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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's too many men on here lol. Been on here months and still got no meets and nearly every woman deletes my messages  "
Well do the rest of us a favour and bugger off  "sarcasm" |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"There's too many men on here lol. Been on here months and still got no meets and nearly every woman deletes my messages "
Errr that ll be the reason you ve not had much luck 
what do you suggest,,!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sell yourself. Highlight your attributes, get out to clubs and socials and get to know people through the forums and in the chat rooms.
Yes, its hard for us single guys but not impossible.... |
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"Can't cos I'm married and need to be discreet. But I do know there are a lot of married ppl on here, and ppl who don't let on they're attached"
Ah-ha! In that case, simply put that you're married in your profile. Married men have an advantage of not being clingy, turning up as their meet time is valuable and are discreet. Put a torso pic up then. Put in your profile not only what you want but what you can offer, your age range is confusing. You have to put something of your personality into your profile. IMO it is a tad too bland. Make it stand out. Don't make me mention Jedi mind tricks. |
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"Sell yourself. Highlight your attributes, get out to clubs and socials and get to know people through the forums and in the chat rooms.
Yes, its hard for us single guys but not impossible...."
Mine's hard  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sell yourself. Highlight your attributes, get out to clubs and socials and get to know people through the forums and in the chat rooms.
Yes, its hard for us single guys but not impossible....
Mine's hard "
Lmao.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's too many men on here lol. Been on here months and still got no meets and nearly every woman deletes my messages "
Perhaps it's down to attitude rather than too many men? |
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"Can't cos I'm married and need to be discreet. But I do know there are a lot of married ppl on here, and ppl who don't let on they're attached"
this may have occured to you..
ask your OH to join you, and meet other couples, single fems and guys for her etc..? |
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"im always amazed when men post numerous pics of their cock and nothing else and expect ladies to agree to meet them on the strength of that "
It always amazes me why married men start threads about not getting meets!  |
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"im always amazed when men post numerous pics of their cock and nothing else and expect ladies to agree to meet them on the strength of that
It always amazes me why married men start threads about not getting meets! "
yes, the sense of entitlement..  |
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"There's too many men on here lol. Been on here months and still got no meets and nearly every woman deletes my messages
This town ain't big enough for the both of us 
But I ain't gonna leave. "
 the pace of ...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't cos I'm married and need to be discreet. But I do know there are a lot of married ppl on here, and ppl who don't let on they're attached"
People just like you then!!
Nobody would have known you are married from your profile!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't cos I'm married and need to be discreet. But I do know there are a lot of married ppl on here, and ppl who don't let on they're attached"
Now i see this as a problem because you are pretending to be single when in fact you are not and if someone meets a person like you then the rest of us get tarred with the same brush.
Now you either need to get a couples account or talk to your wife about the reason you are not getting any.All you are doing is adding to the amount of single men on here when the reality is that you are already taken and spoiling it for the rest of us geniunly single men. |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
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Look at all the other similar posts on this issue, and there are clear defined aspects to deal with.
You have been on here only 3 months; is some respects, you are still a mere beginner! You have to give it time!!
If you thought this could be an "Instant Fix" site, think again!
Your profile, whilst it gives some details, lacks other information. Like, why you can't accommodate, which is a negative point unless you explain why!
Ditch the cock pics to private use only! You need to get a face pic included; look at things this way, if you went out on a meet, you wouldn't recognise people by their genitals, you'd know them by their faces!!
You need to get out to socials, or clubs in your area. Get on the Forums.
Yes, you are competing against many other guys but in short, you have to "sell yourself", get noticed and stand out against the rest of them.
But, as you've indicated in responses to this post, that you do inform anyone approaching you that you are actually married and what you seek, but then you don't get any further, doesn't that tell you something about your lack of honesty in your Profile?
People want to see clear and honest details.
Be honest from the start.
That way, you might get somewhere! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's too many men on here lol. Been on here months and still got no meets and nearly every woman deletes my messages "
There's not enough it would be even better if we had even more to choose from.  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"There's too many men on here lol. Been on here months and still got no meets and nearly every woman deletes my messages "
I tend to work by the union matra "last one in... first one out"... so do the decent thing... seeya!!!!  |
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"There's too many men on here lol. Been on here months and still got no meets and nearly every woman deletes my messages
although on the positive side,your wife's only been on here for a couple of months,and she's had plenty of meets. "
I literally spit my tea out laffing then..........plz dont do it again it hurts |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There's too many men on here lol. Been on here months and still got no meets and nearly every woman deletes my messages "
Rewritten my description, and uploaded new pics. Hope it brings more success lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There's too many men on here lol. Been on here months and still got no meets and nearly every woman deletes my messages
Diddums
pmsl"
Lol, picked the wrong place for sympathy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi I'm new here but there's plenty men even though I'm mature but speaking as a woman I wouldn't touch a married man with someone elses cos I wouldn't like 2 think if I was married my husband would be on a site like this |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've started divorce proceedings,haven't lived with the ex for 2 years.
How do I become classed as single on here
Any advice "
I'd simply write it in your profile. Most women will class that as single enough for swinging mate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's too many men on here lol. Been on here months and still got no meets and nearly every woman deletes my messages "
You're right OP - there's way too many of us!
So because i'm such a charitable soul I shall delete my profile this very night at the stroke of midnight - and in the meantime will rally as many other kindly souls to join me and redress the uneven balance of boobs vs balls to aid you in your quest for meets!
*of course I reserve the right to change my mind should I get an offer of a meet before midnight! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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honesty is the best policy ..state clearly what your status is and be polite and honest in your messages. I have been here a while have had some fantastic meets and met some fantastic people. Thats what this is about not notches on your bedpost. Relax be genuine and enjoy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think I've cracked your problem here old bean! Your arse looks sad. Grab yourself a marker pen, maybe a jolly green colour (any colour would do) and draw a smiley face on your arse photograph and post!!!!!! The flood gates should open...... No need to thank me shagger!!pleasure....... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There's too many men on here lol. Been on here months and still got no meets and nearly every woman deletes my messages
You're right OP - there's way too many of us!
So because i'm such a charitable soul I shall delete my profile this very night at the stroke of midnight - and in the meantime will rally as many other kindly souls to join me and redress the uneven balance of boobs vs balls to aid you in your quest for meets!
*of course I reserve the right to change my mind should I get an offer of a meet before midnight!"
Cheers |
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"I don't bother sending messages. Getting to know people on the forums and chat rooms has worked better for me. "
These words he speaks are true, never sent a first message in over 4 yrs now and still get a few meets  |
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"There's too many men on here lol. Been on here months and still got no meets and nearly every woman deletes my messages
You're right OP - there's way too many of us!
So because i'm such a charitable soul I shall delete my profile this very night at the stroke of midnight - and in the meantime will rally as many other kindly souls to join me and redress the uneven balance of boobs vs balls to aid you in your quest for meets!
*of course I reserve the right to change my mind should I get an offer of a meet before midnight!"
Errrr you've got one booked in for the social. Don't dare bugger off before then !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's too many men on here lol. Been on here months and still got no meets and nearly every woman deletes my messages
You're right OP - there's way too many of us!
So because i'm such a charitable soul I shall delete my profile this very night at the stroke of midnight - and in the meantime will rally as many other kindly souls to join me and redress the uneven balance of boobs vs balls to aid you in your quest for meets!
*of course I reserve the right to change my mind should I get an offer of a meet before midnight!
Errrr you've got one booked in for the social. Don't dare bugger off before then !! "
So I have!
Sorry OP - i'm staying! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's not too many men, there's a shortage of men who actually look like their pics, turn up when they say they will and can politely take no for an answer!
Oh and that can use correct punctuation too...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's not too many men, there's a shortage of men who actually look like their pics, turn up when they say they will and can politely take no for an answer!
Oh and that can use correct punctuation too... "
Spot on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's not too many men, there's a shortage of men who actually look like their pics, turn up when they say they will and can politely take no for an answer!
Oh and that can use correct punctuation too...
Spot on "
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"I think I've cracked your problem here old bean! Your arse looks sad. Grab yourself a marker pen, maybe a jolly green colour (any colour would do) and draw a smiley face on your arse photograph and post!!!!!! The flood gates should open...... No need to thank me shagger!!pleasure......."
Actually, PLEASE do this?!
- Amy. x |
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