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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Better getting it out there now as opposed to later...did think it would save people a lot if time but hey oh each to their own.... "
I know what you mean and you're right, but it says nowt about you guys. Avatar pic is nice though.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My profile is that long for a purpose, as it helps me to sort out the desirables from the undesirables.
The maths question was not original - Polo gave me that idea!  |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
In a crisp poke on the A814 |
"It says that as we are both busy people basically not to message asking for a meet as we are not always available....when we are a meet will be posted"
So why not hide your profile until you are ready to put meet up? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've just looked at your profile and no I'm not pushy and would not message you to ask for a meet. I like to chat and get to know people before asking anyone for a meet but that's me  |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
In a crisp poke on the A814 |
Too many just sit and wait for others to contact them....
They seem to think it is the job of the single men to do all the running!
If it bothered you that much, you would take advice given...but no, you would miss the messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It says that as we are both busy people basically not to message asking for a meet as we are not always available....when we are a meet will be posted"
I don't understand why you simply don't block all messages until you post a meet then.....no messages then...simples. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why should we block all messages......not our fault some people don't respect others wishes"
block men from messaging you then until you post a meet then.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your first three longer paragraphs are negative, list of don't do's. Maybe people are switching off and not bothering to read further down.
But in all honesty if people want to message you, regardless of warnings on your profile they will. All of us get messages outside our preferences. I personally don't reply, others may just delete.
If you don't want to do those things then either hide your profile or block everyone and only message when you're looking. That is the only way to stop it, otherwise accept it.  |
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"Is it impossible for people to actually read profiles! "
What about people who bleat about not getting meets, ask for advice on changing their profile, receive loads of constructive advice then totally fail to act on aforementioned advice? In my book just as daft! |
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"Is it impossible for people to actually read profiles!
What about people who bleat about not getting meets, ask for advice on changing their profile, receive loads of constructive advice then totally fail to act on aforementioned advice? In my book just as daft! "
Are you refering to me Steve? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it impossible for people to actually read profiles! "
Yes! I've even put a quote on my file for people to type doesn't work one bit! I've started blocking when they don't read |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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"I've just looked at your profile and no I'm not pushy and would not message you to ask for a meet. I like to chat and get to know people before asking anyone for a meet but that's me "
Just ask them Vanguard. You know you're itching to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it impossible for people to actually read profiles!
What about people who bleat about not getting meets, ask for advice on changing their profile, receive loads of constructive advice then totally fail to act on aforementioned advice? In my book just as daft!
Are you refering to me Steve? "
No as you Joe took the advise offered |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've just looked at your profile and no I'm not pushy and would not message you to ask for a meet. I like to chat and get to know people before asking anyone for a meet but that's me
Just ask them Vanguard. You know you're itching to "
What lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would of thought its just a guide, if you read many profiles on here the actual meets bare no resemblence to the persons profile, for instance many will specify an age range,but when you read their verifications it shows they meet people outside of this, so wouldnt that suggest to someone interested that they may have a chance, its not set in stone but used for a guide I think |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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_ooking4you69 yours is a typical example of what I just stated previously, your age range clearly states 35+ and yet your verification shows youve met a guy of 31, if you cant abide by your own requirements how can you moan about people contacting you outside of them, if I were 31 (oh I wish) id of thought its worth a try contacting you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i'll often ask someone who has messaged us what it is they like about our profile, i can then tell from their response how well they've read and understood it xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's my point.....we do
Like I said was just wondering what other people's point of view was on the topic"
I find that only the rare few actually read my whole profile and send the requested face pic. Did have a password but ive taken it out because that didnt appear at all in msgs. The ones who dont send a pic just get deleted but I dont block them unless they msg back getting nasty  |
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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago
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"Too many just sit and wait for others to contact them....
They seem to think it is the job of the single men to do all the running!
If it bothered you that much, you would take advice given...but no, you would miss the messages "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it impossible for people to actually read profiles! "
Most can read but you have to think on some can only cut and past to a third of profiles if they actually read them maybe even less.
What you have is a mix of fishermen or women on here some use rod and line some pole and some use a huge net to try to get to everyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"_ooking4you69 yours is a typical example of what I just stated previously, your age range clearly states 35+ and yet your verification shows youve met a guy of 31, if you cant abide by your own requirements how can you moan about people contacting you outside of them, if I were 31 (oh I wish) id of thought its worth a try contacting you. "
They don't have any age range on their profile  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Clearly states on our profile what we want and will do but iit seems to be overlookedSame here, I haven't had one stripy cock picture  tis a bugger....  "
wasn't my spotty cocky pic good enough? |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
The site provides tools to help me,,
people not reading a profile in its own way is a filter ,,
If a profile interests me I read it all,,,, especially the " fill it in later,,"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP - In all seriousness (makes a change!) you're complaining about something which YOU have the ability to control. If your message filters are set wide open, it doesn't matter how many times you say 'DO NOT MESSAGE US' in your profile - people, sorry, twats are going to do it.
If what you want is an easier life, then set your filters right and hide your profile until you put up a meet, then let the flood gates open.
Otherwise, just accept that site tools are there as much for you as they are for anyone else. You have a choice - you can whinge about it OR.... shock! horror! - YOU can DO something about it...
Your call.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i'll often ask someone who has messaged us what it is they like about our profile, i can then tell from their response how well they've read and understood it xx"
I used to have a full stop as my profile. I'd get mail saying they loved my profile. When I asked which bit, they clearly went and read it for the first time... And never mailed again.
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