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By *agnar73 OP Man 6 weeks ago
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Saw mention of the ‘sex bucket list’
I’ve never made one, I’ve a rough idea of what I’ve done and a rough idea of what I’d like to.
Are most people like me or do you actually have a ✅ or ❌ list somewhere?
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When the forlorn and the forgotten souls, such as myself, wander hopelessly within the Fab hinterlands, the rewards are few and far between to even consider a bucket list. One drop is all I require, and you're talking about a cellar filled with bottles of hope. 😉 |
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By *agnar73 OP Man 6 weeks ago
glasgow-ish |
"When the forlorn and the forgotten souls, such as myself, wander hopelessly within the Fab hinterlands, the rewards are few and far between to even consider a bucket list. One drop is all I require, and you're talking about a cellar filled with bottles of hope. 😉"
Stone cold sober, looking for bottles of love as del amitri put it. |
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Same as you, rough idea of what I've done and only one think I'd like to try currently so technically not even a list. It will happen when it happens, in no rush to make it a reality at the moment. |
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By *ucka39Man 6 weeks ago
Newcastle |
It's would be difficult to achieve because everyone else would have different ideas. Is like going through the alphabet by per person and you wouldn't meet unless they were letters you were looking for meets xyz |
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By *agnar73 OP Man 6 weeks ago
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"Same as you, rough idea of what I've done and only one think I'd like to try currently so technically not even a list. It will happen when it happens, in no rush to make it a reality at the moment. "
Not sure I’d want to make too much of it, be great to do some things with someone but not to make it be all and end all |
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"Same as you, rough idea of what I've done and only one think I'd like to try currently so technically not even a list. It will happen when it happens, in no rush to make it a reality at the moment.
Not sure I’d want to make too much of it, be great to do some things with someone but not to make it be all and end all"
I feel very much the same, hope you do find someone to have adventures with! |
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By *agnar73 OP Man 6 weeks ago
glasgow-ish |
"Yes.
Although I've nearly completed my original "fuck it" list.
I keep adding to it but at this point, probably most people would read it and think I'm insane. 😂"
Is it okay if I ask, was it all good? |
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By *agnar73 OP Man 6 weeks ago
glasgow-ish |
"Same as you, rough idea of what I've done and only one think I'd like to try currently so technically not even a list. It will happen when it happens, in no rush to make it a reality at the moment.
Not sure I’d want to make too much of it, be great to do some things with someone but not to make it be all and end all
I feel very much the same, hope you do find someone to have adventures with!"
Thanks. You too. |
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"Yes.
Although I've nearly completed my original "fuck it" list.
I keep adding to it but at this point, probably most people would read it and think I'm insane. 😂
Is it okay if I ask, was it all good?"
Sure.
Some things weren't as I expected. Some things I enjoyed more than I thought I would. Others, not so much but I enjoy just trying things to see what it's like |
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By *agnar73 OP Man 6 weeks ago
glasgow-ish |
"Yes.
Although I've nearly completed my original "fuck it" list.
I keep adding to it but at this point, probably most people would read it and think I'm insane. 😂
Is it okay if I ask, was it all good?
Sure.
Some things weren't as I expected. Some things I enjoyed more than I thought I would. Others, not so much but I enjoy just trying things to see what it's like "
I guess that’s what experimenting is all about.
A few things I see on lists I think - dunno, but I guess sometimes you have to take the leap. |
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"When the forlorn and the forgotten souls, such as myself, wander hopelessly within the Fab hinterlands, the rewards are few and far between to even consider a bucket list. One drop is all I require, and you're talking about a cellar filled with bottles of hope. 😉
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Stone cold sober, looking for bottles of love as del amitri put it."
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Perhaps I need a pocket full of kryptonite ✨ and a bucket list. |
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By *agnar73 OP Man 6 weeks ago
glasgow-ish |
"When the forlorn and the forgotten souls, such as myself, wander hopelessly within the Fab hinterlands, the rewards are few and far between to even consider a bucket list. One drop is all I require, and you're talking about a cellar filled with bottles of hope. 😉
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Stone cold sober, looking for bottles of love as del amitri put it.
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Perhaps I need a pocket full of kryptonite ✨ and a bucket list."
Worth a go. I’d pop some viagra if I got offered five women. |
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I only had one thing I wanted. Me and a room full of women dressed down and horny.
And I got it. Didn't go the way I wanted it to but i got it (I was working the bar at an all ladies night at the club lol). |
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"Yes.
Although I've nearly completed my original "fuck it" list.
I keep adding to it but at this point, probably most people would read it and think I'm insane. 😂
Is it okay if I ask, was it all good?
Sure.
Some things weren't as I expected. Some things I enjoyed more than I thought I would. Others, not so much but I enjoy just trying things to see what it's like
I guess that’s what experimenting is all about.
A few things I see on lists I think - dunno, but I guess sometimes you have to take the leap."
I think it's really easy to overthink these things.
I've had things suggested to me and thought "I could never..."
But actually, just trying something new is half the fun.
I think anyway |
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By *agnar73 OP Man 6 weeks ago
glasgow-ish |
"I only had one thing I wanted. Me and a room full of women dressed down and horny.
And I got it. Didn't go the way I wanted it to but i got it (I was working the bar at an all ladies night at the club lol). "
Sounds like a tale there. 😂 |
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By *agnar73 OP Man 6 weeks ago
glasgow-ish |
"Yes.
Although I've nearly completed my original "fuck it" list.
I keep adding to it but at this point, probably most people would read it and think I'm insane. 😂
Is it okay if I ask, was it all good?
Sure.
Some things weren't as I expected. Some things I enjoyed more than I thought I would. Others, not so much but I enjoy just trying things to see what it's like
I guess that’s what experimenting is all about.
A few things I see on lists I think - dunno, but I guess sometimes you have to take the leap.
I think it's really easy to overthink these things.
I've had things suggested to me and thought "I could never..."
But actually, just trying something new is half the fun.
I think anyway "
I think sometimes, someone new is that spark to try something and it doesn’t have to be crazy but just to explore something together sort of thing |
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By *rReyMan 6 weeks ago
Fleet |
"Saw mention of the ‘sex bucket list’
I’ve never made one, I’ve a rough idea of what I’ve done and a rough idea of what I’d like to.
Are most people like me or do you actually have a ✅ or ❌ list
somewhere?
I have an idea, but no list. I like to see where things go. I suppose the only real list I have is an X list. Things I'm really not interested in
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"I haven’t got one. I just want to continue meeting lovely people. 😀"
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This perfectly sums it up and reflects my own sentiments. I look for the uniqueness of people and for whatever predilections they could share with me (and vice versa), if any, in the bedroom. There is no predefined bucket list; I submit to spontaneity. |
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By *agnar73 OP Man 6 weeks ago
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"I prefer to be with someone equally spontaneous and adventurous because no reason there should be an unfilled incomplete list...
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More fun to have the spontaneity of it and go from there, be nice to tick some things off |
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By *agnar73 OP Man 6 weeks ago
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"I don’t have a list, but there’s things I’m interested in that I’ve yet to experience. "
Anything specific?
I’m keen to learn on the spanking, whippy toys and stuff like that. But maybe one day.. |
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By *agnar73 OP Man 6 weeks ago
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"I haven’t got one. I just want to continue meeting lovely people. 😀
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This perfectly sums it up and reflects my own sentiments. I look for the uniqueness of people and for whatever predilections they could share with me (and vice versa), if any, in the bedroom. There is no predefined bucket list; I submit to spontaneity."
It’s a good call Nero. Go with flow and all |
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By *ffy.Woman 6 weeks ago
Fife |
"I don’t have a list, but there’s things I’m interested in that I’ve yet to experience.
Anything specific?
I’m keen to learn on the spanking, whippy toys and stuff like that. But maybe one day.."
A bi mmf is top of the “list” along with a few other things! |
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By *agnar73 OP Man 6 weeks ago
glasgow-ish |
"I don’t have a list, but there’s things I’m interested in that I’ve yet to experience.
Anything specific?
I’m keen to learn on the spanking, whippy toys and stuff like that. But maybe one day..
A bi mmf is top of the “list” along with a few other things! "
Oooh. Interesting. Fingers crossed for you. |
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By *agnar73 OP Man 6 weeks ago
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"I had my sex bucket list completed by the time I was 40 All except one and that was to have a 10 man gangbang blind folded. I completed it when I was 41 and it ended up 13 men not 10"
Wow. You certainly went for it. That’s a lot of willies. |
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By *NLOS123Man 6 weeks ago
Wolverhampton |
For me different people bring out different t sides of me.
Also how one person does something sexually can be very different to another so to rule things in or out or want or want not based on your experience with one person for me does not work
I don’t have a bucket list. What if I meet “my person” but something on the bucket list doesn’t align? Would I then look for that elsewhere?
Nope, I’d just enjoy everything we had and explored together |
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By *eliWoman 6 weeks ago
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No. People inspire different desires in me and I rather like that.
That being said, there is something I'd really quite like to try and have for some time so perhaps it's more of a ramekin than a bucket. I don't mind if I never do it though. It's not a pressing thing. |
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I have but not written down a list, it changes all the time as I'm too fickle and the world is changing all the time.
So the tick list happens as things go along and no list depends on the situation and circumstances.
What I thought be a good thing to do might turn out to be a big no no up close.
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The only thing I know I want to do sexually is at some point before my penis retires, I'll dose myself up on Prep before, during, and after, and go for a four/six week intense fuckathon around Europe.
After that, I'll retire to my books, maybe have a cat, and venture out occasionally for coffee, tennis, and disco-dad-dancing. |
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