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"A lot of people will soon be along to tell you that they're amazing if you go in to chat to people with no expectations and that if anything happens, it's a bonus! That is true, but in my experience though (and it could be the clubs I've been to), but people are essentially there for one reason, and if you don't fit into that, they're more than likely to ignore you as you're taking precious time away from them finding what they are looking for. So if you have a thick skin and can handle people barely making eye contact with you, then by all means, go and have fun! But it's not going to be the welcoming experience you want compared to if you were a couple or single woman." Same applies as a single woman with standards | |||
"A lot of people will soon be along to tell you that they're amazing if you go in to chat to people with no expectations and that if anything happens, it's a bonus! That is true, but in my experience though (and it could be the clubs I've been to), but people are essentially there for one reason, and if you don't fit into that, they're more than likely to ignore you as you're taking precious time away from them finding what they are looking for. So if you have a thick skin and can handle people barely making eye contact with you, then by all means, go and have fun! But it's not going to be the welcoming experience you want compared to if you were a couple or single woman." It’s like you have taken a page out of my story this is very true | |||
I would never go a club by myself & when I’ve gone with others we’ve never wanted single men to join us.
I find them desperate & creepy in most clubs I’ve been to. | |||
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"Yes. And as mentioned above, go with an open mind and no expectations. It will definitely help to choose a club that has a specific event going on where you can communicate with other attendees before the night. Many run Telegram groups to give you a chance to introduce yourself and chat. As Joe said....it can be the case that you won't be everyone's (or in fact anyone's) cup of tea. But that's the same for couples and women. But I love the club scene and whilst I go with one of my partners now, I started out life going as a single guy. It was daunting, but I survived. Treat it like going into a new bar where you don't know anyone and just be nice. How to behave is basically common sense - talk to people as if they were a human being and not a means of getting your rocks off. 🤷♂️" This is great advice. | |||
"Yes. And as mentioned above, go with an open mind and no expectations. It will definitely help to choose a club that has a specific event going on where you can communicate with other attendees before the night. Many run Telegram groups to give you a chance to introduce yourself and chat. As Joe said....it can be the case that you won't be everyone's (or in fact anyone's) cup of tea. But that's the same for couples and women. But I love the club scene and whilst I go with one of my partners now, I started out life going as a single guy. It was daunting, but I survived. Treat it like going into a new bar where you don't know anyone and just be nice. How to behave is basically common sense - talk to people as if they were a human being and not a means of getting your rocks off. 🤷♂️ This is great advice. " I second this. Also keep an eye out for parties that are usually couples parties but they're specifically looking for a few single guys. I had that at synergies and got treated like royalty...it's uncommon though I'm sure | |||
"Is it a good idea to go into a club as a single man? " If your enjoyment of the night will hinge on whether or not you get laid, I would recommend that you don't go for reasons already mentioned by others. However, I do think it's perfectly possible to enjoy going to a club as a single male if you treat it like a night out and don't think being in a swingers club absolves you from basic requirements of courtesy. Just be prepared for the possibility (probability?) that you will be left out in the shuffle when the fucking starts. | |||
"As a couple and many will testify to this, going to a club really is pot luck. from this side of the fence it's a bloody nightmare herd's of random guys following women around like lost sheep, many with zero interest in actually talking the commonly used phrase is "the wanking dead" We've longed for a normal guy to approach and start a conversation,we appreciate it's intimidating but is it that difficult to say " Hi my name's (insert name) I've seen you both walking around do you mind if we chat and see how we get on?" It sounds stupid but so many just walk up and stare. Best advice we can give is go with no expectations,see it as networking getting your face known,be friendly but not overly and don't assume that if someone talks to you your going to get a shag. But like I said at the start it's pot luck, right place right time but unless you are there in the first place that's zero chance! " Well i go to clubs on my own and must say this couple have given the best advice yet. I talk to people. In the sauna,in the hot tubs in the bars. Dont but into there conversations but just join in. And ive always had fun. Some men follow people around and get desperate. And then moan when couples or singles say no | |||
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"Is it a good idea to go into a club as a single man? If your enjoyment of the night will hinge on whether or not you get laid, I would recommend that you don't go for reasons already mentioned by others. However, I do think it's perfectly possible to enjoy going to a club as a single male if you treat it like a night out and don't think being in a swingers club absolves you from basic requirements of courtesy. Just be prepared for the possibility (probability?) that you will be left out in the shuffle when the fucking starts." I think the "treat it as a night out" analogy is well overplayed. Realistically, who goes on a night out by themselves in the same way single men and women go to clubs and even if you do, what is the likelihood of an established group of friends talking to you and including you? It's not like a night out at all. | |||
"Is it a good idea to go into a club as a single man? If your enjoyment of the night will hinge on whether or not you get laid, I would recommend that you don't go for reasons already mentioned by others. However, I do think it's perfectly possible to enjoy going to a club as a single male if you treat it like a night out and don't think being in a swingers club absolves you from basic requirements of courtesy. Just be prepared for the possibility (probability?) that you will be left out in the shuffle when the fucking starts. I think the "treat it as a night out" analogy is well overplayed. Realistically, who goes on a night out by themselves in the same way single men and women go to clubs and even if you do, what is the likelihood of an established group of friends talking to you and including you? It's not like a night out at all." The only time I’d go out on my own would be a local where I knew people. There’s a couple of smaller clubs have this kind of vibe like PM in Nottingham. The Sunday afternoon cake socials there are a good way to get to know people. | |||
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"Is it a good idea to go into a club as a single man? " I've been to many clubs as a single guy if you are friendly and chat then you'll be ok but some people as with here stick to who they know and chat within that group ,I just carry on regardless fun to be had ,the bigger clubs lend themselves to this more mind you can wander from one area to another ,the hot tub is a good place to chat I find . | |||
"Is it a good idea to go into a club as a single man? If your enjoyment of the night will hinge on whether or not you get laid, I would recommend that you don't go for reasons already mentioned by others. However, I do think it's perfectly possible to enjoy going to a club as a single male if you treat it like a night out and don't think being in a swingers club absolves you from basic requirements of courtesy. Just be prepared for the possibility (probability?) that you will be left out in the shuffle when the fucking starts. I think the "treat it as a night out" analogy is well overplayed. Realistically, who goes on a night out by themselves in the same way single men and women go to clubs and even if you do, what is the likelihood of an established group of friends talking to you and including you? It's not like a night out at all." Except it can be. I mean.....you and I both went to Purple Mamba as single guys a while back and I'm pretty sure we both had a good night? 🤔 | |||
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"Is it a good idea to go into a club as a single man? If your enjoyment of the night will hinge on whether or not you get laid, I would recommend that you don't go for reasons already mentioned by others. However, I do think it's perfectly possible to enjoy going to a club as a single male if you treat it like a night out and don't think being in a swingers club absolves you from basic requirements of courtesy. Just be prepared for the possibility (probability?) that you will be left out in the shuffle when the fucking starts. I think the "treat it as a night out" analogy is well overplayed. Realistically, who goes on a night out by themselves in the same way single men and women go to clubs and even if you do, what is the likelihood of an established group of friends talking to you and including you? It's not like a night out at all." I agree with what you say but we might be talking at cross purposes. It could be my terminology is wrong - I didn't mean 'night out' in the going out drinking with your mates sense. I was referring to partaking in an activity outside of the house in a non-sexual way (could be an evening class in basket-weaving or visit to the local chess club) and simply enjoying the opportunity to be in an environment with like-minded people. The point being that if you go to a club and success or failure is totally goal-oriented towards a shag, you would be setting yourself up for disappointment. TBF in the days before dating apps, that was how many men treated a regular night on the town. | |||
"Is it a good idea to go into a club as a single man? If your enjoyment of the night will hinge on whether or not you get laid, I would recommend that you don't go for reasons already mentioned by others. However, I do think it's perfectly possible to enjoy going to a club as a single male if you treat it like a night out and don't think being in a swingers club absolves you from basic requirements of courtesy. Just be prepared for the possibility (probability?) that you will be left out in the shuffle when the fucking starts. I think the "treat it as a night out" analogy is well overplayed. Realistically, who goes on a night out by themselves in the same way single men and women go to clubs and even if you do, what is the likelihood of an established group of friends talking to you and including you? It's not like a night out at all. Except it can be. I mean.....you and I both went to Purple Mamba as single guys a while back and I'm pretty sure we both had a good night? 🤔" I think that just highlights my point though. I knew people that were going which made the night a hell of a lot easier to navigate in my eyes. Having to do it as a single male who knows no-one can be a pretty daunting experience in a way a simple night out wouldn't be | |||
"Is it a good idea to go into a club as a single man? If your enjoyment of the night will hinge on whether or not you get laid, I would recommend that you don't go for reasons already mentioned by others. However, I do think it's perfectly possible to enjoy going to a club as a single male if you treat it like a night out and don't think being in a swingers club absolves you from basic requirements of courtesy. Just be prepared for the possibility (probability?) that you will be left out in the shuffle when the fucking starts. I think the "treat it as a night out" analogy is well overplayed. Realistically, who goes on a night out by themselves in the same way single men and women go to clubs and even if you do, what is the likelihood of an established group of friends talking to you and including you? It's not like a night out at all. Except it can be. I mean.....you and I both went to Purple Mamba as single guys a while back and I'm pretty sure we both had a good night? 🤔 I think that just highlights my point though. I knew people that were going which made the night a hell of a lot easier to navigate in my eyes. Having to do it as a single male who knows no-one can be a pretty daunting experience in a way a simple night out wouldn't be" I agree completely. It's why I've always advocated a lot of networking, both online via here and chat groups, and in person at organised social events. Combining that with clubs is a natural process. I could list half a dozen clubs that I could walk into most weekends and there'd be someone I knew there simply because I've put the groundwork in over the years. Clubs are great. But much like setting up a profile on here they're not a quick fix solution to finding someone to get jiggy with. | |||
"Is it a good idea to go into a club as a single man? If your enjoyment of the night will hinge on whether or not you get laid, I would recommend that you don't go for reasons already mentioned by others. However, I do think it's perfectly possible to enjoy going to a club as a single male if you treat it like a night out and don't think being in a swingers club absolves you from basic requirements of courtesy. Just be prepared for the possibility (probability?) that you will be left out in the shuffle when the fucking starts. I think the "treat it as a night out" analogy is well overplayed. Realistically, who goes on a night out by themselves in the same way single men and women go to clubs and even if you do, what is the likelihood of an established group of friends talking to you and including you? It's not like a night out at all. Except it can be. I mean.....you and I both went to Purple Mamba as single guys a while back and I'm pretty sure we both had a good night? 🤔 I think that just highlights my point though. I knew people that were going which made the night a hell of a lot easier to navigate in my eyes. Having to do it as a single male who knows no-one can be a pretty daunting experience in a way a simple night out wouldn't be I agree completely. It's why I've always advocated a lot of networking, both online via here and chat groups, and in person at organised social events. Combining that with clubs is a natural process. I could list half a dozen clubs that I could walk into most weekends and there'd be someone I knew there simply because I've put the groundwork in over the years. Clubs are great. But much like setting up a profile on here they're not a quick fix solution to finding someone to get jiggy with. " This.... 💯 As a party host I agree with it all. I also host in Yorkshire amongst other areas and have a chat too (Obi is indeed wise!) | |||
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"I agree completely. It's why I've always advocated a lot of networking, both online via here and chat groups, and in person at organised social events. Combining that with clubs is a natural process. I could list half a dozen clubs that I could walk into most weekends and there'd be someone I knew there simply because I've put the groundwork in over the years. Clubs are great. But much like setting up a profile on here they're not a quick fix solution to finding someone to get jiggy with. " I see what your saying. But it is a different level of effort to put in compared to a Fab profile in terms of building your stock. Personally, I get knocked back on here and it is what it is. To feel unwelcomed by others in a club because I don't know them yet means effort having to get ready, go out, the cost just to feel like you're another number. I get you need to have a thick skin, but it still knocks the confidence and makes you wonder why you bother. | |||
"Never really liked the idea off clubs they seem very grim!!! Seems like it's just people sharing jizz lol" On that note you could say the same about Swingers?! Clubs however promote SAFE sex and with good reason. | |||
" I agree with what you say but we might be talking at cross purposes. It could be my terminology is wrong - I didn't mean 'night out' in the going out drinking with your mates sense. I was referring to partaking in an activity outside of the house in a non-sexual way (could be an evening class in basket-weaving or visit to the local chess club) and simply enjoying the opportunity to be in an environment with like-minded people. " To be fair not many Chess Clubs charge £50 a visit with little chance of bashing your Bishop.♟️ | |||
"I agree completely. It's why I've always advocated a lot of networking, both online via here and chat groups, and in person at organised social events. Combining that with clubs is a natural process. I could list half a dozen clubs that I could walk into most weekends and there'd be someone I knew there simply because I've put the groundwork in over the years. Clubs are great. But much like setting up a profile on here they're not a quick fix solution to finding someone to get jiggy with. I see what your saying. But it is a different level of effort to put in compared to a Fab profile in terms of building your stock. Personally, I get knocked back on here and it is what it is. To feel unwelcomed by others in a club because I don't know them yet means effort having to get ready, go out, the cost just to feel like you're another number. I get you need to have a thick skin, but it still knocks the confidence and makes you wonder why you bother." Not sure if this is still a thing but a few years ago we attended a couple of social events at a couple of clubs as part of fabswingers and another unmentionable site where they had the club for the whole night Eureka being one of them everyone put names down an a list would appear on the forum page with a Guestlist, you went along payed entry chatted to people who you'd already been chatting to online. Worked a treat. Sadly I can't remember seeing this on here now and these kind of events seem to be pretty clicky unless you are part of a group it's unlikely you'll know about them. But it's a great way to get your face known by people. As for people going to clubs it's pretty daunting as a couple tbh I wouldn't say spoilt for choice but certainly can be overwhelming when you get ten or more guys hovering around your wife like kid's in a sweetshop looking at the treats on offer mouth's open drooling,cock in hand wanking. | |||
"I agree completely. It's why I've always advocated a lot of networking, both online via here and chat groups, and in person at organised social events. Combining that with clubs is a natural process. I could list half a dozen clubs that I could walk into most weekends and there'd be someone I knew there simply because I've put the groundwork in over the years. Clubs are great. But much like setting up a profile on here they're not a quick fix solution to finding someone to get jiggy with. I see what your saying. But it is a different level of effort to put in compared to a Fab profile in terms of building your stock. Personally, I get knocked back on here and it is what it is. To feel unwelcomed by others in a club because I don't know them yet means effort having to get ready, go out, the cost just to feel like you're another number. I get you need to have a thick skin, but it still knocks the confidence and makes you wonder why you bother." This doesn't just happen to single men, this happens to single women and couples too. Some events attract people who become friends and they invariably want to spend time together and catch up. I have been at events where I have felt like everyone knew eachother and I couldn't really get involved in any conversations as they were all closed off. But not all clubs or events are like that. I've been to plenty of Hankys events now and she's a great host, she attracts a really friendly and welcoming crowd of people and her event chat is absolutely brilliant for helping people (including single men!) to break the ice and feel braver approaching people in the club. As an anxious/shy person I think event chats are a really great tool and I would probably struggle going to an event not knowing anyone if it didn't have a chat beforehand for me to break the ice a little bit. | |||
" I agree with what you say but we might be talking at cross purposes. It could be my terminology is wrong - I didn't mean 'night out' in the going out drinking with your mates sense. I was referring to partaking in an activity outside of the house in a non-sexual way (could be an evening class in basket-weaving or visit to the local chess club) and simply enjoying the opportunity to be in an environment with like-minded people. To be fair not many Chess Clubs charge £50 a visit with little chance of bashing your Bishop.♟️" Good point | |||
"I agree completely. It's why I've always advocated a lot of networking, both online via here and chat groups, and in person at organised social events. Combining that with clubs is a natural process. I could list half a dozen clubs that I could walk into most weekends and there'd be someone I knew there simply because I've put the groundwork in over the years. Clubs are great. But much like setting up a profile on here they're not a quick fix solution to finding someone to get jiggy with. I see what your saying. But it is a different level of effort to put in compared to a Fab profile in terms of building your stock. Personally, I get knocked back on here and it is what it is. To feel unwelcomed by others in a club because I don't know them yet means effort having to get ready, go out, the cost just to feel like you're another number. I get you need to have a thick skin, but it still knocks the confidence and makes you wonder why you bother. This doesn't just happen to single men, this happens to single women and couples too. Some events attract people who become friends and they invariably want to spend time together and catch up. I have been at events where I have felt like everyone knew eachother and I couldn't really get involved in any conversations as they were all closed off. But not all clubs or events are like that. I've been to plenty of Hankys events now and she's a great host, she attracts a really friendly and welcoming crowd of people and her event chat is absolutely brilliant for helping people (including single men!) to break the ice and feel braver approaching people in the club. As an anxious/shy person I think event chats are a really great tool and I would probably struggle going to an event not knowing anyone if it didn't have a chat beforehand for me to break the ice a little bit. " Oh bless ya! I'm blushing now! 
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"I agree completely. It's why I've always advocated a lot of networking, both online via here and chat groups, and in person at organised social events. Combining that with clubs is a natural process. I could list half a dozen clubs that I could walk into most weekends and there'd be someone I knew there simply because I've put the groundwork in over the years. Clubs are great. But much like setting up a profile on here they're not a quick fix solution to finding someone to get jiggy with. I see what your saying. But it is a different level of effort to put in compared to a Fab profile in terms of building your stock. Personally, I get knocked back on here and it is what it is. To feel unwelcomed by others in a club because I don't know them yet means effort having to get ready, go out, the cost just to feel like you're another number. I get you need to have a thick skin, but it still knocks the confidence and makes you wonder why you bother. Not sure if this is still a thing but a few years ago we attended a couple of social events at a couple of clubs as part of fabswingers and another unmentionable site where they had the club for the whole night Eureka being one of them everyone put names down an a list would appear on the forum page with a Guestlist, you went along payed entry chatted to people who you'd already been chatting to online. Worked a treat. Sadly I can't remember seeing this on here now and these kind of events seem to be pretty clicky unless you are part of a group it's unlikely you'll know about them. But it's a great way to get your face known by people. As for people going to clubs it's pretty daunting as a couple tbh I wouldn't say spoilt for choice but certainly can be overwhelming when you get ten or more guys hovering around your wife like kid's in a sweetshop looking at the treats on offer mouth's open drooling,cock in hand wanking." Organised socials and events still happen all the time. There's plenty advertised in the clubs and events page on here. | |||
"Never really liked the idea off clubs they seem very grim!!! Seems like it's just people sharing jizz lol On that note you could say the same about Swingers?! Clubs however promote SAFE sex and with good reason. " I'm not a swinger!!!! and I'll be honest I think some swingers are grim lol but they some cool ones too  | |||
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"Never really liked the idea off clubs they seem very grim!!! Seems like it's just people sharing jizz lol On that note you could say the same about Swingers?! Clubs however promote SAFE sex and with good reason. I'm not a swinger!!!! and I'll be honest I think some swingers are grim lol but they some cool ones too "It's a fair assumption you are when you are on this site surely? 🤣 | |||
"Never really liked the idea off clubs they seem very grim!!! Seems like it's just people sharing jizz lol On that note you could say the same about Swingers?! Clubs however promote SAFE sex and with good reason. I'm not a swinger!!!! and I'll be honest I think some swingers are grim lol but they some cool ones too
It's a fair assumption you are when you are on this site surely? 🤣"I love clever people like you 🤣🙈 cause I'm on a swingers site it makes me a swinger 🤔🤣🤣🤣🤣🙈 | |||
"Is it a good idea to go into a club as a single man? " Fuck yes. Pick the right club, pick a good night and pick a good theme or hosted event - getting on a guest list (get in early, don’t leave it until the last minute or you won’t get a place) A Guest only night is better as the host will restrict single male numbers and ensure they let the right ones in as it were. Less weirdos killing the vibe. It’s also less of a competitive sausage fest. Go on club websites or their Fab events and get in contact with the hosts and ask to be put on the guest list. Many events now have Discord chat groups so you can get to know others that are attending. Turning up is a breeze then, you’ll have likely seen them naked already, possibly wanked over their pictures and know if they have a cat or dog and what they like for breakfast and where they work (there’s a lot of oversharing). You’ll walk in to smiles and almost friends, know names, recognise familiar tattoos and intimate piercings and be able to spot that set of magnificent tits that you’ve seen weeks previously even though she filtered her face pics beyond recognition. Smell good, be well groomed, barber fresh fade, presentable, fresh breath and even if it’s an immediate dress down club, wear a cool outfit that makes you look good, slow your roll on the way through to the single men’s lockers, the ladies will be taking in your first impression and will have already decided if they want to fuck you before you reappear with a towel wrapped around you. Do not stand against the wall or sit in a corner all Billy no mates expecting someone to come to you, make your own connections. Don’t follow couples or women around. By all means wander, watch at a respectful distance (you might get the come hither finger) but don’t be one of the wanking conga line, fucking losers. Clubs are an overwhelmingly and uniquely positive social friendly environments so don’t be afraid to walk up to strangers and say Hello. It’s like being in the best pub ever where you can chat about anything to anyone and not cause a fight by complimenting his missus’s lingerie. Be fun to be around, Talk to the husbands, they need to like you as much as the wives (maybe even more so). Smile, talk to people, tell them it’s your first time, ask for advice… you’ll be taken under their wing and be balls deep in no time. Have condoms (I always have a shag bag containing condoms, including latex free options, mints, lube, pen and paper for Fab names etc.) the number of men I’ve seen that are invited to fuck but are then told to do one, miss their opportunity and are ridiculed because they haven’t got a condom.. fucking idiots. It’s a swingers club! be prepared to have impromptu safe sex! You’ll have so much sex your cock will almost fall off and you’ll barely have enough energy to grip the steering wheel to drive home. Have a blast and good luck. Fucking love clubs me. | |||
"… I think the "treat it as a night out" analogy is well overplayed. Realistically, who goes on a night out by themselves in the same way single men and women go to clubs and even if you do, what is the likelihood of an established group of friends talking to you and including you? It's not like a night out at all." This is what I struggle to get my head around. I’d love to try one but I wouldn’t go out on my own to a regular bar/club and I’m not sure I could. I’m pretty confident but not sure I’m that confident. | |||
"… I think the "treat it as a night out" analogy is well overplayed. Realistically, who goes on a night out by themselves in the same way single men and women go to clubs and even if you do, what is the likelihood of an established group of friends talking to you and including you? It's not like a night out at all. This is what I struggle to get my head around. I’d love to try one but I wouldn’t go out on my own to a regular bar/club and I’m not sure I could. I’m pretty confident but not sure I’m that confident. " It's more acceptable in a swingers club though so you don't need to be as confident. It's like a night out but not exactly like a night out. After you've been a few times you'll know and recognise people each time. | |||
"Never really liked the idea off clubs they seem very grim!!! Seems like it's just people sharing jizz lol On that note you could say the same about Swingers?! Clubs however promote SAFE sex and with good reason. I'm not a swinger!!!! and I'll be honest I think some swingers are grim lol but they some cool ones too
It's a fair assumption you are when you are on this site surely? 🤣
I love clever people like you 🤣🙈 cause I'm on a swingers site it makes me a swinger 🤔🤣🤣🤣🤣🙈"Um....🤔 | |||
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"In my experience single guys are so called at the bottom of the chain so to speak! We get a raw deal as in paying full price when couples and females get a better deal! But single men are needed in the scene. " That's because they simply can. Between the sheer numbers of men and them knowing men will pay it, hell single men are the only ones stupid enough, and to be honest "desperate" enough to accept paying it. IF single men as a whole (never happen I know) simply refused to pay by not attending they would change that shit so fast. As long as men continue to pay, they will continue to charge. It's exactly the same as with admittance to sports events for example, football season tickets, they know people will pay so they are happy to hike the price up. Very clever business. | |||
"In my experience single guys are so called at the bottom of the chain so to speak! We get a raw deal as in paying full price when couples and females get a better deal! But single men are needed in the scene. That's because they simply can. Between the sheer numbers of men and them knowing men will pay it, hell single men are the only ones stupid enough, and to be honest "desperate" enough to accept paying it. IF single men as a whole (never happen I know) simply refused to pay by not attending they would change that shit so fast. As long as men continue to pay, they will continue to charge. It's exactly the same as with admittance to sports events for example, football season tickets, they know people will pay so they are happy to hike the price up. Very clever business. " You might be right. Or, say me. Chose to no longer go. Clubs would simply stick to the business model many do at present, of only allowing couples and women in, but now on all nights instead of just some. Many clubs are actually busier on those nights than mixed. Many couples don't attend on mixed nights as they're either not looking for single men or (wrongly in the majority of cases) have a negative view of guys in clubs. So with no single men more couples may well attend. And in clubs with bars, where drinks takings add to income, two heads are always better than one. It would be a shame in my eyes if that happened. But there are already clubs that are couples only or who severely restrict single male attendance to a handful. The myth that clubs rely on a overcharge single guys to survive is definitely a myth. 🤷♂️ | |||
"Never really liked the idea off clubs they seem very grim!!! Seems like it's just people sharing jizz lol On that note you could say the same about Swingers?! Clubs however promote SAFE sex and with good reason. I'm not a swinger!!!! and I'll be honest I think some swingers are grim lol but they some cool ones too
It's a fair assumption you are when you are on this site surely? 🤣
I love clever people like you 🤣🙈 cause I'm on a swingers site it makes me a swinger 🤔🤣🤣🤣🤣🙈"Nobody said it was a foregone conclusion - I said a fair assumption. Stop being a numpty lol | |||
"Is it a good idea to go into a club as a single man? " I've found about 90% of the times I've visited clubs as a single guy most enjoyable.  | |||
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"I find the small flock of towel wankers that follow people around creepy in some clubs " It is a spoiler..not something I do.. killed many a promising moment in the past.. | |||
"I find the small flock of towel wankers that follow people around creepy in some clubs " You'll never stop it sadly. But there's plenty of clubs that have private rooms and areas set aside for couples, where single men can only access if accompanying a woman or couple. It's good motivation for positive behaviour. The towel wankers never get invited in. 🤷♂️ | |||
"I find the small flock of towel wankers that follow people around creepy in some clubs " I host events at one club that has a couples only floor no matter the day. They have security on the stairs on busier nights to ensure it's enforced too | |||
"I find the small flock of towel wankers that follow people around creepy in some clubs I host events at one club that has a couples only floor no matter the day. They have security on the stairs on busier nights to ensure it's enforced too "Look who's back posting! Good to see you my dear 
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"I find the small flock of towel wankers that follow people around creepy in some clubs " They really do ruin it for everyone | |||
"I find the small flock of towel wankers that follow people around creepy in some clubs They really do ruin it for everyone" They are, in every sense of the word, wankers. | |||
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"I find the small flock of towel wankers that follow people around creepy in some clubs I host events at one club that has a couples only floor no matter the day. They have security on the stairs on busier nights to ensure it's enforced too
Look who's back posting! Good to see you my dear
S"I'm always around but mostly found in the events section of the forums these days or in a club (obv)!
Always a pleasure to see you chuck! x | |||
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"So I attended a Club in Leeds on a Sunday and it was amazing! Met some people, chilled in hot tub and sauna. Talked with a girl in cinema room and got a lovely bj while she was getting her other end taken care off And then I have spoke to a cpl and we moved into a private room. It was eventful. There was few blokes walking about all the time so I know where people are coming from when they say "daywalkers" but that wasn't the case for me. Will go again " Glad you had a great time. I'm doing my first one next Friday. This has helped me feel a little less nervous. Thanks. | |||
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"As a single man your not welcome in a club .. women yes ..says it all" Thats because they are always looking out for the illusive unicorn. | |||
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"That is not true. You are welcome - often desired. You just have to bear in mind you are going to a social establishment and nothing is guaranteed unless you are invited. Keep this mind set and treat it as you would any other public social place - respectful and polite and you are always welcome." I think what he meant is some clubs and partys dont accept single men at all but will accept single women. | |||
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"I find the small flock of towel wankers that follow people around creepy in some clubs " Ah yes, the sheep with towels | |||
