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By *end1 OP Man 4 weeks ago
southend on sea |
Same with myself I shall see all 4 children (4 different mums) Christmas eve and then on my own still cook a Christmas dinner with all the trimmings. I'm lucky I enjoy my own company never feel lonely. |
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"Apart from going out for dinner with my dad, I’ll be alone. I love it. Put my feet up. Wear my cosy pyjamas. Crack open the 🥃 and watch 80s movies.  "
a beautiful woman like you deserves to be pampered Christmas day |
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"I'm alone every other year when the kids are at their dad's. I really quite enjoy it tbh."
Same here. I'll be having a long lie in, and when I do decide to get up, I've got a new Lego set to build, and some nice booze to enjoy. Bliss!! |
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"I'm alone every other year when the kids are at their dad's. I really quite enjoy it tbh.
Same here. I'll be having a long lie in, and when I do decide to get up, I've got a new Lego set to build, and some nice booze to enjoy. Bliss!! "
Oooh! Now that’s a Christmas to get on board with! |
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I’m working on Christmas Day, I’m quite looking forward to it.
I will admit that it took me a while to get over and lose the expectations that come from Christmas Day but ultimately it’s just another day, one that society has placed so much emphasis on it that it goes on for months!
If you’re struggling with the thought of being on your own or that it won’t look like the picture perfect version, that’s ok, it’s absolutely fine and you can make it whatever it is |
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I usually am as my parents go abroad and my daughter spends her Christmas with her mother and half sister, and rightly so. Christmas is all about family. My Christmas is Boxing Day.
A few years ago I opened a Tap and work all day Christmas so that no one has to be alone if they choose. This year I’ve started a campaign for the local community to ‘donate a dinner’ by plating up an extra dinner and bringing to the Tap. Then anyone who wants a beer, a beer with Christmas dinner or just some company - the options are all there |
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Going to be really hard this year for me alone at Christmas.i bury my mum next thursday.and it will be the first time i will never see her on Christmas day.i do hope though on here and everywhere else you all have a nice Christmas.xx |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS 4 weeks ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
I shall be, but it's my choice. I've an invite to join my folks at my sister's for dinner, but as that is always hours later than planned and the whole day revolves around her young kid, whom I find pretty boring, I'd rather not bother.
I intend to spend the day checking the time just so that I don't miss the Wallace and Gromit film.  |
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"Going to be really hard this year for me alone at Christmas.i bury my mum next thursday.and it will be the first time i will never see her on Christmas day.i do hope though on here and everywhere else you all have a nice Christmas.xx"
So sorry to hear. It can't be easy but you will have the memories and the pain lessens over time  |
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"Question… just because you have people around you, will that stop you from feeling alone?
Anyone feeling that way will not be just on xmas day though. Not a nice state of mind to be in"
Well, it depends on how you look at it, really. I will feel that way and it will be a mix of feelings about it, too.
I’ll have my kids around me on the morning and I’ll be happy, there will be tears, sadness, happiness and a whole load of other feelings. I’ll have people around me but at times I’ll feel alone for many reasons.
But it’s not for the mental state reasoning you’re thinking of. |
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"Question… just because you have people around you, will that stop you from feeling alone?
Anyone feeling that way will not be just on xmas day though. Not a nice state of mind to be in
Well, it depends on how you look at it, really. I will feel that way and it will be a mix of feelings about it, too.
I’ll have my kids around me on the morning and I’ll be happy, there will be tears, sadness, happiness and a whole load of other feelings. I’ll have people around me but at times I’ll feel alone for many reasons.
But it’s not for the mental state reasoning you’re thinking of. "
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By *with1Man 3 weeks ago
South East London |
I be alone like it has been since 2017. I most likely start the day with watching a amateur porn flick and self indulge then scub up do a bit of writing then play on my keyboard followed by playing my guitar that would kill the morning off then switch on my xbox for a view hours. After that cook then settle for the evening with a beer and a movie.i kmow sounds boring but there is not much I can do as I have no one in my life. |
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I'll probably be on my own in the evening, depending on if the child goes to his father's for the night.
I'll do the same thing I do every other night, watch TV , eat chocolate and chat to my friends online. |
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I've got family and friends coming over for Christmas and also making a couple of extra plates up for a friend and her brother that can't make it over but would otherwise just be having pizza for food. If I'm eating so are my circle. |
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