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Intrigued as to why single profiles have pics of other people on. Often I’ve seen a message and thought yay it’s a lady! Then realised it’s a man 
I find it annoying personally and I don’t like it.
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Always irritated me if it’s not got the profile owner in at all. Or it’s just a couple of fingers visible, sneaking in under the rules by a whisker.
When it’s ’action shots’ involving the profile owner and another person I never found it remotely appealing. I’m interested in the person I’m looking at, not past partners. One or two is one thing but if it’s every photo, I glaze over and move on.
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"I'm not keen but I like people to put exactly what they want on their profile it helps me decide if we'll be compatible"
Yes I agree with that. That’s why I never get involved with the help me with my profile threads. It just annoyed me when I thought the message was from a lady as they’re very rare 🤣 |
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"Always irritated me if it’s not got the profile owner in at all. Or it’s just a couple of fingers visible, sneaking in under the rules by a whisker.
When it’s ’action shots’ involving the profile owner and another person I never found it remotely appealing. I’m interested in the person I’m looking at, not past partners. One or two is one thing but if it’s every photo, I glaze over and move on.
L"
Same. I won’t even engage with someone who has other people on their profile |
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"Intrigued as to why single profiles have pics of other people on. Often I’ve seen a message and thought yay it’s a lady! Then realised it’s a man
I find it annoying personally and I don’t like it.
What do y’all think?"
Same here also when it’s a “couple” profile the Mr “X” and no partner! So single male then! Ppffft |
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"I'm not keen but I like people to put exactly what they want on their profile it helps me decide if we'll be compatible
Yes I agree with that. That’s why I never get involved with the help me with my profile threads. It just annoyed me when I thought the message was from a lady as they’re very rare 🤣"
 what an anticlimax in every sense of the word 🤦 |
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"Intrigued as to why single profiles have pics of other people on. Often I’ve seen a message and thought yay it’s a lady! Then realised it’s a man
I find it annoying personally and I don’t like it.
What do y’all think?
Same here also when it’s a “couple” profile the Mr “X” and no partner! So single male then! Ppffft "
Must admit I rarely look at couple profiles but from what I’ve read they seem to be mostly of the lady and not the man. |
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"I'm not keen but I like people to put exactly what they want on their profile it helps me decide if we'll be compatible
Yes I agree with that. That’s why I never get involved with the help me with my profile threads. It just annoyed me when I thought the message was from a lady as they’re very rare 🤣
what an anticlimax in every sense of the word 🤦"
Might message and say no ta but if you could put me in touch with that sexy lady in your profile pic I’d be most grateful 🤣 |
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"I'm not keen but I like people to put exactly what they want on their profile it helps me decide if we'll be compatible
Yes I agree with that. That’s why I never get involved with the help me with my profile threads. It just annoyed me when I thought the message was from a lady as they’re very rare 🤣
what an anticlimax in every sense of the word 🤦
Might message and say no ta but if you could put me in touch with that sexy lady in your profile pic I’d be most grateful 🤣"
Please do it and report back! |
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I agree Nora,
I see male profiles look and think it's a couple regularly, because there's so many pics of women on the profile.
I don't meet women or couples, so it totally puts me off, when I can see pics of women with everything out on display and just his hand or cock in the pic.
If you're on as single male, it's a man I'd expect and want to see. |
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It's been scientifically proven that women find a man more attractive if he's already taken. It therefore stands to reason that if a single male profile has pictures of him fucking and being sucked by women it will make other women want to fuck and suck him. You can't argue with science. |
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"It's been scientifically proven that women find a man more attractive if he's already taken. It therefore stands to reason that if a single male profile has pictures of him fucking and being sucked by women it will make other women want to fuck and suck him. You can't argue with science."
Not me. Makes me delete and block |
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"It's been scientifically proven that women find a man more attractive if he's already taken. It therefore stands to reason that if a single male profile has pictures of him fucking and being sucked by women it will make other women want to fuck and suck him. You can't argue with science.
Not me. Makes me delete and block"
Me too. |
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"It's been scientifically proven that women find a man more attractive if he's already taken. It therefore stands to reason that if a single male profile has pictures of him fucking and being sucked by women it will make other women want to fuck and suck him. You can't argue with science.
Not me. Makes me delete and block
Me too. "
This was said with my 👅 firmly in my cheek. |
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"It's been scientifically proven that women find a man more attractive if he's already taken. It therefore stands to reason that if a single male profile has pictures of him fucking and being sucked by women it will make other women want to fuck and suck him. You can't argue with science.
Not me. Makes me delete and block
Me too.
This was said with my 👅 firmly in my cheek. "
I’m never sure with you 🤣 |
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Well isn't it the same as the profiles which have 5 or 6 pics, all close up of their genatalia.
As I look at a man's profile I am assuming he has a cock, 1 or are enough and meaningless without the context of their body |
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"Well isn't it the same as the profiles which have 5 or 6 pics, all close up of their genatalia.
As I look at a man's profile I am assuming he has a cock, 1 or are enough and meaningless without the context of their body"
No not the same but I don’t like those either 🤣 |
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"It's been scientifically proven that women find a man more attractive if he's already taken. It therefore stands to reason that if a single male profile has pictures of him fucking and being sucked by women it will make other women want to fuck and suck him. You can't argue with science.
Not me. Makes me delete and block
Me too.
This was said with my 👅 firmly in my cheek.
I’m never sure with you 🤣"
Ahhh, yes. Maybe I should have put a smiley at the end 🙂 |
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"Always irritated me if it’s not got the profile owner in at all. Or it’s just a couple of fingers visible, sneaking in under the rules by a whisker.
When it’s ’action shots’ involving the profile owner and another person I never found it remotely appealing. I’m interested in the person I’m looking at, not past partners. One or two is one thing but if it’s every photo, I glaze over and move on.
L"
Similar view to this one.
Single male profile with no pics other than his dick and to make matters worse I hate seeing female faces in pics and videos giving oral and it’s the guys dick . I’m never entirely sure if the female is even aware her face pic is being publicly displayed in this manner.   |
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"Intrigued as to why single profiles have pics of other people on. Often I’ve seen a message and thought yay it’s a lady! Then realised it’s a man
I find it annoying personally and I don’t like it.
What do y’all think?"
I also find this annoying AF! |
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I know to avoid them... They're possibly sharing pics with out the other persons consent.
Someone on here once said "Men confuse what they enjoy seeing with what they think women want to see. If they understand the difference, they do better on here."
I couldn't agree more! |
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"Isn’t that what photo mods are for? What’s the point of them if they allow photos of women onto profiles owned by men?
I’ll see ya after my holiday."
Haha. I doubt they get chance to look
At every photo though. Is it officially not allowed then? I wasnt sure |
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"Because they want to show the world that
"Yes, someone once let me put my penis inside of them"
OR
"Yes, someone once let me take their penis""
If anyone ever lets me take their penis I may post a pic as proof!  |
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"Someone on here once said "Men confuse what they enjoy seeing with what they think women want to see. If they understand the difference, they do better on here."
I couldn't agree more!"
In too many cases, this is so true! |
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"Isn’t that what photo mods are for? What’s the point of them if they allow photos of women onto profiles owned by men?
I’ll see ya after my holiday.
Haha. I doubt they get chance to look
At every photo though. Is it officially not allowed then? I wasnt sure "
The profile owner has to be in the photo and any others in it must be unidentifiable. Every photo is checked, but there are so many that occasionally one will slip through. |
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"Isn’t that what photo mods are for? What’s the point of them if they allow photos of women onto profiles owned by men?
I’ll see ya after my holiday.
Haha. I doubt they get chance to look
At every photo though. Is it officially not allowed then? I wasnt sure
The profile owner has to be in the photo and any others in it must be unidentifiable. Every photo is checked, but there are so many that occasionally one will slip through."
Just one?  |
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"Isn’t that what photo mods are for? What’s the point of them if they allow photos of women onto profiles owned by men?
I’ll see ya after my holiday.
Haha. I doubt they get chance to look
At every photo though. Is it officially not allowed then? I wasnt sure "
I queried this with admin and was told that as long as there's a bit of him in the pic , it's considered ok. Even if that's a finger or bit of his pecker. |
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"Intrigued as to why single profiles have pics of other people on. Often I’ve seen a message and thought yay it’s a lady! Then realised it’s a man
I find it annoying personally and I don’t like it.
What do y’all think?"
I also find this a complete turn off. I want to see a pic of the man I'm talking to, not his cock inside ten different random women 🙄 |
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By *bi HaiveMan 12 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Intrigued as to why single profiles have pics of other people on. Often I’ve seen a message and thought yay it’s a lady! Then realised it’s a man
I find it annoying personally and I don’t like it.
What do y’all think?"
Just checked.
Out of 52 (currently) public photos I have 1 with someone else's arm and hand featured. Otherwise all me.
#notallmen
*although I'm 6ft 1" so quite tall. 🤷♂️ |
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"It's not something I've paid a lot of mind to, I don't tend to look at pics a great deal, maybe that's why.
I can see how it could be irritating, after reading your grievances."
Me neither. It was the avatar |
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"Intrigued as to why single profiles have pics of other people on. Often I’ve seen a message and thought yay it’s a lady! Then realised it’s a man
I find it annoying personally and I don’t like it.
What do y’all think?
Just checked.
Out of 52 (currently) public photos I have 1 with someone else's arm and hand featured. Otherwise all me.
#notallmen
*although I'm 6ft 1" so quite tall. 🤷♂️"
Definitely not all men. And it’s not just men, lots of women do it too |
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By *bi HaiveMan 12 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Intrigued as to why single profiles have pics of other people on. Often I’ve seen a message and thought yay it’s a lady! Then realised it’s a man
I find it annoying personally and I don’t like it.
What do y’all think?
Just checked.
Out of 52 (currently) public photos I have 1 with someone else's arm and hand featured. Otherwise all me.
#notallmen
*although I'm 6ft 1" so quite tall. 🤷♂️
Definitely not all men. And it’s not just men, lots of women do it too "
True.
As long as the predominant person in the photo is the profile owner I don't really mind. It's a swingers site. It would be naive to think people didn't get physical with others and many like to take the odd snap during the sex.
But yeah. If it's 95% someone else then kind of gives me the ick.
It is more common on men's profiles though. I can't recall ever seeing a photo on a woman where it's just her hand/finger. 🤷♂️ |
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By *end1Man 12 weeks ago
southend on sea |
"Intrigued as to why single profiles have pics of other people on. Often I’ve seen a message and thought yay it’s a lady! Then realised it’s a man
I find it annoying personally and I don’t like it.
What do y’all think?"
especially single guys who have pictures of women do the women know their on show for others to see! |
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"It's not something I've paid a lot of mind to, I don't tend to look at pics a great deal, maybe that's why.
I can see how it could be irritating, after reading your grievances.
Me neither. It was the avatar "
Ahh... Yes that does seem a peculiar choice for a single person. |
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By *onicZMan 12 weeks ago
Nottinghamshire |
Honesty is a very important part of this site that's why you'll see in my profile that I have a partner and we also have a couples profile. We don't hide anything from each other so why would we need to hide anything from others?
It's the same as these that put straight on their profile when they're clearly not. Stop lying people and stop pretending to be something/someone/people you're not |
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"I know to avoid them... They're possibly sharing pics with out the other persons consent.
Someone on here once said "Men confuse what they enjoy seeing with what they think women want to see. If they understand the difference, they do better on here."
I couldn't agree more!"
Entirely true. |
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By *batMan 12 weeks ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
"Intrigued as to why single profiles have pics of other people on."
I guess it’s the same motivation for couples that put pictures of other people on. Lots of them do.
It’s a swinging site and some people choose to show pictures of themselves swinging.
I really like the group shots that some very popular posters show. There are other prolific posters who regularly show the woman with different men on a very regular basis and from the “likes” there are a lot of people who appreciate it.
But we’re all different, thankfully!
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"Intrigued as to why single profiles have pics of other people on.
I guess it’s the same motivation for couples that put pictures of other people on. Lots of them do.
It’s a swinging site and some people choose to show pictures of themselves swinging.
I really like the group shots that some very popular posters show. There are other prolific posters who regularly show the woman with different men on a very regular basis and from the “likes” there are a lot of people who appreciate it.
But we’re all different, thankfully!
Gbat "
Oh absolutely. Just because I don’t like to see it I get that lots of people do. That’s why I asked for people’s thoughts on it
Couples are different though in my opinion. I was more referring to single profiles. |
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By *HUSH-Man 12 weeks ago
London |
I wouldn’t upload a picture with someone else in it and I wouldn’t want someone to do it to me.
Part of why I’m a slow burn with people. I need to build up that mutual trust with someone if they plan and filming/ taking pictures. |
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By *batMan 12 weeks ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
"Couples are different though in my opinion. I was more referring to single profiles. "
I've seen couples that have around 10 people in one pic, and singles that have 1 extra person. I'm interested in why you see a difference and what that might be?
It's a genuine question!
After all, can we ever be sure that the both people in a couple actually know what's on the profile? I've been contacted by quite a few verified couples where the woman no longer plays but the guy still uses the couple's profile.
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It's hard enough to be able to guage whether you fancy someone from their pics. So it's typically stupid for them to make it even harder, by including others in them, typically showing even less of the actual profile owner.
Not a fan |
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"Couples are different though in my opinion. I was more referring to single profiles.
I've seen couples that have around 10 people in one pic, and singles that have 1 extra person. I'm interested in why you see a difference and what that might be?
It's a genuine question!
After all, can we ever be sure that the both people in a couple actually know what's on the profile? I've been contacted by quite a few verified couples where the woman no longer plays but the guy still uses the couple's profile.
Gbat "
Probably because I have no interest in couples, don’t look at their profiles at all, so would have no idea what’s on them. |
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