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On average how many private messages do you receive daily?
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By *enelope2UWoman 2 weeks ago
Doesn't matter cant block distances |
If I remove my ball busting profile txt 80+ currently 10/25.
I think the points clearer now. I'm not looking for assholes to message me. I'm beyond tired of the frauds on here so I stopped playing nice.
I know what I love to do and show and I'm not settling for mediocre just because it's a "sex site". |
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I don't send opening messages so every conversation is started by someone else.
I can go for 2 or 3 months without a single message and then get a handful in regards to something I've posted here.
On average I might get 20 messages a year. |
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"Have few women friends on hear and few chaps just chat and gossip generally  "
Sorry didn’t answer properly
About five on weekly basis
Obvs from friends
When you get near sixty out of everyone age range |
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On here, not that many when the filters are on. Maybe just a few messages a day with people I like, which is a shame but hey ho. Elsewhere, I message throughout the day with people. Love a more fluid convo  |
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"If I remove my ball busting profile txt 80+ currently 10/25.
I think the points clearer now. I'm not looking for assholes to message me. I'm beyond tired of the frauds on here so I stopped playing nice.
I know what I love to do and show and I'm not settling for mediocre just because it's a "sex site"."
Abso-fuckin-lutely dont settle for mediocre!!!
Im just happy you've not blocked me so i can perv on occasion  |
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By *enelope2UWoman 2 weeks ago
Doesn't matter cant block distances |
"If I remove my ball busting profile txt 80+ currently 10/25.
I think the points clearer now. I'm not looking for assholes to message me. I'm beyond tired of the frauds on here so I stopped playing nice.
I know what I love to do and show and I'm not settling for mediocre just because it's a "sex site".
Abso-fuckin-lutely dont settle for mediocre!!!
Im just happy you've not blocked me so i can perv on occasion "
Lol you're not an asshole.. I'm not that bad, I value respect and you've never caused any disrespect so happy perving away. |
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"My filters are set at 99-99 so hardly any, just the way I like it  "
I know, Captain Tom relished that year with you Coooooookie. He would often recount tales of all the smut you used to message him. But then he sadly hit 100 and you dropped him like a stone. Then he passed. Probably lonely. I hope you can live with yourself? |
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0 as my filters are usually locked down. The odd one from old chats pop up now and then. If I open my settings about one message every 2 minutes for the first couple of hours of being online. Then it starts to die down a bit. |
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"Mine fluctuates, mostly only picks up when I'm on the forums and people respond via private messaging or people I message. I'm sure couples and women get absolutely swamped though. "
We've had one in the last week, not yet swamped |
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By *ookie46Woman 2 weeks ago
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"My filters are set at 99-99 so hardly any, just the way I like it
I know, Captain Tom relished that year with you Coooooookie. He would often recount tales of all the smut you used to message him. But then he sadly hit 100 and you dropped him like a stone. Then he passed. Probably lonely. I hope you can live with yourself?"
It’s a cross I have to bear |
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"Between 1 and 5 at the moment I like it when it's quiet like that"
That's manageable, when there are too many there is a temptation to delete all, but then watch about the diamond that gets deleted. So normally it's read first line without opening. Which means you better make the first line right |
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"Between 1 and 5 at the moment I like it when it's quiet like that
That's manageable, when there are too many there is a temptation to delete all, but then watch about the diamond that gets deleted. So normally it's read first line without opening. Which means you better make the first line right "
I usually do that sadly rarely get any diamonds |
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"Just putting the numbers on a spreadsheet to see what sverage I get 
Hahahahah this made me laugh 😂"
Well it makes things easier if I want to see other things like standard deviation or normal distribution, flattened curves etc. |
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"My filters are set at 99-99 so hardly any, just the way I like it
I know, Captain Tom relished that year with you Coooooookie. He would often recount tales of all the smut you used to message him. But then he sadly hit 100 and you dropped him like a stone. Then he passed. Probably lonely. I hope you can live with yourself?
It’s a cross I have to bear "
I'm going to be trawling fab to look for anyone in their very late 90s and send them your way. If I don't see you taking advantage of this I will be disappointed. |
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"Mine fluctuates, mostly only picks up when I'm on the forums and people respond via private messaging or people I message. I'm sure couples and women get absolutely swamped though. "
Perhaps around 100-200 |
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Two since I joined. Two answers to my messages - one woman told me I'm not her type and I appreciate she replied and second also answering to my message asked me what's wrong with me when I told her I'm looking for some fun and pleasure (this is why we all here) and I mentioned I'm not interested in blowjob and anal
The rest of my messages are deleted or read, and that's it. |
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"More than 10 but less than 100.
Usually lots if we post a new pic!
This. Put a pic yesterday and it snowballed. Even couples sending friend requests who we'd never spoken to (blocked now). "
Asking about the net curtains? |
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Anywhere between 10-50 a day depending how active we are on forums. If we post photo or video usually goes mad for few days. We’ve posted a few stories in the story forum and that’s just wild end up well into the 100s of messages no way can keep up |
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"More than 10 but less than 100.
Usually lots if we post a new pic!
This. Put a pic yesterday and it snowballed. Even couples sending friend requests who we'd never spoken to (blocked now).
Asking about the net curtains?"
It was the 2 girls on the sofa |
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"More than 10 but less than 100.
Usually lots if we post a new pic!
This. Put a pic yesterday and it snowballed. Even couples sending friend requests who we'd never spoken to (blocked now).
Asking about the net curtains?
It was the 2 girls on the sofa "
A very nice pic and I couldn't even get a puerile joke in about something in the background 😂 |
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By *JCRoseWoman 2 weeks ago
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At the moment it is 10 to 20+ messages and these are new people or people that have not read of I delete it's a no thank you.
It does seem to fluctuate tho, the more I am in forums, we chat/cams or a new verification it goes up. I currently sitting on 267 unread  . I just can't keep up replying to all of them. |
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"Absolutely zero, but that is not a surprise because of the ratios "
Oi! You get at least one 😂😂
I don’t get any at the moment cos my profile is hidden… make it public and on a slow day, about 50, a day where I upload a pic or be very active on the forums it’s over 100😳 |
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"Absolutely zero, but that is not a surprise because of the ratios
Oi! You get at least one 😂😂
I don’t get any at the moment cos my profile is hidden… make it public and on a slow day, about 50, a day where I upload a pic or be very active on the forums it’s over 100😳"
I stand corrected 🤣🤣🤣 |
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Used to get between 5 and 10 on average a day
Seen a massive change since not being active
Now it’s the so called straight men locally saying “Hi” or “meet now” and checking me out from any veris
Us men definitely get off lightly with the the number of messages the Mrs gets on hers…..madness |
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Hardly any these days, get the odd wink and occasional message. i’m not sure why because on the rare occasion I send messages, I almost always get replies & the majority I end up meeting. Often people tell me they’ve liked me for ages as well….
Guess I am just scary  |
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About 6 to 8 , more if I put new pictures up , if I go on the meet today towards the end of the week it goes higher again. Majority I filter out and usually there are less than 6 genuine people who want to meet. Mx
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