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would you support your partner if they had to give up work
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Yes.
I had an ex who used to just flounder out of jobs. He must have had 6 jobs in the 3 years Iwas with him . It was never his fault though, always someone else who had a problem with him and made working there impossible  |
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"Yes.
I had an ex who used to just flounder out of jobs. He must have had 6 jobs in the 3 years Iwas with him . It was never his fault though, always someone else who had a problem with him and made working there impossible "
we both worked for the same company together for 17 years and loved it .. now we don't work together its slightly weird but we both meet each other to go to work together and come home together |
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
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Jason got made redundant 18 months ago and decided to start up his own business.
I support him in the good and the bad times and yes..... I've provided all the money some months, including October 12 to March 13 (including keeping the garage going)
But that's what you do when committed to someone....... And I do it without question. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine is supporting me 100%
I left a good, secure and well paid job in order to follow a dream and allthough times can be hard and stressful as all the responsibility of the bills and mortgage etc are on him, he never questions me or what I'm doing or why I'm doing it.
I'm half way through my degree now and there's an end in sight, just!
I don't think I can ever thank him enough for all he's sacrificed for me to fulfill a dream and I'd do the same for him in a heartbeat x |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Mine is supporting me 100%
I left a good, secure and well paid job in order to follow a dream and allthough times can be hard and stressful as all the responsibility of the bills and mortgage etc are on him, he never questions me or what I'm doing or why I'm doing it.
I'm half way through my degree now and there's an end in sight, just!
I don't think I can ever thank him enough for all he's sacrificed for me to fulfill a dream and I'd do the same for him in a heartbeat x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I supported my partner for years when we first met,
Then I took ill and had to retire aged 35 with no income
He supports me without question. I do now work sometimes but hes the earner |
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"Jason got made redundant 18 months ago and decided to start up his own business.
I support him in the good and the bad times and yes..... I've provided all the money some months, including October 12 to March 13 (including keeping the garage going)
But that's what you do when committed to someone....... And I do it without question."
fair play to you both .. respect !! |
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"I supported my partner for years when we first met,
Then I took ill and had to retire aged 35 with no income
He supports me without question. I do now work sometimes but hes the earner"
fair play to you both .. that's how it should work |
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"Husband: 100%.
Partner: nope! My kids are draining me enough, why would I take on another adult not related to me?!! "
to me my partner has the same status as a husband - you're not actualy related to a husband till you get married!Z |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"i have ofered to support them in the past if they really didnt like their job and wanted to retrain or something"
Me, too - it is about being in a mutually supportive relationship |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Husband: 100%.
Partner: nope! My kids are draining me enough, why would I take on another adult not related to me?!!
to me my partner has the same status as a husband - you're not actualy related to a husband till you get married!Z"
Still not related as no blood tie, either way a husband is just a piece of paper a partner the same minus the signing. |
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"I have done and I would do it again...
so you aint as disillusioned as I thought
You what??? "
I thought you had lost the will in men from previous posts but it seems I had got it wrong which im pleased to read |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Husband: 100%.
Partner: nope! My kids are draining me enough, why would I take on another adult not related to me?!! "
As I have just said how is a husband related to you? |
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"Mine is supporting me 100%
I left a good, secure and well paid job in order to follow a dream and allthough times can be hard and stressful as all the responsibility of the bills and mortgage etc are on him, he never questions me or what I'm doing or why I'm doing it.
I'm half way through my degree now and there's an end in sight, just!
I don't think I can ever thank him enough for all he's sacrificed for me to fulfill a dream and I'd do the same for him in a heartbeat x"
Exactly the same here, I have up my job to do my degree, just finishing my second year. Couldn't have done it without marts support, both financial & emotional. I am grateful everyday for having such a great husband & I'd do the same for him in a heartbeat! |
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"I have done and I would do it again...
so you aint as disillusioned as I thought
You what???
am i being cynical to say that he's replied to the only single lady to post? might be wrong here! Z"
I am just not sure how I am an disillusional person....  |
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"I have done and I would do it again...
so you aint as disillusioned as I thought
You what???
I thought you had lost the will in men from previous posts but it seems I had got it wrong which im pleased to read "
WTF........... |
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"I have done and I would do it again...
so you aint as disillusioned as I thought
You what???
am i being cynical to say that he's replied to the only single lady to post? might be wrong here! Z
I am just not sure how I am an disillusional person.... "
i don't think you are!!! far from it - Z |
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"I have done and I would do it again...
so you aint as disillusioned as I thought
You what???
am i being cynical to say that he's replied to the only single lady to post? might be wrong here! Z
I am just not sure how I am an disillusional person....
i don't think you are!!! far from it - Z"
thank god for that...  |
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"i think it is something you just do without giving it much thought or totting up - it's part of being in a relationship - Z"
I agree with that whole hartedly but there can be other factors that can put a burden on the partner not working such as finances and that is when things can become fractious |
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WTF...........
sorry cheeky if ive caused you offence .. I never meant it and have clearly read your post wrong for which I apologise "
your thoughts on me are your thoughts... I know who I am... No offence taken my end... |
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your thoughts on me are your thoughts... I know who I am... No offence taken my end...
thank you for accepting my apology graciously "
Its not about accepting it about not taking offence... you stated I was a delusional person you based on remarks on previous threads I have made... I have to say you know nothing about my previous relationships... anyway as stated your thoughts on me are your thoughts.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I did with my ex while he wasn't working for two years. 
fair play to you .. its not easy but it also can cement a relationship at times "
It didn't, hense why he is my ex |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
My ex may have turned out to be a thieving cunt, but when he was out of work he tried his damndest to find other jobs and I supported him - same with my ex-husband (although he never robbed me) when he was made redundant, I took care of the bills and supported him |
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"All 3
Without a second thought
Partners are not for fair weather only, infact a good one will come into his/her own when the clouds descend"
agree totally bussy .. sometimes I think you have to weather the storm with them to know how indulstrioulous they can be |
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"My ex may have turned out to be a thieving cunt, but when he was out of work he tried his damndest to find other jobs and I supported him - same with my ex-husband (although he never robbed me) when he was made redundant, I took care of the bills and supported him"
did it make you guys closer though or question each other ? |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
"My ex may have turned out to be a thieving cunt, but when he was out of work he tried his damndest to find other jobs and I supported him - same with my ex-husband (although he never robbed me) when he was made redundant, I took care of the bills and supported him
did it make you guys closer though or question each other ?"
Hard to say...with my ex husband, he was out of work 2 years before I left him, but our relationship had been rocky beforehand for quite a long time...with the latest ex, soon as I found out he'd robbed me blind he was dropped like a hot potato |
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