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When love is a one night stand.
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By *hagTonight OP Man 1 week ago
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I read a fun thing about it where they said that how nowadays many think that love is a one night stand.
What is your view about it,.do you agree with it and what love is?
I dont totally agree with it, because love is so much more than a one night stand, to me a one night stand is just about sex and not love, true love is so much more, it involves a deep emotional and intellectual connection that goes beyond physical attraction too  |
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Love is definitely about a connection with someone and not just sex but I guess people get confused between the 2 when dopamine and oxytocin are released. You can fall in love with that feeling too |
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"Whatever next - a wank is a long term relationship? 
A Fanny flutter is a walk down the isle and a country house, with a dog and two point 5 kids "
A finger in the fanny, is like a 35 year mortgage in your both names, with no exit clauses,, and her mum (still in your spare room), painting it pink and taking all your transformer figures to the charity shop. |
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By *eliWoman 1 week ago
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I think it's a bit sad; yes, I'm a romantic at heart but I don't think you can fall in love so quickly. When someone rushes in to something, they fuck a few times and the next minute they're wanting babies, engaged, all of that... it's not real in my mind. It rarely lasts (obviously sometimes it does!).
I think love is something that grows. When you see someone for all they are and still choose them. It's not the instant fireworks of lust and limerence, more the slow burning warmth of a log fire in a cosy cabin.
You can like the idea of being in love with someone, without actually loving them. |
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"I read a fun thing about it where they said that how nowadays many think that love is a one night stand.
What is your view about it,.do you agree with it and what love is?
I dont totally agree with it, because love is so much more than a one night stand, to me a one night stand is just about sex and not love, true love is so much more, it involves a deep emotional and intellectual connection that goes beyond physical attraction too "
I can't wrap my head around that. Love means so much more. I only ever had fwb's, until I had a "one night stand" (spoiler alert), we got married. Sex was THE best, but I certainly didn't love him after that first night. He kept me wanting to see him again and again. My love snowballs. That was 15 years ago though 🤷♀️ |
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"Can't you love someone for a few hours?
People on here talk about wanting a connection, that on a superficial level is a sort of love isn't it ? "
I've never had sex with someone without feeling a degree of love for them.
It may not be hearts and flowers soulmates "let's get married" happily ever after romantic love, but that doesn't make the love I feel any less real.❤️ |
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By *hagTonight OP Man 1 week ago
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"I have had encounters with people with a similar mindset (I ran for the hills  )
But no, that’s just silly. Love means different things to different people but it’s not a ons."
Hi _onkeynut, yes, love also means different things to different people too |
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I've never had a ONS tbh, I feel the best sex & passion is not on the first night, but when you have both got to know each other, especially with what each likes & dislikes.
So why run off before you get to the best bit? 
If you have ever experienced love, you will know it cannot be a ONS. That's more an act of passion. Nothing more. |
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By *hagTonight OP Man 1 week ago
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"Love is definitely about a connection with someone and not just sex but I guess people get confused between the 2 when dopamine and oxytocin are released. You can fall in love with that feeling too"
Hi _exyscientists, yes, you are right there, love is definitely about a connection too, yes, people can get confused between the 2 as well |
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By *hagTonight OP Man 6 days ago
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"I think it's a bit sad; yes, I'm a romantic at heart but I don't think you can fall in love so quickly. When someone rushes in to something, they fuck a few times and the next minute they're wanting babies, engaged, all of that... it's not real in my mind. It rarely lasts (obviously sometimes it does!).
I think love is something that grows. When you see someone for all they are and still choose them. It's not the instant fireworks of lust and limerence, more the slow burning warmth of a log fire in a cosy cabin.
You can like the idea of being in love with someone, without actually loving them. "
Hi _eli, yes, you are right there, instead of rushing into it, it is better to take things slowly too |
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