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Reasons why you block
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I don't like blocking people, but sometimes I have to. I won't block if they obviously haven't read my profile, I will message back and point out they should read it, no anal, age restrictions etc. But if they contact again asking for a meet, I'll block. Other reasons, messages which start hello daddy, or just, Hey or Hi.
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By (user no longer on site) 4 weeks ago
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When they demonstrate that they're not my people and I have no interest in interacting with them and will never want to meet them.
That doesn't mean it's people that disagree with me. I love people who are open-minded and happy to chat and challenge me and my thoughts respectfully. I just don't like people who tell me their opinions as if they're facts. People that are so opinionated they can't be reasoned with. They "know" everything and aren't mature enough to realise their knowledge is largely belief. |
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People can have lits of reasons. I kkow some block incompatinle people so they don't come up in their searches. My main reason would almost always be about behaviour, nasty and abusive comments to anyone, extreme politics, disrimination, anything illegal and the odd inappropriate personal message. |
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"We block anyone who still tries after being told "no", anyone who is in any way abusive, and anyone who posts really off-putting pics so that they don't appear on our local updates"
Basically, this! |
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Normally newbie accounts because I have a stalker ex and family that keep trying to peek, anyone that messages persistently after I've deleted/said no to/ignored etc, and people that get angry because I havent responded or I politely declined. |
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Lots of reasons
Not what I’m looking for
Not who I thought they were
Pushy
Weird vibes
Abusive
Too local
Forum posts suggest they have an affinity to Farage/Tate/Hopkins/Musk
They’re a Tory
Probably 1001 other reasons |
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people who after you say no thanks we are not interested continue to send messages, people who on the second message ask you for a photo of your face, people who say I'm in your city tonight and I'm in this hotel |
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Usually if a profile contains any of the following:
- derogatory language
- body shaming
- penis size requirements (super cringe)
- looking for someone who is the totally opposite to me (E.g. white/Caucasian/BWC only)
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Usually if they are rude / attacking other people in the forums...there is no space for that in my life
I also block one of my ex-work colleagues who pop's up from time to time so she can enjoy her fab journey |
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Pushy people, ie they message and then message again really fast. Or appear not to understand no.
Profiles I don't like in my updates, with distasteful pics or statuses.
Those who send really long graphic messages describing what they'd do to me - ewww. |
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There are some on here whose preferences would rule me out, others I have no chance of meeting anytime soon. These people I just block, I don’t tell them, not interested in attempting to hurt anyone’s feelings. Just block and move on. |
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"We block anyone who still tries after being told "no", anyone who is in any way abusive, and anyone who posts really off-putting pics so that they don't appear on our local updates"
I’m the same x |
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If someone messages and they haven't read the profile or are looking for the total opposite get blocked.
Also those in local updates that have images we find graphic.
At the end of the day there's no point someone constantly showing up on searches and viewing your profile when you aren't compatible. |
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1 - When people just keep messaging even though we've politely declined their interest and keep trying to iniate a conversation.
2 - People who message asking for more pictures, and send unsolicited friend requests. As single males are blocked from contacting this is usually very obviously the male half of a couple having a tug and wanting extra material.
3 - Absolutely blank profiles who demand X Y Z from you in order to chat/meet but won't give the same in return. Easier just blocking them. |
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1. If I contact and they’re not interested
2. ‘Sorry, not racist, but I/We don’t see black guys’
3. Timewasters
4. Forget that I have been on their profile and they have an age range preference that I’m outside of, live too far away; dick-teasing ‘fab-my-pic’ collectors
5. We’ve met in person and they’re just not my cup of tea or met at a club and they turned out to be a bag of sore dicks in human form |
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I block when they spam my inbox after not getting a reply. I try to be polite. It doesn't work. It tried replying to all, even if just to say no thanks, doesn't work. I try deleting, doesn't work.
So I block. |
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It's a pretty long list but in general:
-sends me an abusive message
-sends me a message about something disgusting I'm not into
-sends me a message with a disgusting unsolicited photo
-doesn't accept no and is persistent
-looks at my profile every day even tho they don't meet my messaging filters (so creepy)
-sends multiple messages every time I log on even though I haven't read any of their earlier messages (take the hint)
-we met and I don't want to see them again and don't want them to be able to look at my profile (I will have already told them this before I block them, I don't just ghost people)
-looked at their profile and they gave me the ick in some way
Probably loads of other reasons too 😂 |
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"Ive noticed i get blocked more than i actually block people. A polite thanks but no thanks gets me blocked which is fine. Its just weird when ive never interacted with them. Lol"
I get the same, even after a nice polite appropriate message, nought as fickle as folk. Not everyone is for everyone but like you it's odd when you have never had any interaction  |
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By (user no longer on site) 4 weeks ago
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Weird messages
Horrible forum people
Hideous suggestions
Look like a murderer
Horrible user names
Someone i know (local usually)
Wanting to buy my pants
Did I just see you in...... weird as fuck that one
People that keep rejoining under new names that you've previously blocked, and they don't think you know it's them! |
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By *apio51Man 4 weeks ago
Edinburgh |
I blocked my first the other day. I posted a reply to her thread (she was OP) on the forum. She message me privately and opened a couple of discussion points. When I replied asking some pertinent questions (that clearly she disagreed with) she asked me, in a one liner, what my problem was. Blocked.
There was a lot of implied stuff. And I could go into more detail (generalisation) but I got the impression things were going a bit wonky. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 4 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Lots of reasons
Not what I’m looking for
Not who I thought they were
Pushy
Weird vibes
Abusive
Too local
Forum posts suggest they have an affinity to Farage/Tate/Hopkins/Musk
They’re a Tory
Probably 1001 other reasons"
This and more.
Unsolicited friends requests is the biggest reason on the couples profile. They're warned in the profile text they likely didn't bother reading. 🤷♂️ |
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By *inkShyWoman 4 weeks ago
near Windsor |
Biggest reason is they don't accept "no". If you cannot accept a no online, there is no chance I'm putting myself in danger in person so I block to be done.
Second, not reading my profile and asking for an spontaneous meet.
Third reason, they give me instant feelings of "Eurgh" or the heebie jeebies. |
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"We block if it's clear thay haven't read the profile after they claim to of or block if we clearly don't want to meet them and lots of local gets blocked "
as I am the latter I can see why now boohoo lol  |
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There are 40 plus on my block list which is more than some and less than many.
I've never spoken to or exchanged messages with 95 percent of those and they are blocked either for their inane and abusive updates, their inane, abusive and condescending forum comments or because they have been asking other fabbers for my personal details.
The remaining 5 percent are blocked for exactly the same reasons and the only difference being that I have engaged with them at some stage. |
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I rarely block, just delete messages. Only block people who just keep persistently messaging when we have politely declined. Or people who are too graphic with messages but generally just delete the first 1 or 2. If we know a person outside of fab we'd block them. |
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If they read my msg and dont reply. I just take it as a sign of no interest
If they display on their profile that im not what they are looking for.
I don’t usually get messages from women or couples I usually have to msg first so i dont have to worry about abusive msgs thankfully |
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I block generally anyone I have zero interest in if they message me, or if I message them and they have zero interest in me.
Or anyone I have zero interest in interacting with.
It makes searching easier from stumbling upon the same profiles over and over.
I've started to do it to those on the forum too, just to solidify I have zero interest in interacting with them. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS 4 weeks ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
I've blocked people on here whose politics is diametrically opposed to mine. Each to their own, but I see no point meeting someone who would be triggered if I said something that shattered their fragile state and I have no risk to go for a meet and find it annoying when we stray into a discussion that we end up regretting.
Having said that, the last person I blocked was an admirer who kept saying hi to me. Very nice and flattering, but also extremely circular, never going to lead anywhere and probably best for them to move on  |
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"…What are your reasons?"
I block all men and TV/TS: fine as friends - but I’m not here for friends.
I then block women and couples that I don’t fancy or are rude, or if they say they’re not interested in me.
It just saves us all from wasting our time. |
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- People who don't get the hint that three unresponded to messages means we still aren't interested
- When people can't accept no one here, there unlikely to in real life!
- And when we just don't like what we see or the content posted, not for us and we move on! |
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If we've chatted and they've said no thank you to further communication . If it states in their bio they won't meet x/y/z and I fall under those criteria .
Means I don't forget and message them late sometime in the grip of horn and the like. |
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By *pthillMan 4 weeks ago
st shithole |
I block for usually the same reason
People who start a bio with their demands
“Only msg me if”
Then followed by a list of do’s n donts
And how great they are
And they are the catch of the country
Self adoration is a vile trait
Its an instant block |
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