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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

The amount of people on Fab who don't reply to messages is shocking and down right bloody rude! A simple no thanks would do!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

See although I reply to my emails I do not agree with you. The site doesnt give you an automatic 'no thanks' button which is a shame but people do not have to reply. It is their choice.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is this the first one in 2010

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I often find that if i do reply with a thanks but no thanks it seems to give the gent in question the freedom to re write back an it becomes an endless circle. So now if im not interested then i dont reply back ( in the past i always did) but no matter how you do it you cant win!! you cant please everyone

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By *artin216Man over a year ago

Spilsby

i thought id already replied to this...

in case i didnt

thats true....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The amount of people on Fab who don't reply to messages is shocking and down right bloody rude! A simple no thanks would do!

Maybe, looking at your todger, you ought to hold a little back!

oh for an unsolicited massage

wink on, winker

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple over a year ago

Bolton

Must be how a lot of folks feel for it to keep being posted on here dont ya think.

Maybe its something the site should deal with if thats the case

Steve

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I totally agree.... it's an outrage..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

we always reply,wether its yes or no,unless of course the writer hasnt bothered to look at our profile n simply leered at the pics,ie,outside our age range or not what we are looking for at all,in which case we believe the writer deserves to be blanked

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I often find that if i do reply with a thanks but no thanks it seems to give the gent in question the freedom to re write back an it becomes an endless circle. So now if im not interested then i dont reply back ( in the past i always did) but no matter how you do it you cant win!! you cant please everyone"

I think you are right in not replying. Some people just have to have the last word and if/when the exchange becomes hostile, thats when people get stressed and the inevitable happens

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple over a year ago

Bolton

Yes you have a very good point as we get that even when we have been polite and said no, that is the time we use delete cos they aint getting it

Steve

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Take a no reply as a thanks but no thanks and you wont go wrong!

But lets be honest for a minute, if your actively looking to meet people at least take a little time to put something on your profile, you managed more words with your rant on here.

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By *ouvakMan over a year ago

clacton on sea

it's all part of life's rich tapestry, no one will ever have the definitive answer to this age old question other than it's a matter of individual choice, after all arn't we all individuals !!!!!!,personally i take a no reply as being " sorry not interested" if i get a " not interested" then respectfully i'll thank them for doing so, like i said it's a personal choice thing, but just once in a while you can and do strike up a friendship even if you arn't " their type" so a reply can lead to something special even if it's not a meeting of bodies instead of minds.

These are my thoughts on the subject

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is this the first one in 2010

No it's the 2nd - he's posted the bugger twice, and I thought i was rude to repeat oneself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Must be how a lot of folks feel for it to keep being posted on here dont ya think.

Maybe its something the site should deal with if thats the case

Steve "

And just out of intrest Stevem what should the site do about it ?

Force people to reply ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am serious though no really I am

To design a no thanks button with a nice reponse message would stop all this whinging so not sure why the site owner doesnt do it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i had a few of them myself for no apart reason an when you report it 2 admin nothing gets done its a shame really

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am serious though no really I am

To design a no thanks button with a nice reponse message would stop all this whinging so not sure why the site owner doesnt do it?"

Then people would moan because folks were 'too lazy' to reply and used the auto responder

It's something that will never ever change and why should it. No one is ENTITLED to any form of reply.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

just suck it up n get on with life.....we're only visiting this planet...so no point in gettin ulcers sweating over the small stuff

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am serious though no really I am

To design a no thanks button with a nice reponse message would stop all this whinging so not sure why the site owner doesnt do it?"

Not sure it would. A couple of folk have already said that when they reply the get abuse back so a button as you suggest would quite likely still produce a negative response

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By *ouvakMan over a year ago

clacton on sea

[And just out of intrest Stevem what should the site do about it ?

Force people to reply ?

] how on earth can a site force someone to reply !!!!!! that would mean a site representitive would have to read every single mail and then instruct some members that the reply is pending. and issue notice that if no reply is made then a forfiet will be leveled on their account....... nope i can't see it working either lol nor can i see a " not interested" reply button working either because it still needs the individual to press it to make it work

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think you've misread my post Touv ...

I was being sarcastic when I suggested the site force people to reply

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By *ouvakMan over a year ago

clacton on sea

"I am serious though no really I am

To design a no thanks button with a nice reponse message would stop all this whinging so not sure why the site owner doesnt do it?

Not sure it would. A couple of folk have already said that when they reply the get abuse back so a button as you suggest would quite likely still produce a negative response

how about a " no sorry not interested" conjoined with a block facility ,,,,,,

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By *ouvakMan over a year ago

clacton on sea

"I think you've misread my post Touv ...

I was being sarcastic when I suggested the site force people to reply

"
no i didn't lol i was being retorically sarcastic lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

it's really easy..

dont blanket message..

will cut down the angst.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Or maybe a selection of buttons

1. Thanks but we are a little busy at this time but will keep you in mind

2. Thanks but no thanks

3. I think if you had read our profile properly you would see that your message was inappropriate and uncalled for.

4. Fuck off you ugly "been bobbing for chips" twat as you are without doubt the last person on the planet we would ever look to meet with

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

just do as i do and say on my profile that if i dont reply please take that as a polite not thank you and i wish you well in the swinging scene!!!

that way if they do reply you know they aint read your profile. then block lol

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By *adchickCouple over a year ago

Cyprus

Yet ANOTHER whinger with 1 line profile, cock picture who can't accommodate......

I wonder who replies to all the junk mail in his house?

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By *ouvakMan over a year ago

clacton on sea

"Or maybe a selection of buttons

1. Thanks but we are a little busy at this time but will keep you in mind

2. Thanks but no thanks

3. I think if you had read our profile properly you would see that your message was inappropriate and uncalled for.

4. Fuck off you ugly "been bobbing for chips" twat as you are without doubt the last person on the planet we would ever look to meet with

ooh my that last button is a bit harsh lol ,,,, sure to gleen some abuse i think

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Only suggestions of course

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By *adchickCouple over a year ago

Cyprus

"The amount of people on Fab who don't reply to messages is shocking and down right bloody rude! A simple no thanks would do!

It's called freedom of CHOICE.

I don't reply because single men have a tendancy to reply back with......

1. You are too fat for me anyway.

2. Your loss

3. I didn't really want to meet you anyway cus you are too ugly.

4. Why not.

5. Whats wrong with me?

6. Well fuck off then you stupid fat slag.

7. I thought someone as fat as you might be desperate and I was feeling kind.

Or worse.........

Until the site forces us to reply (at which point half the people on here will jump ship, you have no right to a reply.......

Why doesn't FAB put up a message before you click the join button. You have to tick it to say you've read it...... a simple statement saying about no replies, why won't people meet me etc... and if the whinging twats then put up a thread........ delete their profile and ban them as serial arseholes!

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By *ouvakMan over a year ago

clacton on sea

"Yet ANOTHER whinger with 1 line profile, cock picture who can't accommodate......

I wonder who replies to all the junk mail in his house?

"
don't you just love the one line profiles, if thats the size of their ability on paper then hells bells whats their bedroom statistic's likely to be ?????, and they all wonder why they get no replie's, surly they can't expect someone to make an effort if they can't do so themselves

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By *ouvakMan over a year ago

clacton on sea

"The amount of people on Fab who don't reply to messages is shocking and down right bloody rude! A simple no thanks would do!

It's called freedom of CHOICE.

I don't reply because single men have a tendancy to reply back with......

1. You are too fat for me anyway.

2. Your loss

3. I didn't really want to meet you anyway cus you are too ugly.

4. Why not.

5. Whats wrong with me?

6. Well fuck off then you stupid fat slag.

7. I thought someone as fat as you might be desperate and I was feeling kind.

Or worse.........

Until the site forces us to reply (at which point half the people on here will jump ship, you have no right to a reply.......

all hail the queen of over kill lol

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By *adchickCouple over a year ago

Cyprus

Alot of single men (not all) think that swinging is an easy shag and the women don't care who they meet.........

That appears to be the downfall of the persistant whingers on here!

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By *adchickCouple over a year ago

Cyprus

"The amount of people on Fab who don't reply to messages is shocking and down right bloody rude! A simple no thanks would do!

It's called freedom of CHOICE.

I don't reply because single men have a tendancy to reply back with......

1. You are too fat for me anyway.

2. Your loss

3. I didn't really want to meet you anyway cus you are too ugly.

4. Why not.

5. Whats wrong with me?

6. Well fuck off then you stupid fat slag.

7. I thought someone as fat as you might be desperate and I was feeling kind.

Or worse.........

Until the site forces us to reply (at which point half the people on here will jump ship, you have no right to a reply.......

all hail the queen of over kill lol

Welllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll........

Same thread, different day.... just to get on my fecking nerves I reckon!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The amount of people on Fab who don't reply to messages is shocking and down right bloody rude! A simple no thanks would do!

It's called freedom of CHOICE.

I don't reply because single men have a tendancy to reply back with......

1. You are too fat for me anyway.

2. Your loss

3. I didn't really want to meet you anyway cus you are too ugly.

4. Why not.

5. Whats wrong with me?

6. Well fuck off then you stupid fat slag.

7. I thought someone as fat as you might be desperate and I was feeling kind.

Or worse.........

Until the site forces us to reply (at which point half the people on here will jump ship, you have no right to a reply.......

all hail the queen of over kill lol

But 110% right though, well said

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

"I am serious though no really I am

To design a no thanks button with a nice reponse message would stop all this whinging so not sure why the site owner doesnt do it?"

Sadly it doesn't stop the complaining. We are on another site that has a "no thanks" auto reply, and people complain that they didn't even get a typed reply but just the automated one

Anyway he gets a prize for the first one of 2010

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is this the first one in 2010

No poppet.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

PS to the OP if you do a search in the forums you will find a whole shed load of these threads for you to find any answers on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

apparently im wrong again ... he won a prize

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By *adchickCouple over a year ago

Cyprus

"The amount of people on Fab who don't reply to messages is shocking and down right bloody rude! A simple no thanks would do!

It's called freedom of CHOICE.

I don't reply because single men have a tendancy to reply back with......

1. You are too fat for me anyway.

2. Your loss

3. I didn't really want to meet you anyway cus you are too ugly.

4. Why not.

5. Whats wrong with me?

6. Well fuck off then you stupid fat slag.

7. I thought someone as fat as you might be desperate and I was feeling kind.

Or worse.........

Until the site forces us to reply (at which point half the people on here will jump ship, you have no right to a reply.......

all hail the queen of over kill lol

But 110% right though, well said

I thank you ....

**Maddie does a curtsey to the masses**

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