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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman 2 days ago

Paradise, Herts

Those of you who like an older woman. Why? 10 years on here and I still can’t understand it.

When I first joined I thought all the younger ones were taking the piss 🤣 but it seems to be quite common.

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By *ensuallover1000Man 2 days ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

When I was in my twenties the older woman scenario was a big fantasy of mine.

I think the intrinsic allure is that with maturity comes augmented sexual confidence and a degree of sexual dominance on the woman’s part.

Yep….I can’t wait to try my first centenarian…. 😜

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By *viatrixWoman 2 days ago

Redhill

I want to know too.

Bridget Jones 4 out this weekend. Her beau is 20+ younger than she is.

I still don’t get it and find it very hard to believe/understand when they say they fancy me

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman 2 days ago

Paradise, Herts


"When I was in my twenties the older woman scenario was a big fantasy of mine.

I think the intrinsic allure is that with maturity comes augmented sexual confidence and a degree of sexual dominance on the woman’s part.

Yep….I can’t wait to try my first centenarian…. 😜"

Awww. I can give you me nans number. She’ll be made up! 🤣

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan 2 days ago

Ends

They’re women. I like older women. I like women my own age. I don’t prefer either. There’s just more people on this website that are significantly older than me than there are my own age.

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan 2 days ago

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"They’re women. I like older women. I like women my own age. I don’t prefer either. There’s just more people on this website that are significantly older than me than there are my own age. "

Away from this site, I mostly meet people much closer to my age.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman 2 days ago

Paradise, Herts


"I want to know too.

Bridget Jones 4 out this weekend. Her beau is 20+ younger than she is.

I still don’t get it and find it very hard to believe/understand when they say they fancy me "

Me too. Because without sounding mean I can think of nothing worse than meeting a man 15/20 years older than me! I just don’t get it. Especially when there are so many young fit sexy younger ladies.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman 2 days ago

Paradise, Herts


"They’re women. I like older women. I like women my own age. I don’t prefer either. There’s just more people on this website that are significantly older than me than there are my own age. "

Do you think it’s a bit of a fetish type thing Steve?

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By *ynamicnatureMan 2 days ago

Doncaster

G'day Nora,

I was introduced to swinging when I was 19 by a 40 something lady.

She was so beautiful open minded and playful without any drama.

She certainly had a very big impact on me and I'll be forever grateful to her

I've been hooked ever since.

These days the age gap has disappeared but I still find ladies that are 40+ very attractive.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple 2 days ago

Staffordshire

Easy.

Old birds = easy lay.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan 2 days ago

A den in the Glen

Always preferred older women with a natural look and wrinkles and crinkles.

Always fancied my mum's mates and older cousins when I was a kid playing with my Tonka toys 😂. It's never left me.

What happens when)if I reach 85? I dread to think what I will find attractive then.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman 2 days ago

Paradise, Herts


"G'day Nora,

I was introduced to swinging when I was 19 by a 40 something lady.

She was so beautiful open minded and playful without any drama.

She certainly had a very big impact on me and I'll be forever grateful to her

I've been hooked ever since.

These days the age gap has disappeared but I still find ladies that are 40+ very attractive."

So do you think you’d go for the 50 year old over the 20 year old? (Assuming you found them both attractive of course)

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By *ickens101Man 2 days ago

derby

It's very real. Is it a bit of a taboo? Like fancying your older sister's mates perhaps? Dunno, but it's definitely a thing and no, we aren't just doing it to flatter you.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman 2 days ago

Paradise, Herts


"Easy.

Old birds = easy lay."

We have to get it where we can Sam. Who knows how many shags we have left in us!

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman 2 days ago

Paradise, Herts


"Always preferred older women with a natural look and wrinkles and crinkles.

Always fancied my mum's mates and older cousins when I was a kid playing with my Tonka toys 😂. It's never left me.

What happens when)if I reach 85? I dread to think what I will find attractive then."

* Throws her Boots No 7 wrinkle cream in the bin

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman 2 days ago

Paradise, Herts


"It's very real. Is it a bit of a taboo? Like fancying your older sister's mates perhaps? Dunno, but it's definitely a thing and no, we aren't just doing it to flatter you."

So like a fetish type thing?

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan 2 days ago

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"They’re women. I like older women. I like women my own age. I don’t prefer either. There’s just more people on this website that are significantly older than me than there are my own age.

Do you think it’s a bit of a fetish type thing Steve? "

I think older women are definitely fetishised. Especially on here.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple 2 days ago

Staffordshire


"Easy.

Old birds = easy lay.

We have to get it where we can Sam. Who knows how many shags we have left in us!"

I reckon there’s at least half a dozen I’ve left floating around in you…

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By *aughty50sCouple 2 days ago

Yorkshire - but we travel a lot

Define older?

I've always gone for the person rather than consciously thinking about their age, but always seemed to end up with older women (apart from my very first girlfriend). Not like 20 years older, just a few years. I guess the usual reasons you hear quoted apply - older women know what they want, don't mess you around etc, but also I found they were more likely to have similar values to me, were more confident and had fewer hangups. I ended up marrying Mrs Y who is a few years older than me and we've been very happy for a long time. As I've got older, my tastes don't appear to have changed - i.e. I don't lust after 20-somethings, but still find women my age or older far more attractive.

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By *ickens101Man 2 days ago

derby

Well I can only speak for myself but no, not really... Just a preference, like redheads or boobs or whatever.

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By *uxurybubblesCouple 2 days ago

by the sea

10 year gap could be because of generational touchstones the span of over 10 years people have different experiences such as where were you on 9/11,the Berlin wall falling or when bob the builder was xmass number1.

I can be argued that people views of the world are shaped but the events they experienced and it would be different for people who have no memories of said events .

But that's far to intelligent for most guys here so I'm sure it's just superficial bs

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman 2 days ago

Paradise, Herts


"They’re women. I like older women. I like women my own age. I don’t prefer either. There’s just more people on this website that are significantly older than me than there are my own age.

Do you think it’s a bit of a fetish type thing Steve? I think older women are definitely fetishised. Especially on here. "

Yeah. I think so too

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By *Ollyinone.Man 2 days ago

Coventry/Bedworth

Honestly it’s the sexual confidence for me. It’s never been just ‘because they are older’.

Maybe Experience comes with knowing you want and you like, what you want to try and not skirting around it about whilst communicating it?

Maybe that’s just me. I like knowing what people like.

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan 2 days ago

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"They’re women. I like older women. I like women my own age. I don’t prefer either. There’s just more people on this website that are significantly older than me than there are my own age.

Do you think it’s a bit of a fetish type thing Steve? I think older women are definitely fetishised. Especially on here.

Yeah. I think so too "

Do you think that’s why you’re so popular on here?

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By *uidedironwayMan 2 days ago

Cornwall


"Those of you who like an older woman. Why? 10 years on here and I still can’t understand it.

When I first joined I thought all the younger ones were taking the piss 🤣 but it seems to be quite common. "

When I was younger I was always into the older woman now I’m old its completely opposite

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By *enrietteandSamCouple 2 days ago

Staffordshire


"They’re women. I like older women. I like women my own age. I don’t prefer either. There’s just more people on this website that are significantly older than me than there are my own age.

Do you think it’s a bit of a fetish type thing Steve? I think older women are definitely fetishised. Especially on here.

Yeah. I think so too

Do you think that’s why you’re so popular on here? "

He didn’t!!!!

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By *exxyyDy11Man 2 days ago

North West

I like older women. Now I believe it is because I had a massive crush on my Science teacher, so that is probably where it stems from.

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By *oeBeansMan 2 days ago

Derby

I think there was something that felt a bit taboo about a younger man and older woman that I found really hot.

In addition to this, I felt like older women with more life experience were more assured with who they were which meant they felt easier to chat to, knowing you didn't have to play certain games which in turn, assured me of where I stood.

And finally... Have you seen some of the older women on here?

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By *uidedironwayMan 2 days ago

Cornwall


"Easy.

Old birds = easy lay."

Not always true as they know what they want and if you haven’t got it, forget it!

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan 2 days ago

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"I like older women. Now I believe it is because I had a massive crush on my Science teacher, so that is probably where it stems from. "

Why did you have a crush on them?

Where did you think that came from?

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman 2 days ago

Paradise, Herts


"They’re women. I like older women. I like women my own age. I don’t prefer either. There’s just more people on this website that are significantly older than me than there are my own age.

Do you think it’s a bit of a fetish type thing Steve? I think older women are definitely fetishised. Especially on here.

Yeah. I think so too

Do you think that’s why you’re so popular on here? "

🤣. I’m not really. It’s just the majority of messages seem to be men in their late 30s. (Although that might be cos of my filters🤣) I may get even younger people messaging without filters

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By *electableicecreamMan 2 days ago

The West

It was my number one fantasy when I was younger.

As a teenager some of my friends had hot mom's or older sisters and that's probably true for a lot guys. So the fantasies would have started there.

Any available porn (90's for me) featured grown (older than me) women too.

I can't really explain why I thought older women were so attractive to me beyond that. I don't think I was thinking about their experience or confidence at the time.

I could speculate it's more likely to be sub conscious attraction to someone who could be in a care giver role and a safe person who is in control because all I ever wanted was someone to stroke my head resting in her cleavage. There's an attraction to the maternal role there.

Adding modern MILF porn fantasies will fan the flames but I'm pretty sure that's an effect and not the cause.

Just my 2 cents. I'm interested to hear other theories.

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By *rummy2020Man 2 days ago

Birmingham

I like older women and always have done. Not entirely sure why, just think it is a preference, like sone women prefer tall guys

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman 2 days ago

Paradise, Herts


"I like older women. Now I believe it is because I had a massive crush on my Science teacher, so that is probably where it stems from. "

That’s what he went to school for ^^^

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By *exxyyDy11Man 2 days ago

North West


"I like older women. Now I believe it is because I had a massive crush on my Science teacher, so that is probably where it stems from.

Why did you have a crush on them?

Where did you think that came from?

"

I think because she was just very engaging and really intelligent. Not like the other teachers.

You know that I'm thinking about it. My mum said when I was a toddler I used to kiss the TV whenever Jessica Alba was on screen. I started young I guess 😂😂

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman 2 days ago

London

I can understand it

I'm more sexually open and passionate now in my 50s, than when I was a lame and insecure young girl. I feel like I'm a proper woman now. Plus, I like older men too

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman 2 days ago

Paradise, Herts


"It was my number one fantasy when I was younger.

As a teenager some of my friends had hot mom's or older sisters and that's probably true for a lot guys. So the fantasies would have started there.

Any available porn (90's for me) featured grown (older than me) women too.

I can't really explain why I thought older women were so attractive to me beyond that. I don't think I was thinking about their experience or confidence at the time.

I could speculate it's more likely to be sub conscious attraction to someone who could be in a care giver role and a safe person who is in control because all I ever wanted was someone to stroke my head resting in her cleavage. There's an attraction to the maternal role there.

Adding modern MILF porn fantasies will fan the flames but I'm pretty sure that's an effect and not the cause.

Just my 2 cents. I'm interested to hear other theories."

Ah yes. Mate’s mums. That could be a reason for a lot of people. Kinda like stifflers mom

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan 2 days ago

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"They’re women. I like older women. I like women my own age. I don’t prefer either. There’s just more people on this website that are significantly older than me than there are my own age.

Do you think it’s a bit of a fetish type thing Steve? I think older women are definitely fetishised. Especially on here.

Yeah. I think so too

Do you think that’s why you’re so popular on here?

🤣. I’m not really. It’s just the majority of messages seem to be men in their late 30s. (Although that might be cos of my filters🤣) I may get even younger people messaging without filters "

I’ll send you a dick pic to bring the average age down.

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By *eo369Man 2 days ago

Sleaford

Yes even today I prefer older ladies,55 to 65 my age range

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan 2 days ago

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"I like older women. Now I believe it is because I had a massive crush on my Science teacher, so that is probably where it stems from.

Why did you have a crush on them?

Where did you think that came from?

I think because she was just very engaging and really intelligent. Not like the other teachers.

You know that I'm thinking about it. My mum said when I was a toddler I used to kiss the TV whenever Jessica Alba was on screen. I started young I guess 😂😂"

Excellent taste 👌🏾

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman 2 days ago

Paradise, Herts


"They’re women. I like older women. I like women my own age. I don’t prefer either. There’s just more people on this website that are significantly older than me than there are my own age.

Do you think it’s a bit of a fetish type thing Steve? I think older women are definitely fetishised. Especially on here.

Yeah. I think so too

Do you think that’s why you’re so popular on here?

🤣. I’m not really. It’s just the majority of messages seem to be men in their late 30s. (Although that might be cos of my filters🤣) I may get even younger people messaging without filters I’ll send you a dick pic to bring the average age down. "

🤣. Too kind

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By *exxyyDy11Man 2 days ago

North West


"I like older women. Now I believe it is because I had a massive crush on my Science teacher, so that is probably where it stems from.

That’s what he went to school for ^^^"

I went to school for learning...

Okay that is a load of bollocks.

Right you caught me... yes that is why I went to school 😂

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman 2 days ago

Paradise, Herts


"I like older women. Now I believe it is because I had a massive crush on my Science teacher, so that is probably where it stems from.

That’s what he went to school for ^^^

I went to school for learning...

Okay that is a load of bollocks.

Right you caught me... yes that is why I went to school 😂"

Busted!

Do you see what I did there 😆

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By *egavatidCouple 2 days ago

Tallinn

Nothing can beat self-confident good looking mature woman who accepts her sexuality and is willing to share it with a younger man. I lived for 15 years with a woman 20 years older than me. We lived as a family and it was a brilliant time. Still have only warm memories of that time.

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By *ealitybitesMan 2 days ago

Belfast

I would be taking the piss at this stage but I've never been with a woman older than me at any time of my life 😁

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By *anther81Man 2 days ago

Drogheda


"Those of you who like an older woman. Why? 10 years on here and I still can’t understand it.

When I first joined I thought all the younger ones were taking the piss 🤣 but it seems to be quite common. "

Are you complaining Nora or do you enjoy the attention of younger hunks? lol

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman 2 days ago

Paradise, Herts


"Those of you who like an older woman. Why? 10 years on here and I still can’t understand it.

When I first joined I thought all the younger ones were taking the piss 🤣 but it seems to be quite common.

Are you complaining Nora or do you enjoy the attention of younger hunks? lol"

No not complaining. My filters are set anyway. I was just wondering

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By *exxyyDy11Man 2 days ago

North West


"Those of you who like an older woman. Why? 10 years on here and I still can’t understand it.

When I first joined I thought all the younger ones were taking the piss 🤣 but it seems to be quite common.

Are you complaining Nora or do you enjoy the attention of younger hunks? lol

No not complaining. My filters are set anyway. I was just wondering "

Only five more birthdays to go and then I can message you 😂

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman 2 days ago

Paradise, Herts


"Those of you who like an older woman. Why? 10 years on here and I still can’t understand it.

When I first joined I thought all the younger ones were taking the piss 🤣 but it seems to be quite common.

Are you complaining Nora or do you enjoy the attention of younger hunks? lol

No not complaining. My filters are set anyway. I was just wondering

Only five more birthdays to go and then I can message you 😂"

Well I did look at your profile and I’m too old for you anyway! 🤣

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By *idnightcowboy69Man 2 days ago

ciren

A top quality experience when I was 19 and she was 32

Taught me sooo much

Older ladies are more confident, know what they want and help us make it happen for them

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By *edbath 5Man 2 days ago

london

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By *anther81Man 2 days ago

Drogheda


"Those of you who like an older woman. Why? 10 years on here and I still can’t understand it.

When I first joined I thought all the younger ones were taking the piss 🤣 but it seems to be quite common.

Are you complaining Nora or do you enjoy the attention of younger hunks? lol

No not complaining. My filters are set anyway. I was just wondering "

If I was you I would be taking advantage of the opportunities.

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By *edbath 5Man 2 days ago

london


"Those of you who like an older woman. Why? 10 years on here and I still can’t understand it.

When I first joined I thought all the younger ones were taking the piss 🤣 but it seems to be quite common. "

One look at your photos and I can understand why anyone would love old biddy like you let alone a young man

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman 2 days ago

Paradise, Herts


"Those of you who like an older woman. Why? 10 years on here and I still can’t understand it.

When I first joined I thought all the younger ones were taking the piss 🤣 but it seems to be quite common.

Are you complaining Nora or do you enjoy the attention of younger hunks? lol

No not complaining. My filters are set anyway. I was just wondering

If I was you I would be taking advantage of the opportunities."

Nah I like more of a regular thing which I think is probably more unlikely with someone a lot younger. Maybe if I was a one off type person I would but it just doesn’t do it for me. I kinda wish it did.

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan 2 days ago

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"Those of you who like an older woman. Why? 10 years on here and I still can’t understand it.

When I first joined I thought all the younger ones were taking the piss 🤣 but it seems to be quite common.

Are you complaining Nora or do you enjoy the attention of younger hunks? lol

No not complaining. My filters are set anyway. I was just wondering

If I was you I would be taking advantage of the opportunities.

Nah I like more of a regular thing which I think is probably more unlikely with someone a lot younger. Maybe if I was a one off type person I would but it just doesn’t do it for me. I kinda wish it did. "

Nonsense

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman 2 days ago

Paradise, Herts


"Those of you who like an older woman. Why? 10 years on here and I still can’t understand it.

When I first joined I thought all the younger ones were taking the piss 🤣 but it seems to be quite common.

One look at your photos and I can understand why anyone would love old biddy like you let alone a young man "

I’m trying to work out if thats a compliment or not 🤣🤣🤣

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By *exxyyDy11Man 2 days ago

North West


"Those of you who like an older woman. Why? 10 years on here and I still can’t understand it.

When I first joined I thought all the younger ones were taking the piss 🤣 but it seems to be quite common.

Are you complaining Nora or do you enjoy the attention of younger hunks? lol

No not complaining. My filters are set anyway. I was just wondering

Only five more birthdays to go and then I can message you 😂

Well I did look at your profile and I’m too old for you anyway! 🤣"

Old??? Oh silly me. Let me extend my age range. To be honest I don't give a crap about age ranges. I just needed to put something instead of 18 to 99 haha 😂

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman 2 days ago

Paradise, Herts


"Those of you who like an older woman. Why? 10 years on here and I still can’t understand it.

When I first joined I thought all the younger ones were taking the piss 🤣 but it seems to be quite common.

Are you complaining Nora or do you enjoy the attention of younger hunks? lol

No not complaining. My filters are set anyway. I was just wondering

If I was you I would be taking advantage of the opportunities.

Nah I like more of a regular thing which I think is probably more unlikely with someone a lot younger. Maybe if I was a one off type person I would but it just doesn’t do it for me. I kinda wish it did.

Nonsense "

To be fair to you Steve you strike me as someone who’d probably be into regular. I don’t think many are though. I could be wrong 🤷‍♀️

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By *viatrixWoman 2 days ago

Redhill


"Those of you who like an older woman. Why? 10 years on here and I still can’t understand it.

When I first joined I thought all the younger ones were taking the piss 🤣 but it seems to be quite common.

Are you complaining Nora or do you enjoy the attention of younger hunks? lol

No not complaining. My filters are set anyway. I was just wondering

If I was you I would be taking advantage of the opportunities.

Nah I like more of a regular thing which I think is probably more unlikely with someone a lot younger. Maybe if I was a one off type person I would but it just doesn’t do it for me. I kinda wish it did. "

My FWB is 13 years younger and we’ve kept it regular-ish for 6 years, Nora.

Where there is a will, there is a way.

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By *riel13Woman 2 days ago

Northampton

I understand the hot ones but I am nothing close to that and still get interest... Luckily I prefer younger guys

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan 2 days ago

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"Those of you who like an older woman. Why? 10 years on here and I still can’t understand it.

When I first joined I thought all the younger ones were taking the piss 🤣 but it seems to be quite common.

Are you complaining Nora or do you enjoy the attention of younger hunks? lol

No not complaining. My filters are set anyway. I was just wondering

If I was you I would be taking advantage of the opportunities.

Nah I like more of a regular thing which I think is probably more unlikely with someone a lot younger. Maybe if I was a one off type person I would but it just doesn’t do it for me. I kinda wish it did.

Nonsense

To be fair to you Steve you strike me as someone who’d probably be into regular. I don’t think many are though. I could be wrong 🤷‍♀️"

It’s because I’m big into relationships and feelings and all that shit

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By *exxyyDy11Man 2 days ago

North West

First experience with an older woman was my old work boss. Double my age. Great fuck, but I'm never fucking a work colleague where again. Let alone a work boss. Not opening that pandora's box again.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman 2 days ago

Paradise, Herts


"Those of you who like an older woman. Why? 10 years on here and I still can’t understand it.

When I first joined I thought all the younger ones were taking the piss 🤣 but it seems to be quite common.

Are you complaining Nora or do you enjoy the attention of younger hunks? lol

No not complaining. My filters are set anyway. I was just wondering

If I was you I would be taking advantage of the opportunities.

Nah I like more of a regular thing which I think is probably more unlikely with someone a lot younger. Maybe if I was a one off type person I would but it just doesn’t do it for me. I kinda wish it did.

Nonsense

To be fair to you Steve you strike me as someone who’d probably be into regular. I don’t think many are though. I could be wrong 🤷‍♀️

It’s because I’m big into relationships and feelings and all that shit "

Yeah. Feelings don’t scare me either. They scare most people!

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman 2 days ago

Paradise, Herts


"Those of you who like an older woman. Why? 10 years on here and I still can’t understand it.

When I first joined I thought all the younger ones were taking the piss 🤣 but it seems to be quite common.

Are you complaining Nora or do you enjoy the attention of younger hunks? lol

No not complaining. My filters are set anyway. I was just wondering

If I was you I would be taking advantage of the opportunities.

Nah I like more of a regular thing which I think is probably more unlikely with someone a lot younger. Maybe if I was a one off type person I would but it just doesn’t do it for me. I kinda wish it did.

My FWB is 13 years younger and we’ve kept it regular-ish for 6 years, Nora.

Where there is a will, there is a way. "

Oh really? That’s good .

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman 2 days ago

Paradise, Herts


"First experience with an older woman was my old work boss. Double my age. Great fuck, but I'm never fucking a work colleague where again. Let alone a work boss. Not opening that pandora's box again. "

Haha yeah probably best not to 🤣

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By *eoBloomsMan 2 days ago

Springfield

On here I think it's just a numbers game. The gender imbalance means men have to be more open to relationships and hook ups they wouldn't normally have considered. Purely from an observation it seems to work pretty well on both sides so happy days.🥳

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman 2 days ago

Paradise, Herts


"I understand the hot ones but I am nothing close to that and still get interest... Luckily I prefer younger guys "

I do too. Not too young though. In their forties usually

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By *ynamicnatureMan 2 days ago

Doncaster


"G'day Nora,

I was introduced to swinging when I was 19 by a 40 something lady.

She was so beautiful open minded and playful without any drama.

She certainly had a very big impact on me and I'll be forever grateful to her

I've been hooked ever since.

These days the age gap has disappeared but I still find ladies that are 40+ very attractive.

So do you think you’d go for the 50 year old over the 20 year old? (Assuming you found them both attractive of course)"

All day long!🫦

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By *shyRoseCouple 2 days ago

Bangor

When you’re in your late teens/early twenties older women tend to be better lovers as they know what they like and dont

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By *oeyourGuyCouple 2 days ago

colchester

More experience, more mature both body wise and mentally.

Not as childish

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman 2 days ago

Paradise, Herts

Do you think the men who go for the older ladies like the ladies to take control?

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By *trkenitMan 2 days ago

Clovis

45 to 60 Are the most desirable...IMO

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By *ustamanMan 2 days ago

weymouth

Err I prefer them similar in age to me which naturally makes them older - am I odd? 🤔

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By *ony MannMan 2 days ago

Lagos, Portugal/ Ilfracombe Devon/ Anoover

I've never put an age limit on anyone, over 16 is a must. It's true my profile has limits but they are fluid.

I'm attracted to who attracts me, that could be old, young, one night or forever.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman 2 days ago

Paradise, Herts


"Err I prefer them similar in age to me which naturally makes them older - am I odd? 🤔"

Not at all!

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By *oeBeansMan 2 days ago

Derby


"First experience with an older woman was my old work boss. Double my age. Great fuck, but I'm never fucking a work colleague where again. Let alone a work boss. Not opening that pandora's box again. "

Probably shouldn't say your old boss's first name on here...

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By *eoBloomsMan 2 days ago

Springfield


"First experience with an older woman was my old work boss. Double my age. Great fuck, but I'm never fucking a work colleague where again. Let alone a work boss. Not opening that pandora's box again.

Probably shouldn't say your old boss's first name on here..."

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman 2 days ago

Paradise, Herts


"First experience with an older woman was my old work boss. Double my age. Great fuck, but I'm never fucking a work colleague where again. Let alone a work boss. Not opening that pandora's box again.

Probably shouldn't say your old boss's first name on here..."

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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By *ynamicnatureMan 2 days ago

Doncaster

In my experience, older women are much more relaxed and can express themselves which in turn helps me relax and express myself.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman 2 days ago

Paradise, Herts


"First experience with an older woman was my old work boss. Double my age. Great fuck, but I'm never fucking a work colleague where again. Let alone a work boss. Not opening that pandora's box again.

Probably shouldn't say your old boss's first name on here..."

That’s actually funny as fooook Joe 🤣

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman 2 days ago

Paradise, Herts


"In my experience, older women are much more relaxed and can express themselves which in turn helps me relax and express myself."

Hahaha. I’m a nervous wreck when I first meet someone 🤣

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman 2 days ago

Reading

I had two 19 year olds message me yesterday which meant I had to put my age filters back on my messages!

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By *aybickleyMan 2 days ago

bromley

When I was 20 I was in a relationship with a woman who was 34! That felt very much older than me at the time and I suppose it was! There was something very sexy about here that girls my age just didn’t have. Also here experience in bed was something I had never experienced before. She knew what she wanted and what she wanted from me in the bedroom.

She oozed sexiness just (it seems to me) do most older women.

I suppose I haven’t explained why I prefer older women but they simply are the best!!!!

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By *exxyyDy11Man 2 days ago

North West


"First experience with an older woman was my old work boss. Double my age. Great fuck, but I'm never fucking a work colleague where again. Let alone a work boss. Not opening that pandora's box again.

Probably shouldn't say your old boss's first name on here..."

😂😂😂

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By *eroLondonMan 2 days ago

Mayfair


"Yep….I can’t wait to try my first centenarian…. 😜"

·

Come back to this thread next year; Nora's still an nonagenarian.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman 2 days ago

Paradise, Herts


"Yep….I can’t wait to try my first centenarian…. 😜

·

Come back to this thread next year; Nora's still an nonagenarian."

Rude!

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By *enrietteandSamCouple 2 days ago

Staffordshire


"I had two 19 year olds message me yesterday which meant I had to put my age filters back on my messages! "

Do them both together and you’re almost the same age 👍🏻

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By *aldBeardy36Man 2 days ago

Manchester


"Those of you who like an older woman. Why? 10 years on here and I still can’t understand it.

When I first joined I thought all the younger ones were taking the piss 🤣 but it seems to be quite common. "

For me personally, a little younger okay, but I prefer women same age and older for a couple of reasons.

The simplest is Maturity, I’m a kinky guy and I hate nothing worse than someone saying “I’ve got no limits” and then saying “oh I don’t do that”.

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By *partacus2024Man 2 days ago

Near You


"Those of you who like an older woman. Why? 10 years on here and I still can’t understand it.

When I first joined I thought all the younger ones were taking the piss 🤣 but it seems to be quite common. "

Just another box ticked off for them Would the same younger guys hold your hand going down the high st?? This is a sex site and we all have our own kinks and fab gives them that opportunity

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By *agerMorganMan 2 days ago

Canvey Island

Erm - because I find I get on with older ladies better than ladies of my own age.

I don’t know why, still can’t explain it. 😅

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By *he KakapoMan 2 days ago

A nice rock

Because when your a teenager most women are older.

I think for some the fantasy just carries over.

I've never found much of a difference, other than actual individuality, between someone around my own age and people of older generations

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman 2 days ago

Paradise, Herts


"Those of you who like an older woman. Why? 10 years on here and I still can’t understand it.

When I first joined I thought all the younger ones were taking the piss 🤣 but it seems to be quite common.

Just another box ticked off for them Would the same younger guys hold your hand going down the high st?? This is a sex site and we all have our own kinks and fab gives them that opportunity "

Yes definitely this for some. I just wondered about any other reasons

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By *ynamicnatureMan 2 days ago

Doncaster


"In my experience, older women are much more relaxed and can express themselves which in turn helps me relax and express myself.

Hahaha. I’m a nervous wreck when I first meet someone 🤣"

I get nervous as well, but in a great way.😉 It's all part of the excitement isn't it,🔥

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By *illy IdolMan 2 days ago

Midlands

You leave satisfied and iron your shirts❤️

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple 2 days ago

wonderland.

Nora thanks for asking this. I hit 50 this year and have found I'm getting more and more younger men contact us/me.

Saying that I'm quite young for Mr compared to a lot of his other ladies

Cali

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By *a LunaWoman 2 days ago

South Wales

See, this is where I should be liking the younger man and not lusting after the OAP’s - I’m doing it all wrong! 😭

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman 2 days ago

Paradise, Herts


"You leave satisfied and iron your shirts❤️"

I don’t even own an iron 🤣

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By *he KakapoMan 2 days ago

A nice rock


"See, this is where I should be liking the younger man and not lusting after the OAP’s - I’m doing it all wrong! 😭"

Fuck that the OAPs have more free time and a pension

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman 2 days ago

Paradise, Herts


"Nora thanks for asking this. I hit 50 this year and have found I'm getting more and more younger men contact us/me.

Saying that I'm quite young for Mr compared to a lot of his other ladies

Cali"

Do you like the younger ones Cali? Or do you tend to stick to your age or older.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman 2 days ago

Paradise, Herts


"See, this is where I should be liking the younger man and not lusting after the OAP’s - I’m doing it all wrong! 😭"

Haha do you prefer the older ones?

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By *illy IdolMan 2 days ago

Midlands


"You leave satisfied and iron your shirts❤️

I don’t even own an iron 🤣"

Don't tell them that!

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By *viatrixWoman 2 days ago

Redhill


"See, this is where I should be liking the younger man and not lusting after the OAP’s - I’m doing it all wrong! 😭

Fuck that the OAPs have more free time and a pension"

And a free bus pass! I want one!

I have heartburn.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple 2 days ago

wonderland.


"Nora thanks for asking this. I hit 50 this year and have found I'm getting more and more younger men contact us/me.

Saying that I'm quite young for Mr compared to a lot of his other ladies

Cali

Do you like the younger ones Cali? Or do you tend to stick to your age or older. "

i don't like loads younger. In their 30s is a bit to young. I tend to stick to a few years either way normally.

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By *nya NeesWoman 2 days ago

Brum


"You leave satisfied and iron your shirts❤️"

I can't remember the last time I used an iron 👀

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman 2 days ago

Paradise, Herts


"Nora thanks for asking this. I hit 50 this year and have found I'm getting more and more younger men contact us/me.

Saying that I'm quite young for Mr compared to a lot of his other ladies

Cali

Do you like the younger ones Cali? Or do you tend to stick to your age or older. i don't like loads younger. In their 30s is a bit to young. I tend to stick to a few years either way normally. "

Yeah same. I think my age range is 38 to 55

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By *illy IdolMan 2 days ago

Midlands


"You leave satisfied and iron your shirts❤️

I can't remember the last time I used an iron 👀"

Noted 📝

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By *rT25Man 2 days ago

South Yorkshire

I had a relationship with someone who was 8 years older than me and I flirt with a slightly older lady than me at the gym.

But I don't think I would go for a woman just because she's older than me and that goes for someone being a lot younger than me.

Age is just a number personally got to be an attraction and a connection😉

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By *nya NeesWoman 2 days ago

Brum


"I had a relationship with someone who was 8 years older than me and I flirt with a slightly older lady than me at the gym.

But I don't think I would go for a woman just because she's older than me and that goes for someone being a lot younger than me.

Age is just a number personally got to be an attraction and a connection😉"

Don't forget I am only 21

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman 2 days ago

Essex

I don’t know from the male perspective.

But I currently feel

Sexier, more confident & generally hornier than at any point in my life.

I can only imagine that’s part of the attraction.

I don’t overthink it. (Much like most things)

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By *emptme1993Man 2 days ago

manchester

Experience, knowing what you want how you want it and how to get it, a lot of fun, need I continue?

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman 2 days ago

Paradise, Herts


"I don’t know from the male perspective.

But I currently feel

Sexier, more confident & generally hornier than at any point in my life.

I can only imagine that’s part of the attraction.

I don’t overthink it. (Much like most things)"

I agree with this for sure. Definitely more confident, definitely hornier and definitely accept I am what I am now.

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By *a LunaWoman 2 days ago

South Wales


"See, this is where I should be liking the younger man and not lusting after the OAP’s - I’m doing it all wrong! 😭

Haha do you prefer the older ones?"

Usually, there is always room for an exception now and again

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By *reative-mindMan 2 days ago

Exeter

Normally make a decent brew I've found post... well post what ever

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman 2 days ago

Paradise, Herts


"Normally make a decent brew I've found post... well post what ever "

Now this I can do!

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By *rT25Man 2 days ago

South Yorkshire


"I had a relationship with someone who was 8 years older than me and I flirt with a slightly older lady than me at the gym.

But I don't think I would go for a woman just because she's older than me and that goes for someone being a lot younger than me.

Age is just a number personally got to be an attraction and a connection😉

Don't forget I am only 21"

I could go that low but I might be too old for you if you are only 21?🤔😉

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By *nya NeesWoman 2 days ago

Brum


"I had a relationship with someone who was 8 years older than me and I flirt with a slightly older lady than me at the gym.

But I don't think I would go for a woman just because she's older than me and that goes for someone being a lot younger than me.

Age is just a number personally got to be an attraction and a connection😉

Don't forget I am only 21

I could go that low but I might be too old for you if you are only 21?🤔😉"

I can make an exception 😘

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By *oodo69Man 2 days ago

London (visiting frequently)

For me its a lot of reasons, but experience and self confidence is a big part of it! All people are individuals, but l find a lot of mature women has more personality and character which l find attractive.

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By *oeyourGuyCouple 2 days ago

colchester

I certainly do yes!

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By *ildTimes.Man 2 days ago

Colchester/London

I like saggy tits 🤷🏻‍♂️ 🥪

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman 2 days ago

Paradise, Herts


"I like saggy tits 🤷🏻‍♂️ 🥪"

Mine aren’t saggy yet. They’re not just under my chin like they used to be though 😢

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By *eyond PurityCouple 2 days ago

Lincolnshire

I remember loving the confidence of an older woman when I was younger and C has developed in the 5 years I’ve known her to be very sexually confident, let’s go more, knows her body and knows exactly how to use it! She’s also more comfortable flaunting her body - 6/7 years ago she wasn’t confident at all.

Confidence is definitely an aphrodisiac 🥵

K

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By *uscle1993Man 2 days ago

London

I was in a relationship with a 42yo lady when I was mid 18. Her confidence and experience was the main turn on for me. What she loved was the energy that I had in comparison to her ex husband. Also I last a long time so we could go all night

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By *rHotNottsMan 2 days ago

Dubai & Nottingham

It’s not really an option at my age. There aren’t too many of them that want the kind of sex I like.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman 2 days ago

Paradise, Herts

Thanks for all the comments. Interesting x

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By *im le2Man 19 hours ago

AYLESTONE

We all want a mommy fantasy.

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By *R_BlowjobMan 19 hours ago

Lincoln


"Those of you who like an older woman. Why? 10 years on here and I still can’t understand it.

When I first joined I thought all the younger ones were taking the piss 🤣 but it seems to be quite common. "

Men are just horny.

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By *ilva69Man 19 hours ago

stockport

Similar age is a good match

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By *ingerie DreamerMan 19 hours ago

telford

Just love the older babes. More experienced. More sexy. More confident. Less hung up on body image. More giving.

50-65 is peak woman ❤️❤️❤️

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By *ushym8Man 19 hours ago

Bedfordshire


"Those of you who like an older woman. Why? 10 years on here and I still can’t understand it.

When I first joined I thought all the younger ones were taking the piss 🤣 but it seems to be quite common. "

For me I’d rather go for someone 10 years older than ten years younger, think culturally be more aligned. Also there is something around older ladies, maybe that little bit more womanly (in a good way). And to be fair if wearing stockings and suspenders I’m sold 😂

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By *atnip make me purrWoman 19 hours ago

Reading

I'm a slow burn so I find the much younger guys lose interest too quickly. But 40s seem a sweet spot for me.

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By *ubikslongswordMan 19 hours ago

Rubiksville

To me, age is irrelevant, it's about the person, if we can have a good conversation, laugh and great sex age doesn't bother me, although younger than 25 feels a bit wrong

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By *arkus1812Man 19 hours ago

Finedon ,

An older woman on here is a younger woman to me

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By *ommy2125Man 18 hours ago

newport

When I was younger it was very much the experience and confidence that attracted me towards older women, I guess it stems from when you're a teenage lad hoping to have a mrs robinson moment, seeing older women with curves going out or dressed up it creates a strong desire for a more experienced and mature partner from a young age. It's probably quite instinctive when you think about it, wanting to mate with sexually mature women must be quite a carnal desire, the same as I assume it is for women in some ways when looking for men.

It's definitely become a fetish though but must be rooted in early adolescent thoughts...now i am older the age is less a factor but as others said confidence is still a big factor.

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By *ensualtongue2023Man 18 hours ago

furnace

I think loosing my cherry to a very sexy mature neighbours wife who taught me so much about a woman’s body and how to arouse and sensually please her and have been an admirer of an older woman all my adult life

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple 18 hours ago

Coventry

For me, especially when I was younger in my 20s I pretty much only dated older women (8+ old). Not because of any kind of fetish, just because I always found better connection and chemistry. Women in my own age group always seemed so immature emotionally, unsure of themselves and genrally less about them. Older women more comfortable in their own skins, far better and more interesting conversations and better sex frankly.

Then I got married in my mid 20s (ironically to a slightly younger woman) so was off the scene for some years. Being single again in my 30s I found myself genrally finding the same women and characteristics attractive. So I was finding attraction in the same age range but my age now was closer to it. But yes I still am attracted to women 10 years plus now. Older bodies are fine with me, what I still like is intelligence, spark and women who are comfortable in their own skin. It's not a question of age as such. Still I rarely find attraction young women for the same reasons I didn't when I was when younger.

Mr

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By *inja 636Man 18 hours ago

Grays

I can only answer for myself but I have been with a number of 60 plus ladies and I have totally enjoyed the experience on a sexual basis a physical and mental one. No name dropping but crikey there are a small amount of ladies on here I'd love to date have a great day op

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By *pen2UMan 17 hours ago

Telford

For me, its the experience the woman has. I feel like the older woman jas mlre experience so then I'd like to get on with a woman much better.

I hope that make sense? Lol!

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By *arysueCouple 17 hours ago

West Wales

as an older woman, I prefer much younger men lol

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By *oni-massage-guyMan 17 hours ago

Fareham


"Those of you who like an older woman. Why? 10 years on here and I still can’t understand it.

When I first joined I thought all the younger ones were taking the piss 🤣 but it seems to be quite common. "

Personal choice

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By *r SensualMan 17 hours ago

London

When I first joined the site 5 years ago at the age of 27, the female demographic was made up mostly of women older than myself. Wouldn’t say it’s preference per se, just a natural gravitation. Have met and know some great women closer to me in age and those older than me too.

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By *uff_Butler85Man 17 hours ago

south East

An older woman for me represents a woman who knows her body and what she enjoys..

A woman who is confident and classy and has no holdups or desire to be social media ready.

They are almost always far more relaxed and open to what fab is.

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By *eeshellsCouple 17 hours ago

Reading

When HeShells was 26 he dated a 46 year old woman. She knew what she wanted, she wasn't afraid to ask for anything. The sex was amazing.

The next gf was 40. She was bi and introduced him to clubs.

Great times!

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman 17 hours ago

Paradise, Herts


"An older woman for me represents a woman who knows her body and what she enjoys..

A woman who is confident and classy and has no holdups or desire to be social media ready.

They are almost always far more relaxed and open to what fab is. "

Blimey 😳. You’re fit

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By *NormalMan01Man 17 hours ago

Harrogate

I find this quite amusing. I find women older than I more attractive. I don’t know why either. It’s a sexual fantasy/preference.

I’m sure many on here have preferences they cannot explain.

While I can find women younger than me attractive, I don’t always want to have sex with them. I also doubt they’d find me attractive so I do get it from the reverse. BUT, I simply just get more ‘pumped up’ for women older than me… my profile states this, too. 😉

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman 17 hours ago

Paradise, Herts


"An older woman on here is a younger woman to me "

Haha. Tarkus I love that you’ve changed your profile heading! It used to make me really sad every time I saw it 😢 x

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By *uff_Butler85Man 17 hours ago

south East


"An older woman for me represents a woman who knows her body and what she enjoys..

A woman who is confident and classy and has no holdups or desire to be social media ready.

They are almost always far more relaxed and open to what fab is.

Blimey 😳. You’re fit "

See... Confidence is so sexy

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By *icecouple561Couple 16 hours ago
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East Sussex

There is a cut off point for most (not all) younger men though, it occurs at around 60/65.

I exclude Helen Mirren and Joanna Lumley

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By *icecouple561Couple 16 hours ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


"An older woman on here is a younger woman to me "

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By *WANDTGCouple 16 hours ago

Borough of Greenwich

I wonder if the 30 something man would be seen down the pub, arm in arm with the 60+ year old woman.

Maybe it's just a kink thing or one of the bucket list.

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By *imbob85Man 16 hours ago

inverness

I quite like an older woman in my experience there less hassle less games just good old fashioned fun

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By *orth_London_Guy100Man 16 hours ago

London


"An older woman for me represents a woman who knows her body and what she enjoys..

A woman who is confident and classy and has no holdups or desire to be social media ready.

They are almost always far more relaxed and open to what fab is.

Blimey 😳. You’re fit

See... Confidence is so sexy "

Interesting thread - the majority of my female partners always seemed to be older than me - not sure why. I was always attracted to older women though - it was always the assumption that they were more open and experienced. I still sometime fantasise about sleeping with a grandmother - not happened yet and it is strange as many women can be grandmothers in their 40s or 50s.

Younger women don't seem to be attracted to older men as much though.

However, a lot of younger gay / bi / curious guys seem to be extremely attracted to older guys. So maybe it is an odd male quirk?

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By *icecouple561Couple 16 hours ago
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East Sussex


"I wonder if the 30 something man would be seen down the pub, arm in arm with the 60+ year old woman.

Maybe it's just a kink thing or one of the bucket list. "

I wonder that too but to be fair how many 60+ women would be seen down the pub with a 30 something man. It's a bit of fun both ways when it comes to casual sex I suppose

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By *ron100Man 16 hours ago

leyland

The older the berry the sweeter the juice 🤷‍♂️

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By *oni-massage-guyMan 16 hours ago

Fareham

I've deffo found the older women to be far more confident, experienced and relaxed in the bedroom. Happy in themselves with their lumps and bumps and not at all hung up about mine. My fave recent experience was with my much older masseuse lady friend. Mid 70s !!! Gave me the most insane erotic massage of my life. Milked me like a cow and had me cumming a career best 3 times in an hour and every time more intense and powerful than the previous. Thought I'd end up on a drip lol.

Oldies but goodies

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By *orth_London_Guy100Man 16 hours ago

London


"I wonder if the 30 something man would be seen down the pub, arm in arm with the 60+ year old woman.

Maybe it's just a kink thing or one of the bucket list.

I wonder that too but to be fair how many 60+ women would be seen down the pub with a 30 something man. It's a bit of fun both ways when it comes to casual sex I suppose "

It depends on the guy - I was happy to go out / be seen with the older women I was dating. Think they like being seen with me.

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By *viatrixWoman 16 hours ago

Redhill


"An older woman for me represents a woman who knows her body and what she enjoys..

A woman who is confident and classy and has no holdups or desire to be social media ready.

They are almost always far more relaxed and open to what fab is.

Blimey 😳. You’re fit "

He even makes grey joggers look good! 🤤

Gone for me coffee in me little zimmer frame… sore this morning to attempt crutches. 😂😂😂 👵🏻 👵🏻 👵🏻

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By *icecouple561Couple 16 hours ago
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East Sussex


"I wonder if the 30 something man would be seen down the pub, arm in arm with the 60+ year old woman.

Maybe it's just a kink thing or one of the bucket list.

I wonder that too but to be fair how many 60+ women would be seen down the pub with a 30 something man. It's a bit of fun both ways when it comes to casual sex I suppose

It depends on the guy - I was happy to go out / be seen with the older women I was dating. Think they like being seen with me."

I wouldn't feel awkward with a man in his fifties but I would with a man in his thirties.

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By *NormalMan01Man 16 hours ago

Harrogate


"An older woman for me represents a woman who knows her body and what she enjoys..

A woman who is confident and classy and has no holdups or desire to be social media ready.

They are almost always far more relaxed and open to what fab is.

Blimey 😳. You’re fit

He even makes grey joggers look good! 🤤

Gone for me coffee in me little zimmer frame… sore this morning to attempt crutches. 😂😂😂 👵🏻 👵🏻 👵🏻

"

Will happily bring the coffee to you… 😉

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By *ein-guyMan 16 hours ago

Cowes

As a younger guy with raging hormones, you just enjoy the experience and curves of an older woman. And they sort of 'look after' you in a way that a young woman doesn't. I can't really explain it As you get older, (like I am now!), you can't be quite as fussy

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By *NormalMan01Man 16 hours ago

Harrogate


"I wonder if the 30 something man would be seen down the pub, arm in arm with the 60+ year old woman.

Maybe it's just a kink thing or one of the bucket list. "

Well, I always used to flirt with older women in the pub, even in my 20’s and even managed to take a few home too 😉

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By *heGateKeeperMan 16 hours ago

Stratford

Deffo more drawn to older women personally and had a serious 10 year relationship with someone more than 25 years my senior before

That said, my current partner is 7/8 years younger than me

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By *viatrixWoman 16 hours ago

Redhill


"An older woman for me represents a woman who knows her body and what she enjoys..

A woman who is confident and classy and has no holdups or desire to be social media ready.

They are almost always far more relaxed and open to what fab is.

Blimey 😳. You’re fit

He even makes grey joggers look good! 🤤

Gone for me coffee in me little zimmer frame… sore this morning to attempt crutches. 😂😂😂 👵🏻 👵🏻 👵🏻

Will happily bring the coffee to you… 😉"

I’ve got the coffee, thanks, but you could being the croissants…

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By *innamon_flameWoman 16 hours ago

london

No idea why just thankful that there are xxx

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By *uff_Butler85Man 16 hours ago

south East


"An older woman for me represents a woman who knows her body and what she enjoys..

A woman who is confident and classy and has no holdups or desire to be social media ready.

They are almost always far more relaxed and open to what fab is.

Blimey 😳. You’re fit

He even makes grey joggers look good! 🤤

Gone for me coffee in me little zimmer frame… sore this morning to attempt crutches. 😂😂😂 👵🏻 👵🏻 👵🏻

"

The ultimate example of class and confidence. Such a turn on. You look incredible x

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By *NormalMan01Man 16 hours ago

Harrogate


"No idea why just thankful that there are xxx "

Wow. I’m out of your filters age range but you’re incredible! X

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By *hampersDarlingWoman 16 hours ago

Norwich

I don't understand it either but I'm happy to embrace it! 🤣

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By *oni-massage-guyMan 16 hours ago

Fareham

Christ I feel so old. Reading posts from women younger than me that are the 'older woman'. Help

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By *orth_London_Guy100Man 16 hours ago

London


"I wonder if the 30 something man would be seen down the pub, arm in arm with the 60+ year old woman.

Maybe it's just a kink thing or one of the bucket list.

I wonder that too but to be fair how many 60+ women would be seen down the pub with a 30 something man. It's a bit of fun both ways when it comes to casual sex I suppose

It depends on the guy - I was happy to go out / be seen with the older women I was dating. Think they like being seen with me.

I wouldn't feel awkward with a man in his fifties but I would with a man in his thirties. "

Depends what you're doing? If you are out socially fine, if you 2 are behaving like teenagers and doing PDA when might be more awkward

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan 16 hours ago

All over the place

When I was younger I found mature women to be more in tune with what that want, what they like and they are also not afraid to ask for it.

These days I am an older guy so age doesn't really matter at all

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By *wingingphil69Man 16 hours ago

castleford

They know what they want and get on with it

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By *icecouple561Couple 16 hours ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


"I wonder if the 30 something man would be seen down the pub, arm in arm with the 60+ year old woman.

Maybe it's just a kink thing or one of the bucket list.

I wonder that too but to be fair how many 60+ women would be seen down the pub with a 30 something man. It's a bit of fun both ways when it comes to casual sex I suppose

It depends on the guy - I was happy to go out / be seen with the older women I was dating. Think they like being seen with me.

I wouldn't feel awkward with a man in his fifties but I would with a man in his thirties.

Depends what you're doing? If you are out socially fine, if you 2 are behaving like teenagers and doing PDA when might be more awkward"

Socially I'm happy to mix with all ages. In fact I prefer a mix of ages it's more interesting and sometimes challenging.

I wouldn't behave like a teenager with anyone

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By *orth_London_Guy100Man 16 hours ago

London


"I wonder if the 30 something man would be seen down the pub, arm in arm with the 60+ year old woman.

Maybe it's just a kink thing or one of the bucket list.

I wonder that too but to be fair how many 60+ women would be seen down the pub with a 30 something man. It's a bit of fun both ways when it comes to casual sex I suppose

It depends on the guy - I was happy to go out / be seen with the older women I was dating. Think they like being seen with me.

I wouldn't feel awkward with a man in his fifties but I would with a man in his thirties.

Depends what you're doing? If you are out socially fine, if you 2 are behaving like teenagers and doing PDA when might be more awkward

Socially I'm happy to mix with all ages. In fact I prefer a mix of ages it's more interesting and sometimes challenging.

I wouldn't behave like a teenager with anyone "

I agree with you! A age mix is nice. I was asked the other day whether I had Instagram or whether I was too old for it! LOL

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By *icecouple561Couple 16 hours ago
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East Sussex


"Christ I feel so old. Reading posts from women younger than me that are the 'older woman'. Help"

I feel positively geriatric.

I think older women for fab purposes starts at 40.

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By *urves and MischiefWoman 16 hours ago

Northerner

I have started to dabble with the younger male and from what they have said it’s about my attitude.

I no longer care what people think about my body, I feel sexier and more confident now with my lumps and bumps than I ever did in my 20s when I was much smaller. I know what I like and what I want and am not afraid to vocalise it. I am more selfish about my own pleasure and demanding of it too. I also have no tolerance or time for drama and that care free attitude is apparently appealing.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS 16 hours ago

Central

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By *ophieslutTV/TS 16 hours ago

Central

I'm so glad that younger men like me, as I get older

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By *moothshaftMan 16 hours ago

Coventry

I had the Maggie May experience in the late '70's

I was 17-18, and just couldn't get enough of older women, I couldn't fail, they loved me!!

Now, fast forward half a century, I want it the other way round lol

I often think about those times of my youth, sometimes with sadness, as they'd all be dead now.

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By *uminsiderMKMan 15 hours ago

St Austell

I've always had a 'thing' for older women.

My first wife was seven years older than me...

....my first 'fuck-buddy' (before the term was even invented!) was a 30-something divorcee when I was in my mid-20s...

....and over the years the vast majority of my playmates have been anything from three to thirty years older than me...

....I can only think of a handful who've been younger, and then only by a couple of years...

....though now I'm in my mid-60's, I tend to still lust after ladies in their 50's and 60's - much as I've done for many years, except now they're usually younger than me!

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