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What's the most consistent compliment you get from people who interact with you?
I’m specifically thinking about those compliments you usually shake off or a particular one you always hear but don't believe.
Someone has recently told me “Just talking to you makes my day” and it was nice to hear.
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My humour and honesty is mostly appreciated which I can take. I get compliments a lot now about my physical appearance which is nice but those I shake off because I'm still not fully comfortable with it I guess. |
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By (user no longer on site) 2 weeks ago
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"My humour and honesty is mostly appreciated which I can take. I get compliments a lot now about my physical appearance which is nice but those I shake off because I'm still not fully comfortable with it I guess. "
You really should be  |
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"My humour and honesty is mostly appreciated which I can take. I get compliments a lot now about my physical appearance which is nice but those I shake off because I'm still not fully comfortable with it I guess.
You really should be "
Here here! |
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"I get told I’m too nice
There’s a backhanded compliment for saying I don’t fancy you 🤣
I get told the same. I'm too nice for this lifestyle apparently. "
it is an oddity when women ask, where are all the nice guys or that all the nice guys are taken, then also complain men are too nice. |
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"I get told I’m too nice
There’s a backhanded compliment for saying I don’t fancy you 🤣
I get told the same. I'm too nice for this lifestyle apparently.
it is an oddity when women ask, where are all the nice guys or that all the nice guys are taken, then also complain men are too nice."
Sometimes women use the word nice to mean decent, respectful men.
Sometimes they use it when they want to be your friend rather than your lover.
Sometimes they use 'nice guy' to describe a man who expects his niceness to be rewarded with sex and drops the niceness when turned down.
Your mission is to infer the meaning from the context in which the word is used  |
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"I get told I’m too nice
There’s a backhanded compliment for saying I don’t fancy you 🤣
I get told the same. I'm too nice for this lifestyle apparently.
it is an oddity when women ask, where are all the nice guys or that all the nice guys are taken, then also complain men are too nice.
Sometimes women use the word nice to mean decent, respectful men.
Sometimes they use it when they want to be your friend rather than your lover.
Sometimes they use 'nice guy' to describe a man who expects his niceness to be rewarded with sex and drops the niceness when turned down.
Your mission is to infer the meaning from the context in which the word is used "
Maybe they coild be a bit more expressive in their words so that everyone can clearly understand their meaning.
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"I get told I’m too nice
There’s a backhanded compliment for saying I don’t fancy you 🤣
I get told the same. I'm too nice for this lifestyle apparently.
it is an oddity when women ask, where are all the nice guys or that all the nice guys are taken, then also complain men are too nice.
Sometimes women use the word nice to mean decent, respectful men.
Sometimes they use it when they want to be your friend rather than your lover.
Sometimes they use 'nice guy' to describe a man who expects his niceness to be rewarded with sex and drops the niceness when turned down.
Your mission is to infer the meaning from the context in which the word is used
Maybe they coild be a bit more expressive in their words so that everyone can clearly understand their meaning.
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The context usually gives a clue |
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I get a few;
"You're not stupid are you?" 🙄
"You have a pretty/beautiful penis" ♥️
"You listen to me and don't lie" ♥️
"Your body looks good" 🙄
Then again, I get a few nasty comments from time to time also. Ofcourse, non of which are accurate. 🫢🫢😂 |
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"That I'm "lovely". It's such a non-specific thing to say, like "nice", and I never know what someone means by it."
as I was told earlier
"The context usually gives a clue "
But I reiterate people should be more expressive with their words and say what they mean. |
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"The ones I often get are "how does it feel to walk in Willy Idol's shadow?".
I say that I cannot imagine a worst shadow to walk in. ✨"
The shadow of someone's greatness is not a good place to dwell. Being the next someone else pales into insignificance against being the first you.🫶 |
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By *G74Woman 2 weeks ago
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People say I'm a great listener ... People seem to like opening up to me and telling me all their troubles, moans and groans. Really I'm not listening I just let them talk rubbish at me while I'm probably figuring out what I'm gonna eat later 🙈 |
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By *G74Woman 2 weeks ago
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Also that I am so young at heart ... where i really think it's just a polite way of saying i act like a big kid and immature 😅
Age is just a number but immaturity can last forever!! 🤪 |
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I used to listen to a male customer for about 1-1.5 hours per day at my old workplace. Most times I was always late cashing up, and getting out... I was too polite to do what the other people did and wander off... lol Still, I like a good chat also. |
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"Usually about my physical appearance. I rarely ever get compliments about who I am as a person, which is a little sad actually🥲"
You let your sister have the last pair of jeans in the sale. That says a lot about you as a person🫶 |
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By *ffy.Woman 2 weeks ago
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"Usually about my physical appearance. I rarely ever get compliments about who I am as a person, which is a little sad actually🥲
You let your sister have the last pair of jeans in the sale. That says a lot about you as a person🫶"
Let me get over it now, please. It still hurts. |
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"Usually about my physical appearance. I rarely ever get compliments about who I am as a person, which is a little sad actually🥲
You let your sister have the last pair of jeans in the sale. That says a lot about you as a person🫶
Let me get over it now, please. It still hurts. "
I'll respect your wishes 🙏 |
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People tell me that I am funny.
I would have preferred they said I had a massive penis.
Hang on wait, no they just call me a massive bell end ...
Damnit McLovin get it the right way round, I mean what will the neighbours say?
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By *rAitchMan 2 weeks ago
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On here - nice cake
In a previous job, the MD told me I was irreplacable, to which I took a dim view of.
"That's a compliment", I was told. My reply: "If I'm irreplacable, then I can't be promoted".
"Good point well made", said he. |
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"My last 2 (displayed) verifications are 8 words in total and pretty much sum me up. I think they're compliments.
I'd agree with the 2nd one down 🤭"
You know I could shuffle my verifications to display the one that says I am a machine that went all day with my 9" jackhammer...etc etc as my 2nd one down! 😉 |
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Depends on who it is. C gets compliments on her legs when people are taking about her looks, her sharp witted sarcastic humour by many and her kindness by those who know her well. I compliment her on lots as she really is a special woman.
I get told I'm very objective, which is probably the compliment I'm most proud of. Have been told I have a perfect willy more than once but suspect that's just one of those things people say. Apparently my bum is quite peachy also 
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