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Verifications how many is to many
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So today I was messaged saying that I have to many verifications for the time
My profile has been live and it’s rather off
Putting.. I explained to the lady that if she
Read
Them that most of them
Are
Club meet veris and
Not people I’ve played with necessarily. How ever she
Said it’s still to many and why do I feel
The need to display them all?
To my question to everyone is how man is to many and should you
Display them
All???? |
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By *eliWoman 4 weeks ago
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However many means that you're not compatible with them. It varies a lot. Even then I wouldn't say they are too many, per se, just for the person viewing them.
As long as you're happy? That's the most important thing. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 4 weeks ago
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Serious answer time.
You'll never please everyone. So just publish whatever you want and either hide the summary or show it.
Those that attend clubs and socials tend to have waaaaay more than those that just meet. They're easy to spot and the majority will be obviously purely social veris, but that relies on people actually reading them and not just looking at a number.
The site also doesn't show when you joined. An important factor in the equation. I have less after 17 years here than a partner who's been here 2.
But then she has boobs. 🤷♂️
Some will be put off by a number being too high whilst equally being averse to those with just one.
Don't sweat it. Trying to find the 'goldilocks' number that's just right will drive you mad. |
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Ignore it. There was a lifestyle way before Fab and on other sites too! It's not a body counter, alot of couples and singles are very active from a social perspective.
Don't get me wrong though, there was one person we saw who travelled round in a van and had like 600+ from dogging - that's a very rare exception!!! |
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"Ignore it. There was a lifestyle way before Fab and on other sites too! It's not a body counter, alot of couples and singles are very active from a social perspective.
Don't get me wrong though, there was one person we saw who travelled round in a van and had like 600+ from dogging - that's a very rare exception!!! "
Poor dog must have had blisters |
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I would never say someone had too many veris I don't think, some people have 100+, but upon read them, they're often from people they've been social with in a club etc, or perhaps liased with at social meets.
I can speak to numerous people in a club, if they all verified me and I showed them, it would make browsing harder for potential playmates.
I simply don't display all my veris because of that fact, I cherry pick,
Choosing what I feel shows the most diverse and best picture of me.
I don't show all the social ones,
Nor all from couples, nor all from lone males.....
I wish to show the variety I prefer so a couple of socials, some club ones, some from couples, some from lone men, some from parties etc.
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Yoy also don't need to justify to anyone, the contents of your profile.
Wether that be your information, preferences, or verifications
If someone is put off by the amount of verifications you have, then, put simply......
You're most likely not compatible.
The only time I would question numbers with regards to veris is,
If someone has been on here for longer than 6/12months, and didn't have a single verification to show for it. |
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By *ripfillMan 4 weeks ago
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I would suggest 69 veris … I would not record any more after that published number has been achieved lol
Mind you …. the rate I am going to get to 69
I will be 143 years old working on the current number I have - and time taken to an achieve those … but. that’s definitely worth looking forward to !
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If anything on a profile raises concern or is not on your wish list of things,scroll on by.
Not enough veris, move on.
Too many veris, move on.
Why anyone chooses to comment on, or criticise something they disagree with on another persons profile amuses me.
If you like it try it, if you don't find one that suits you. There are plenty of them.
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