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Ideally a regular FWB scenario with someone local or localish and in an ideal world, a club buddy so that we can explore different clubs and I wouldn't feel as nervous as if I went by myself.
Any sort of fantasies are more about whether the opportunity arises or not. |
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"Ideally a regular FWB scenario with someone local or localish and in an ideal world, a club buddy so that we can explore different clubs and I wouldn't feel as nervous as if I went by myself.
Any sort of fantasies are more about whether the opportunity arises or not."
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"One of the things I want is...I wanna fuck dudes, however, I want to feel safe, I want to feel respected, and I want to have fun.
Should be easy, right? 🫠"
Are you time poor?
If you’re not time poor then yes it should be easy. |
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"What are you currently looking for from the world of swinging? What kind of fantasies or connections or experiences or whatever "
I want men to collectively understand that fwb and nsa are not the same. That the F stands for FRIEND. And that in a platonic friendship, you genuinely care about your friends. And so with fwb same should apply, just also with added boning. |
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"One of the things I want is...I wanna fuck dudes, however, I want to feel safe, I want to feel respected, and I want to have fun.
Should be easy, right? 🫠"
You would think so. I’m guessing you have many a man either giving you abuse or simply not respecting you as a woman. |
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I don't want anything out of swinging, I'm not a swinger
I'm a bloke who occasionally likes to meet people for a brew and cake and who, even less occasionally, likes random impromptu sex with people I hardly know
As for what I want out of Fab, a safe adult space to spend hours chatting shit on the forums and admiring the sexy bits of people I will never meet
That wasn't why I joined, but it's what I settled into - and I think I prefer it to the sex now |
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I want to meet interesting and sexy people for mutually enjoyable sexual encounters. Whether those are one offs or ongoing friendships. I also want to meet people with my partners and get the thrill of shared experiences |
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Here's my proper list instead of my frustrated complaining. Not exhaustive.
Bi three or more somes with my partner
Some group kink stuff, incl events
Have more sex with women than I currently do
A local fwb (heavy on both the f and the b)
More time at clubs
I'd also love to watch some experienced folks doing pegging sessions (only seen that live a couple of times)
Watch more impact play
Watch more of everything 😈 |
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MFMF’s, FFM’s (with the right lady) and an MFM (with the right guy) with my lovely girlfriend
Indulge in more hotwife/stag and vixen encounters. Also enjoy NSA fun times with curvaceous single women, or ladies in couples who play separately like me from a solo standpoint |
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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago
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We're still working it out. Got our first meet with a guy soon for HJ session between him and the Mrs and then we'll see.
The idea was to slowly build up to us having bi MMF's as long as she's comfortable. It will take a while but it's all about the journey |
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I'm not quite sure we really knew what we wanted when we joined. Was more certain of what we thought we didn't want.
In reality a lot of it went out the window as we've gone along and got more confident. We've had meets with men, women, couples and even an mfff. We've also both enjoyed exploring our bi sides.
There's still a few things left we'd like to try but we are on a bit of an extended break atm so will just have to live vicariously through the posts and pics of other for now.
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"Ideally a regular FWB scenario with someone local or localish and in an ideal world, a club buddy so that we can explore different clubs and I wouldn't feel as nervous as if I went by myself.
Any sort of fantasies are more about whether the opportunity arises or not."
That about sums me up too. Fancy moving to Reading  |
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When I was looking, it was for fwb's, and I'm sorted for that now. Fantasies and adventures have always been inspired by, or are specific to, a person and our dynamic rather than a "thing" I already had in my head. |
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By *eliWoman 3 weeks ago
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Nothing. I'm not a swinger.
In a similar vein to Neil, my fantasies stem from another. Our interactions, how the dynamic naturally flows. Bar Hysterical Literature which has been a longstanding fantasy of mine but I'm not in a rush to explore it. |
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We are just looking for some more of what we already have. People we can have a laugh with and have a connection.
Bi men that dont mind me sitting back and watching sometimes and some more lovely bi women and couples. |
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"Nothing. I'm not a swinger.
In a similar vein to Neil, my fantasies stem from another. Our interactions, how the dynamic naturally flows. Bar Hysterical Literature which has been a longstanding fantasy of mine but I'm not in a rush to explore it."
Awww, you called me Neil 😍 🥰 |
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I'd just like meeting people...ladies obviously, but I really enjoy being part of a couples experience. Mfm are always fun, but I find being with a hotwife is more exciting. Someone who's too good not to share and she then goes back, tells hubby and he reclaims her.
I've found that a hotwife meet has that something extra. Do you know what I mean? |
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By *eliWoman 3 weeks ago
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"Nothing. I'm not a swinger.
In a similar vein to Neil, my fantasies stem from another. Our interactions, how the dynamic naturally flows. Bar Hysterical Literature which has been a longstanding fantasy of mine but I'm not in a rush to explore it.
Awww, you called me Neil 😍 🥰"
Once a Neil, always a Neil. 🩷❤️🩷 |
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More of the same. I like the thrill of new & existing partners, not just the sex , the whole thing. I love how we develop & grow through relationships with others.
Not so much into group fun these days , its an effort and I’ve done almost everything I can imagine but I love to push new boundaries 1-2-1 |
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We do like meeting new people and seeing what just might happen as opposed to what will happen and looking for long term kind of thing now but mostly just people or a person we can just chill out with when free time allowws ? no pressure with zero pexpectations BUT always a nice bonus if stuff does occur ? xx |
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I am absolutely loving meeting new people on the club scene, exploring my sexuality, having new experiences and learning more about what I enjoy. I still have things I want to try that I haven't yet had the opportunity to. Some of those involve multiple people at the same time so swinging helps with that 😁 I have also made some genuine friends for life, I absolutely love the social side of swinging which I know isn't for everyone. But it is a big draw for me that keeps me going back. |
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"Non swinger here too, so nothing. Left all that behind with my now ex partner, it left me cold.
Meet and date away from here mostly 
Fancy a date this weekend
Are you in Cardiff? "
I am actually yes |
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"What are you currently looking for from the world of swinging? What kind of fantasies or connections or experiences or whatever "
After a very long time of being on the scene, the grail is still illusive. We’ve come close to finding the shiny artefact many times and believed we held it in our very hands on quite a few occasions, only for it’s lustre to fade and it fall into the dusty pit of fickle disappointment. |
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"Whilst being aware how wanky this sounds, my answer is to explore ways of being my best self, and feel free to be me.
I know, wank wank wank
Mrs TMN x"
You need to sit in a corner and think about this  🥴 |
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"Whilst being aware how wanky this sounds, my answer is to explore ways of being my best self, and feel free to be me.
I know, wank wank wank
Mrs TMN x
You need to sit in a corner and think about this 🥴"
This sounds like it could easily bend into
"You need to think about what you've done. Go to my room!" 😉 |
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"Whilst being aware how wanky this sounds, my answer is to explore ways of being my best self, and feel free to be me.
I know, wank wank wank
Mrs TMN x
You need to sit in a corner and think about this 🥴
This sounds like it could easily bend into
"You need to think about what you've done. Go to my room!" 😉"
If I was going to explore my dom side, Mrs TMN would be the last person I’d explore it with 
You however… |
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For us it changes. We met on here so you could argue we have ran the full gamut of experiences. We have tried many things, some we liked, some we didn’t and some we liked we don’t now.
As we have evolved as a couple we want different things but as a previous poster said we want to be our best selves. That absolutely includes do no things that our vanilla friends would be aghast at but also means we like likeminded people. We have met some people on here who are genuinely great friends and have been there when we needed them.
We have been out of swinging for a while whilst we did ‘real life’ but couldn’t have done it without a range of people we met on fab!!!
However sometimes we may just want lots of guys to cum on arrows face !!! It just depends |
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"One of the things I want is...I wanna fuck dudes, however, I want to feel safe, I want to feel respected, and I want to have fun.
Should be easy, right? 🫠"
You'd think it would be easy wouldn't you x |
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"Whilst being aware how wanky this sounds, my answer is to explore ways of being my best self, and feel free to be me.
I know, wank wank wank
Mrs TMN x
I'll wank with you, because same! 🙌"
Just us, sitting in the corner, having a big ol’ wank  |
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I'm working on freeing up some time this year so that I can meet some new people. I love the excitement of meeting and having sex with someone new and hopefully turning those into friendships. I'm looking to develop connections with those i already know and seeing how that evolves. I don't really have fantasies around doing certain sexual acts. Mine are more person based and exploring things with partners. |
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"Whilst being aware how wanky this sounds, my answer is to explore ways of being my best self, and feel free to be me.
I know, wank wank wank
Mrs TMN x
You need to sit in a corner and think about this 🥴
This sounds like it could easily bend into
"You need to think about what you've done. Go to my room!" 😉
If I was going to explore my dom side, Mrs TMN would be the last person I’d explore it with
You however…"
You got a death wish? |
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"Whilst being aware how wanky this sounds, my answer is to explore ways of being my best self, and feel free to be me.
I know, wank wank wank
Mrs TMN x
You need to sit in a corner and think about this 🥴
This sounds like it could easily bend into
"You need to think about what you've done. Go to my room!" 😉
If I was going to explore my dom side, Mrs TMN would be the last person I’d explore it with
You however…
You got a death wish? "
He’s so brave behind the screen |
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"Whilst being aware how wanky this sounds, my answer is to explore ways of being my best self, and feel free to be me.
I know, wank wank wank
Mrs TMN x
I'll wank with you, because same! 🙌
Just us, sitting in the corner, having a big ol’ wank "
That sounds interesting |
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"Whilst being aware how wanky this sounds, my answer is to explore ways of being my best self, and feel free to be me.
I know, wank wank wank
Mrs TMN x
I'll wank with you, because same! 🙌
Just us, sitting in the corner, having a big ol’ wank
That sounds interesting "
Always room for more |
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"Ideally a regular FWB scenario with someone local or localish and in an ideal world, a club buddy so that we can explore different clubs and I wouldn't feel as nervous as if I went by myself.
Any sort of fantasies are more about whether the opportunity arises or not."
This... Except it's the only thing I'm after and I go by myself everywhere regardless. |
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"Whilst being aware how wanky this sounds, my answer is to explore ways of being my best self, and feel free to be me.
I know, wank wank wank
Mrs TMN x
You need to sit in a corner and think about this 🥴
This sounds like it could easily bend into
"You need to think about what you've done. Go to my room!" 😉
If I was going to explore my dom side, Mrs TMN would be the last person I’d explore it with
You however…
You got a death wish?
He’s so brave behind the screen "
I’m bad in real life |
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"Whilst being aware how wanky this sounds, my answer is to explore ways of being my best self, and feel free to be me.
I know, wank wank wank
Mrs TMN x
You need to sit in a corner and think about this 🥴
This sounds like it could easily bend into
"You need to think about what you've done. Go to my room!" 😉
If I was going to explore my dom side, Mrs TMN would be the last person I’d explore it with
You however…
You got a death wish?
He’s so brave behind the screen
I’m bad in real life "
The baddest |
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"Whilst being aware how wanky this sounds, my answer is to explore ways of being my best self, and feel free to be me.
I know, wank wank wank
Mrs TMN x
You need to sit in a corner and think about this 🥴
This sounds like it could easily bend into
"You need to think about what you've done. Go to my room!" 😉
If I was going to explore my dom side, Mrs TMN would be the last person I’d explore it with
You however…
You got a death wish?
He’s so brave behind the screen
I’m bad in real life
The baddest "
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"Non swinger here too, so nothing. Left all that behind with my now ex partner, it left me cold.
Meet and date away from here mostly
Fancy a date this weekend
Are you in Cardiff?
I am actually yes "
Where you staying? |
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"Non swinger here too, so nothing. Left all that behind with my now ex partner, it left me cold.
Meet and date away from here mostly
Fancy a date this weekend
Are you in Cardiff?
I am actually yes
Where you staying?"
Well I’m not going to put my hotel in the thread but it’s somewhere in central Cardiff |
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"Non swinger here too, so nothing. Left all that behind with my now ex partner, it left me cold.
Meet and date away from here mostly
Fancy a date this weekend
Are you in Cardiff?
I am actually yes
Where you staying?
Well I’m not going to put my hotel in the thread but it’s somewhere in central Cardiff "
Is this a yes to my date |
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"Non swinger here too, so nothing. Left all that behind with my now ex partner, it left me cold.
Meet and date away from here mostly
Fancy a date this weekend
Are you in Cardiff?
I am actually yes
Where you staying?
Well I’m not going to put my hotel in the thread but it’s somewhere in central Cardiff "
That's fair, I'm not actually in Cardiff, not my exact location on my profile. I'm just outside |
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For Me (mrs) I am looking for just what I like usually sensual kissing and playing! Hubby is looking to try physically different ladies to me for play otherwise as a couples good times with laughing and socialising with like minded people  |
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"Non swinger here too, so nothing. Left all that behind with my now ex partner, it left me cold.
Meet and date away from here mostly
Fancy a date this weekend
Are you in Cardiff?
I am actually yes
Where you staying?
Well I’m not going to put my hotel in the thread but it’s somewhere in central Cardiff
That's fair, I'm not actually in Cardiff, not my exact location on my profile. I'm just outside "
Hit me up |
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Playmates who want to try dipping their toes in the more sensual aspects of bdsm play. Wax play especially. I try to evoke all manner of senses in a session. It's really heartening when someone says, "I've never tried that before and it was deeply satisfying." It's deeply rewarding to see people "blossom" and grow.
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I have done most things I wanted to try.
Mmf
Mfm
Mff
Foursomes
Orgies
Gangbangs.
Dogging
Sex on the beach etc
Been in a swinging relationship
Had a FWB
Now looking for a lovely women and become really good FWB and who knows in the future maybe get into another Swinging Relationship
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"I want to meet interesting and sexy people for mutually enjoyable sexual encounters. Whether those are one offs or ongoing friendships. I also want to meet people with my partners and get the thrill of shared experiences "
This⬆️
Plus some things I want to tick off my FuckIt List before I'm 6foot under😄 |
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By *ripfillMan 3 weeks ago
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"What are you currently looking for from the world of swinging? What kind of fantasies or connections or experiences or whatever
I want men to collectively understand that fwb and nsa are not the same. That the F stands for FRIEND. And that in a platonic friendship, you genuinely care about your friends. And so with fwb same should apply, just also with added boning."
Perfect description 👍😈 |
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