"Does anybody actually arange a social meet or is ot just expected to go from txt to sex?
I'd be happy.just to meet people for a coffee bur even that's a struggle "
Always go for a social first. If you don't, you risk nasty stuff happening. |
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We always do a social thing first !! but does seem that a fair few expect sex after one message or afew messages ? and we guarantee nothing apart from we will actually show up if we arrange to ..xx  |
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We had one yesterday. Wifey wasn't feeling well enough for sex but the guy came round and we had a few hours awesome conversation and laughs.
Socials are totally our thing. |
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"But do you find it hard to arrange just a social meet ? "
In what sense?
The ratios between men and women here are massively disproportionate.
But actuallybarranging it, no not at all. You'll find that women have the expectation that a social IS on the cards by default. |
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"So social seems OK and easy to arrange and accepted.
Could it be then that because my profile says descret, I won't get touched or seen , even just for a social chat ? "
OP, your profile says that you have a partner, that would be an instant no for many, myself included, but at least you’re being honest upfront. |
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"Does anybody actually arange a social meet or is ot just expected to go from txt to sex?
I'd be happy.just to meet people for a coffee bur even that's a struggle "
Hate coffee meets I think the topic is typically too sexual for that environment and everything here shuts by 6.. I prefer to go bowling go play pool doing something a bit competitive flirty have a laugh able to sit down generally quiet to chat Vs chugging coffee saying I liked you friends only pics over burntbucks coffee.... But that's deemed dating on here or strings or non discreet etc and yeah most want coffee and instafucks.. |
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"Does anybody actually arange a social meet or is ot just expected to go from txt to sex?
I'd be happy.just to meet people for a coffee bur even that's a struggle
Hate coffee meets I think the topic is typically too sexual for that environment and everything here shuts by 6.. I prefer to go bowling go play pool doing something a bit competitive flirty have a laugh able to sit down generally quiet to chat Vs chugging coffee saying I liked you friends only pics over burntbucks coffee.... But that's deemed dating on here or strings or non discreet etc and yeah most want coffee and instafucks.."
Our bowling alley got burnt down. 😭 |
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"So social seems OK and easy to arrange and accepted.
Could it be then that because my profile says descret, I won't get touched or seen , even just for a social chat ? "
Too many red flags and no's for me..
Can't accommodate
Can't travel
Bi/bi curious
Discreet needed
Partner situation
And distance
If we got along it would be only penpals and that's not my goal on here.. |
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By *8on33Man 2 weeks ago
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"Does anybody actually arange a social meet or is ot just expected to go from txt to sex?
I'd be happy.just to meet people for a coffee bur even that's a struggle "
Men don't tend to do socials with other men if that's what you mean also distance comes into play but I guess this site is difficult for most men,only a few are successful at it maybe try the clubs it may cost you to get in but you meet people . |
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By *eliWoman 2 weeks ago
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Yes I do. And it's very rare it's more than a social that first time. OP, if it's important to you, stick to it. There are people on here who prefer socials first, who like meeting just for a coffee/chat, nothing more.  |
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It's a social first.
For me it's on the back of protracted messaging - either on here, WhatsApp or Telegram. The socials are usually elaborate luncheons, a walk around an art gallery or some cultural emporium, or a quick tea/coffee with cake in a quaint coffee shop.
If we wish to take things further then... mågïç happens in some prearranged joyously joyful way. |
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