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If they're looking for sex without having much in terms standards, it absolutely is easier for women.
If it's finding someone to be a fun, dependable fb / fwb I think it's actual easier for men! (Provided they stand out and play their cards well).
Couples? I'll get back to you 
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"I doubt it. If ladies receive the same messages as I do from some guys it’s definitely not easy."
My wife must have it the best then.
Easy isn't word I'd use but fab has been great for us since we are looking for men and not couples.
Bonus for her is that I get to filter through all the BS messages. |
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By *ty31Man 10 weeks ago
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It's certainly easier for women in terms of choice and it's certain that being a woman on Fab has a certain privilege and advantage.
Although I suppose being a woman on Fab does attract more negative attention in the form of stupid or abusive messages etc. |
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I don’t find it easy at all but it depends what you’re looking for. I don’t moan about it as I know it’s my reasons and specifics that make it difficult.
If you just want a shag every day I imagine it’s the easiest thing in the world! |
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From the "male" pov of easy to a result, yes by far easier than it is for me. The you drop in a few factors like getting a quality meet and suddenly it's not all that easy.
Fabmin is surely a nightmare.
Do women have it easier on fab than I do? No they don't, because I don't give a fuck and don't go out of my way to make things happen with new randoms as I once did, and it's never been an easier experience. I'm unshackled from the desire to make the sex happen.
Your own expectations can make or break this place in terms of how easy or difficult it is. |
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If it's just a fuck to relieve yourself or a fuck-a-day, then it's easy for women.
If, like me, they are a fussy cow, then it's bloody hard work.
Found it harder when I was in a couples profile, as a 4 way attraction is really hard to find.
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"I don’t find it easy at all but it depends what you’re looking for. I don’t moan about it as I know it’s my reasons and specifics that make it difficult.
If you just want a shag every day I imagine it’s the easiest thing in the world! "
I just want a shag! But I’m very much aware my limitations are where I don’t find it easy at all. |
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It depends I guess, most women could have 10 liasons a day, if they were lacking in standards and willing to lower themselves.
But those who wish to seek out quality over quantity, have to pan a hell of a lot of silt just to find a tiny bit of gold |
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No. Having compared my experiences here as a single male vs being here as a couple vs single women friends I’d say being a single guy is the easiest.
I have not experienced any of the negatives single women get…a few easy to spot fakes/timewasters but that comes with the online world.
Also as so many single men have a very strange approach to attracting women here…it is quite easy to stand out amongst the crowd and find great connections. |
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Yes, in relative terms.
That's not because women have it easy, it's because men make it hard for themselves and unwittingly put up hurdles and obstacles that do them no favours."
This! |
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By *ornycougaWoman 10 weeks ago
MADERIA Wherever I lay my hat |
Not easier. Different. As a woman you have a choice of hunting which means wading through oceans of chaff to find potential wheat. Then finding that they have no chat/you don't find their face atteactive/they behave like a dick. Or you open your filters and let them find you. You essentially have the same challenge. This place is tough for anyone who has standards and isn't just looking for a cock/pussy/ass to fill or be filled.
When it's works - it's great. But I think it is hard work for most on here and has the side effect of making you cynical and jaded. |
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Easier to find a nsa ons fuck with any man, Yes.
Finding one she is attracted to and actually wants to spend time with, No.
It's so boring being lied to everday, by guys who just want to dump their cum and run.
So we hold onto the belief that the gems will surface, through the mud as the river flows on past  |
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"Not easier. Different. As a woman you have a choice of hunting which means wading through oceans of chaff to find potential wheat. Then finding that they have no chat/you don't find their face atteactive/they behave like a dick. Or you open your filters and let them find you. You essentially have the same challenge. This place is tough for anyone who has standards and isn't just looking for a cock/pussy/ass to fill or be filled.
When it's works - it's great. But I think it is hard work for most on here and has the side effect of making you cynical and jaded. "
but at least ye get the option to hunt, men here are strapped to a wheelchair then wheeled under the hunters dinner table hoping a scrap might fall roll off the table and land on their face,, for the most part. |
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By *essTTWoman 10 weeks ago
Birmingham |
I depends
Tbh
I see women who pop up on my feed with loads of verifications and I see women who have barely any
I guess it depends on what you're actually look for on here
I don't find it easy but I'm very sure about what I want and I refuse to bend on that |
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"I depends
Tbh
I see women who pop up on my feed with loads of verifications and I see women who have barely any
I guess it depends on what you're actually look for on here
I don't find it easy but I'm very sure about what I want and I refuse to bend on that "
Verifications are no indicator. I have one to show I am genuine. I will never show anymore. Nor do I want any. |
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By *essTTWoman 10 weeks ago
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"I depends
Tbh
I see women who pop up on my feed with loads of verifications and I see women who have barely any
I guess it depends on what you're actually look for on here
I don't find it easy but I'm very sure about what I want and I refuse to bend on that
Verifications are no indicator. I have one to show I am genuine. I will never show anymore. Nor do I want any."
No indicator *for you
I merely meant that you can tell that a woman has met lots of men if she has lots of verifications
Nothing else |
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"Indian men, educated , well behaved and can weave grammatically correct sentences, wear nice cloths, decent body and always smell nice?? how many are available, ???"
Start with one here - and find others. |
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"Indian men, educated , well behaved and can weave grammatically correct sentences, wear nice cloths, decent body and always smell nice??
What the holy hell are you drinking?  "
Yes they are the hated ones - I am d*unk tonight |
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"Indian men, educated , well behaved and can weave grammatically correct sentences, wear nice cloths, decent body and always smell nice??
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Is fab easy for - then read the rest.."
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I've read it, thank you. However, I'm not quite clear on the point that you're making, other than the fact you're inebriated. |
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"Indian men, educated , well behaved and can weave grammatically correct sentences, wear nice cloths, decent body and always smell nice??
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Is fab easy for - then read the rest.."
Easier, not easy. When you say „easy” it doesn’t make any sense in the context of this thread. |
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"Indian men, educated , well behaved and can weave grammatically correct sentences, wear nice cloths, decent body and always smell nice??
What the holy hell are you drinking?
Yes they are the hated ones - I am d*unk tonight "
Put down the bottle and get to bed before it gets worse FFS. |
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"Indian men, educated , well behaved and can weave grammatically correct sentences, wear nice cloths, decent body and always smell nice?? how many are available, ???
Start with one here - and find others."
can they cook,surely that's the clincher,, |
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By *bi HaiveMan 10 weeks ago
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In my mind?
No. It's no easier than it is for men.
Different issues, different approaches required and different advantages.
Fab is easier for 'some people' than for others. Gender doesn't define that to me. |
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Fab is easiest for those who have the biggest pool to fish in.
The biggest pool I see is men wanting casual encounters. So anyone wanting casual encounters with men is the most likely to find what they want.
Properly bi and gay men probably get more sex per head than straight or bi women 💜 |
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"Indian men, educated , well behaved and can weave grammatically correct sentences, wear nice cloths, decent body and always smell nice??
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Is fab easy for - then read the rest..
Easier, not easy. When you say „easy” it doesn’t make any sense in the context of this thread. "
Yes it’s not easy I get that.. |
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"Indian men, educated , well behaved and can weave grammatically correct sentences, wear nice cloths, decent body and always smell nice?? how many are available, ???
Start with one here - and find others. can they cook,surely that's the clincher,, "
Can run Fortune 500 companies - be head of FCA, can be MP, be PM, too billionaire in UK, can be nurse or be a doctor too..and get you a nice curry too |
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"Indian men, educated , well behaved and can weave grammatically correct sentences, wear nice cloths, decent body and always smell nice??
What the holy hell are you drinking?
Yes they are the hated ones - I am d*unk tonight
Put down the bottle and get to bed before it gets worse FFS."
Let me finish my Macallan |
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By *HUSH-Man 10 weeks ago
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If you just want ONS I would think that’s easier for a woman providing you don’t care too much about who you’re meeting.
If you’re looking for more of a connection that means finding your person. Which is the same level of difficult.
Distance fucks us all. |
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"Indian men, educated , well behaved and can weave grammatically correct sentences, wear nice cloths, decent body and always smell nice??
What the holy hell are you drinking?
Yes they are the hated ones - I am d*unk tonight
Put down the bottle and get to bed before it gets worse FFS.
Let me finish my Macallan "
I think it will finish you first. |
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I looked into this using google so it must be true (an experiment was conducted using t1nd3r) 1 man spent time assembling what was deemed to be a good profile plenty of informative text with six photos, lady basically put no info and two photos
They started swiping, ratio of liking was guy liked more than the lady did in a ratio of 10-1, so they switched to two different people and continued, ratio was down to 8-1, responses back were lady got 70% of messages and match swipes within an hour, guys return ratio over a week was 3% so what we can draw from this……
Nothing, it’s all garbage, it’s not a league table and if people think getting a meet constitutes a win then yay go you, if however you meet the (insert known genders) of your dreams on either here another app, the fruit and veg aisle at Waitrose then that’s real winning, don’t forget the mince pies either, bakery section next to the tiger loaf, face it, a large number of people on here are lonely, some more desperately lonely than others, you me and everyone else aren’t for everyone, choose your mince pies wisely, choose your meets even more wisely |
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"Not easier. Different. As a woman you have a choice of hunting which means wading through oceans of chaff to find potential wheat. Then finding that they have no chat/you don't find their face atteactive/they behave like a dick. Or you open your filters and let them find you. You essentially have the same challenge. This place is tough for anyone who has standards and isn't just looking for a cock/pussy/ass to fill or be filled.
When it's works - it's great. But I think it is hard work for most on here and has the side effect of making you cynical and jaded. but at least ye get the option to hunt, men here are strapped to a wheelchair then wheeled under the hunters dinner table hoping a scrap might fall roll off the table and land on their face,, for the most part. "
No,no. It's ME that's strapped to the wheelchair. Well. Not actually strapped cos I don't use a seatbelt, but. You get the idea  ♿ |
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By *ir tootMan 10 weeks ago
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"Depends on your definition of easier.
Of I wanted my arse "hammer very deep" - his words- by a faceless profile, yes, there'd be someone willing apparently 
Unfortunately, I don't 💁♀️"
Wtf hammered deep. 🤣
I'm gonna pulverise your rear end with my jackhammer 9000.  |
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"Depends on your definition of easier.
Of I wanted my arse "hammer very deep" - his words- by a faceless profile, yes, there'd be someone willing apparently
Unfortunately, I don't 💁♀️
Wtf hammered deep. 🤣
I'm gonna pulverise your rear end with my jackhammer 9000. "
Sounds hot, I'm in |
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By *ir tootMan 10 weeks ago
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"Depends on your definition of easier.
Of I wanted my arse "hammer very deep" - his words- by a faceless profile, yes, there'd be someone willing apparently
Unfortunately, I don't 💁♀️
Wtf hammered deep. 🤣
I'm gonna pulverise your rear end with my jackhammer 9000.
Sounds hot, I'm in "
I'll bring the Gin and the jackhammer.
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Hell no!
If like other women have mentioned you've got no standards an your just willing to shag anything within a 5 mile radius absolutely but for those of us who care what goes in and out of our bodies an looking for abit more than just a wham bam ty Mr then no its not lol |
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"Not easier. Different. As a woman you have a choice of hunting which means wading through oceans of chaff to find potential wheat. Then finding that they have no chat/you don't find their face atteactive/they behave like a dick. Or you open your filters and let them find you. You essentially have the same challenge. This place is tough for anyone who has standards and isn't just looking for a cock/pussy/ass to fill or be filled.
When it's works - it's great. But I think it is hard work for most on here and has the side effect of making you cynical and jaded. but at least ye get the option to hunt, men here are strapped to a wheelchair then wheeled under the hunters dinner table hoping a scrap might fall roll off the table and land on their face,, for the most part.
No,no. It's ME that's strapped to the wheelchair. Well. Not actually strapped cos I don't use a seatbelt, but. You get the idea ♿"
ahhh Jesus, I walked right into that one,,,
Ahhh Jesus I did it again |
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I'm gonna pulverise your rear end with my jackhammer 9000.
Sounds hot, I'm in
I'll bring the Gin and the jackhammer.
I'll drink to that "
does the 9000 come with optional attachments??? And where could one get one? |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"Hell no!
If like other women have mentioned you've got no standards an your just willing to shag anything within a 5 mile radius absolutely but for those of us who care what goes in and out of our bodies an looking for abit more than just a wham bam ty Mr then no its not lol "
This true of anyone on here.
But as a female, you can't deny it's easier. I would love to see the threads on here if women didn't get any messages. |
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"I don’t find it easy at all but it depends what you’re looking for. I don’t moan about it as I know it’s my reasons and specifics that make it difficult.
If you just want a shag every day I imagine it’s the easiest thing in the world!
I just want a shag! But I’m very much aware my limitations are where I don’t find it easy at all."
You sound like a bloke, welcome to the club we all just want a shag.
The surprising thing on fab was to hear from the ladies how few of them are finding what they want here. Despite there being, 50 guys to each lady. |
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"Hell no!
If like other women have mentioned you've got no standards an your just willing to shag anything within a 5 mile radius absolutely but for those of us who care what goes in and out of our bodies an looking for abit more than just a wham bam ty Mr then no its not lol
This true of anyone on here.
But as a female, you can't deny it's easier. I would love to see the threads on here if women didn't get any messages.
Well yeah in a way, more "opportunities" shall we say given the vast number of men on here to women but still not an easy "ride" lol :"
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"Hell no!
If like other women have mentioned you've got no standards an your just willing to shag anything within a 5 mile radius absolutely but for those of us who care what goes in and out of our bodies an looking for abit more than just a wham bam ty Mr then no its not lol
This true of anyone on here.
But as a female, you can't deny it's easier. I would love to see the threads on here if women didn't get any messages.
Well yeah in a way, more "opportunities" shall we say given the vast number of men on here to women but still not an easy "ride" lol :"
I find fab super easy to find hot decent guys. If you crack the code and know how....it's simples! |
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"Easier to find a nsa ons fuck with any man, Yes.
Finding one she is attracted to and actually wants to spend time with, No.
It's so boring being lied to everday, by guys who just want to dump their cum and run.
So we hold onto the belief that the gems will surface, through the mud as the river flows on past "
This sums it up perfectly |
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"Hell no!
If like other women have mentioned you've got no standards an your just willing to shag anything within a 5 mile radius absolutely but for those of us who care what goes in and out of our bodies an looking for abit more than just a wham bam ty Mr then no its not lol
This true of anyone on here.
But as a female, you can't deny it's easier. I would love to see the threads on here if women didn't get any messages.
Well yeah in a way, more "opportunities" shall we say given the vast number of men on here to women but still not an easy "ride" lol :
I find fab super easy to find hot decent guys. If you crack the code and know how....it's simples! "
being mean then going into hiding leaving them itching and scratching for ya is not what everyone would call the CODE, |
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"Easier to find a nsa ons fuck with any man, Yes.
Finding one she is attracted to and actually wants to spend time with, No.
It's so boring being lied to everday, by guys who just want to dump their cum and run.
So we hold onto the belief that the gems will surface, through the mud as the river flows on past
This sums it up perfectly
Yes this 👍 "
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"Hell no!
If like other women have mentioned you've got no standards an your just willing to shag anything within a 5 mile radius absolutely but for those of us who care what goes in and out of our bodies an looking for abit more than just a wham bam ty Mr then no its not lol
This true of anyone on here.
But as a female, you can't deny it's easier. I would love to see the threads on here if women didn't get any messages.
Well yeah in a way, more "opportunities" shall we say given the vast number of men on here to women but still not an easy "ride" lol :
I find fab super easy to find hot decent guys. If you crack the code and know how....it's simples! being mean then going into hiding leaving them itching and scratching for ya is not what everyone would call the CODE, "
Oh but it works a treat |
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"Indian men, educated , well behaved and can weave grammatically correct sentences, wear nice cloths, decent body and always smell nice?? how many are available, ???
Start with one here - and find others. can they cook,surely that's the clincher,, "
I'm a single Asian guy and can cook, I can cook curry, biryani or salmon en croute.
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"Depends on your definition of easier.
Of I wanted my arse "hammer very deep" - his words- by a faceless profile, yes, there'd be someone willing apparently
Unfortunately, I don't 💁♀️"
Miss Bella, you have increased my vocabulary today, never heard the term arse hammer before. |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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I think getting sex is easier for women in general so it stands to reason that FAB would be easier.
I often thought that women pull by making the man think sex is on the cards, men pull by getting the woman to think it's not the intention. Both are arguably the contrary position to what they actually want.
If a bloke walked into a bar with 100 women and offered himself I don't think he'd get as many takers as if a woman offered herself to a bar with 100 men. Does that mean it's easier? |
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"Hell no!
If like other women have mentioned you've got no standards an your just willing to shag anything within a 5 mile radius absolutely but for those of us who care what goes in and out of our bodies an looking for abit more than just a wham bam ty Mr then no its not lol
This true of anyone on here.
But as a female, you can't deny it's easier. I would love to see the threads on here if women didn't get any messages.
Well yeah in a way, more "opportunities" shall we say given the vast number of men on here to women but still not an easy "ride" lol :
I find fab super easy to find hot decent guys. If you crack the code and know how....it's simples! being mean then going into hiding leaving them itching and scratching for ya is not what everyone would call the CODE,
Oh but it works a treat"
ohhh I ffking know that, I have eyes Miss R, |
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"Not easier. Different. As a woman you have a choice of hunting which means wading through oceans of chaff to find potential wheat. Then finding that they have no chat/you don't find their face atteactive/they behave like a dick. Or you open your filters and let them find you. You essentially have the same challenge. This place is tough for anyone who has standards and isn't just looking for a cock/pussy/ass to fill or be filled.
When it's works - it's great. But I think it is hard work for most on here and has the side effect of making you cynical and jaded. but at least ye get the option to hunt, men here are strapped to a wheelchair then wheeled under the hunters dinner table hoping a scrap might fall roll off the table and land on their face,, for the most part.
No,no. It's ME that's strapped to the wheelchair. Well. Not actually strapped cos I don't use a seatbelt, but. You get the idea ♿ ahhh Jesus, I walked right into that one,,,
Ahhh Jesus I did it again "
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"I think getting sex is easier for women in general so it stands to reason that FAB would be easier."
But who are the wimminz shagging? I'm assuming each other, if it's so easy for them but not the men? Or is it a reverse gangbang situation?
Message unclear |
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"Indian men, educated , well behaved and can weave grammatically correct sentences, wear nice cloths, decent body and always smell nice??
What the holy hell are you drinking?
Yes they are the hated ones - I am d*unk tonight
Put down the bottle and get to bed before it gets worse FFS.
Let me finish my Macallan
I think it will finish you first."
Nah, nothing can finish Indian - we are the survivors, isn’t it? Remember the history? |
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Let’s define this by how many women scroll through profiles and message fella’s with the view for either a quickie or something more than that and then how many men take the time to read all the code words and make sure that you engage my brain bollox that’s posted just so you feel special dms that you all get we are all here for the same reason but if you want to feel special you need to be a woman
I respond to DmS because I’m not up my own arse xx |
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"I think getting sex is easier for women in general so it stands to reason that FAB would be easier.
But who are the wimminz shagging? I'm assuming each other, if it's so easy for them but not the men? Or is it a reverse gangbang situation?
Message unclear "
Still no answer to this question! |
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"How about the safety aspect of meeting people as a single woman?"
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Significant I’d say to point of deal breaker… the sexual urge may prevail but bravery and trepidation must exist … hence chat can public meet first I guess is way to do it |
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Historically, I would have said it is much easier to for women.
Having watch a good looking female friend struggle to arrange a meet despite having nearly 800 messages I know it is just as hard to get a good meet. |
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"It’s easier generally I suspect in many ways just based on the fact that you’re a woman. But the site is easiest for people that are fit and attractive. "
I got quite a backlash saying the exact thing in the past. |
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"It’s easier generally I suspect in many ways just based on the fact that you’re a woman. But the site is easiest for people that are fit and attractive.
I got quite a backlash saying the exact thing in the past. "
It’s an uncomfortable truth. |
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From our personal experience
Female
being bombarded with winks,messages and friend requests from people who don't read your profile/ think they can change your mind on your limits /rules and let's jot forget the unsolicited pictures
Male (decent and genuine)
Being 1 in a sea of 1000 trying your best to be respectful and creating messages they are relevant to the account your sending it to but being lost in a shuffle to the point where being on here is little more than a form of mental self harm
Couples m/f
Having to constantly remind people you are a couple and both of you come together ( giggity) and all the same aspects of the single Female with an added splash of disrespectf for your partner
Why are we here again?
This site is what you make of it the good the bad and the down right nasty the concept of it being easier for x or y is redundant
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"It’s easier generally I suspect in many ways just based on the fact that you’re a woman. But the site is easiest for people that are fit and attractive.
I got quite a backlash saying the exact thing in the past.
It’s an uncomfortable truth. "
This, and one more specific topic I am actively wishing to avoid for the same reason and pretend it doesn’t exist, like everyone else. It starts with „m”. |
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"It’s easier generally I suspect in many ways just based on the fact that you’re a woman. But the site is easiest for people that are fit and attractive.
I got quite a backlash saying the exact thing in the past.
It’s an uncomfortable truth.
This, and one more specific topic I am actively wishing to avoid for the same reason and pretend it doesn’t exist, like everyone else. It starts with „m”."
Milfs? |
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By *eliWoman 10 weeks ago
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No.
I think it's easier for people who are conventionally attractive.
For women/men who want quick NSA and don't mind who that's with.
For people who don't place too much pressure/importance on Fab.
For people who are confident in themselves and what they have to offer.
But for women as a whole? No. All different groups have/face their own potential issues. |
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It depends what the women is looking for, if it's anyone then yes it's easy, if they want a connection and attraction then it's not.
I have a singles profile for meeting women only and no that's not easy.
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"Yes.... Next topic 😂
I’m finding it not too easy though. But maybe it actually is for other women.
Maybe you should rethink your age restraints"
My age preferences have nothing to do with the fact why I’m finding Fab difficult at times.
But yes, I do extend it to 25-45 when I’m actively looking to meet. |
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"From our personal experience
Female
being bombarded with winks,messages and friend requests from people who don't read your profile/ think they can change your mind on your limits /rules and let's jot forget the unsolicited pictures
Male (decent and genuine)
Being 1 in a sea of 1000 trying your best to be respectful and creating messages they are relevant to the account your sending it to but being lost in a shuffle to the point where being on here is little more than a form of mental self harm
Couples m/f
Having to constantly remind people you are a couple and both of you come together ( giggity) and all the same aspects of the single Female with an added splash of disrespectf for your partner
Why are we here again?
This site is what you make of it the good the bad and the down right nasty the concept of it being easier for x or y is redundant
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Interesting insight from the couple’s perspective as well. |
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"It’s easier generally I suspect in many ways just based on the fact that you’re a woman. But the site is easiest for people that are fit and attractive.
I got quite a backlash saying the exact thing in the past.
It’s an uncomfortable truth.
This, and one more specific topic I am actively wishing to avoid for the same reason and pretend it doesn’t exist, like everyone else. It starts with „m”.
Milfs?"
Ah no this one I like.
I was thinking 💸
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If women just want sex I’d say it’s way easier
But like everything finding the right person who ticks their wish list is probably a whole different story and I’m guessing the sh.T they receive from some men re messages, demands etc etc goes some way to counteract the easy sex available.
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1. It’s difficult for women because of idiotic time wasting men
2. It’s difficult for men because of idiotic time wasting men mean women don’t read messages so striking up a conversation is increasingly difficult on here |
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It definitely varies from person to person in what they want/looking for and also their approach.
I've been here 6+ years now, made many mistakes the first couple of years and now I'm pretty strict on who I will meet.
Almost all of the time all my message filters are blocked - as harsh as it is to say but 99% of the random messages I did get were not from people I would click with or find attractive, taking out the fact that all of them wouldn't read my bio or send face pictures.
So now I find it more fun and have more success reaching out myself.
It's also saved me buckets of time not having to read and delete ect.
I think the only woman who find it "easier" as such are those with zero/no preferences just due to the number of men to women on here. But most of us like what we like and that can't be helped. |
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Having several female friends with solo profiles in here, I know it is far easier for them to find people to meet, than it is for me as a solo guy.
Yes, they get bombarded at times. Yes, they receive some horrible messages (they share so many with me), and yes, copy and paste is real….. But when they’re looking for new meets, off go the message filters, and away they go…..
‘Meet today/hotel meets’ while away……again; not a problem for solo women. Plenty to choose from! For me, when I’ve been away in Birmingham, Manchester, Liverpool and Glasgow……one offer after several years (apart from the cock sucking guys of course  )…
“Just go to a club!” I hear you cry! My experiences of the club scene really do pale in to insignificance, again, compared to those of my solo female friends. I don’t know a single female who was ever avoided like a leper in a club setting……
I’m glad you chose the word ‘easier’ for the thread, than ‘easy’, as yes, the sheer volume of attention probably doesn’t make using the site easy, but message filters and strict preferences go a long way to cutting the wheat from the chaff. Nobody can argue single ladies aren’t spoiled for choice in here, so it will never be ‘difficult’.
Ladies; you have my sympathies x |
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"It’s easier generally I suspect in many ways just based on the fact that you’re a woman. But the site is easiest for people that are fit and attractive.
I got quite a backlash saying the exact thing in the past.
It’s an uncomfortable truth.
This, and one more specific topic I am actively wishing to avoid for the same reason and pretend it doesn’t exist, like everyone else. It starts with „m”."
Masturbation?
M&ms? |
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