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How do you feel when you don’t have sex for a bit
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I kind of get over it. I'm the type of person that when I have sex, I can't get enough of it but after a while in terms of months, it just becomes more of an afterthought which can mess with my mojo for a bit. |
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By *a LunaWoman 3 weeks ago
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"I kind of get over it. I'm the type of person that when I have sex, I can't get enough of it but after a while in terms of months, it just becomes more of an afterthought which can mess with my mojo for a bit."
This.
The more I have sex the more I want it. The less I get I can get a bit arsey because I want more of it.
But when going through a period of years (like now) then I switch off that part of me, until it wakes up again. |
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"I kind of get over it. I'm the type of person that when I have sex, I can't get enough of it but after a while in terms of months, it just becomes more of an afterthought which can mess with my mojo for a bit.
This.
The more I have sex the more I want it. The less I get I can get a bit arsey because I want more of it.
But when going through a period of years (like now) then I switch off that part of me, until it wakes up again."
Wanna change that  |
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By *a LunaWoman 3 weeks ago
South Wales |
"I kind of get over it. I'm the type of person that when I have sex, I can't get enough of it but after a while in terms of months, it just becomes more of an afterthought which can mess with my mojo for a bit.
This.
The more I have sex the more I want it. The less I get I can get a bit arsey because I want more of it.
But when going through a period of years (like now) then I switch off that part of me, until it wakes up again.
Wanna change that "
You’d be wore down to a nub  |
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"I kind of get over it. I'm the type of person that when I have sex, I can't get enough of it but after a while in terms of months, it just becomes more of an afterthought which can mess with my mojo for a bit.
This.
The more I have sex the more I want it. The less I get I can get a bit arsey because I want more of it.
But when going through a period of years (like now) then I switch off that part of me, until it wakes up again.
Wanna change that
You’d be wore down to a nub "
Get in my inbox now |
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"I kind of get over it. I'm the type of person that when I have sex, I can't get enough of it but after a while in terms of months, it just becomes more of an afterthought which can mess with my mojo for a bit."
Yeah that |
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"Feels great on gym days 
Like with many athletic sports like boxing & football, cumming before a session drains my strength & aggression. The longer I go the stronger I get haha "
Yeah some football coaches don’t let their players see their partners for this reason I think |
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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago
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I often have long gaps between sex. Not by choice, I've just had bad luck with finding people who stick around or don't cause trouble, for whatever reason. Both with relationships and casual. 🤔
When it first starts, I'm slightly frustrated for a few days. More at it going south, rather than the lack of anything.
I quickly adjust after that, back to the usual routine of sorting myself out. 😆
Used to bother me more when I was younger, now I shrug it off and care very little. |
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"Feels great on gym days
Like with many athletic sports like boxing & football, cumming before a session drains my strength & aggression. The longer I go the stronger I get haha
Yeah some football coaches don’t let their players see their partners for this reason I think"
Women weaken legs! You'd get that reference if you were more cultured... |
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Depends on the reason, really. Sometimes life’s just too stressful to even think about it, so it doesn’t bother me much. But if I do want it and can’t, for whatever reason, I tend to get a bit tetchy after a few weeks and that last a couple of months. Eventually, though, I just get used to it. The longest I’ve gone without sex was two years.
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If I've decided I'm not having sex then it doesn't bother me.
If I want the sex and life is stopping me then I get frustrated, but if it's just not happening after a while I simply stop wanting it when it's just not a viable option 💜 |
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It's the literal worst. Especially because I'm going through something at the moment which means that I'm not able to orgasm through masturbation. So if I go weeks or months without having sex it means weeks or months without having an orgasm. And that's pretty fucking miserable. |
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"Talking weeks. Or months. "
I can’t comment, and I’m not saying it in a (I’m a top shagger way) but I’ll tell you now if I ever come into an sex drought I would definitely be going to the knocking shop |
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Tbf I masturbate plenty and have lots of orgasms so I could cope with it. I've gone plenty of time without sex before as long as I can make myself cum. I would miss the intimacy side of sex and masturbating isn't the same but I wouldn't be climbing the walls. Tbh the longer I go without the easier it gets in some ways. |
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Frustrated! Mr is away, not due back until Mid Feb. My electric bill is now sky high from using my toy.
I sent him a very erotic message ( fantasy story) with pics of my wet pussy yesterday. I got back pics of his hard on, and him saying - yes please, we're do this when I'm back. We're be fucking like rabbits for a week when he's back. So it won't happen until at least March. Watch this space.
But no dm's on the back of this thread. We don't need offers, until the meet goes up. |
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"Fine after a few weeks - I think the longest has been a couple of months? I'm worse when I've had it recently, get a bit insatiable and think about it far too often."
Those times when it just happens and now I feel it’s not going to happen
It’s frustrating when u need it but it’s just too difficult to break down your barriers with someone you connected with so easily |
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probably like most on here I get frustrated I feel the need and then I go and play and feel better and get on with my day,
my wife once said when I wanted a quickie it will be even quicker if you played with yourself |
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"Its been three years. Mostly I don't think about it.
But when I do, it drives me crackers and I find it difficult to think about other things."
It's been 3 years since you got your leg over? 
What are you waiting for? |
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"Its been three years. Mostly I don't think about it.
But when I do, it drives me crackers and I find it difficult to think about other things.
It's been 3 years since you got your leg over?
What are you waiting for?"
A miracle |
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"Its been three years. Mostly I don't think about it.
But when I do, it drives me crackers and I find it difficult to think about other things.
It's been 3 years since you got your leg over?
What are you waiting for?
A miracle "
I offered one |
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I’m 3 and a half years gone.
Not made the effort to get out there and do anything about it, focussed on work and kids to get myself into a good place and just became comfortable, I don’t drink so the social element is a bit different. At the same time I’m not looking for anything serious, I have what I need and would rather not notch bedposts with meaningless nights.
That being said, this year I’m hoping to attend some club nights and see what the fuss is about, so who knows! |
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Relieved.... I'm too horny usually and get tired of begging for what I want so when I just go cold turkey the withdrawals wear off and I don't crave it as bad as I do if I get sporadic sex.. fucking horrible being a hopeless romantic nympho |
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7 days without and I'm an angry short woman. Attitude needs fucking out of me
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