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By *eyeYCouple 1 week ago
Nr Leicester |
Honestly if the status quo was reversed I'd be fucking terrible!
Good job I have a very charming man who connects with most people, I won't mention the number of times I've been a shit 'wing-woman' on meeting and messaging 🤦🤣 x |
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I'd send a simple Hey because that's all they need.
Then I'd follow up with the ?????? Just to make sure they didn't miss my amazing message.
Then I'd think about why they haven't replied and realised it can't be about me because I'm fantastic.. so it must be about them. So I'd follow up again with are you shy?
I'd then get in my feelings, call them a hoe and tell them I didn't fancy them anyway.
I'd then check my other 5000 copy and paste messages and repeat. |
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By *eyeYCouple 1 week ago
Nr Leicester |
"I'd send a simple Hey because that's all they need.
Then I'd follow up with the ?????? Just to make sure they didn't miss my amazing message.
Then I'd think about why they haven't replied and realised it can't be about me because I'm fantastic.. so it must be about them. So I'd follow up again with are you shy?
I'd then get in my feelings, call them a hoe and tell them I didn't fancy them anyway.
I'd then check my other 5000 copy and paste messages and repeat."
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"Take a pic on the toilet and ask if they wanted a piece of this in the back of my van
Again 🤣👍"
In all seriousness I’ve been the one to message first and it’s generally been a chat about something on their profile or forum related.
I haven’t got the patience to trawl through hundreds of profiles in search of just one I find possibly attractive so credit to the guys that do |
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By *eliWoman 1 week ago
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I wouldn't chat them up. I'd just talk to them. I've sent first messages of varying lengths, about various things. It works for me.
The last first message I sent? I think it was a rather cheesy "Hey (redacted), didn't think I'd ever see you back". He liked it so much he keeps coming back. 🥰 |
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I'd say
'Hi
My name's X, have a look at my profile, if you're interested get in touch'
because I genuinely can't see anything wrong with that approach from anybody.
It leaves them with a clear choice and the sender (in this case a hypothetical single me) in no doubt as to the other person's interest or lack of. |
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By *eyeYCouple 1 week ago
Nr Leicester |
"I'd say
'Hi
My name's X, have a look at my profile, if you're interested get in touch'
because I genuinely can't see anything wrong with that approach from anybody.
It leaves them with a clear choice and the sender (in this case a hypothetical single me) in no doubt as to the other person's interest or lack of. "
Exactly, would you attach a face picture initially? 😘 |
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"I'd say
'Hi
My name's X, have a look at my profile, if you're interested get in touch'
because I genuinely can't see anything wrong with that approach from anybody.
It leaves them with a clear choice and the sender (in this case a hypothetical single me) in no doubt as to the other person's interest or lack of.
Exactly, would you attach a face picture initially? 😘"
If I was here as a single woman, no. That horror is best left until I've got them hooked...  |
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By *eyeYCouple 1 week ago
Nr Leicester |
"I'd say
'Hi
My name's X, have a look at my profile, if you're interested get in touch'
because I genuinely can't see anything wrong with that approach from anybody.
It leaves them with a clear choice and the sender (in this case a hypothetical single me) in no doubt as to the other person's interest or lack of.
Exactly, would you attach a face picture initially? 😘
If I was here as a single woman, no. That horror is best left until I've got them hooked... "
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"I'd send a simple Hey because that's all they need.
Then I'd follow up with the ?????? Just to make sure they didn't miss my amazing message.
Then I'd think about why they haven't replied and realised it can't be about me because I'm fantastic.. so it must be about them. So I'd follow up again with are you shy?
I'd then get in my feelings, call them a hoe and tell them I didn't fancy them anyway.
I'd then check my other 5000 copy and paste messages and repeat."
Only 5000? Amateur numbers  |
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"I'd say
'Hi
My name's X, have a look at my profile, if you're interested get in touch'
because I genuinely can't see anything wrong with that approach from anybody.
It leaves them with a clear choice and the sender (in this case a hypothetical single me) in no doubt as to the other person's interest or lack of.
Exactly, would you attach a face picture initially? 😘
If I was here as a single woman, no. That horror is best left until I've got them hooked... "
I knew you were a card player  |
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By *r TriomanMan 1 week ago
Chippenham Malmesbury area |
"Read his profile and write a message with our compatible likes, attached with a clear face pic.
The most important part is to not get angst, if he chooses to delete my message  "
Treating others as you wish to be treated yourself, it's the only way - I love it but I doubt it'll ever catch on. |
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We don’t usually search as guys come searching, but we do message guys that have viewed us and not messaged us that we think would be a good fit. 75% reply positivity so we do wonder why they never messaged.
But I guess the ironic answer to your question for a woman would be to send them a pic of their pussy and ask if they wanted some of it. |
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"I'd send a simple Hey because that's all they need.
Then I'd follow up with the ?????? Just to make sure they didn't miss my amazing message.
Then I'd think about why they haven't replied and realised it can't be about me because I'm fantastic.. so it must be about them. So I'd follow up again with are you shy?
I'd then get in my feelings, call them a hoe and tell them I didn't fancy them anyway.
I'd then check my other 5000 copy and paste messages and repeat."
First answer is this ^^^ 👌
Otherwise. If it's someone I've met at a group social along the lines of "It was great to meet you at... For the avoidance of all doubt I fancy you"
Or if they're going to be at an event and I think there might be mutual interest I'll send a message telling them I'm looking forward to saying hello in person. I will also send this message to people I just want to say hello to too. I'm a nightmare. 😂 |
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"Send him a picture of my tits and the word FAF? "
The funny thing is the disparity in how male promiscuity plays vs female promiscuity play out. I'd say you'd be 99% successful in that (the other 1% probably being a guys who can't work it around their wife, family and work) |
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"Send him a picture of my tits and the word FAF?
The funny thing is the disparity in how male promiscuity plays vs female promiscuity play out. I'd say you'd be 99% successful in that (the other 1% probably being a guys who can't work it around their wife, family and work)"
Think more than 1% might have that issue |
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By *ddie1966Man 1 week ago
Paper Town Central, Essex. |
Honestly....
If a message appeared in my inbox from a woman, I wouldn't care what the content was, I'd be grabbing my car keys.
If I noticed it was from Raven or Midnight, I'd be fainted, holding my phone to my chest! |
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"Honestly....
If a message appeared in my inbox from a woman, I wouldn't care what the content was, I'd be grabbing my car keys.
If I noticed it was from Raven or Midnight, I'd be fainted, holding my phone to my chest! "
I've got loads I've rejected... I'll send them your way 😉 |
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