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I always feel quite young for my age, and I set my age limits to 38/65, but I sent a message this week to someone, near my age, to get a response that I was an 'old white cunt'.
I felt, naturally, a little taken aback. I'm no oil painting, I'm not going to win any body beautiful competitions, but still, I wonder when does age make you unattractive?
Do you like the naturally aged, lived in look, or do you prefer the new trend for botox, fake tans and teeth?  |
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wow! that is bad. I guess not everyone operate the same way though.
Some people feel old, others look old and the exact opposite. Age doesn't enter into that. Its about the individual person and attractiveness comes in many ways |
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They wouldn’t need to be rude if they set their age limit properly and had said that they weren’t interested in white men on their profile.
Come to think of it they might have saved you some time if they’d mentioned on their profile that they’re an asshole.
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"I always feel quite young for my age, and I set my age limits to 38/65, but I sent a message this week to someone, near my age, to get a response that I was an 'old white cunt'."
Sorry to hear that OP.
But I don't know you and was wondering was it an accurate description or completely uncalled for?
Because people have called me similar things at times and I have to agree with them at times🤔 |
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Well that person was just plain rude. I'm a woman of a certain age that is about as far away from the "ideal beauty standard" as you can get. I use this site to look for younger, very lean and pretty lads. The kind I went for when is was in my 20s as I never really left my 20s. I just got fatter, saggier and hornier. When I was younger I dated guys much older than me as well as my age. Sadly a lot of men on here know that they probably won't get any meets and just message women random gross stuff. Even on the forums there are those that know you'd never meet them and are purposely rude on threads and comments. Having said that there are lots of true gents on here and the club scene that prove that many a fine tune can be played on an old fiddle.
Sometimes I get lucky and find a few amazing people to grow older in the most disgraceful ways 😜
Don't let the fuckers grind you down x |
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""I always feel quite young for my age, and I set my age limits to 38/65, but I sent a message this week to someone, near my age, to get a response that I was an 'old white cunt'."
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Sorry to hear that OP.
But I don't know you and was wondering was it an accurate description or completely uncalled for?"
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I don't know the OP either but I would afford him the benefit of the doubt and opine that it was uncalled for.
I'm really sorry to hear that OP. ☮️ |
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By *a LunaWoman 7 days ago
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Well they sound like a right charmer! Better off not meeting the likes of that!!
Sadly I look my age. I have grey hair, wrinkles. I like a lived in look to my men, gives a bit of character, but I’m very aware that on the whole men are attracted to youthful looks. I’m not getting work done or any little procedures to make myself more appealing though. That’s not for me.
But age/aging is used as a weapon to beat you with by many.
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By *oxy-RedWoman 7 days ago
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""I always feel quite young for my age, and I set my age limits to 38/65, but I sent a message this week to someone, near my age, to get a response that I was an 'old white cunt'."
Sorry to hear that OP.
But I don't know you and was wondering was it an accurate description or completely uncalled for?
Because people have called me similar things at times and I have to agree with them at times🤔"
I very much doubt that it was an accurate description  |
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"Well they sound like a right charmer! Better off not meeting the likes of that!!
Sadly I look my age. I have grey hair, wrinkles. I like a lived in look to my men, gives a bit of character, but I’m very aware that on the whole men are attracted to youthful looks. I’m not getting work done or any little procedures to make myself more appealing though. That’s not for me.
But age/aging is used as a weapon to beat you with by many.
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Yes that's very true.
A cold caller once told me that I probably had been involved in an accident that wasn't my fault but because I'm so old I couldn't remember it. He got really annoyed when I laughed out loud  |
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""I always feel quite young for my age, and I set my age limits to 38/65, but I sent a message this week to someone, near my age, to get a response that I was an 'old white cunt'."
Sorry to hear that OP.
But I don't know you and was wondering was it an accurate description or completely uncalled for?
Because people have called me similar things at times and I have to agree with them at times🤔"
As I don't know them, other than a short read of their profile, with a simple complimentary message and photo, I'm not sure they could make a fulsome decision  |
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That's so rude,i don't get why anyone had to send that sort of reply
They could use age filters to stop mail if they wanted to.
I don't mind the lived in look, as long as I find them attractive it wouldn't matter.
I'm nothing special myself. |
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By *oxy-RedWoman 7 days ago
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We should all embrace our age,some people don't get to grow old/older
I look in the mirror and still see my 20 year old self,then I look again and see the grey hair,wrinkles and just think it could be worse |
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"We should all embrace our age,some people don't get to grow old/older
I look in the mirror and still see my 20 year old self,then I look again and see the grey hair,wrinkles and just think it could be worse "
We can still out dance the young uns  . Pop some Baby D on the stereo  |
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By *oxy-RedWoman 7 days ago
pink panther territory |
"We should all embrace our age,some people don't get to grow old/older
I look in the mirror and still see my 20 year old self,then I look again and see the grey hair,wrinkles and just think it could be worse
We can still out dance the young uns . Pop some Baby D on the stereo "
We certainly can |
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Some people make themselves unattractive, by being so disrespectful. It's fine to have life experience guiding your choices but that's on each of us, we don't need to be abusive to those we're not interested in.
Certainly, I'd be reporting them.
I sometimes find people outside of my regular preferences to be very attractive. Likewise, people who match some of mine to not appeal. |
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"Well they sound like a right charmer! Better off not meeting the likes of that!!
Sadly I look my age. I have grey hair, wrinkles. I like a lived in look to my men, gives a bit of character, but I’m very aware that on the whole men are attracted to youthful looks. I’m not getting work done or any little procedures to make myself more appealing though. That’s not for me.
But age/aging is used as a weapon to beat you with by many.
Yes that's very true.
A cold caller once told me that I probably had been involved in an accident that wasn't my fault but because I'm so old I couldn't remember it. He got really annoyed when I laughed out loud "
Oh that's just 😂 |
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"I always feel quite young for my age, and I set my age limits to 38/65, but I sent a message this week to someone, near my age, to get a response that I was an 'old white cunt'.
I felt, naturally, a little taken aback. I'm no oil painting, I'm not going to win any body beautiful competitions, but still, I wonder when does age make you unattractive?
Do you like the naturally aged, lived in look, or do you prefer the new trend for botox, fake tans and teeth? "
 that’s not nice but to answer your question I do like the naturally aged look there’s just something sexy about it |
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"I always feel quite young for my age, and I set my age limits to 38/65, but I sent a message this week to someone, near my age, to get a response that I was an 'old white cunt'.
I felt, naturally, a little taken aback. I'm no oil painting, I'm not going to win any body beautiful competitions, but still, I wonder when does age make you unattractive?
Do you like the naturally aged, lived in look, or do you prefer the new trend for botox, fake tans and teeth? that’s not nice but to answer your question I do like the naturally aged look there’s just something sexy about it "
I'm not so much naturally aged as well pickled, will that do ?  |
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"I always feel quite young for my age, and I set my age limits to 38/65, but I sent a message this week to someone, near my age, to get a response that I was an 'old white cunt'.
I felt, naturally, a little taken aback. I'm no oil painting, I'm not going to win any body beautiful competitions, but still, I wonder when does age make you unattractive?
Do you like the naturally aged, lived in look, or do you prefer the new trend for botox, fake tans and teeth? that’s not nice but to answer your question I do like the naturally aged look there’s just something sexy about it "
I have taken on a bit of an Inspector morse look.....with glasses 🤓 |
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"I always feel quite young for my age, and I set my age limits to 38/65, but I sent a message this week to someone, near my age, to get a response that I was an 'old white cunt'.
I felt, naturally, a little taken aback. I'm no oil painting, I'm not going to win any body beautiful competitions, but still, I wonder when does age make you unattractive?
Do you like the naturally aged, lived in look, or do you prefer the new trend for botox, fake tans and teeth? that’s not nice but to answer your question I do like the naturally aged look there’s just something sexy about it
I have taken on a bit of an Inspector morse look.....with glasses 🤓"
I like that look |
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At my regular club last year, I noticed an unfamiliar girl of about 21, probably a newcomer.
"Good evening," I said, "Is this your first time here?"
Her response was fairly straightforward: "I don't fuck granddads."
As far as I know, I don't even have any children... |
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"At my regular club last year, I noticed an unfamiliar girl of about 21, probably a newcomer.
"Good evening," I said, "Is this your first time here?"
Her response was fairly straightforward: "I don't fuck granddads."
As far as I know, I don't even have any children..."
Charming  |
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"I too have been on the receiving end of not nice messages before. Usually name calling me because i enjoy sex with men."
Oh the whole women can't have multiple partners thing. It's just pathetic. Enjoy it while you can |
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"I too have been on the receiving end of not nice messages before. Usually name calling me because i enjoy sex with men.
Oh the whole women can't have multiple partners thing. It's just pathetic. Enjoy it while you can "
thanks i will.i block those who get nasty. |
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"I always feel quite young for my age, and I set my age limits to 38/65, but I sent a message this week to someone, near my age, to get a response that I was an 'old white cunt'.
I felt, naturally, a little taken aback. I'm no oil painting, I'm not going to win any body beautiful competitions, but still, I wonder when does age make you unattractive?
Do you like the naturally aged, lived in look, or do you prefer the new trend for botox, fake tans and teeth? "
How someone looks doesn't bother me. I've met guys in their 50s that look 45 and vice versa. And as long as they are vaguely honest on their profile that wouldn't affect whether I met them and it doesn'tmake a difference to how attracted i am to them. How old I look definitely varies by the day too. After a night with very little sleep I think I'd qualify for an OAP bus pass 👵 |
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"I always feel quite young for my age, and I set my age limits to 38/65, but I sent a message this week to someone, near my age, to get a response that I was an 'old white cunt'.
I felt, naturally, a little taken aback. I'm no oil painting, I'm not going to win any body beautiful competitions, but still, I wonder when does age make you unattractive?
Do you like the naturally aged, lived in look, or do you prefer the new trend for botox, fake tans and teeth?
How someone looks doesn't bother me. I've met guys in their 50s that look 45 and vice versa. And as long as they are vaguely honest on their profile that wouldn't affect whether I met them and it doesn'tmake a difference to how attracted i am to them. How old I look definitely varies by the day too. After a night with very little sleep I think I'd qualify for an OAP bus pass 👵"
I'd like to think the lack of sleep was because you were out dancing |
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"I always feel quite young for my age, and I set my age limits to 38/65, but I sent a message this week to someone, near my age, to get a response that I was an 'old white cunt'.
I felt, naturally, a little taken aback. I'm no oil painting, I'm not going to win any body beautiful competitions, but still, I wonder when does age make you unattractive?
Do you like the naturally aged, lived in look, or do you prefer the new trend for botox, fake tans and teeth?
How someone looks doesn't bother me. I've met guys in their 50s that look 45 and vice versa. And as long as they are vaguely honest on their profile that wouldn't affect whether I met them and it doesn'tmake a difference to how attracted i am to them. How old I look definitely varies by the day too. After a night with very little sleep I think I'd qualify for an OAP bus pass 👵
I'd like to think the lack of sleep was because you were out dancing "
Dancing...yeah that's it 😇🤣 |
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"I always feel quite young for my age, and I set my age limits to 38/65, but I sent a message this week to someone, near my age, to get a response that I was an 'old white cunt'.
I felt, naturally, a little taken aback. I'm no oil painting, I'm not going to win any body beautiful competitions, but still, I wonder when does age make you unattractive?
Do you like the naturally aged, lived in look, or do you prefer the new trend for botox, fake tans and teeth?
How someone looks doesn't bother me. I've met guys in their 50s that look 45 and vice versa. And as long as they are vaguely honest on their profile that wouldn't affect whether I met them and it doesn'tmake a difference to how attracted i am to them. How old I look definitely varies by the day too. After a night with very little sleep I think I'd qualify for an OAP bus pass 👵
I'd like to think the lack of sleep was because you were out dancing
Dancing...yeah that's it 😇🤣"
Or any other ahem.....exercise |
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"Well they sound like a right charmer! Better off not meeting the likes of that!!
Sadly I look my age. I have grey hair, wrinkles. I like a lived in look to my men, gives a bit of character, but I’m very aware that on the whole men are attracted to youthful looks. I’m not getting work done or any little procedures to make myself more appealing though. That’s not for me.
But age/aging is used as a weapon to beat you with by many.
Yes that's very true.
A cold caller once told me that I probably had been involved in an accident that wasn't my fault but because I'm so old I couldn't remember it. He got really annoyed when I laughed out loud "
And you've just made me laugh out loud in public 😂 |
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It always depends, like with any “preference”, there’s flex for someone you feel a connection with. Past partners have never looked like what I thought my “type” was and none of them look remotely similar 😂 |
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"Plenty of racists on here OP.
And ageist, racist, misandrists.
I am an old white cunt to be fair but you're not wrong.
I'm an old,fat, bald, white cunt. I've got it all.
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Hardly a cunt, more of a slowly matured drop of scotch x |
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"Plenty of racists on here OP.
And ageist, racist, misandrists.
I am an old white cunt to be fair but you're not wrong.
I'm an old,fat, bald, white cunt. I've got it all.
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We're living the life ! |
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You woukd all love to see my inbox over the years of messages. I screenshotted thousands as one day I will do a satirical memoir on my Twitter account about them
I just have a very low bar expectation of most people these days |
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"You woukd all love to see my inbox over the years of messages. I screenshotted thousands as one day I will do a satirical memoir on my Twitter account about them
I just have a very low bar expectation of most people these days "
I do feel that discourse has got somewhat personal and lacking in quality these days  |
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"Plenty of racists on here OP.
And ageist, racist, misandrists.
I am an old white cunt to be fair but you're not wrong.
I'm an old,fat, bald, white cunt. I've got it all.
Hardly a cunt, more of a slowly matured drop of scotch x "
How terribly kind of you.
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