From joining sweetshop fab I found the forums 6 months later, it took me a month to stop trying to make friends and just be myself and the friends followed. I was a classic case of trying too hard, to please everyone on the forums. Never works

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By *iker JackMan 3 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

"Exactly a year today, I’m now 1 of those ‘over a year’ types! But I still feel like a nOOb!

How long before you felt ‘settled in’?"

Happy anniversary

If I’m ever settled I’ll be out again

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By *orthern_knobberMan 3 weeks ago

manchester

47 seconds.

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By *eliWoman 3 weeks ago

Never really. I'm not a swinger. I don't want to feel settled in. Can't explain why.

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By *aydar99Man 3 weeks ago

Rochester

Been on and off few yrs , this time I said sod it im not knew , so just plunged straight in, but at say 4 months in you still get the few that think your wet behind the ears ,I had

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By *ruceyyMan 3 weeks ago

London

"Exactly a year today, I’m now 1 of those ‘over a year’ types! But I still feel like a nOOb!

How long before you felt ‘settled in’?"

Happy anniversary! I've been here for like, 3 on and off and still do so...probably won't ever? Haha

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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago

Aww happy anniversary!!

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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago

I'll let you know when it happens

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By *arkus1812Man 3 weeks ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

I have been a member for about 14 years and have never really settled in Fab.

Now in my mid 80s and with various medical issues I do not think I will ever feel settled.

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman 3 weeks ago

Basingstoke

I've been here for the best part of 7 years and I wouldn't say I have ever felt particularly comfortable or at home. I have periods of greater and lesser confidence in using the site and meeting people, but that's probably true for most things I do in life.

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By *arla SwingerWoman 3 weeks ago

Somewhere

I've been on/off for a decade now. Sometimes I love it, sometimes I hate it, sometimes I literally just have nothing better to do