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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If we get one, great, if we don't - what the heck.
We don't display them anyway so it makes no odds. It's always nice for someone to let you know they had a good time, but hey ho, who gives a bugger  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"should you expect verifications? especially if you have given some one a glowing one...or just accept that some people just dont like giving them ?? "
They're like blowjobs really... some will give them and some just stubbornly refuse.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In our experience on here we have only received one verification for every 3 or 4 meets we have had, many people just dont bother with them. So we dont expect them anymore |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"should you expect verifications? especially if you have given some one a glowing one...or just accept that some people just dont like giving them ?? "
Once you have one or two verifications the rest are meaningless. |
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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago
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"We expect nothing from anyone on this site, we hope for various things but we expect nothing 
We agree with you, and if anything materialises from our contacts, then we consider it a bonus "
what time dya bloody call this? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We expect nothing from anyone on this site, we hope for various things but we expect nothing
We agree with you, and if anything materialises from our contacts, then we consider it a bonus "
Spot on, it's a bonus.
If you start to expect things then when they don't materialise noses get put out of joint, which seems to be a common thought within the thread |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Once you have one or two verifications the rest are meaningless. "
In your opinion of course and one which you are perfectly entitled to, but we like to read all the verifications people have, they can give a great insight into someone's personality.
Jed and Sasha (60+ verifications) |
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"We expect nothing from anyone on this site, we hope for various things but we expect nothing
We agree with you, and if anything materialises from our contacts, then we consider it a bonus
what time dya bloody call this? "
opps  sometimes it's easier to visit others than have them visit us!  |
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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago
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" Once you have one or two verifications the rest are meaningless.
In your opinion of course and one which you are perfectly entitled to, but we like to read all the verifications people have, they can give a great insight into someone's personality.
Jed and Sasha (60+ verifications)"
I agree with you Jed
1 especially hidden means nothing maybe even that you just showed up at a social and that dont essentially mean that your a swinger, just good at socialising.
My feedback means
I turn up
I look like my pics
I do play
I do socialise
Folk like me
I am popular
I am genuine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We always leave feedback if its been left for us, and we always display our feedback too. Think its important to tell people you are still active, lol and recent feedback does that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Once you have one or two verifications the rest are meaningless.
In your opinion of course and one which you are perfectly entitled to, but we like to read all the verifications people have, they can give a great insight into someone's personality.
Jed and Sasha (60+ verifications)
I agree with you Jed
1 especially hidden means nothing maybe even that you just showed up at a social and that dont essentially mean that your a swinger, just good at socialising.
My feedback means
I turn up
I look like my pics
I do play
I do socialise
Folk like me
I am popular
I am genuine"
And modest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Once you have one or two verifications the rest are meaningless.
In your opinion of course and one which you are perfectly entitled to, but we like to read all the verifications people have, they can give a great insight into someone's personality.
Jed and Sasha (60+ verifications)"
Not really. They can give an insight into what others thought or what others felt they should putor what they told downright lies about or just the best bits and perhaps not the awful things that happened. After all ... a verification , no matter how good doesn't mean someone has to see you again. I like reading them too they can have bearing on my final decisions but nothing will ever overide my ability to sum someone up.
Regards Gran x
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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago
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" Once you have one or two verifications the rest are meaningless.
In your opinion of course and one which you are perfectly entitled to, but we like to read all the verifications people have, they can give a great insight into someone's personality.
Jed and Sasha (60+ verifications)
I agree with you Jed
1 especially hidden means nothing maybe even that you just showed up at a social and that dont essentially mean that your a swinger, just good at socialising.
My feedback means
I turn up
I look like my pics
I do play
I do socialise
Folk like me
I am popular
I am genuine
And modest "
ask folk that have met me
thats what its there for
oh and I never said I was modest
Its well documented you have an adverse opinon of me
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The real problem with verifications is that they're scattered around like confetti - presumably in the hope of a reciprocal verification. Even 'met and played with' verifications are, like club reviews, subjective at best. That's before you get to the bit about the recipient being able to pick and choose which ones to show.
Then we move onto the threads about people trying to withdraw verifications ........  |
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I don’t expect verifications and I don’t ask for them… what’s the point I don’t show them.
I also don’t verify everyone I meet just because I’ve met them… not much point in maintaining my own privacy on my profile if I disregard it on other people’s.
When reading ‘play’ verifications I do so with a pinch or two of salt… who’s gonna write “Any hole is a goal and today it was you… thanks”… of course people will be flattering… they might be short of options one day and need to come back lol.
On a personal note… if someone does show their verifications, I am always more impressed with a few select verifications from people who have met someone a number of times. Firstly it means they were worth going back to and secondly shows they are reliable over a period of time… rather than a one-off effort.
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On a personal note… if someone does show their verifications, I am always more impressed with a few select verifications from people who have met someone a number of times. Firstly it means they were worth going back to and secondly shows they are reliable over a period of time… rather than a one-off effort.
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Those can come across as no more than a mutual appreciation society. I sometimes wonder if the meet actually took place or if there was simply an agreement to bump each others' tally. |
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"should you expect verifications? especially if you have given some one a glowing one...or just accept that some people just dont like giving them ?? "
there one or two meets weve had that we wouldnt give verifications.both for different reasons
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" .............
On a personal note… if someone does show their verifications, I am always more impressed with a few select verifications from people who have met someone a number of times. Firstly it means they were worth going back to and secondly shows they are reliable over a period of time… rather than a one-off effort.
Those can come across as no more than a mutual appreciation society. I sometimes wonder if the meet actually took place or if there was simply an agreement to bump each others' tally."
Just goes to show how little verifications really mean. |
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" .............
On a personal note… if someone does show their verifications, I am always more impressed with a few select verifications from people who have met someone a number of times. Firstly it means they were worth going back to and secondly shows they are reliable over a period of time… rather than a one-off effort.
Those can come across as no more than a mutual appreciation society. I sometimes wonder if the meet actually took place or if there was simply an agreement to bump each others' tally.
Just goes to show how little verifications really mean."
Exactly. |
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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago
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" come across as no more than a mutual appreciation society. "
I like to see folk are appreciated and people can see I am too
Better than to guess IMHO
And if I were as cynical about almost everyone as you and voldemort then I would never chat to anyone let alone swing probly
Most people on here are lovely and even better when you meet them and its even nicer to comment on it
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On a personal note… if someone does show their verifications, I am always more impressed with a few select verifications from people who have met someone a number of times. Firstly it means they were worth going back to and secondly shows they are reliable over a period of time… rather than a one-off effort.
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I see ya point but we dont re verify every time we meet
And we meet peeps off our verification list again and again xx |
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On a personal note… if someone does show their verifications, I am always more impressed with a few select verifications from people who have met someone a number of times. Firstly it means they were worth going back to and secondly shows they are reliable over a period of time… rather than a one-off effort.
I see ya point but we dont re verify every time we meet
And we meet peeps off our verification list again and again xx "
Oh I dislike diary style verifications too lol
3 or 4 verifications from the same person in a row "met Fred again today and this time we did x y and z"
Fussy feck ain't I lol |
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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago
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On a personal note… if someone does show their verifications, I am always more impressed with a few select verifications from people who have met someone a number of times. Firstly it means they were worth going back to and secondly shows they are reliable over a period of time… rather than a one-off effort.
I see ya point but we dont re verify every time we meet
And we meet peeps off our verification list again and again xx "
let me verify your sexy arse soom will ya xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Verifications can and are easily faked by many people on here, hence we take them all with a little pinch of salt.
Anyone who chooses to read anything more than "this person/these people are genuine, we know as we have met them" into a verification really are quite naive. And even then there are no real guarantees.
We don't feel a need to hide our verifications, these are people we have met, we happily met with them and we have no problem with folk knowing this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On a personal note… if someone does show their verifications, I am always more impressed with a few select verifications from people who have met someone a number of times. Firstly it means they were worth going back to and secondly shows they are reliable over a period of time… rather than a one-off effort.
I see ya point but we dont re verify every time we meet
And we meet peeps off our verification list again and again xx
let me verify your sexy arse soom will ya xxxx "
Sure ya will at the beach party lol xxx |
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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago
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"Verifications can and are easily faked by many people on here, hence we take them all with a little pinch of salt.
Anyone who chooses to read anything more than "this person/these people are genuine, we know as we have met them" into a verification really are quite naive. And even then there are no real guarantees.
We don't feel a need to hide our verifications, these are people we have met, we happily met with them and we have no problem with folk knowing this. "
why do you always say things so much better than me
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On a personal note… if someone does show their verifications, I am always more impressed with a few select verifications from people who have met someone a number of times. Firstly it means they were worth going back to and secondly shows they are reliable over a period of time… rather than a one-off effort.
I see ya point but we dont re verify every time we meet
And we meet peeps off our verification list again and again xx
Oh I dislike diary style verifications too lol
3 or 4 verifications from the same person in a row "met Fred again today and this time we did x y and z"
Fussy feck ain't I lol"
All bloody women are fussy buggers hun pmsl xx |
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On a personal note… if someone does show their verifications, I am always more impressed with a few select verifications from people who have met someone a number of times. Firstly it means they were worth going back to and secondly shows they are reliable over a period of time… rather than a one-off effort.
I see ya point but we dont re verify every time we meet
And we meet peeps off our verification list again and again xx
Oh I dislike diary style verifications too lol
3 or 4 verifications from the same person in a row "met Fred again today and this time we did x y and z"
Fussy feck ain't I lol
All bloody women are fussy buggers hun pmsl xx "
It's certain true that most are |
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"" come across as no more than a mutual appreciation society. "
I like to see folk are appreciated and people can see I am too
Better than to guess IMHO
And if I were as cynical about almost everyone as you and voldemort then I would never chat to anyone let alone swing probly
Most people on here are lovely and even better when you meet them and its even nicer to comment on it
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Pointing out the truth, however unpalatable some members may find it, isn't cynical. |
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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago
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"" come across as no more than a mutual appreciation society. "
I like to see folk are appreciated and people can see I am too
Better than to guess IMHO
And if I were as cynical about almost everyone as you and voldemort then I would never chat to anyone let alone swing probly
Most people on here are lovely and even better when you meet them and its even nicer to comment on it
Pointing out the truth, however unpalatable some members may find it, isn't cynical."
you say tomayto
I say tomahto |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"should you expect verifications? especially if you have given some one a glowing one...or just accept that some people just dont like giving them ??
Once you have one or two verifications the rest are meaningless. "
That's the way I look at it too. I don't want a long list of verifications. How many people do you need to say "met this real person for a drink/shag/social and they were fun?" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He who cannot be named
You've said his name
Oh shit.........
Does this mean I have to have sex with everyone on the forum ? "
Form an orderly queue people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's been a full two minutes since I posted and I can't here the rumble of a stampede heading my way .....
You are ALL timewasters !
And there was me waiting to step in as a queue buster lol"
I said here instead of hear .... NO ONE will want me now 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"should you expect verifications? especially if you have given some one a glowing one...or just accept that some people just dont like giving them ?? "
It is reasonable to expect one if you have given one yourself, Its good manners to give one if you have received one and even if you don't want to give one its bad manners not to explain why.
well that my view for what its worth
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"It's been a full two minutes since I posted and I can't here the rumble of a stampede heading my way .....
You are ALL timewasters !
And there was me waiting to step in as a queue buster lol
I said here instead of hear .... NO ONE will want me now
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I can think of worse things.... or can I?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There all out getting bread and milk
Is this Feed a Hedgehog Week ?"
Hahahahahaha OMG!!! I wrote there instead of they're
You are making me check my punctuation now and its not a school day! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There all out getting bread and milk
Is this Feed a Hedgehog Week ?
Hahahahahaha OMG!!! I wrote there instead of they're
You are making me check my punctuation now and its not a school day!"
So you did ! No sex for you then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There all out getting bread and milk
Is this Feed a Hedgehog Week ?
Hahahahahaha OMG!!! I wrote there instead of they're
As for you madam. Your punctuation will be monitored velly carefurry!
Tut tut tut..... this forum is rapidly going down hill "
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"There all out getting bread and milk
Is this Feed a Hedgehog Week ?
Hahahahahaha OMG!!! I wrote there instead of they're
As for you madam. Your punctuation will be monitored velly carefurry!
Tut tut tut..... this forum is rapidly going down hill "
Oi! Watch where you’re responding! Or at least warm your hands and give me a warning before slotting one in like that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There all out getting bread and milk
Is this Feed a Hedgehog Week ?
Hahahahahaha OMG!!! I wrote there instead of they're
As for you madam. Your punctuation will be monitored velly carefurry!
Tut tut tut..... this forum is rapidly going down hill
Oi! Watch where you’re responding! Or at least warm your hands and give me a warning before slotting one in like that!"
It's official! I'm as bad at finding the right place as a blindfolded virgin in the dark! Pass the bullets. |
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"There all out getting bread and milk
Is this Feed a Hedgehog Week ?
Hahahahahaha OMG!!! I wrote there instead of they're
As for you madam. Your punctuation will be monitored velly carefurry!
Tut tut tut..... this forum is rapidly going down hill
Oi! Watch where you’re responding! Or at least warm your hands and give me a warning before slotting one in like that!
It's official! I'm as bad at finding the right place as a blindfolded virgin in the dark! Pass the bullets. "
You are joking! You with bullets! With your aim |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't meet many people to be honest. More into quality than quantity, though more than 1 person at a time is great too PMSL. I don't feel comfortable leaving feedback for someone I didn't "click" with. I'm a nice person but I don't like to fanny around the bush as it were, trying to find nice words to describe a session which wasn't great for either of us. I am quite happy showing my feedback, why be on a bloody "swingers","slappers" website AND be shy, to me they are complete opposite sides of the spectrum. |
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" I am quite happy showing my feedback, why be on a bloody "swingers","slappers" website AND be shy, to me they are complete opposite sides of the spectrum. "
I may come back to the 'slappers' comment... or I may just leave that for someone else.
However, with regards to the comment about being shy... people choosong to not show their verifications is nothing to do with being shy. Why do you need to know who I have met? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't meet many people to be honest. More into quality than quantity, though more than 1 person at a time is great too PMSL. I don't feel comfortable leaving feedback for someone I didn't "click" with. I'm a nice person but I don't like to fanny around the bush as it were, trying to find nice words to describe a session which wasn't great for either of us. I am quite happy showing my feedback, why be on a bloody "swingers","slappers" website AND be shy, to me they are complete opposite sides of the spectrum. "
don't think you'll meet many in the future either if you call us "slappers" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have got about 6 feedbacks here on fab, but have 30 plus on another site. We contacted a couple a little while back and the guy said he didn't want to shag a fanny that had been cocked more times than John Wayne's rifle. |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't meet many people to be honest..... why be on a bloody "swingers","slappers" website "
Doesnt meet many people. hmmm I wonder why?
Taking a deep breath....and block... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well i bet the slappers comment just cut down his opportunitys greatly unless its to meet him to slap him seein how we are slappers!!
i may be a slapper but im a fussy one and i wouldnt do him with a syphillis infected lady area!!!
if we are slappers what does that make single guys??
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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wow.... bet he is regretting the slappers comment now... but hey... thanks for the true insight!!!
Anyway.. back to verifications...
I only show the ones that I am confortable with anyway... and for me if I don't feel duely oblieged to give verification... I think I have been lucky where I have found people I would WANT to actually give them...
if people decide to verify me, that cool.. if not, I'll live... as someone said above me a few posts back... it a bonus! I don't feel the need to be in some sort of popularity contest |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" I am quite happy showing my feedback, why be on a bloody "swingers","slappers" website AND be shy, to me they are complete opposite sides of the spectrum.
I may come back to the 'slappers' comment... or I may just leave that for someone else.
However, with regards to the comment about being shy... people choosong to not show their verifications is nothing to do with being shy. Why do you need to know who I have met?"
I agree with you with regards to seeing who other people have been with and vice versa.
As for the "slappers" comment? Comes as no surprise really I think a few single men think that hence the "been here couple of hours and not had a shag yet" posts we get on a daily basis, along with the "looking to shag your wife but I wouldn't swing if I were married" comments posted. Deep down some feel women are just that: slappers!
Can't see em lining up to play with you anytime soon! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" ..........I don't feel the need to be in some sort of popularity contest
There seem to be an awful lot of members who do. Some actually seem to quite competitive about it."
Yes, I've noticed that too! |
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" ..........I don't feel the need to be in some sort of popularity contest
There seem to be an awful lot of members who do. Some actually seem to quite competitive about it.
Yes, I've noticed that too! "
It's hard to miss sometimes. |
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"Wouldn't it be a novel idea if everyone accepted everyone else's preferences without question.  "
For that to happen people would need to stop insisting their way means something or proves something... which it doesn't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Popularity contest?????
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Is there a boobie prize???
Which boobie would you like to win?"
I do have my faves
Ohhhh and PS, YES Rugby, that would be nice, (acceptance of others ) |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Wouldn't it be a novel idea if everyone accepted everyone else's preferences without question.
For that to happen people would need to stop insisting their way means something or proves something... which it doesn't."
Ah, now there is where the problem lies, not all people like others to do things their way.
I say "tough" we are here to please US |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Wouldn't it be a novel idea if everyone accepted everyone else's preferences without question.
Novel, but dull.
But less judgemental."
very radical that!!! what would people have to then moan about.... lol you'd only have half the post that you did now... and we wouldn't really need mods...
where would "grumpy old men" like me resides.....
damn... you have opened up a whole new can of worms there..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i give verifications. I accept them also. put em on for a little while then hide the feckers. everyone lies and sez am a good shag when I know am a lazy one. so dont want to be sued under the trades description act |
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"Wouldn't it be a novel idea if everyone accepted everyone else's preferences without question.
For that to happen people would need to stop insisting their way means something or proves something... which it doesn't.
Ah, now there is where the problem lies, not all people like others to do things their way.
I say "tough" we are here to please US "
If everyone did everything the same way.... sifting pm's would be a nightmare! |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Wouldn't it be a novel idea if everyone accepted everyone else's preferences without question.
For that to happen people would need to stop insisting their way means something or proves something... which it doesn't.
Ah, now there is where the problem lies, not all people like others to do things their way.
I say "tough" we are here to please US
If everyone did everything the same way.... sifting pm's would be a nightmare! "
And what a boring world that would be, if we all did things the same way, we would all be clones of each other !
Scarey thought that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"always give verifys and expect
them in return
manners!!
I just love the way (and this isn't just you) people blame bad manners (not the group) for not getting what they want.
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I do not mind bad verifys -just honest ones - if one meets - then one has gone to a lot of trouble - can expect a verify that takes 30 secs surely |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"always give verifys and expect
them in return
manners!!"
brings up an interested situation..
okay.... can i play devils advocate just because i am in grumpy old man mode...
not just for you... but for all of the people who gave the same opinion as you
Say if you enjoyed a meet and verified then... and as you said it would be manners not to send you one back... so they send you one back and it wasn't as glowing as you thought it would be (so you enjoyed the meet more than they did!)
would you actually show it????
just curious.... |
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"always give verifys and expect
them in return
manners!!
I just love the way (and this isn't just you) people blame bad manners (not the group) for not getting what they want.
I do not mind bad verifys -just honest ones - if one meets - then one has gone to a lot of trouble - can expect a verify that takes 30 secs surely"
I am sure you don't mean to imply that you have put yourself out by meeting someone and therefore 'expect' something to show for it. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"for not getting what they want.
I do not mind bad verifys -just honest ones - if one meets - then one has gone to a lot of trouble - can expect a verify that takes 30 secs surely"
so you showing the bad verifys then???? if so i think you would be the first... |
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"for not getting what they want.
I do not mind bad verifys -just honest ones - if one meets - then one has gone to a lot of trouble - can expect a verify that takes 30 secs surely
so you showing the bad verifys then???? if so i think you would be the first..."
bad verifys ??what are they |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"It’s nice to ACCEPT it’s rude to EXPECT
That about sums it all up 
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works for me... but apparently we are all duty bound to write them something....
mind you if someone gets annoyed because of the small fact they didn't write you a verification when you had written them one, I would be temepted to suggest they take there swinging just a tiny bit too seriously.....
It's suppose to be fun!!!!
in the grand scheme of things... it is really worth the blip on the radar that some people seem to give it.... |
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At the end of the day it is a nice bonus that someone takes the time to give a verification it means we did something right lol but I dont think we would want a profile that was full of them it would take far to long for folks to get to our pics lol |
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"At the end of the day it is a nice bonus that someone takes the time to give a verification it means we did something right lol but I dont think we would want a profile that was full of them it would take far to long for folks to get to our pics lol"
Sorry to burst your bubble (so to speak) but according to some bits of this thread it doesn't mean you did something right... it means they sent you one because they are expecting one back.... which kind of devalues verifications even more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally I think keeping in touch with people and inviting them back would be enough... but hey what do I know."
Those are my thoughts exactly,that is worth far more than a veri to me |
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i think a return visit speaks more than a perfunctionary verification. kind of like writin a thank you letter to the dotty aunty for the second hand box of hankies! but in sayin that people who been here for donkeys but have no verifications i do tend to avoid! x |
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"At the end of the day it is a nice bonus that someone takes the time to give a verification it means we did something right lol but I dont think we would want a profile that was full of them it would take far to long for folks to get to our pics lol
Sorry to burst your bubble (so to speak) but according to some bits of this thread it doesn't mean you did something right... it means they sent you one because they are expecting one back.... which kind of devalues verifications even more. "
Ok fair enough that can be the case, we have in the past had someone leave a fake verification in the hope that they would get one back (we did report it) as i said before we get 1 verification for every 3 or 4 meets its no biggie for us if we get one or not but we often find that the people who have left us one do want to meet again thats why i said we must have done something right i should have made that clear sorry x |
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"Has anyone ever actually sent a less than favourable verification to anyone, far less seen one posted on a profile?
I've sent a few  "
........ and see any of them posted on the recipients profile? |
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"Has anyone ever actually sent a less than favourable verification to anyone, far less seen one posted on a profile?
I've sent a few
........ and see any of them posted on the recipients profile?"
seen. Sorry. |
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"Has anyone ever actually sent a less than favourable verification to anyone, far less seen one posted on a profile?
I've sent a few
........ and see any of them posted on the recipients profile?
seen. Sorry."
Nope - but they did the job they were meant to do |
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"Has anyone ever actually sent a less than favourable verification to anyone, far less seen one posted on a profile?"
Yes we spotted 1 only the other day and must admit having a good old laugh about it as the person who had recieved it had put a reply to it in the status part of the profile.
"how dare people can say im rude,all the hospitality that i gave them cuppa tea n vodka n for their woman,"
It was so funny we even unblocked the person so we could read it all. |
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