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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yes doesnt mean you cant look though does it. if handsome men want to meet me then i dont worry if they are out of my league, my self esteem isnt that low.
its not all about looks anyway. |
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I don't think anyone is out if anyone's league. I used to really fancy one girl a few years back but once I got to know her she became less attractive because of her personality.... or lack of it. I know it's a cliché but real beauty is within and although looks are the initial thing that attracts us to eachother, what is inside is what seals the deal. |
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"Do you think people are out of your league...I saw the most handsome guy and I had to tell him...that he was handsome however I know I am out of his league....  "
Sound like reverse psychology to me - did he respond by whipping out a bouquet of flowers and writing you a poem? |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
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"yes doesnt mean you cant look though does it. if handsome men want to meet me then i dont worry if they are out of my league, my self esteem isnt that low.
its not all about looks anyway."
No I know it's not just about looks but I guess I have an ideal....my self esteem is not that low either...to worry about it I just admire from afar.. |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Do you think people are out of your league...I saw the most handsome guy and I had to tell him...that he was handsome however I know I am out of his league....
Sound like reverse psychology to me - did he respond by whipping out a bouquet of flowers and writing you a poem? "
No he deleted my message it was not on here but on a dating site lol... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't think anyone is out if anyone's league. I used to really fancy one girl a few years back but once I got to know her she became less attractive because of her personality.... or lack of it. I know it's a cliché but real beauty is within and although looks are the initial thing that attracts us to eachother, what is inside is what seals the deal."
Thats very true |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally though I'd be willing to take a shot at most women on here, its much tougher for single males of course due to competition having priced so many of these ladies right out of the market. |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Personally though I'd be willing to take a shot at most women on here, its much tougher for single males of course due to competition having priced so many of these ladies right out of the market."
And so you should... |
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as a previous poster said i'll admire from afar, perhaps send a friendly message and if i get a response bonus.
baffles me when i get messages saying 'i know your out of my league but just wanted to say..' Think thats guys attempting to bullshit me as being frankly honest im a plain jane.
I have used the term 'out of my league' but only in regards to how a mans physical appearance is. I still do believe that like attracts like (good looking folk date good looking folk etc) |
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I dont think along the lines that i am out of someone's league or they are out of mine. I just accept that not everyone is attracted to me.
A good looking woman i know says she goes for 'plain' (her words) guys so that they dont attract attention from her! Bloody cheeky but got to love her thinking! |
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I think the way people carry themselves leads to others placing them in "leagues" or strata a lot of the time.
I know in real life, there are certain types of women i'd love to approach, but in my head, the scenario of being laughed at all the way out of earshot prevents me from doing so. A lot of the time, its not even down to looks. I just convince myself that they'd want nothing to do with "a guy like me"
So that's an out of my league situation. It can be the same on sites like this one too. Doesn't make me any less confident the other 90% of the time though. |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I think the way people carry themselves leads to others placing them in "leagues" or strata a lot of the time.
I know in real life, there are certain types of women i'd love to approach, but in my head, the scenario of being laughed at all the way out of earshot prevents me from doing so. A lot of the time, its not even down to looks. I just convince myself that they'd want nothing to do with "a guy like me"
So that's an out of my league situation. It can be the same on sites like this one too. Doesn't make me any less confident the other 90% of the time though."
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The OP summed it up when she said that it was on a dating site and not FAB. Bit misleading to begin with.
The reality of it is that women are far more 'sought after' on here due to the nature of the site - namely consequence free sex, supposedly. On that basis it appeals to men far more than women, typically.
If the OP put a cheeky bum shot on her profile chances are that it would be in the most fabbed list especially if the profile text said something like 'come and get it boys, I like cock hard and fast......'
Just look at the ratio of guys to couples and especially single females and you get the picture.
If you're after a meaningful, lasting relationship then this probably not the site. Not to say that it doesn't happen, but, it less likely to be the solution. Also, if you have 'self image' issues then perhaps best to give it a wide berth since the the guys you meet here will just want sex, simple as. Chances are they'll also be attached, contrary to what you'll be told to begin with.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I will message them and talk but i always wait for them to make the move on saying they would like to meet me or something as id feel a twat of tjey said no and were only messaging out of politeness |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you think people are out of your league...I saw the most handsome guy and I had to tell him...that he was handsome however I know I am out of his league.... "
Why are you out of his league?..he could be a monumental asshole.
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
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"The OP summed it up when she said that it was on a dating site and not FAB. Bit misleading to begin with.
The reality of it is that women are far more 'sought after' on here due to the nature of the site - namely consequence free sex, supposedly. On that basis it appeals to men far more than women, typically.
If the OP put a cheeky bum shot on her profile chances are that it would be in the most fabbed list especially if the profile text said something like 'come and get it boys, I like cock hard and fast......'
Just look at the ratio of guys to couples and especially single females and you get the picture.
If you're after a meaningful, lasting relationship then this probably not the site. Not to say that it doesn't happen, but, it less likely to be the solution. Also, if you have 'self image' issues then perhaps best to give it a wide berth since the the guys you meet here will just want sex, simple as. Chances are they'll also be attached, contrary to what you'll be told to begin with.
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I have no self image issues but thanks for the advice... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you think people are out of your league...I saw the most handsome guy and I had to tell him...that he was handsome however I know I am out of his league.... "
I don't normally tell them, gob wide open, normally gives it away that I think there hot as.
Don't believe in leagues. There's folk your attracted to and there's folk you ain't attracted to. Much more simpler.
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nobodys out of any 1s leage an if someone thinks your not good enough for them then chances are they arnt good enough for you
persanally I can't stand wemem that think there gorgeous. even tho im an ugmo of the first degree im humam I have feelings like "most" an if you think im no good cos of my looks then belive me its not me thats ugly no matter what the mirror says |
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"as a previous poster said i'll admire from afar, perhaps send a friendly message and if i get a response bonus.
baffles me when i get messages saying 'i know your out of my league but just wanted to say..' Think thats guys attempting to bullshit me as being frankly honest im a plain jane.
I have used the term 'out of my league' but only in regards to how a mans physical appearance is. I still do believe that like attracts like (good looking folk date good looking folk etc)"
You are stunning !!!! As defo nothing plain about you x |
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"nobodys out of any 1s leage an if someone thinks your not good enough for them then chances are they arnt good enough for you
persanally I can't stand wemem that think there gorgeous. even tho im an ugmo of the first degree im humam I have feelings like "most" an if you think im no good cos of my looks then belive me its not me thats ugly no matter what the mirror says"
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"Do you think people are out of your league...I saw the most handsome guy and I had to tell him...that he was handsome however I know I am out of his league....
Why are you out of his league?..he could be a monumental asshole.
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see thump knows lissen or els |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes I often think this. There are some very gorgeous men (and women) on here and I truly know I wouldn't be to most of their tastes. However there are others on here how seem to think I'm sexy and cute so in happy lol
I have met a guy a few times who is totally my type but not nessecarily gods gift and gorgeous just my certain type and he clearly thinks I'm below him and out of his league. I do feel a second best choice for him and I'm sure he would rather someone prettier younger and slimmer! Shame cos we are very compatible sex wise, both into certain things and get so turned on instantly together. But I get the impression when I'm gone he regrets it. Needless to say I wot be meeting him again. Don't need anyone to make me feel second best.
And op you are stunning! I'd be surprised if anyone was out of your league   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Something i have wondered about............
does it make a difference how you say it?
To my mind if i say " they are out of my league" it means i think they are too good for me,
but i i say "i am out of their league" it sounds like i am saying i am too good for them.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I often think some guys are out of my league but that soon passes and I continue to be just me, if someone likes me, great, if they don't, I never let it get to me. We all have preferences after all. |
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"as a previous poster said i'll admire from afar, perhaps send a friendly message and if i get a response bonus.
baffles me when i get messages saying 'i know your out of my league but just wanted to say..' Think thats guys attempting to bullshit me as being frankly honest im a plain jane.
I have used the term 'out of my league' but only in regards to how a mans physical appearance is. I still do believe that like attracts like (good looking folk date good looking folk etc)"
Cute you shouldn't sell yourself short, your witty, polite and kind. What's not to like, let people choose, beauty starts from with in. As for Jess if most people bothered to get to meet you they be back for more.
If people are only after a toned body and brad Pitt looks that is their choice. |
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"Yes I often think this. There are some very gorgeous men (and women) on here and I truly know I wouldn't be to most of their tastes. However there are others on here how seem to think I'm sexy and cute so in happy lol
I have met a guy a few times who is totally my type but not nessecarily gods gift and gorgeous just my certain type and he clearly thinks I'm below him and out of his league. I do feel a second best choice for him and I'm sure he would rather someone prettier younger and slimmer! Shame cos we are very compatible sex wise, both into certain things and get so turned on instantly together. But I get the impression when I'm gone he regrets it. Needless to say I wot be meeting him again. Don't need anyone to make me feel second best.
And op you are stunning! I'd be surprised if anyone was out of your league "
he sounds like a compleat arse to me.........sorry |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you think people are out of your league...I saw the most handsome guy and I had to tell him...that he was handsome however I know I am out of his league.... "
Wot on fab? Or in your vanilla life ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes I often think this. There are some very gorgeous men (and women) on here and I truly know I wouldn't be to most of their tastes. However there are others on here how seem to think I'm sexy and cute so in happy lol
I have met a guy a few times who is totally my type but not nessecarily gods gift and gorgeous just my certain type and he clearly thinks I'm below him and out of his league. I do feel a second best choice for him and I'm sure he would rather someone prettier younger and slimmer! Shame cos we are very compatible sex wise, both into certain things and get so turned on instantly together. But I get the impression when I'm gone he regrets it. Needless to say I wot be meeting him again. Don't need anyone to make me feel second best.
And op you are stunning! I'd be surprised if anyone was out of your league
he sounds like a compleat arse to me.........sorry"
Was thinking exactly the same |
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Let me pose a question to you all:
Guys: Would you consider someone like Beyonce out of your league?
Women: Same applies to Brad Pitt.
Feel free to substitute your celebrity of choice in the above.
The point is to consider the type of people they associate themselves with (including meet for casual sex), and their "status". Suddenly, the whole "leagues" thing doesn't seem so far fetched. |
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I treat swinging more like a knock-out competition than a league table and although I’m usually eliminated in the early rounds it doesn't cramp my enthusiasm for the game......  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Let me pose a question to you all:
Guys: Would you consider someone like Beyonce out of your league?
Women: Same applies to Brad Pitt.
Feel free to substitute your celebrity of choice in the above.
The point is to consider the type of people they associate themselves with (including meet for casual sex), and their "status". Suddenly, the whole "leagues" thing doesn't seem so far fetched."
Think Angelina Jolie might have something to say |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Yes I often think this. There are some very gorgeous men (and women) on here and I truly know I wouldn't be to most of their tastes. However there are others on here how seem to think I'm sexy and cute so in happy lol
I have met a guy a few times who is totally my type but not nessecarily gods gift and gorgeous just my certain type and he clearly thinks I'm below him and out of his league. I do feel a second best choice for him and I'm sure he would rather someone prettier younger and slimmer! Shame cos we are very compatible sex wise, both into certain things and get so turned on instantly together. But I get the impression when I'm gone he regrets it. Needless to say I wot be meeting him again. Don't need anyone to make me feel second best.
And op you are stunning! I'd be surprised if anyone was out of your league "
He sounds like a knob jockey... |
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"Let me pose a question to you all:
Guys: Would you consider someone like Beyonce out of your league?
Women: Same applies to Brad Pitt.
Feel free to substitute your celebrity of choice in the above.
The point is to consider the type of people they associate themselves with (including meet for casual sex), and their "status". Suddenly, the whole "leagues" thing doesn't seem so far fetched.
Think Angelina Jolie might have something to say "
fuck it she can join beyonce think they would make 1 hell of a tag team |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Let me pose a question to you all:
Guys: Would you consider someone like Beyonce out of your league?
Women: Same applies to Brad Pitt.
Feel free to substitute your celebrity of choice in the above.
The point is to consider the type of people they associate themselves with (including meet for casual sex), and their "status". Suddenly, the whole "leagues" thing doesn't seem so far fetched.
Think Angelina Jolie might have something to say
fuck it she can join beyonce think they would make 1 hell of a tag team "
Now you are talking with little old plain jane me in the middle, hubba hubba  |
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"I treat swinging more like a knock-out competition than a league table and although I’m usually eliminated in the early rounds it doesn't cramp my enthusiasm for the game...... "
can always play ones joker.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Let me pose a question to you all:
Guys: Would you consider someone like Beyonce out of your league?
Women: Same applies to Brad Pitt.
Feel free to substitute your celebrity of choice in the above.
The point is to consider the type of people they associate themselves with (including meet for casual sex), and their "status". Suddenly, the whole "leagues" thing doesn't seem so far fetched.
Think Angelina Jolie might have something to say
fuck it she can join beyonce think they would make 1 hell of a tag team "
Trust you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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ive amazed myself at ho lucky i have been..i know its mainly just sex , I do feel im out of some peoples league when it comes to anything deeper
but for shagging purposes...its not a big deal really
* i say shagging but mean fun n laughs too lol...not really in a holes a goal manner |
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"Let me pose a question to you all:
Guys: Would you consider someone like Beyonce out of your league?
Women: Same applies to Brad Pitt.
Feel free to substitute your celebrity of choice in the above.
The point is to consider the type of people they associate themselves with (including meet for casual sex), and their "status". Suddenly, the whole "leagues" thing doesn't seem so far fetched.
Think Angelina Jolie might have something to say
fuck it she can join beyonce think they would make 1 hell of a tag team
Trust you "
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"Looks don't create a league, u can have most handsome guy or prettiest girl but if there personality is awful they are ugly"
Of course, and I agree, but that's when you KNOW someone, the OP is talking about an initial first assessment based on a dating site photo |
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"Let me pose a question to you all:
Guys: Would you consider someone like Beyonce out of your league?
Women: Same applies to Brad Pitt.
Feel free to substitute your celebrity of choice in the above.
The point is to consider the type of people they associate themselves with (including meet for casual sex), and their "status". Suddenly, the whole "leagues" thing doesn't seem so far fetched.
Think Angelina Jolie might have something to say
fuck it she can join beyonce think they would make 1 hell of a tag team
Now you are talking with little old plain jane me in the middle, hubba hubba "
well who am I to say no cum join the party......nibles are down there ......no down there silly haha |
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If you think your out of someone's league then your a vain c**t
If you think someone else is out of your, then that's a sign that your self conscious about your own looks
Which to be fair I am lol |
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"I treat swinging more like a knock-out competition than a league table and although I’m usually eliminated in the early rounds it doesn't cramp my enthusiasm for the game......
can always play ones joker.."
haha.... I keep that coverd with my frock.... |
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"Let me pose a question to you all:
Guys: Would you consider someone like Beyonce out of your league?
Women: Same applies to Brad Pitt.
Feel free to substitute your celebrity of choice in the above.
The point is to consider the type of people they associate themselves with (including meet for casual sex), and their "status". Suddenly, the whole "leagues" thing doesn't seem so far fetched.
Think Angelina Jolie might have something to say
fuck it she can join beyonce think they would make 1 hell of a tag team
Now you are talking with little old plain jane me in the middle, hubba hubba
well who am I to say no cum join the party......nibles are down there ......no down there silly haha"
Think you need to start an orgy thread |
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"Do you think people are out of your league...I saw the most handsome guy and I had to tell him...that he was handsome however I know I am out of his league.... "
Hello, being perhaps over analytical here - one of my many failings - if your dating side guy was so handsome, what was he actually DOING on a dating site ? Was the said guy in fact real or actually a 4'6" one eyed, 23 stone Hungarian midget called Boris ?
Also whatever the case, to delete your message without even a : "thanks, appreciate it" is fairly poor showing on a dating site as I would suspect that the average chap is not over inundated with messages on POF or the like. |
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"I treat swinging more like a knock-out competition than a league table and although I’m usually eliminated in the early rounds it doesn't cramp my enthusiasm for the game......
can always play ones joker..
haha.... I keep that coverd with my frock.... "
thought that was your trump card.. |
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"If you think your out of someone's league then your a vain c**t
If you think someone else is out of your, then that's a sign that your self conscious about your own looks
Which to be fair I am lol"
I disagree, I DON'T think it's vain to consider you are out of someone's league, was Gwyneth Paltrow being vain when she turned me down for the 72nd time ?
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"Do you think people are out of your league...I saw the most handsome guy and I had to tell him...that he was handsome however I know I am out of his league....
Hello, being perhaps over analytical here - one of my many failings - if your dating side guy was so handsome, what was he actually DOING on a dating site ? Was the said guy in fact real or actually a 4'6" one eyed, 23 stone Hungarian midget called Boris ?"
You sir! Are a legend |
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"If you think your out of someone's league then your a vain c**t
If you think someone else is out of your, then that's a sign that your self conscious about your own looks
Which to be fair I am lol"
Why would a plain jane be a cunt for thinking she is out of someone's league |
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"Do you think people are out of your league...I saw the most handsome guy and I had to tell him...that he was handsome however I know I am out of his league....
Hello, being perhaps over analytical here - one of my many failings - if your dating side guy was so handsome, what was he actually DOING on a dating site ? Was the said guy in fact real or actually a 4'6" one eyed, 23 stone Hungarian midget called Boris ?
You sir! Are a legend"
only in my own mind, lol !!! |
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"If you think your out of someone's league then your a vain c**t
If you think someone else is out of your, then that's a sign that your self conscious about your own looks
Which to be fair I am lol
Why would a plain jane be a cunt for thinking she is out of someone's league "
Because saying you are out of someone's league is basically saying you think your better than someone.
At least that's how I see it |
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Lol everyone that replied to my comment he is a total arse! Unfortunately it took me a couple of meets to realise this did hurt my feelings and knock my confidence slightly along with the messages I get about being today to fuck or your not my usual type (young and skinny) but I will close my eyes when you suck my cock! However I'm getting a lot stronger and just laugh at this now. Says more about them then me |
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"If you think your out of someone's league then your a vain c**t
If you think someone else is out of your, then that's a sign that your self conscious about your own looks
Which to be fair I am lol
Why would a plain jane be a cunt for thinking she is out of someone's league
Because saying you are out of someone's league is basically saying you think your better than someone.
At least that's how I see it"
And that's fair enough, I wouldn't dream of trying to invalidate your opinion, I don't consider myself anything special, but surely there are ALWAYS going to be some people that you think : " sorry not for me" based purely on looks, just as there are going to be a percentage that think the same of you ?
I know where you are coming from but I just think it's a factor of human evolution and natural selection and personal taste |
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over a year ago
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"Do you think people are out of your league...I saw the most handsome guy and I had to tell him...that he was handsome however I know I am out of his league.... "
Don't ever think you are out of some ones leauge, you are a lovely lady (love the pics by the way x) who can have anyone.
Looks can some times be deceiving, we work with people ranging from normal/average to stunning beautiful, sometimes the beautiful ones are as sexy as a wet fish where as we can't get enough of the normal/average peeps lol!.
Its his loss not yours if he don't return your message...keep your head up & have fun xx |
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"Lol everyone that replied to my comment he is a total arse! Unfortunately it took me a couple of meets to realise this did hurt my feelings and knock my confidence slightly along with the messages I get about being today to fuck or your not my usual type (young and skinny) but I will close my eyes when you suck my cock! However I'm getting a lot stronger and just laugh at this now. Says more about them then me "
Arrogant fookwit! You deserve better and good for you for not going back xxxx |
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"Lol everyone that replied to my comment he is a total arse! Unfortunately it took me a couple of meets to realise this did hurt my feelings and knock my confidence slightly along with the messages I get about being today to fuck or your not my usual type (young and skinny) but I will close my eyes when you suck my cock! However I'm getting a lot stronger and just laugh at this now. Says more about them then me "
That's not " out of anyone's league ", that's just called "plain fucking rude" pardon my French. |
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over a year ago
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"If you think your out of someone's league then your a vain c**t
If you think someone else is out of your, then that's a sign that your self conscious about your own looks
Which to be fair I am lol
Why would a plain jane be a cunt for thinking she is out of someone's league
Because saying you are out of someone's league is basically saying you think your better than someone.
At least that's how I see it"
Bollocks, no I don't at all, I have see a fair few handsome guys this morning whilst perusing and think they wouldn't be interested in me because they are handsome and I, like I said am a plain jane ergo not pretty enough for them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol everyone that replied to my comment he is a total arse! Unfortunately it took me a couple of meets to realise this did hurt my feelings and knock my confidence slightly along with the messages I get about being today to fuck or your not my usual type (young and skinny) but I will close my eyes when you suck my cock! However I'm getting a lot stronger and just laugh at this now. Says more about them then me "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you think your out of someone's league then your a vain c**t
If you think someone else is out of your, then that's a sign that your self conscious about your own looks
Which to be fair I am lol
Why would a plain jane be a cunt for thinking she is out of someone's league
Because saying you are out of someone's league is basically saying you think your better than someone.
At least that's how I see it
And that's fair enough, I wouldn't dream of trying to invalidate your opinion, I don't consider myself anything special, but surely there are ALWAYS going to be some people that you think : " sorry not for me" based purely on looks, just as there are going to be a percentage that think the same of you ?
I know where you are coming from but I just think it's a factor of human evolution and natural selection and personal taste"
He is actually commenting on my comment, not yours |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let me pose a question to you all:
Guys: Would you consider someone like Beyonce out of your league?
Women: Same applies to Brad Pitt.
Feel free to substitute your celebrity of choice in the above.
The point is to consider the type of people they associate themselves with (including meet for casual sex), and their "status". Suddenly, the whole "leagues" thing doesn't seem so far fetched.
Think Angelina Jolie might have something to say
fuck it she can join beyonce think they would make 1 hell of a tag team
Now you are talking with little old plain jane me in the middle, hubba hubba
well who am I to say no cum join the party......nibles are down there ......no down there silly haha
Think you need to start an orgy thread "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you think your out of someone's league then your a vain c**t
If you think someone else is out of your, then that's a sign that your self conscious about your own looks
Which to be fair I am lol
Why would a plain jane be a cunt for thinking she is out of someone's league
Because saying you are out of someone's league is basically saying you think your better than someone.
At least that's how I see it
And that's fair enough, I wouldn't dream of trying to invalidate your opinion, I don't consider myself anything special, but surely there are ALWAYS going to be some people that you think : " sorry not for me" based purely on looks, just as there are going to be a percentage that think the same of you ?
I know where you are coming from but I just think it's a factor of human evolution and natural selection and personal taste"
Yeah, I'd see someone I'm not interested in but it's not in any 'League' sort of way, but then again, I'll meet nearlycanyone to be fair
I have no real preference, |
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"If you think your out of someone's league then your a vain c**t
If you think someone else is out of your, then that's a sign that your self conscious about your own looks
Which to be fair I am lol
Why would a plain jane be a cunt for thinking she is out of someone's league
Because saying you are out of someone's league is basically saying you think your better than someone.
At least that's how I see it
And that's fair enough, I wouldn't dream of trying to invalidate your opinion, I don't consider myself anything special, but surely there are ALWAYS going to be some people that you think : " sorry not for me" based purely on looks, just as there are going to be a percentage that think the same of you ?
I know where you are coming from but I just think it's a factor of human evolution and natural selection and personal taste
He is actually commenting on my comment, not yours"
Apologies both, for my confusion. |
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"I don't think anyone is out if anyone's league. I used to really fancy one girl a few years back but once I got to know her she became less attractive because of her personality.... or lack of it. I know it's a cliché but real beauty is within and although looks are the initial thing that attracts us to eachother, what is inside is what seals the deal."
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Do you think people are out of your league...I saw the most handsome guy and I had to tell him...that he was handsome however I know I am out of his league....
Hello, being perhaps over analytical here - one of my many failings - if your dating side guy was so handsome, what was he actually DOING on a dating site ? Was the said guy in fact real or actually a 4'6" one eyed, 23 stone Hungarian midget called Boris ?
Also whatever the case, to delete your message without even a : "thanks, appreciate it" is fairly poor showing on a dating site as I would suspect that the average chap is not over inundated with messages on POF or the like."
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"I think the way people carry themselves leads to others placing them in "leagues" or strata a lot of the time.
I know in real life, there are certain types of women i'd love to approach, but in my head, the scenario of being laughed at all the way out of earshot prevents me from doing so. A lot of the time, its not even down to looks. I just convince myself that they'd want nothing to do with "a guy like me"
So that's an out of my league situation. It can be the same on sites like this one too. Doesn't make me any less confident the other 90% of the time though."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you think your out of someone's league then your a vain c**t
If you think someone else is out of your, then that's a sign that your self conscious about your own looks
Which to be fair I am lol
Why would a plain jane be a cunt for thinking she is out of someone's league
Because saying you are out of someone's league is basically saying you think your better than someone.
At least that's how I see it
And that's fair enough, I wouldn't dream of trying to invalidate your opinion, I don't consider myself anything special, but surely there are ALWAYS going to be some people that you think : " sorry not for me" based purely on looks, just as there are going to be a percentage that think the same of you ?
I know where you are coming from but I just think it's a factor of human evolution and natural selection and personal taste
He is actually commenting on my comment, not yours
Apologies both, for my confusion."
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"The OP summed it up when she said that it was on a dating site and not FAB. Bit misleading to begin with.
The reality of it is that women are far more 'sought after' on here due to the nature of the site - namely consequence free sex, supposedly. On that basis it appeals to men far more than women, typically.
If the OP put a cheeky bum shot on her profile chances are that it would be in the most fabbed list especially if the profile text said something like 'come and get it boys, I like cock hard and fast......'
Just look at the ratio of guys to couples and especially single females and you get the picture.
If you're after a meaningful, lasting relationship then this probably not the site. Not to say that it doesn't happen, but, it less likely to be the solution. Also, if you have 'self image' issues then perhaps best to give it a wide berth since the the guys you meet here will just want sex, simple as. Chances are they'll also be attached, contrary to what you'll be told to begin with.
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"I see profiles on here all the time but most I wouldn't email b/c I feel that they'd take one look at me and say nope! lol
Mx "
I have to say I am quite surprised, ( and no offence intended here at all ), at they way people look at themselves, I can't see EXACTLY what you both look like from your profile, but if your profile was geared towards myself, I would most certainly NOT think about you both that way.
The same for the OP, your profile face photo is fairly small, but nontherless the only thing that would possibly make me NOT message you is your height, and that's my own height that would make me that way NOT yours.
I know this is a bit off topic and perhaps a bit openly blunt but it's what came to my mind. |
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"Yes I often think this. There are some very gorgeous men (and women) on here and I truly know I wouldn't be to most of their tastes. However there are others on here how seem to think I'm sexy and cute so in happy lol
I have met a guy a few times who is totally my type but not nessecarily gods gift and gorgeous just my certain type and he clearly thinks I'm below him and out of his league. I do feel a second best choice for him and I'm sure he would rather someone prettier younger and slimmer! Shame cos we are very compatible sex wise, both into certain things and get so turned on instantly together. But I get the impression when I'm gone he regrets it. Needless to say I wot be meeting him again. Don't need anyone to make me feel second best.
And op you are stunning! I'd be surprised if anyone was out of your league
he sounds like a compleat arse to me.........sorry"
Personally if someone's self esteem is so low they allow some bloke of a sex site where there are thousands of respectful men to choose from but pick up a turd, makes them feel like shit, sorry, no sympathy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I don't think anyone is out of my league and I would tell someone else I am out of their league either.
Yes please or no thank you is enough."
It then becomes about they want when it should be about what you both want. Never a good start.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No I don't think anyone is out of my league and I would tell someone else I am out of their league either.
Yes please or no thank you is enough.
It then becomes about they want when it should be about what you both want. Never a good start.
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Bloody typo I meant I would not tell someone I was out of their league.
I find people who put others down unattractive. |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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"I see profiles on here all the time but most I wouldn't email b/c I feel that they'd take one look at me and say nope! lol
Mx "
I see people say this quite regularly. I don't understand the hesitancy? So they maybe say no, is that such a big issue from behind a keyboard? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think anyone is out if anyone's league. I used to really fancy one girl a few years back but once I got to know her she became less attractive because of her personality.... or lack of it. I know it's a cliché but real beauty is within and although looks are the initial thing that attracts us to eachother, what is inside is what seals the deal."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I see profiles on here all the time but most I wouldn't email b/c I feel that they'd take one look at me and say nope! lol
Mx
I see people say this quite regularly. I don't understand the hesitancy? So they maybe say no, is that such a big issue from behind a keyboard? "
no, I am my own worst enemy...my husband says I need to "own it" lol |
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"I see profiles on here all the time but most I wouldn't email b/c I feel that they'd take one look at me and say nope! lol
Mx
I see people say this quite regularly. I don't understand the hesitancy? So they maybe say no, is that such a big issue from behind a keyboard? "
I think rejection is an issue regardless of the manner in which it is delivered. It is human nature after all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Reading through some of these comments, its interesting to see just how many people think a persons 'league' is almost entirely decided by how good-looking they are?
Not making excuses here, but I'm sure most of us are aware that MANY factors play into just what makes a person attractive (sexually, for the sake of this particular site) - intelligence, confidence, wit, empathy, sexual technique...surely a person with such qualities would pretty much qualify as being in anyone's league they so choose to be? |
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"Reading through some of these comments, its interesting to see just how many people think a persons 'league' is almost entirely decided by how good-looking they are?
Not making excuses here, but I'm sure most of us are aware that MANY factors play into just what makes a person attractive (sexually, for the sake of this particular site) - intelligence, confidence, wit, empathy, sexual technique...surely a person with such qualities would pretty much qualify as being in anyone's league they so choose to be?"
Yes they do, and I agree with you BUT with the caveat that in reality, dating sites and swinging sites are, by their nature, visualistic, first impression mediums based on the photographs offered for perusal.
I really wonder how many witty, intelligent photographs with no photographs get a message send compared to fairly brief ones with highly desirable images displayed ? |
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"Reading through some of these comments, its interesting to see just how many people think a persons 'league' is almost entirely decided by how good-looking they are?
Not making excuses here, but I'm sure most of us are aware that MANY factors play into just what makes a person attractive (sexually, for the sake of this particular site) - intelligence, confidence, wit, empathy, sexual technique...surely a person with such qualities would pretty much qualify as being in anyone's league they so choose to be?
Yes they do, and I agree with you BUT with the caveat that in reality, dating sites and swinging sites are, by their nature, visualistic, first impression mediums based on the photographs offered for perusal.
I really wonder how many witty, intelligent photographs with no photographs get a message send compared to fairly brief ones with highly desirable images displayed ?"
Sorry "profiles" NOT "PHOTOGRAPHS"
fat fingers, small phone buttons, well that's my excuse anyway ! |
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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago
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Don't think in terms of leagues, sometimes I think I may wasting my time but what the hell, sometimes I get lucky, sometimes very lucky!
As an older single bloke, with a beard, It should really be a struggle - wouldn't say i'm getting as much as I'd like, but I'm doing all right
Leagues-shmeagues - take a chance |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Reading through some of these comments, its interesting to see just how many people think a persons 'league' is almost entirely decided by how good-looking they are?
Not making excuses here, but I'm sure most of us are aware that MANY factors play into just what makes a person attractive (sexually, for the sake of this particular site) - intelligence, confidence, wit, empathy, sexual technique...surely a person with such qualities would pretty much qualify as being in anyone's league they so choose to be?
Yes they do, and I agree with you BUT with the caveat that in reality, dating sites and swinging sites are, by their nature, visualistic, first impression mediums based on the photographs offered for perusal.
I really wonder how many witty, intelligent photographs with no photographs get a message send compared to fairly brief ones with highly desirable images displayed ?"
Ah, but if the person WAS intelligent they'd understand the importance of having photographs in the first place? And of course, they may not be the most staggering handsome/beautiful person out there, but if they had confidence too, then they'd post a face pic of their glowing, brilliant smile, resonating with the self assuredness of a person who always knows how to make their sun shine every morning. |
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"Reading through some of these comments, its interesting to see just how many people think a persons 'league' is almost entirely decided by how good-looking they are?
Not making excuses here, but I'm sure most of us are aware that MANY factors play into just what makes a person attractive (sexually, for the sake of this particular site) - intelligence, confidence, wit, empathy, sexual technique...surely a person with such qualities would pretty much qualify as being in anyone's league they so choose to be?"
The almost, universal, immediate hook, is based on attraction. And that is almost always determined by an instant decision based on looks. Just the way it is. be it on here or in real life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No I don't think anyone is out of my league and I would tell someone else I am out of their league either.
Yes please or no thank you is enough.
It then becomes about they want when it should be about what you both want. Never a good start.
Bloody typo I meant I would not tell someone I was out of their league.
I find people who put others down unattractive."
I overlooked the typo because I understood the nature of your statement. |
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"Yes I often think this. There are some very gorgeous men (and women) on here and I truly know I wouldn't be to most of their tastes. However there are others on here how seem to think I'm sexy and cute so in happy lol
I have met a guy a few times who is totally my type but not nessecarily gods gift and gorgeous just my certain type and he clearly thinks I'm below him and out of his league. I do feel a second best choice for him and I'm sure he would rather someone prettier younger and slimmer! Shame cos we are very compatible sex wise, both into certain things and get so turned on instantly together. But I get the impression when I'm gone he regrets it. Needless to say I wot be meeting him again. Don't need anyone to make me feel second best.
And op you are stunning! I'd be surprised if anyone was out of your league
he sounds like a compleat arse to me.........sorry
Personally if someone's self esteem is so low they allow some bloke of a sex site where there are thousands of respectful men to choose from but pick up a turd, makes them feel like shit, sorry, no sympathy!"
Wasn't asking for sympathy!!!! Was saying its his issue not mine |
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"Do you think people are out of your league...I saw the most handsome guy and I had to tell him...that he was handsome however I know I am out of his league.... "
Never think that but often hear it. |
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There's no reason not to tell someone they are good looking but there's no need to humiliate yourself in the course of doing so.
No one is out of anyone's league, whatever a 'league' is.
I've wondered how beauties and fuglies get together ..... taste is unique. I don't wonder anymore. |
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"I don't think anyone is out if anyone's league. I used to really fancy one girl a few years back but once I got to know her she became less attractive because of her personality.... or lack of it. I know it's a cliché but real beauty is within and although looks are the initial thing that attracts us to eachother, what is inside is what seals the deal.
Well said i agree with this "
Me too ! Think he's had his softy juice this morning .... xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No one is out of my league and vice versa. However, there are people I am not interested in, and, likewise, there are people not interested in me."
I'd shag ya...dont worry |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you think people are out of your league...I saw the most handsome guy and I had to tell him...that he was handsome however I know I am out of his league.... "
We often get people telling us we are out of their league and its frustrating as all they have seen are a few pics!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you think people are out of your league...I saw the most handsome guy and I had to tell him...that he was handsome however I know I am out of his league.... "
I'm sure you weren't or he wouldn't have met you. You look very nice X |
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"Do you think people are out of your league...I saw the most handsome guy and I had to tell him...that he was handsome however I know I am out of his league.... We often get people telling us we are out of their league and its frustrating as all they have seen are a few pics!!"
Nice figure though, I must say ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Because men like variety and one woman is not enough long term for mine
Plus I'm a size 22 and he's gorgeous and fit and will wake up and smell the coffee sooner rather than later! |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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I dont look at people as being in or out of my league - they are just people and if they have enough in common with me then that is great for however long the "relationship" lasts. |
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"Because men like variety and one woman is not enough long term for mine
Plus I'm a size 22 and he's gorgeous and fit and will wake up and smell the coffee sooner rather than later!"
Its true men do like variety, doesnt matter what size you are though, men who have very slim partners still cheat on them. |
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By *msmithWoman
over a year ago
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"Because men like variety and one woman is not enough long term for mine
Plus I'm a size 22 and he's gorgeous and fit and will wake up and smell the coffee sooner rather than later!"
If you think like that, then why not get fit and be hot yourself? but do it for yourself and not for him! Because then he will smell the coffee and will want you!
I'm not fit myself, but am trying to lose weight for myself.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No
But i have had people ask my partners what they were doing with me / what they saw in me (and once or twice in front of me)
So i dont think anyone is out of my league but random strangers evidently do |
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"Do you think people are out of your league...I saw the most handsome guy and I had to tell him...that he was handsome however I know I am out of his league.... "
I do look at profiles and pics and think "ohhh if only"
If only i had long legs up to my arse....instead i have an arse down to me knees 
If only i had lush long locks instead of waking up looking like "ken dods dads dead dog"
If only i had gorgeous looks instead of "a face only a mother could love"
Some guys are extremely beautiful and fit and toned...
But i will keep perving regardless |
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By (user no longer on site)
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But i have had people ask my partners what they were doing with me / what they saw in me (and once or twice in front of me)
So i dont think anyone is out of my league but random strangers evidently do "
Now that's bloody rude |
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