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"When you had your first child?? At 33 I feel like I need to get my arse into gear and start thinking about settling down and having a family.. "
25 for my son
28 for my daughter
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over a year ago
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"i'm goin to o all mystic meg and say 35...i hope letsbe doesnt read this lol
lol my number is 34...thats next year I better find sperm lol..."
Finding sperm is easy. Finding a responsible, caring loving donor is the hard part. |
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over a year ago
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"I was 22 and got a double whammy
I bet that was a shocker lol "
It opened my eyes a bit,went from being a carefree selfish bitch to run down mum of 2 lol |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
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"i'm goin to o all mystic meg and say 35...i hope letsbe doesnt read this lol
lol my number is 34...thats next year I better find sperm lol...
Finding sperm is easy. Finding a responsible, caring loving donor is the hard part. "
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I was 18 when I had my daughter, I remember people having a gossip about it etc. But I think me and the ex hubby coped well. My daughter was well mannered, did well at school and collage. She's nearly 28 now a mother herself, I couldn't be any more prouder of her. |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"I was 22 and got a double whammy
I bet that was a shocker lol
It opened my eyes a bit,went from being a carefree selfish bitch to run down mum of 2 lol"
You are gorgeous nothing run down about you...  |
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"See I got pregnant at 30...but it was not meant to be... I thought it was the right age etc.. Its funny how life works out.. "
I am a great believer that things in life happen for a reason...It will happen if it is meant to! |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
I've always been of the opinion that a woman should wait until she's a fully responsible, mature adult before bringing sprogs into the world...therefore, I shall possibly be looking at IVF sometime in the 2040's when I'm grown up enough |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was 22 and got a double whammy
I bet that was a shocker lol
It opened my eyes a bit,went from being a carefree selfish bitch to run down mum of 2 lol
You are gorgeous nothing run down about you... "
When one didn't sleep for longer than 2 hours in 9 months believe me there was lol |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"26 and had tried for 7 years  "
Wow I bet that was a moment when you found out..Doctors told me I'd never have kids due to injuries caused in a violent relationship I was in...after 7 months with someone I fell pregnant it was a surreal experience.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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im the eldest of my brothers n sisters...sis has 5, others have a cpl each
approaching 40 and I know I'm missing out.Tired of jetsetting around the world..meeting playboy centrefolds..milehigh gangbangs.
so I do indeed..very much...and mostly the pivotal role in my life , would be for me to have a
HUUUUUUUUUUUUUUuuuuuuuuuggggE yacht |
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By *azzaahhWoman
over a year ago
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"When you had your first child?? At 33 I feel like I need to get my arse into gear and start thinking about settling down and having a family.. "
17 and yes id do it all over again xx |
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"26 and had tried for 7 years
Wow I bet that was a moment when you found out..Doctors told me I'd never have kids due to injuries caused in a violent relationship I was in...after 7 months with someone I fell pregnant it was a surreal experience.."
 to you both |
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Haven't had a child as such but became a mother aged 30 which for me was late as I always wanted children young but it wasn't meant to be. Looking back I'm glad it didn't I was far too selfish when I was younger!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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First boy at 31, 2nd at 36 and 3rd at 37 snip at 38 ... mum is 10 years younger than me. Didn't realise how young she was when having our first born till I put it down in writing. |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"Haven't had a child as such but became a mother aged 30 which for me was late as I always wanted children young but it wasn't meant to be. Looking back I'm glad it didn't I was far too selfish when I was younger!!"
Good for you!! |
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"26 and had tried for 7 years
Wow I bet that was a moment when you found out..Doctors told me I'd never have kids due to injuries caused in a violent relationship I was in...after 7 months with someone I fell pregnant it was a surreal experience.."
I treasure every moment with my son, as I'm sure you do ? He's a pleasure i indulge as often as I can x |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"26 and had tried for 7 years
Wow I bet that was a moment when you found out..Doctors told me I'd never have kids due to injuries caused in a violent relationship I was in...after 7 months with someone I fell pregnant it was a surreal experience..
I treasure every moment with my son, as I'm sure you do ? He's a pleasure i indulge as often as I can x "
Sadly I lost the child during pregnancy... treasure every moment sweets xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"im the eldest of my brothers n sisters...sis has 5, others have a cpl each
approaching 40 and I know I'm missing out.Tired of jetsetting around the world..meeting playboy centrefolds..milehigh gangbangs.
so I do indeed..very much...and mostly the pivotal role in my life , would be for me to have a
HUUUUUUUUUUUUUUuuuuuuuuuggggE yacht "
Keping it real as always!!!!! |
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"26 and had tried for 7 years
Wow I bet that was a moment when you found out..Doctors told me I'd never have kids due to injuries caused in a violent relationship I was in...after 7 months with someone I fell pregnant it was a surreal experience..
I treasure every moment with my son, as I'm sure you do ? He's a pleasure i indulge as often as I can x
Sadly I lost the child during pregnancy... treasure every moment sweets xx"
Feel your pain Hun I lost 3 before deciding to adopt instead. Best decision I made xx |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"26 and had tried for 7 years
Wow I bet that was a moment when you found out..Doctors told me I'd never have kids due to injuries caused in a violent relationship I was in...after 7 months with someone I fell pregnant it was a surreal experience..
I treasure every moment with my son, as I'm sure you do ? He's a pleasure i indulge as often as I can x
Sadly I lost the child during pregnancy... treasure every moment sweets xx
Feel your pain Hun I lost 3 before deciding to adopt instead. Best decision I made xx"
good for you!! Glad a child got a loving home!! xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had my daughter at 24. She's 9 in July and she thinks I'm an OAP.
You've loads of time my dear, no rush.
I wish you well on your "sperm search" though xx |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
Cheekychops, have you been to have a blood test and scan? If you're worried about how long you have on your clock then it's worth asking for this, particularly with your previous pregnancy history.
I got pregnant on just about every contraception I used but I couldn't carry to term. I had also made the decision that I would not try after 40.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i'm goin to o all mystic meg and say 35...i hope letsbe doesnt read this lol
lol my number is 34...thats next year I better find sperm lol..."
more than happy to make a donation
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Sadly I lost the child during pregnancy... treasure every moment sweets xx
Feel your pain Hun I lost 3 before deciding to adopt instead. Best decision I made xx
good for you!! Glad a child got a loving home!! xx"
Just a shame more people wont consider it. I now work with looked after children and there's so many kids needing homes. It breaks my heart when the gorgeous kids i work with are left needing forever mummies  |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"Cheekychops, have you been to have a blood test and scan? If you're worried about how long you have on your clock then it's worth asking for this, particularly with your previous pregnancy history.
I got pregnant on just about every contraception I used but I couldn't carry to term. I had also made the decision that I would not try after 40.
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Had all of that when I had the miscarriage they said everything was in working order... that the injuries had not had a long term impact... |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
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Sadly I lost the child during pregnancy... treasure every moment sweets xx
Feel your pain Hun I lost 3 before deciding to adopt instead. Best decision I made xx
good for you!! Glad a child got a loving home!! xx
Just a shame more people wont consider it. I now work with looked after children and there's so many kids needing homes. It breaks my heart when the gorgeous kids i work with are left needing forever mummies "
Sadly I can't adopt due to circumstances.... It is sad to see x |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Cheekychops, have you been to have a blood test and scan? If you're worried about how long you have on your clock then it's worth asking for this, particularly with your previous pregnancy history.
I got pregnant on just about every contraception I used but I couldn't carry to term. I had also made the decision that I would not try after 40.
Had all of that when I had the miscarriage they said everything was in working order... that the injuries had not had a long term impact... "
Check what your bloods say on hormones and that you've got plenty of eggs. |
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"When you had your first child?? At 33 I feel like I need to get my arse into gear and start thinking about settling down and having a family.. "
Told you I'll send you my sperm in a Turkey bastor
21 when my son was born |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was 18 and would do it again in a heartbeat if I could. Sadly he is to be my one and only child, but I am very grateful and feel truly blessed that I have a son. He was 14 yesterday |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was 17,19,21,24 and they're the best. All grown up and Beautiful with Children of their own "
making most of the fun now then isit i got 5kids so know wot its like lol x |
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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago
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I was 18 when I got pregnant and miscarried the first time. After that I always said I didn't want children but changed my mind when I met my hubby.
I met my husband at 29 and was pregnant 4 months later at 30.
I'm now 38 and we still have no children. The chances of a successful pregnancy are very slim for us and we've had to learn to accept that we will never have a family. |
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"I was 18 when I got pregnant and miscarried the first time. After that I always said I didn't want children but changed my mind when I met my hubby.
I met my husband at 29 and was pregnant 4 months later at 30.
I'm now 38 and we still have no children. The chances of a successful pregnancy are very slim for us and we've had to learn to accept that we will never have a family. "
never give up hun, wish i could help ppl like u who want a child x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was 20 then 21 then 25. Im done with having kids. My three are my world. But my body is tired and battered from pregnancy and birth i feel much older than i am |
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I was 23 when I had my first daughter, when she was only 8 or so weeks old I was told by my GP that I was pregnant, he didn't know whether to congratulate me or not! 11 month age gap...it was interesting, but wouldn't change it for the world, as they are so close. |
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"I was 23 when I had my first daughter, when she was only 8 or so weeks old I was told by my GP that I was pregnant, he didn't know whether to congratulate me or not! 11 month age gap...it was interesting, but wouldn't change it for the world, as they are so close."
Wow that is close...i have 18 months between my two eldest and found it great |
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"I was 18 when I got pregnant and miscarried the first time. After that I always said I didn't want children but changed my mind when I met my hubby.
I met my husband at 29 and was pregnant 4 months later at 30.
I'm now 38 and we still have no children. The chances of a successful pregnancy are very slim for us and we've had to learn to accept that we will never have a family. never give up hun, wish i could help ppl like u who want a child x"
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I was 26 when I had my son having been told the previous year after tests that there was very little chance of getting pregnant due to a blocked tube and the other one very badly scarred - my now ex husband thought by saying we would try would keep me happy as he had 2 from first marriage (he didn't want anymore) - he was shocked when I got pregnant on first attempt. My son is 19 later this week and I love him so much and so proud of him. When I left my first husband, he thought that 'letting me try for another child' would make me stay.....no way! Decided not to try with my 2nd husband as we already had a child each and looking back, I'm glad we made that decision as we aren't together now. I don't want anymore as at 45, I feel I'm getting too old and want to enjoy my partner's grandkids |
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"Cheekychops, have you been to have a blood test and scan? If you're worried about how long you have on your clock then it's worth asking for this, particularly with your previous pregnancy history.
I got pregnant on just about every contraception I used but I couldn't carry to term. I had also made the decision that I would not try after 40.
Had all of that when I had the miscarriage they said everything was in working order... that the injuries had not had a long term impact...
Check what your bloods say on hormones and that you've got plenty of eggs."
I second this. Hubby & I wanted to be sensible and wait until we were married to start trying. 2 years into trying, we find out i'm early menopause (through follicle scan & bloods). 2 years, 1 unsucessful and 1 successful (but miscarried) IVF later, i'm showing signs of that early menopause starting. I'm 33 also.
We'll have 1 more go at IVF but it's probably too late for me. I wish we'd known that 10 years ago.
I would always encourage a woman to go and get checked - even if you're not sure just yet. I know i'm a rare case but leave it thinking it's OK, and you may not be left with a choice. There really is nothing worse than having than choice taken away from you.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never had any.
Won't ever have any.
I shall take my cluckyness out on other peoples children
That way I can give em back if they get a bit too challenging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That may av sounded a tad insensitive so apolgies if it did.
My ex mrs was pregnant with twins, which we lost.
Afterwards, they unfortunately had to take away her ability to bear children and it was at that point that I kinda resigned myself to being a fantastic uncle instead  |
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"When you had your first child?? At 33 I feel like I need to get my arse into gear and start thinking about settling down and having a family.. "
I was 21 and just moved into my bf's student house and well two more children since and a lot of changes! |
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"I was 17,19,21,24 and they're the best. All grown up and Beautiful with Children of their own making most of the fun now then isit i got 5kids so know wot its like lol x
Feck me neither of you 2 have tv's lol "
I have 4 Beautiful Daughters and Nope we didn't have Tv's in those days lol xx |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
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"That may av sounded a tad insensitive so apolgies if it did.
My ex mrs was pregnant with twins, which we lost.
Afterwards, they unfortunately had to take away her ability to bear children and it was at that point that I kinda resigned myself to being a fantastic uncle instead "
Aw that is such a shame... |
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"I was 18 when I got pregnant and miscarried the first time. After that I always said I didn't want children but changed my mind when I met my hubby.
I met my husband at 29 and was pregnant 4 months later at 30.
I'm now 38 and we still have no children. The chances of a successful pregnancy are very slim for us and we've had to learn to accept that we will never have a family. "
Adoption??? More than one way to have a family and hugs to you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pregnant at 18, miscarried at 16 weeks.
With my fertility problems, and lack of a proper relationship its looking increasingly like I'll never have kids.
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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago
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28 for our first after 8 years of trying, medical intervention was necessary, loads of different types of drugs and having to jab myself in the arse with a javelin sized needle 
And 34 for the 2nd, after a further 4 years of drugs and needles. Love them both to bits and they were worth every minute of stress and worry I had.
I still mean it at the end of Half-Term week
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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" She's now 31 and has no plans for a baby.
My oldest sister is 37 and has no plans.
Prob never will now, because I think 37 is possibly a bit late."
Many women I know have had children later than that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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25 for my first and 28 for my last. Just about right for me. I had no desire to be a mother before then and I'm still young enough to be having fun now they're not so dependant on me. |
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I was really young, id had 2 kids by the time I was 18. It was very hard work and always encouraged my girls to wait till they wad older, on the up side my girls are now 18 and 20 and at 38 i have my life back while im still young enough to enjoy it, i know plenty of women my age still depend on baby sitters to go out and still doing the school run, its swings and roundabouts really |
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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago
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"I was 22 and got a double whammy
I bet that was a shocker lol
It opened my eyes a bit,went from being a carefree selfish bitch to run down mum of 2 lol
You are gorgeous nothing run down about you...
When one didn't sleep for longer than 2 hours in 9 months believe me there was lol"
thats how me and my ex was when we had ours 18 years ago  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Never phyisically given birth but gained my girls aged 25 and they were 11 and 7 xx and i met my now husband, now the 11 year old is 23 and has her own son aged 3 and another on the way xx |
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"I was really young, id had 2 kids by the time I was 18. It was very hard work and always encouraged my girls to wait till they wad older, on the up side my girls are now 18 and 20 and at 38 i have my life back while im still young enough to enjoy it, i know plenty of women my age still depend on baby sitters to go out and still doing the school run, its swings and roundabouts really "
2 kids by the age of 18, now they've 18 and 20 years younger? Do you have a time warp in your house or more than 2 kids? lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The more interesting question about age is not when you had your child, but are you still with the father?? I'll bet a higher percentage of the younger ones aren't. As you get older you learn what you want from life so are more likely to pick a partner you'll stay with
(Yes there'll be exceptions so don't get your knickers in a twist, folks!!!) |
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"When you had your first child?? At 33 I feel like I need to get my arse into gear and start thinking about settling down and having a family.. "
I don't have kids so class my dogs are them so ad my 1st dog when I left home and was 20 |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Late 20s,
oldest is now 22 and youngest 17, girl and boy, brought them up on my own for the last 12yrs, well with me mums help, but have two rare diamonds, youngest will still give me a kiss on the cheek when saying he's off out even in front of his mate's |
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