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By *eli OP Woman 2 days ago
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in my/our room? Or any kind of beverage really.
If someone asked that, would you think it's code for sex? Would you ask someone that as a more erm, polite form of fancy a fuck?
How do you "move" things on? |
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I had a lass I was talking to when on holiday say that to me and I said I was having another drink in the bar and I'd see her the next day.
Totally didn't get that she was coming on to me.
Never really spoke to me after that
Saw her with 2 other guys in the next week before I flew home |
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By *eli OP Woman 2 days ago
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"A coffee in my room sounds a bit odd
Which room?
Bathroom, kitchen, bedroom?
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Do you regularly drink in your bathroom? Might be missing out on something here.
No - my place, hotel room etc. You get the idea now (I hope!). |
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"A coffee in my room sounds a bit odd
Which room?
Bathroom, kitchen, bedroom?
Do you regularly drink in your bathroom? Might be missing out on something here.
No - my place, hotel room etc. You get the idea now (I hope!)."
I often take a cuppa when I have a bath as I read a book.
But….in all honesty I guess it would be the next step of the evening |
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"in my/our room? Or any kind of beverage really.
If someone asked that, would you think it's code for sex? Would you ask someone that as a more erm, polite form of fancy a fuck?
How do you "move" things on? "
I’d wonder why we’re having coffee in a room? |
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By *eli OP Woman 2 days ago
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"I had a lass I was talking to when on holiday say that to me and I said I was having another drink in the bar and I'd see her the next day.
Totally didn't get that she was coming on to me.
Never really spoke to me after that
Saw her with 2 other guys in the next week before I flew home"
Oh Frood.  If there's a next time you'll know though. Hope there is! |
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"in my/our room? Or any kind of beverage really.
If someone asked that, would you think it's code for sex? Would you ask someone that as a more erm, polite form of fancy a fuck?
How do you "move" things on? "
When I was a student and hopelessly stupid, I walked a bohemian lady I had a little bit of a thing for home after a little party. She invited me in for coffee. I said I didn't like coffee. I have spent years kicking myself for being such an idiot (not that I'm saying sex was definitely on, but who knows what might have happened?) |
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I think if you're asking for coffee the it's literally we are on a swingers site so I think if your at someone's house then you can be as forward as you wish ie stripping as you head to the bedroom  |
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If they were genuinely, truly and undoubtedly offering me a coffee how else could they ask? In what other manner? Therefore I would assume it really really was for a coffee and I would be expecting coffee accordingly. ☕
I would expect coffee. |
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Is this a thing then? Wanna come back to mine for a coffee?
Would you like to come up for a drink means possibility of nookie.
Come up for a coffee sounds like a coffee to me. My response being I don't drink coffee.
If I want to move things along, I ask them to come for a drink.
What a shame we can't just say what we mean, "can you come upstairs and let me ride your vagina, in a manner more vigorous than Wagner's ride of the Valkyries?"  |
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"in my/our room? Or any kind of beverage really.
If someone asked that, would you think it's code for sex? Would you ask someone that as a more erm, polite form of fancy a fuck?
How do you "move" things on? "
Body language - giving and reading
I haven't overstepped the mark yet, but what I don't know 100% is if I have ever been nearer to the mark than I thought |
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The best one I had was when I had invited a couple over for the first time, I live in a flat where my living room has a door directly into my bedroom, the girl said she liked my bedsheets and I asked if she wanted to take a closer look it was the only way I could think to move things along haha |
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"in my/our room? Or any kind of beverage really.
If someone asked that, would you think it's code for sex? Would you ask someone that as a more erm, polite form of fancy a fuck?
How do you "move" things on? "
Why don't you ask and find out? |
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By *mf123Man 2 days ago
with one foot out the door |
"Id just go for a laugh but if i put down my coffee i may trip and fall into her cave like vagina by accident im clumsy like that oops"
and no im not calling you baggy fanny before anyone draws there swords im joking around |
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