"How could it count against you, OP?
Though I did stop laying my coat over puddles in 2017, so am a fine one to talk..."
In my experience not all ladies like a gentleman they like to be dominated. But that's not in my nature im a teddy bear |
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"How could it count against you, OP?
Though I did stop laying my coat over puddles in 2017, so am a fine one to talk... In my experience not all ladies like a gentleman they like to be dominated. But that's not in my nature im a teddy bear"
They're entirely different things, in my view. You can be a gentleman and dominant. And be a gentleman and a 'teddy bear'. You can be a gentleman and neither of those things. |
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"How could it count against you, OP?
Though I did stop laying my coat over puddles in 2017, so am a fine one to talk... In my experience not all ladies like a gentleman they like to be dominated. But that's not in my nature im a teddy bear
They're entirely different things, in my view. You can be a gentleman and dominant. And be a gentleman and a 'teddy bear'. You can be a gentleman and neither of those things."
Completely agree.. infact I believe you need to be a gentleman to be truly dominant, if you lack trustworthiness and respect then you’re just taking advantage of someone in my book and that’s completely different thing. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 5 days ago
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"Is being a gentleman the wrong thing for a swinging site. I'm old school and think that even though we are all here for the same thing, and believe you can still be a gentleman doing so. "
We're not all here for the same thing though. 🤷♂️ |
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I get told I'm a gentleman sometimes, but it's not about opening doors or carrying bags, because a person is a woman. I don't see that as respectful, but it is about respect - that part I can agree with. |
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By *IXEN200Woman 4 days ago
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"How could it count against you, OP?
Though I did stop laying my coat over puddles in 2017, so am a fine one to talk...
You utter cad"
I was thinking the same thing when I read the comment.... |
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"In my experience not all ladies like a gentleman they like to be dominated. But that's not in my nature im a teddy bear"
Sorry OP but being dominant has nothing to do with being a gentleman or not. There are dominant gentlemen, submissive gentlemen, switch gentlemen, teddy bear gentlemen….
My point is one is not exclusive of the other.
If there are people you’re connecting with that have specific wants that you’re not comfortable sharing…. Then don’t meet them. It’s clear you’re not compatible.
However that really doesn’t have anything to do with being a gentleman.
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"How could it count against you, OP?
Though I did stop laying my coat over puddles in 2017, so am a fine one to talk... In my experience not all ladies like a gentleman they like to be dominated. But that's not in my nature im a teddy bear"
You can be a gentleman and be dominant to, it doesn't mean you're anything different. |
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I don’t know how to behave in any other way. I was raised by my grandparents. My grandfather wore a shirt and tie everyday and behaved with respect, dignity and good grace to everyone. These are the values that he taught me. |
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"Is being a gentleman the wrong thing for a swinging site. I'm old school and think that even though we are all here for the same thing, and believe you can still be a gentleman doing so. "
It's a requirement for me regardless of those "dick tating" otherwise |
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"By some descriptions I'm a gentleman 🥳🙃 even though I'm a woman
You can still be polite and nice to people and love sex at the same time. It doesn't mean you're submissive either x"
Those things aren't the sole preserve of gents are they  |
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"Is being a gentleman the wrong thing for a swinging site. I'm old school and think that even though we are all here for the same thing, and believe you can still be a gentleman doing so. "
Don't try and be something you our not as it will fall apart the second you actually meet someone and then your no gentleman you are just another sleezy guy the lied to get into her pants.
Also please remember ladies and couple get bombarded by disrespectful guys who don't read profiles and just hope waving a picture of a dick will work on here all day everyday to the point where we just automatically ignore messages from single guys im sorry it's true |
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By *enk15Man 4 days ago
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"How could it count against you, OP?
Though I did stop laying my coat over puddles in 2017, so am a fine one to talk... In my experience not all ladies like a gentleman they like to be dominated. But that's not in my nature im a teddy bear"
Being a gentleman does mean being a gentle man.
I can be chivalrous, courteous and honorable whilst grabbing your hair and spanking your arse  |
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By *osseffMan 4 days ago
All over devon, I love a road trip! |
As many have said, being a gentleman is nothing to do with being polite and respectful those should me the base line?
I think I know what you mean. In that maybe it's a confidence thing?...you want to be more out going and say things. Be a bit risqué. But your not comfortable with that as your too polite, even though you'd be comfortable saying those things if you were to ever meet a person to be risque with.
I can relate to that. You do you. As some have said, don't change as then that won't be you? |
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By *enk15Man 4 days ago
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"How could it count against you, OP?
Though I did stop laying my coat over puddles in 2017, so am a fine one to talk... In my experience not all ladies like a gentleman they like to be dominated. But that's not in my nature im a teddy bear
Being a gentleman does mean being a gentle man.
I can be chivalrous, courteous and honorable whilst grabbing your hair and spanking your arse "
Doesn't** |
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"Is being a gentleman the wrong thing for a swinging site. I'm old school and think that even though we are all here for the same thing, and believe you can still be a gentleman doing so. "
Indeed you can and still deliver the goods |
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It really depends on what you mean by "gentleman", and yes I've seen what you said.
Some people - based on recollections of other 'gentleman/ polite' discussions I've seen here in the past - seem to think men only come in two modes. 1. simpering, deferential, boring, or 2. crude, aggressive, bordering on predatory.
If you're one of them OP, I'll suggest somewhere in between.
Opening doors and such - some people like it. Some people don't. I don't, although I don't hold it against someone who doesn't know me. (Someone who does know me, and I've told, yeah, they need to knock it off. Politeness and courtesy is specific to the circumstances and people you find yourself in/ with) |
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"Define being a gentleman OP 💜
If you have to have it explained you will never know."
I'm asking what the OP defines it as. As my own and the dictionary definition don't include anything that is detrimental to swinging 💜 |
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I just think it’s one of those a bit outdated things that means so many different things and is bit like calling yourself nice.
What does it mean to you op , give us some examples, holding doors open and pulling out chairs for a lady ? I hold doors for anyone but wouldn’t touch someone’s chair unless they needed help. |
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"Define being a gentleman OP 💜
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If one saunters the cobbled paths and conduits of Jermyn Street, Savile Row and Burlington Arcade, then they would be considered a gentleman. 🩶🩶"
The precincts of well tailored rakes and cads |
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"Define being a gentleman OP 💜
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If one saunters the cobbled paths and conduits of Jermyn Street, Savile Row and Burlington Arcade, then they would be considered a gentleman. 🩶🩶"
Gentleman and Boujie little shit are interchangable terms in Nero's world 💜 |
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"Define being a gentleman OP 💜
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If one saunters the cobbled paths and conduits of Jermyn Street, Savile Row and Burlington Arcade, then they would be considered a gentleman. 🩶🩶
Gentleman and Boujie little shit are interchangable terms in Nero's world 💜"
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Be a respectful gentleman who politely destroys them, taking every ounce of desire they have and corruption them entirely until they no longer want to be a lady but a plaything.
Always start with good manners and care. For those are the qualities that true dominance is founded on, knowing your sub and providing exactly the right experience for them. Then looking after them and bringing them back. |
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"Define being a gentleman OP 💜
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If one saunters the cobbled paths and conduits of Jermyn Street, Savile Row and Burlington Arcade, then they would be considered a gentleman. 🩶🩶
Gentleman and Boujie little shit are interchangable terms in Nero's world 💜"
And todays Winner of the Internet 🏆👆 |
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"Define being a gentleman OP 💜
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If one saunters the cobbled paths and conduits of Jermyn Street, Savile Row and Burlington Arcade, then they would be considered a gentleman. 🩶🩶
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Gentleman and Boujie little shit are interchangable terms in Nero's world 💜"
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That's the last time I look up to your supercilious flimflam, my darling gøth-frøck. ❣️
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