I mean we all know I am a bit but reading some recent threads made me think 🤔
I don’t particularly find it a turn on watching people have sex (unless it’s 2 women), neither do I find it a turn on to be watched. I am neither voyeur or exhibitionist. I find most people tend to be one or the other or both.
Anyone else like me and just rather be getting involved? |
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"Your not odd.... It’s just not for you.... Don't worry about it op. Everyone has their own kink. I've no interest in anal sex...... Giving or receiving "
Oh I’m not worried. I am what I am. Just wondered if others were the same.
I’ve no interest in anal sex either 🤣 |
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"I'm the same as you Nora  Watching people shag is boring and I'm definitely not putting on a show for anyone.
However... I'd watch a non sex scene in the dungeon for hours "
I’ve never been in a dungeon compo! Maybe I should |
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"Not sure I’d liked to be watched. Cansee why people would like to watch would be like live porn but I would definitely be getting involved "
Oh I can definitely see why people like to watch. I’m not that arsed about porn either, unless its all women or home made. |
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I don't think that's odd.
There isn't much I watch or see in person that turns me on.
I can be interested in something, like, two men having sex that isn't porn-style, but I won't be aroused.
I need more stimulation than that; usually physical. |
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"This is part of the glory of human existence, if we all liked the same things it would be a very boring world.
I guess. Would just be nice if I liked some things I see on here Tea 🤣🤣🤣"
I know that you fancy me, that’s enough |
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"This is part of the glory of human existence, if we all liked the same things it would be a very boring world.
I guess. Would just be nice if I liked some things I see on here Tea 🤣🤣🤣
I know that you fancy me, that’s enough "
Of course. That’s why we always argue and disagree. We’re hiding it I reckon |
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I get nothing from watching random people have sex or from random people watching me. Every time we go to a club I’m more put off than turned on 😬
If there’s interest in a person then I’m good with both.
K |
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"I get nothing from watching random people have sex or from random people watching me. Every time we go to a club I’m more put off than turned on 😬
If there’s interest in a person then I’m good with both.
K"
Yeah this is why I don’t see much point in going to a club tbh. Lexi (if you remember her) dragged me to one once. It was like trying to get Mr T on a plane getting me in there 🤣 |
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I sometimes come away from the forum thinking I must be quite odd because I'm simply not how many women here describe themselves.
I'm not bothered by it it's just I didn't realise before I joined here.
You're not odd op, unless you want to be  |
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"I sometimes come away from the forum thinking I must be quite odd because I'm simply not how many women here describe themselves.
I'm not bothered by it it's just I didn't realise before I joined here.
You're not odd op, unless you want to be "
Oh yes I’ve thought it for years. But I accept I’m not a swinger and I’m on a swinging site. It’s opened my eyes a lot for sure. |
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By *eliWoman 2 weeks ago
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No, I don't think you're odd. I don't think anyone on here is odd because of their sexual leanings.
I've never really found the club scene to be for me. Nor cams; watching other people does very little for me. Even porn - I'd much rather read something unless I'm in it. Like when people go on about boings and tit drops - unless it's directly for me, with someone I fancy, I don't find my knickers sliding off.
I'd much rather be involved - like watching someone wank for me when I'm with them? Incredibly hot. Or the very rare occasion I've let someone watch me - it's getting lost in that experience and seeing someone do something very private. But random people wanking? Even people I know fucking? Unless I'm involved, I'm bored. |
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"I mean we all know I am a bit but reading some recent threads made me think 🤔
I don’t particularly find it a turn on watching people have sex (unless it’s 2 women), neither do I find it a turn on to be watched. I am neither voyeur or exhibitionist. I find most people tend to be one or the other or both.
Anyone else like me and just rather be getting involved? "
No, I'm the same.
I'd rather be doing than be watched or watching. |
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"I mean we all know I am a bit but reading some recent threads made me think 🤔
I don’t particularly find it a turn on watching people have sex (unless it’s 2 women), neither do I find it a turn on to be watched. I am neither voyeur or exhibitionist. I find most people tend to be one or the other or both.
Anyone else like me and just rather be getting involved? "
Yes I'm exactly the same. Has to be some interaction for me...otherwise I'd just watch porn.
But I appreciate there is something in it for others, and Mr definitely likes to watch me but for me it doesn't add anything for me just having him watch. |
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"I get nothing from watching random people have sex or from random people watching me. Every time we go to a club I’m more put off than turned on 😬
If there’s interest in a person then I’m good with both.
K
Yeah this is why I don’t see much point in going to a club tbh. Lexi (if you remember her) dragged me to one once. It was like trying to get Mr T on a plane getting me in there 🤣"
Ha ha…I think my problem is in my head I’m thinking of sexy scenarios - eyes wide shut type clubs and then I look around and I’m in a basement in Hull and watching a spotty arse bounce up and down 😬😬
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I think I have seen so many people have sex, it just doesn't phase me
I could stand and chat with friends whilst it's all going on at the side of me
As for being watched, nah
I like a bit of privacy in my more candid moments
I don't like threesomes
I like some mens arses, but an arse doesn't turn me on
I don't like certain cocks
I don't like the feel of damp, pasty skin
Overt sexual behaviour is very off putting
Being flirted with is just cringe
I don't like 'sexy' underwear
I don't like or enjoy sex toys
Feeling any less odd yet?
Get back if not, I can add more to this list |
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I've never had a threesome or moresome and only ever had sex once with other people in the room.
It was better than I expected and under the right circumstances I would like to repeat it or be a voyeur.
I would never have said I was an exhibitionist but my pics would make me out to be a liar on that front although it's not something I've given a lot of thought to. |
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For me sex is a participation sport but I do know that a fair few hubbies like to spectate. I quite like being watched but, to be honest, I forget about it pretty quickly and just focus on the lady in front of me. |
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By *oxy-RedWoman 2 weeks ago
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"I mean we all know I am a bit but reading some recent threads made me think 🤔
I don’t particularly find it a turn on watching people have sex (unless it’s 2 women), neither do I find it a turn on to be watched. I am neither voyeur or exhibitionist. I find most people tend to be one or the other or both.
Anyone else like me and just rather be getting involved? "
I'm most definitely like you Nora,I don't get turned on by watching people having nor am I either a voyeur or exhibionist,I just want the 1 on 1 |
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"I mean we all know I am a bit but reading some recent threads made me think 🤔
I don’t particularly find it a turn on watching people have sex (unless it’s 2 women), neither do I find it a turn on to be watched. I am neither voyeur or exhibitionist. I find most people tend to be one or the other or both.
Anyone else like me and just rather be getting involved? "
Yes can I have the sex please |
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I can relate to that.
But then I am odder still, as all of those things can turn me on, if I am with someone I am attracted to and they turn her on.
E.g. someone I am attracted to shows me some porn that turns her on. Almost guaranteed to be hot. |
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Reading this thread I now think I'm the odd one!
I really enjoy watching people, be that people I know, or strangers in a club (if I find them sexy/attractive), and I love being watched. I'm both voyeur and exhibitionist.
The best person for me to watch of course is Mr. Watching him is hot as fuck and a huge turn on. |
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"I mean we all know I am a bit but reading some recent threads made me think 🤔
I don’t particularly find it a turn on watching people have sex (unless it’s 2 women), neither do I find it a turn on to be watched. I am neither voyeur or exhibitionist. I find most people tend to be one or the other or both.
Anyone else like me and just rather be getting involved? "
Always preferred playing to watching, whether it's sport's or sex lol |
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By *im le2Man 2 weeks ago
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I love alone and can accommodate I can watch porn and jerk off or let mates use my place and I can jerk off watching a live show. Most times they will let me join in especially if it's something one of them doesn't like and I'm willing to let them do it to me. |
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