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Is being a 'slut' sexy to you?
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Personally, I like it in the right circumstances. The middle of some fun, and with someone I'm comfortable with.
But if it was used in a first message or even in messages in general that aren't dirty talk, it would be a turn off. |
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"Personally, I like it in the right circumstances. The middle of some fun, and with someone I'm comfortable with.
But if it was used in a first message or even in messages in general that aren't dirty talk, it would be a turn off."
This basically, it's about context.
I sometimes enjoy someone I have a connection with telling me what a good little slut I am for instance. Or calling me their slut.
But a random calling me a slut can piss off. |
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I hate it used as a derogatory term, degradation and humiliation are definitely not my kinks.
However my best friend and I will call each other all sorts of names as a term of endearment and that’s fine by me. |
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It normally depends on the dynamic. It feels like it's earnt not automatic.
It is something of a turn on along with other derogatory language when the context is in a loving and safe relationship.
Bunny is happy to be MY slut. But not be called it randomly. |
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"Call me it and expect to be poked in the eyes.
But I want to do the poking!
I’ll poke you in the eyes with your own fingers. How about that?
Before or after you groom my nipple hair?"
You won’t notice the sting if we do it at the same time. |
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I love being a slut! In every meaning of the word. Very libarating, and it's just who I am. My man understands this, and knows, a slut is not just for the bedroom.
No, I do not want and need any offers, or any messages ect on the back of this thread by dm. |
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By *ruceyy OP Man 2 weeks ago
London |
"Call me it and expect to be poked in the eyes.
But I want to do the poking!
I’ll poke you in the eyes with your own fingers. How about that?
Before or after you groom my nipple hair?
You won’t notice the sting if we do it at the same time. "
You'd be talented if you could do both at the same time. I'm now interested in your other talents 😘 |
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By *ony MannMan 2 weeks ago
Las Gaviotos, Fuerteventura |
Own the word. It's used as a derogatory term far to much. Some think two lovers are sluts, others think it has to be a hundred. Some think it's someone who gives up to anyone who asks.
If a man or woman enters a 10000 beds, being honest with the other person there is nothing wrong. If they enter 1 bed promising more than they intend to give they are despicable.
I other words I rather bed a slut who says I'm her one time toy than bed a woman who says anything to get me to bed. |
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I love my husband calling me a slut when it is in its right time and place. Even he wouldn't just randomly use that word out of context so I'm not sure why anyone else would.
I can't get annoyed if people put it in a message as its on my profile but context is everything. If they are referring to me being my husbands slut I have no issue, a random stranger calling me his slut does not entice me to respond. |
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"I love my husband calling me a slut when it is in its right time and place. Even he wouldn't just randomly use that word out of context so I'm not sure why anyone else would.
I can't get annoyed if people put it in a message as its on my profile but context is everything. If they are referring to me being my husbands slut I have no issue, a random stranger calling me his slut does not entice me to respond. "
^^this 👍🏻 |
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"Personally, I like it in the right circumstances. The middle of some fun, and with someone I'm comfortable with.
But if it was used in a first message or even in messages in general that aren't dirty talk, it would be a turn off."
👆🏻👆🏻even sorry |
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"Own the word. It's used as a derogatory term far to much. Some think two lovers are sluts, others think it has to be a hundred. Some think it's someone who gives up to anyone who asks.
If a man or woman enters a 10000 beds, being honest with the other person there is nothing wrong. If they enter 1 bed promising more than they intend to give they are despicable.
I other words I rather bed a slut who says I'm her one time toy than bed a woman who says anything to get me to bed."
I like your logic and wholeheartedly agree |
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