Do you and your partner argue. Do you think its good for a relationship to clear the air? Do you have really heated arguements then spend time making up.
In 3 years jay and i have had about 4 arguements and none of them lasted more than 20 minutes. We just dont do the arguement thing although i have been known to loose it with a few guys |
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"In 21 years of being together, I can count on one hand how many arguments we've had, we find it's always best to discuss any issues through, arguments tend to bring out the worst in people  "
Think Jay brings out the best in me lol, im such a fiery cow but never with him lol must be mellowing in my old age |
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Right now i'm probably not the right person to ask.
Just got back from a club. I've spent all day getting ready (I'm a tranny-it takes time) and my partner has gotten so d*unk we've had to come home early. It was horribly embarrassing and i'm really angry. She's in bed asleep & i'm seething on the pc! |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Do you and your partner argue. Do you think its good for a relationship to clear the air? Do you have really heated arguements then spend time making up.
In 3 years jay and i have had about 4 arguements and none of them lasted more than 20 minutes. We just dont do the arguement thing although i have been known to loose it with a few guys"
now i know im feisty and very firey..but nope we dont argue......not seriously..lots of banter but thats it  |
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"Right now i'm probably not the right person to ask.
Just got back from a club. I've spent all day getting ready (I'm a tranny-it takes time) and my partner has gotten so d*unk we've had to come home early. It was horribly embarrassing and i'm really angry. She's in bed asleep & i'm seething on the pc!"
We were watching a programme on BBC earlier today re celebrities who passed away during 2009, Kid and me had a great discussion about how short one's life existent really is, I hope you make up asap  |
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"Right now i'm probably not the right person to ask.
Just got back from a club. I've spent all day getting ready (I'm a tranny-it takes time) and my partner has gotten so d*unk we've had to come home early. It was horribly embarrassing and i'm really angry. She's in bed asleep & i'm seething on the pc!
We were watching a programme on BBC earlier today re celebrities who passed away during 2009, Kid and me had a great discussion about how short one's life existent really is, I hope you make up asap "
I actually pondering at this point whether we are right for each other.
She is a great girl but so many things grate on my nerves & tonight has really got me thinking. |
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We've been together 25 years and in all that time we've only had one argument that lasted longer than 5 or 10 minutes but I honestly can't remember what it was about.
Lifes too short for arguments and upset.
If folk argue all the time and are at each others throats,they're just not meant to be together.
They'd be better off stopping wasting their own lives as well as their partners and find someone they're truly suited to.
We honestly just don't get it! 
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By (user no longer on site)
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We've been married 4.5 years now, and so far, so good.
We've had literally a couple of disagreements lasting minutes then we realise that even if we don't agree we don't want to fight.
Most (vanilla, incidently) people think we're weird that we don't squabble all the time.
Maybe that's why we're on this website? We actually trust and respect each other  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I actually pondering at this point whether we are right for each other
Only you know the answer to that, try not to make any knee jerk / irrational decisions tho "
I agree, maybe best sleep on this and not post anything you might regret tomorrow? 
Either way, this forum probably isn't the place for your OH to find out should she read this |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Please note,our last post was not a reply to any other post other than the O.P.
It's just that I had to let the dog out and make a brew halfway through writing it!
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Jay is the only person ive never argued with and coincidently the only true swinger ive had a proper relationship with, again trust is paramount in the relationship and obviously no jealousy. Funniest thing is two of our disagreements (which is actually a better word than arguements) where about going to downtown he refuses point blank to take me again lol |
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"I actually pondering at this point whether we are right for each other
Only you know the answer to that, try not to make any knee jerk / irrational decisions tho "
I'm angry and embarrassed at the moment.
It's very hard to be a TV who wants to be open about his/her lifestyle & the lady in question is that rarest of people - the actively understanding female.
However, this is not the first (or even tenth) time she has gotten poo-faced at a club and we've had to go home and & i'm wondering in spite of her protestations to the contrary whether she can really accepy who/what i am. |
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I have mellowed cause we had a dissagreement and he had bought me some flowers and left them in the kitchen cause i was angry he brought them into me and i accepted them and said thankyou a few years ago i would of chopped the heads of them all. Old age isnt a bad thing after all |
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"However, this is not the first (or even tenth) time she has gotten poo-faced at a club and we've had to go home"
You obviously need to sit down and do some talking as to why she gets so d*unk, look at any High Street on a Friday / Saturday night, all the piss heads fighting / arguing, yet any other time most wouldn't say boo. |
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"However, this is not the first (or even tenth) time she has gotten poo-faced at a club and we've had to go home
You obviously need to sit down and do some talking as to why she gets so d*unk, look at any High Street on a Friday / Saturday night, all the piss heads fighting / arguing, yet any other time most wouldn't say boo."
I don't know. tonight we had a half bottle of champagne each and a half bottle of red wine.
I'm not a big person so it (theoretically) should affect us the same but she was all over the place. It's hard to get a d*unken woman into a taxi wearing 4" heels & a micro skirt in the damn snow! |
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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago
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WE don't do arguments, even our kids have said to us in the pasted that they have never heard arguing, we don't agree on every thing but we will sit and talk it through with each other.
The nearest we came to arguing was last week when i crashed her car as she had already doled me to slow down because of ice on the roads but did i listen no my own fault.  |
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By *andJ2227Couple
over a year ago
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"However, this is not the first (or even tenth) time she has gotten poo-faced at a club and we've had to go home
You obviously need to sit down and do some talking as to why she gets so d*unk, look at any High Street on a Friday / Saturday night, all the piss heads fighting / arguing, yet any other time most wouldn't say boo.
I don't know. tonight we had a half bottle of champagne each and a half bottle of red wine.
I'm not a big person so it (theoretically) should affect us the same but she was all over the place. It's hard to get a d*unken woman into a taxi wearing 4" heels & a micro skirt in the damn snow!"
Surely you should have seen it coming then as like you said it wasnt the first time. Maybe she cant handle her drink, talk to her and maybe suggest she doesnt drink so much when visiting clubs etc before you make the decision to end the relationship. Just our opinion.
We have been together for over a year and had never had an argument, we might not always agree but we can talk things through unlike some people it would seem. L&Jx |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"He he he well i find the purchase of shoes usually kicks up a stink!!! 
Your a very brave man! 
I am guessing said UNWORN shoes might be thrown at me now!!! "
She probably wouldn't chance them being scuffed....so you are safe from the shoes........just hope she doesn't pick up anything heavier to throw instead |
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By *ig badMan
over a year ago
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"He he he well i find the purchase of shoes usually kicks up a stink!!!
Your a very brave man!
I am guessing said UNWORN shoes might be thrown at me now!!!
She probably wouldn't chance them being scuffed....so you are safe from the shoes........just hope she doesn't pick up anything heavier to throw instead "
6 in peep toed killer heels in black suede. Quite happy to have them pass by my neck as long as her feet are inside them and one goes over each shoulder |
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By *ig badMan
over a year ago
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"He he he well i find the purchase of shoes usually kicks up a stink!!!
Your a very brave man!
I am guessing said UNWORN shoes might be thrown at me now!!!
She probably wouldn't chance them being scuffed....so you are safe from the shoes........just hope she doesn't pick up anything heavier to throw instead
6 in peep toed killer heels in black suede. Quite happy to have them pass by my neck as long as her feet are inside them and one goes over each shoulder well they have the same ones in red suede too may be in the sale we can go look monday hehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehe "
you bloody well better not have bought any red ones!!!!
You PROMISED!!! you DID!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you and your partner argue. Do you think its good for a relationship to clear the air? Do you have really heated arguements then spend time making up.
In 3 years jay and i have had about 4 arguements and none of them lasted more than 20 minutes. We just dont do the arguement thing although i have been known to loose it with a few guys"
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Based on a sample of 2, my ex-hubby and my late partner, I'd say argument is good in a relationship.
My ex-hubby would always agree with me for the sake of a quiet life. In the end, I felt there was no spark between us, rightly or wrongly!
My late partner and I fought like cat and dog, and we had heated arguments all the time. Sparks definitely flew, and one night he ended up banged up in a cell!
However, we loved each other to bits, and our relationship went from strength to strength, despite the arguments.
So yes, arguments are good, they clear the air, and stop peeps from having things bottled up and brew resentment, IMHO!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do we argue? err yes Les seems ta love it lol xxx
You only argue cus you can't bear the fact that Les is right all the time! "
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She definitely talks more sense than Craig! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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never had arguements with my ex until he came home and said he was off with a girl and left me sitting with my children...Dan now he's different my Monster will discuss to the drop of a hat and he soooo brave and will tell me that those shoes am looking at are shitty...think its good to talk and even have an arguement, clears all unsaid... |
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Mmmm gangin up on me are ya xx
You are now the King of the Doris's..... what the fuck did you expect!
Errr since when exactly lol xx
Since the rest of your pathetic little gang disappeared or wimped out!
Huh ya thinks i needs a gang for you lot i dont think so xx
Thats big talk for a small man
Oi shut it or ill bite ya ankles xx "
If you can reach that high |
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