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By *edGrayCouple 11 weeks ago
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This is my own personal opinion. Later in life you are more inclined to try new experiences as you realise you only live once. Also society has become more open about people's sexuality and thus guys feel less guilty or stigmatized. Then there is the induction of internet sites like this that make looking for like-minded people much easier.  |
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"This is my own personal opinion. Later in life you are more inclined to try new experiences as you realise you only live once. Also society has become more open about people's sexuality and thus guys feel less guilty or stigmatized. Then there is the induction of internet sites like this that make looking for like-minded people much easier. "
I agree with all that. |
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By *vaRose43Woman 11 weeks ago
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Remember that until the full reform of the sexual offences act in 2003 it was illegal for more than two men to engage in anal sex or solicit sex in public. Even in 1998 men were being convicted for group fun. In Scotland those laws weren’t repealed until 2013
So maybe lots of men had thoughts and urges but felt they couldn’t act on them, society’s attitude to being bi or gay is now changing and more people are exploring their sexuality with the freedom to do so |
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"Remember that until the full reform of the sexual offences act in 2003 it was illegal for more than two men to engage in anal sex or solicit sex in public. Even in 1998 men were being convicted for group fun. In Scotland those laws weren’t repealed until 2013
So maybe lots of men had thoughts and urges but felt they couldn’t act on them, society’s attitude to being bi or gay is now changing and more people are exploring their sexuality with the freedom to do so"
Indeed. Love it |
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"Remember that until the full reform of the sexual offences act in 2003 it was illegal for more than two men to engage in anal sex or solicit sex in public. Even in 1998 men were being convicted for group fun. In Scotland those laws weren’t repealed until 2013
So maybe lots of men had thoughts and urges but felt they couldn’t act on them, society’s attitude to being bi or gay is now changing and more people are exploring their sexuality with the freedom to do so"
This is very true. It is or now seems to be easier to explore your sexuality and society seems more open. I remember when I first started exploring my sexualitty that I often felt ashamed afterwards. |
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"Because for the first time in nearly 50 years of life…..I haven’t hated myself for my bisexuality, I’ve embraced it. Telling my wife about it was liberating and energising. "
How did she react? I remember coming out to my then gf and she freaked out! |
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Because they have already trapped the poor woman. They have already established their secrecy alternative life and it's safe to be who they want to be at this current age.. easier to remain a discreet "fantasy" easier to say it's just a "kink" and not their full sexuality. |
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"Because they have already trapped the poor woman. They have already established their secrecy alternative life and it's safe to be who they want to be at this current age.. easier to remain a discreet "fantasy" easier to say it's just a "kink" and not their full sexuality."
Some men and women are like that; others are open about their sexuality. May only explore it after they become single again. |
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"Because for the first time in nearly 50 years of life…..I haven’t hated myself for my bisexuality, I’ve embraced it. Telling my wife about it was liberating and energising.
How did she react? I remember coming out to my then gf and she freaked out!"
She was and still is, very supportive, enjoys being a part of the journey with me, and is about as cool with it as you could possibly want. |
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"Because for the first time in nearly 50 years of life…..I haven’t hated myself for my bisexuality, I’ve embraced it. Telling my wife about it was liberating and energising.
How did she react? I remember coming out to my then gf and she freaked out!
She was and still is, very supportive, enjoys being a part of the journey with me, and is about as cool with it as you could possibly want. "
That is really good to hear - she is happy with you exploring?
Better to be open; not having to bottle things up made things so much easer |
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"Because for the first time in nearly 50 years of life…..I haven’t hated myself for my bisexuality, I’ve embraced it. Telling my wife about it was liberating and energising.
How did she react? I remember coming out to my then gf and she freaked out!
She was and still is, very supportive, enjoys being a part of the journey with me, and is about as cool with it as you could possibly want.
That is really good to hear - she is happy with you exploring?
Better to be open; not having to bottle things up made things so much easer"
We do it together |
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"Because for the first time in nearly 50 years of life…..I haven’t hated myself for my bisexuality, I’ve embraced it. Telling my wife about it was liberating and energising.
How did she react? I remember coming out to my then gf and she freaked out!
She was and still is, very supportive, enjoys being a part of the journey with me, and is about as cool with it as you could possibly want.
That is really good to hear - she is happy with you exploring?
Better to be open; not having to bottle things up made things so much easer
We do it together "
Very nice! |
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"Because for the first time in nearly 50 years of life…..I haven’t hated myself for my bisexuality, I’ve embraced it. Telling my wife about it was liberating and energising.
How did she react? I remember coming out to my then gf and she freaked out!
She was and still is, very supportive, enjoys being a part of the journey with me, and is about as cool with it as you could possibly want.
That is really good to hear - she is happy with you exploring?
Better to be open; not having to bottle things up made things so much easer"
Shame more aren’t brave enough to do so, either not accepting it themselves or for fear of not being accepted. |
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