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First thing a lady looks at on a guy?
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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"Shoes and I’m not even joking. so what are your shoe guide to men
Depends on the man, really.
Can be a dealbreaker.
Pm me more details please genuinely interested
Erm no thanks."
Swing and a miss. 😂 |
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"This is what I hate. I don’t get it, why does height actually matter? "
Most women like a taller man then them I feel if women taller then me we look funny walking down the road. In bed though height don’t matter your all same |
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"This is what I hate. I don’t get it, why does height actually matter? "
Its programmed into our DNA.
A woman is drawn to masculine traits, tall, broadshouldered, strong, youthful, etc.
Just like men are drawn to some feminine characteristics, red lips, breasts, bum, scent. etc. |
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All women want the same thing, I heard it from some guy on the Interweb and he has loads of followers. So if they say otherwise 🚩!
I'll let you all in on the trade secrets.
1. Choice of mince pies - women assess a man's character and good taste this way.
2. Quality of socks - so they can steal them.
3. If they eat meat off the bone with their hands. - If they do they're good for sex - if not they're a simp.
I'm so glad the internet is there to learn me how to think right. Imagine if I was left to learning for myself! |
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Lips is the first thing for me … a nice pair of lips and how they move can be insanely attractive. Then I take note of eyes, thighs and I love broad shoulders.
How a person dresses also features and yes, footwear too. |
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By *vaRose43Woman 11 weeks ago
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"Their general face - how they smile, the warmth of their eyes. How kissable their lips looks.
Closely followed by hands/vascularity of arms/hands."
I recently discovered I have a thing for vascularity too |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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"This is what I hate. I don’t get it, why does height actually matter?
Most women like a taller man then them I feel if women taller then me we look funny walking down the road. In bed though height don’t matter your all same "
Well no. You don't shrink when you lay down, you're still shorter/taller. |
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By *vaRose43Woman 11 weeks ago
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"This is what I hate. I don’t get it, why does height actually matter? "
The answer isn’t doesn’t to some and it does to others. Unfortunately attraction is by its nature discriminatory and instant decisions are made at a glance. |
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"...followed by hands/vascularity of arms/hands."
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I've always been self-conscious about the vasculature prominence in my hands. I suppose it's an age thing...for me. I sometimes hide my photos and sometimes unhide them. |
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By *eliWoman 11 weeks ago
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"...followed by hands/vascularity of arms/hands.
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I've always been self-conscious about the vasculature prominence in my hands. I suppose it's an age thing...for me. I sometimes hide my photos and sometimes unhide them."
You shouldn't hide them; I know it's far easier to say don't be self conscious about something than it is to stop being so. I like evident vascularity. Always have. Add in easy dexterity and it's such an eye catching thing.
Quite a few women on here find it attractive. Men should have photos where they're writing/reading and they've been photographed, candid style. Sleeves rolled up etc.... |
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By *enelope2UWoman 11 weeks ago
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"...In bed though height don’t matter your (sic) all same
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No, it ·does· matter and the sooner we stop using that bullshit hackneyed phrase the better."
Height doesn't matter
Size doesn't matter
Functionality and awareness and confidence matters |
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"Lips is the first thing for me … a nice pair of lips and how they move can be insanely attractive. Then I take note of eyes, thighs and I love broad shoulders.
How a person dresses also features and yes, footwear too. "
I have lips. Just sayin’ |
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"For majority of the women it's all about a guys looks.
That's my opinion anyway.
Why else would they demand a recent face picture with first message. "
Sorry to say it is! I personally need a physical attraction to play. |
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By *enelope2UWoman 11 weeks ago
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"For majority of the women it's all about a guys looks.
That's my opinion anyway.
Why else would they demand a recent face picture with first message. "
Maybe because most only have dick pictures or say they are 43 but looks 79.. |
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"For majority of the women it's all about a guys looks.
That's my opinion anyway.
Why else would they demand a recent face picture with first message.
Maybe because most only have dick pictures or say they are 43 but looks 79.."
AHH lol I wouldn't say the boys here are the biggest offenders here on that 1, not by a country mile |
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Yeah but most the women who are asking for face picture with first message don't even have there face showing so why should they ask for ours without even showing theres. It should work both ways. I do have face pictures in my profile for if or when friend invite is sent and approved.
Yeah some atraction should be there but it's not all about how a person looks.
Should never judge a book by its cover and that is exactly what the majority of women do on here. |
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"...followed by hands/vascularity of arms/hands.
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I've always been self-conscious about the vasculature prominence in my hands. I suppose it's an age thing...for me. I sometimes hide my photos and sometimes unhide them."
You're so veined, I bet you think this thread is about you. Don't you? |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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Their face. Their eyes and smile can tell me so much.
If I like that then i will take my time to look them up and down.
But oh boy, can it go wrong once they open their mouth. 🤣 |
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