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What is something you find attractive that isn’t necessarily intended to be flirtatious or a turn on?
I’ll go first
I find it extremely attractive when a woman can down a pint of beer. Unsure why it works for me but it does.
Does anyone else have anything similar? |
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By *eliWoman 7 days ago
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When someone's really passionate and knowledgeable about something dorky. Passion is incredibly sexy even on dorky topics and I like imagining it directed at me.
I also like watching someone writing. Or reading. |
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By *abioMan 7 days ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"What is something you find attractive that isn’t necessarily intended to be flirtatious or a turn on?
I’ll go first
I find it extremely attractive when a woman can down a pint of beer. Unsure why it works for me but it does.
Does anyone else have anything similar?"
May I suggest you move to the north east… the use of a “half pint” glass has been banned and the rules for spirits are like darts (doubles and trebles only!)  |
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By *abioMan 7 days ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"A girl/lady that hit a good golf shot, that’s a big turn on for me 😛"
Yeah… because what could ever go wrong with giving her a club and telling her to take it out on the ball! |
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Deep conversations, where the other person is showing raw emotions....
They could crying or have tears in their eyes, sharing about how their cat tragically died when they were 10.. and I would be thinking.. damn you are hot, I could jump you right now....
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"I have an unconventional one.. scars! Obviously like all attractions, it’s subjective and not every one I see I find so, but for some reason when they do it for me, they do it for me, no idea why!"
I'm into it too, I like things that make people unique and human |
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"Something about hands, especially when a man is driving  "
I had a long-term partner who could get unusually excited by "driving hands".
It's definitely a thing.
I find a goofy clumsiness very attractive.
It makes me very tactile towards a woman. |
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I love the little lines that eminate from the corner of a mature woman's eyes. She probably hates them and potentially spends money and time trying to reduce / prevent them developing. But they say experience and a life lived and smiling anx laughing and squinting on a sunny day. |
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"I love the little lines that eminate from the corner of a mature woman's eyes. She probably hates them and potentially spends money and time trying to reduce / prevent them developing. But they say experience and a life lived and smiling anx laughing and squinting on a sunny day."
Yeah I've often stroked to those, so hot. |
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Passion and knowledge, particularly about something I know nothing of. I have someone who traces a finger round my body naming, muscles, bones, joints. Means fuck all to me but doesn’t half make me wet 🙈😂 |
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"Passion and knowledge, particularly about something I know nothing of. I have someone who traces a finger round my body naming, muscles, bones, joints. Means fuck all to me but doesn’t half make me wet 🙈😂"
I would love it if he made it up. This is the theribular...
Annoyingly I am dating a doctor who does this but I don't love it 😂 |
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"Passion and knowledge, particularly about something I know nothing of. I have someone who traces a finger round my body naming, muscles, bones, joints. Means fuck all to me but doesn’t half make me wet 🙈😂
I would love it if he made it up. This is the theribular...
Annoyingly I am dating a doctor who does this but I don't love it 😂"
Ah that’s where the trust comes in, trust he’s not bullshitting. And trust is very sexy too.
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I used to kick ass at Rock Band drums. Got so into it I had to play topless at times
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I mean, there's flirting, and there's this!
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Ha ha, I just looked at fab at the right moment It’s totally true, ask Mr TMN! |
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I find it attractive when someone does something considerate for me without my asking.
For example, recently I my train was cancelled to the airport , and the guy I was in the gym (who I barely know) with said without hesitation “I’ll take you there”, and he woke up at 4am the next day and drove me to my destination, over 2 hrs away.
Another recent time a colleague came over to me holding my jacket and held it open and put it on me. Then rubbed my shoulders and said they don’t want me to get cold. They did it with this really honest sincerity and strength that made me feel some kind of way.
Both of those are pretty mundane things but are also strangely intimate and they really made me start fancying both people involved.
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"But to your point OP- I find it very attractive when a woman wears a tracksuit and fresh trainers.
I bought a new outfit actually. It's joggers and a cropped hoodie top. No new trainers tho."
Get some new trainers and we’ll talk |
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"But to your point OP- I find it very attractive when a woman wears a tracksuit and fresh trainers.
I bought a new outfit actually. It's joggers and a cropped hoodie top. No new trainers tho.
Get some new trainers and we’ll talk"
I don't need shoes |
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Then I realised that a fwb of mine does exactly the same thing and I'm strangely attracted to it 
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