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By *eliWoman 3 weeks ago
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I don't think so. But then my definition might not be the same as yours so I'm not sure. The wrong kind of love? Definitely.
The right kind of love though? For me, it brings out my softer, better self. Makes me strive to improve. Makes the world brighter, lights up my soul. I've been dating someone for six months and there's not been one argument. It's so... easy. Feels like home. |
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"I don't think so. But then my definition might not be the same as yours so I'm not sure. The wrong kind of love? Definitely.
The right kind of love though? For me, it brings out my softer, better self. Makes me strive to improve. Makes the world brighter, lights up my soul. I've been dating someone for six months and there's not been one argument. It's so... easy. Feels like home. "
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"I don't think so. But then my definition might not be the same as yours so I'm not sure. The wrong kind of love? Definitely.
The right kind of love though? For me, it brings out my softer, better self. Makes me strive to improve. Makes the world brighter, lights up my soul. I've been dating someone for six months and there's not been one argument. It's so... easy. Feels like home. "
The crazy I’m talking about, you could still feel alongside this. |
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By *eliWoman 3 weeks ago
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"I don't think so. But then my definition might not be the same as yours so I'm not sure. The wrong kind of love? Definitely.
The right kind of love though? For me, it brings out my softer, better self. Makes me strive to improve. Makes the world brighter, lights up my soul. I've been dating someone for six months and there's not been one argument. It's so... easy. Feels like home.
The crazy I’m talking about, you could still feel alongside this. "
How would you describe the crazy you're talking about? |
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"I don't think so. But then my definition might not be the same as yours so I'm not sure. The wrong kind of love? Definitely.
The right kind of love though? For me, it brings out my softer, better self. Makes me strive to improve. Makes the world brighter, lights up my soul. I've been dating someone for six months and there's not been one argument. It's so... easy. Feels like home.
The crazy I’m talking about, you could still feel alongside this.
How would you describe the crazy you're talking about?"
I described it above as obsessive. Feeling obsessive over the person, thinking about them all the time, talking to them all the time etc. obsessive thoughts and desires. |
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I agree with Meli when it's right, it's just, well, right!
But love can lead you along many a different path, and sometimes that path can be rocky, or worse, can lead you to a place you didn't want it to take it to. |
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By *eliWoman 3 weeks ago
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"I don't think so. But then my definition might not be the same as yours so I'm not sure. The wrong kind of love? Definitely.
The right kind of love though? For me, it brings out my softer, better self. Makes me strive to improve. Makes the world brighter, lights up my soul. I've been dating someone for six months and there's not been one argument. It's so... easy. Feels like home.
The crazy I’m talking about, you could still feel alongside this.
How would you describe the crazy you're talking about?
I described it above as obsessive. Feeling obsessive over the person, thinking about them all the time, talking to them all the time etc. obsessive thoughts and desires. "
Ah. No, can't say I've experienced that. I know some of my friends have experienced limerence where they get those obsessive level of thoughts. If I am in love with someone I think about them often, little things will remind me of them but it's not obsessive. Perhaps it's down to the person and how they feel rather than the feeling itself. |
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"I don't think so. But then my definition might not be the same as yours so I'm not sure. The wrong kind of love? Definitely.
The right kind of love though? For me, it brings out my softer, better self. Makes me strive to improve. Makes the world brighter, lights up my soul. I've been dating someone for six months and there's not been one argument. It's so... easy. Feels like home.
The crazy I’m talking about, you could still feel alongside this.
How would you describe the crazy you're talking about?
I described it above as obsessive. Feeling obsessive over the person, thinking about them all the time, talking to them all the time etc. obsessive thoughts and desires.
Ah. No, can't say I've experienced that. I know some of my friends have experienced limerence where they get those obsessive level of thoughts. If I am in love with someone I think about them often, little things will remind me of them but it's not obsessive. Perhaps it's down to the person and how they feel rather than the feeling itself. "
Limerance comes up. I think people can be in love and feel it. Been a while since I experienced it. But I don’t enjoy someone having so much control over my thoughts. |
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By *eliWoman 3 weeks ago
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"Perhaps it's down to the person and how they feel rather than the feeling itself.
Limerance comes up. I think people can be in love and feel it. Been a while since I experienced it. But I don’t enjoy someone having so much control over my thoughts. "
People probably can be in love and have obsessive feelings/thoughts. Maybe it's not so much true or false but varying degrees of it. Love doesn't always make you crazy. For some people? Yeah, I can see it does. |
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I think we felt it when we first fell in love, though we were 17/18 at the time.
We did some crazy shit so we could be together and we probably made crap decisions but none that ever had terrible repercussions. There is one incident I won't describe here but possibly THE most romantic, but insane thing anyone has ever done for me, was done by Mr KC as a 17yo  |
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"Define crazy
also define true
and false.
Let's not go there with defining love.
Like obsessive. I’ve read a lot about love feeling like obsession. Obsessive thoughts and desires. Etc etc "
Of those I have experienced love with, I can recall how it felt to be still in their silence, as if 30 years ago was yesterday. Yet I cannot recall what I did this time yesterday.
If that makes me crazy then I am glad that I am not well-adjusted to this world. |
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By *ags73Man 3 weeks ago
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Limerence has been on my mind. I think ‘afterglow’ was in my head and I don’t know. I think I felt i was on the up slope and it’s strange/nice combination.
The other side I guess I know more about, but getting back to before or even or ormal is gonna be the thing. |
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By *ripfillMan 3 weeks ago
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Love for me is why I got married … then put into darkness for latter years
Fab for me is realism, life, colour and independence
Plus an appreciation for giving
( I owe one v special lady for seeing the light )
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