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Name and shame

By *ooking4you69 OP Couple over a year ago

leeds

Why can't we name and shame time wasters?? It would probably get rid of a lot of people who have no interest in meeting and spoiling it for the ones who do.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why can't we name and shame time wasters?? It would probably get rid of a lot of people who have no interest in meeting and spoiling it for the ones who do.....

what happened to you two last night? we waited in the pub for ages.

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By *oxerjoshleeMan over a year ago

Sheffield

Let the time wasters bounce off you and move on. Making a fuss only feeds their game.

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By *ichaelangelaCouple over a year ago

notts

"Why can't we name and shame time wasters?? It would probably get rid of a lot of people who have no interest in meeting and spoiling it for the ones who do.....

what happened to you two last night? we waited in the pub for ages."

really .... they arranged to meet us too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like wasting time, that why I read the forum.

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

i think theres simply too many to deal with .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why can't we name and shame time wasters?? It would probably get rid of a lot of people who have no interest in meeting and spoiling it for the ones who do.....

what happened to you two last night? we waited in the pub for ages.

really .... they arranged to meet us too"

That's so not fair , they were to meet me as well

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By *oxerjoshleeMan over a year ago

Sheffield

what happened to you two last night? we waited in the pub for ages."

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By *lackshadow7Man over a year ago

Toronto

"Why can't we name and shame time wasters?? It would probably get rid of a lot of people who have no interest in meeting and spoiling it for the ones who do.....

Because of the large potential for misuse.

Remember, everyone has a different view on what a "timewaster" is on here. That alone is a fairly dangerous thing to just let loose.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why can't we name and shame time wasters?? It would probably get rid of a lot of people who have no interest in meeting and spoiling it for the ones who do.....

what happened to you two last night? we waited in the pub for ages.

really .... they arranged to meet us too

That's so not fair , they were to meet me as well

Me too bloody time wasters

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not you as well,, I waited hours at the nags head x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Define a time waster?

some people would be reporting people they had met who didn't want to shag them

it would be a nightmare

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not you as well,, I waited hours at the nags head x

damn I thought it was you, I was going to come say hi

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Why can't we name and shame time wasters?? It would probably get rid of a lot of people who have no interest in meeting and spoiling it for the ones who do.....

do you begin to see what name and shame isn't allowed... its open to misuse and its your word against mine...

who would they believe for example... me who has been here for years... or you who has been here for 4 weeks???

its becomes a bun fight....

maybe the answer is in the way you do your selecting if it is a reoccuring issue...

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Why can't we name and shame time wasters?? It would probably get rid of a lot of people who have no interest in meeting and spoiling it for the ones who do.....

no you wouldnt

if people a intent on doing it, they will

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By *john121Man over a year ago

staffs

"Why can't we name and shame time wasters?? It would probably get rid of a lot of people who have no interest in meeting and spoiling it for the ones who do.....

what happened to you two last night? we waited in the pub for ages.

really .... they arranged to meet us too"

blimey,seems they are letting everyone down! best name and shame then!

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Why can't we name and shame time wasters?? It would probably get rid of a lot of people who have no interest in meeting and spoiling it for the ones who do.....

what happened to you two last night? we waited in the pub for ages.

really .... they arranged to meet us too

blimey,seems they are letting everyone down! best name and shame then!"

They didn't arrange to meet me. Must be fakes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why can't we name and shame time wasters?? It would probably get rid of a lot of people who have no interest in meeting and spoiling it for the ones who do.....

what happened to you two last night? we waited in the pub for ages."

And Theres your answer because a random somebody could name you a time waster then your in trouble for nothing or you may need to cancel for a genuine reason and they get pissed off then again your in trouble for matters out of your control

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By *ENGUYMan over a year ago

Hull

"Why can't we name and shame time wasters?? It would probably get rid of a lot of people who have no interest in meeting and spoiling it for the ones who do.....

This subject comes up time and time again; others have already posted just how it can spin out of control!

Timewasting as opposed to genuine reasons for cancelling a meet is subjective to all parties involved.

If it happens, or has happened to you, put it down to experience, pick yourself up and move on!

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By *obbygggMan over a year ago

Birmingham

Why not just block them?

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By *ooking4you69 OP Couple over a year ago

leeds

We personally haven't been let down, it's just that I've seen a lot of people say that they are sick of it...great to see others opinions x

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By *atureFem4FunWoman over a year ago

Petts Wood

"We personally haven't been let down, it's just that I've seen a lot of people say that they are sick of it...great to see others opinions x"

So you are acting on behalf of others....strangers at that?

While you are in a charitable mood can you pay my works electricity bill for me?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What is a timewaster? I've never seen any on here!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe they changed their mind.

People are allowed to do that.

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By *axwellTattMan over a year ago

knutsford

well time wasters i dont know i haven't met any as yet, guess i have been lucky

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a timewaster. My boss at work says I'm always wasting time.

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