell, i'll send one as they did say please, never heard back from them |
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