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By *uka4U OP Man 10 hours ago
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So I'm a new user on here and new to the swinging scene in general.
This might be taboo to ask; I have no idea, so please forgive me if it is.
I've observed that some people don't have an interest in meeting bisexuals. For e.g. some women are open to meeting straight males but not bisexuals.
I'm simply curious as to the reasons behind this preference.
I'm not making a judgement or anything, everyone has the right to be clear about their preferences -- its how things should be.
I don't want to start a conflict. I just want to get your perspectives.
Thanks.
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By *uka4U OP Man 10 hours ago
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"Fear of sexually transmitted diseases. Whether that’s actually the case I wouldn’t know "
Huh, so the fact that they can be involved with both men and women has backfired on them?
Interesting how these things play out. |
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By *uka4U OP Man 10 hours ago
Angus/Dundee/Perth |
"They think a bisexual guy is less "manly" (but will rarely admit it)
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Very interesting. I wonder if the same assumption is made of people who are 'switches'.
Like if you're not a 'pure' dom then you're going to be lacking in that department by nature. |
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I find that my bi-ness isn't as clear as my desires for ladies. Most ladies will have one attractive feature that could get you to forget about some unattractive features, but if a guy has 1 , I'm out , and that's even with a lady involved too. I have no attraction to a guy alone , but if I don't state myself as bi I feel I'm lying. Its just easier when everyone agrees, it's just sex |
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By *uka4U OP Man 10 hours ago
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"It's practically mandatory to be bisexual or at least curious if you're a woman.
I guess there are various reasons why some people don't want to meet bisexual men. "
Yea its interesting,
Assumed femininity or STI concerns or an aversion to sleeping with a man who has potentially slept with other men.
Definitely helps explain why some guys pretend to be straight on here. Human social dynamics never cease to fascinate. |
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By *uka4U OP Man 9 hours ago
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"We have found that bi men are way more respectful of boundaries than some bi women though"
I guess they might be able to get away with more. I see single females looking for couples are known as 'unicorns' maybe there is less consequence for them when the attempt to cross those boundaries/they have less to lose than the average male.
Wish us single males had a cool label but I just know were we to get one it would be nowhere near as flattering  |
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"It's practically mandatory to be bisexual or at least curious if you're a woman.
I guess there are various reasons why some people don't want to meet bisexual men.
Yea its interesting,
Assumed femininity or STI concerns or an aversion to sleeping with a man who has potentially slept with other men.
Definitely helps explain why some guys pretend to be straight on here. Human social dynamics never cease to fascinate. "
Lot of gay guys here listed as bi too
A lot of curious and bi-playful guys won't meet gay men
So it gets them the cock they wouldn't get if they were here listed as gay
'Bi-curious' works two ways... |
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By *uka4U OP Man 9 hours ago
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"I find that my bi-ness isn't as clear as my desires for ladies. Most ladies will have one attractive feature that could get you to forget about some unattractive features, but if a guy has 1 , I'm out , and that's even with a lady involved too. I have no attraction to a guy alone , but if I don't state myself as bi I feel I'm lying. Its just easier when everyone agrees, it's just sex "
Thanks for sharing your perspective!
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By *uka4U OP Man 9 hours ago
Angus/Dundee/Perth |
"It's practically mandatory to be bisexual or at least curious if you're a woman.
I guess there are various reasons why some people don't want to meet bisexual men.
Yea its interesting,
Assumed femininity or STI concerns or an aversion to sleeping with a man who has potentially slept with other men.
Definitely helps explain why some guys pretend to be straight on here. Human social dynamics never cease to fascinate.
Lot of gay guys here listed as bi too
A lot of curious and bi-playful guys won't meet gay men
So it gets them the cock they wouldn't get if they were here listed as gay
'Bi-curious' works two ways..."
If it works, then I can understand why they do it. Though I personally would advocate for transparency when it comes to such matters, I do understand. |
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"It's practically mandatory to be bisexual or at least curious if you're a woman.
I guess there are various reasons why some people don't want to meet bisexual men.
Yea its interesting,
Assumed femininity or STI concerns or an aversion to sleeping with a man who has potentially slept with other men.
Definitely helps explain why some guys pretend to be straight on here. Human social dynamics never cease to fascinate.
Lot of gay guys here listed as bi too
A lot of curious and bi-playful guys won't meet gay men
So it gets them the cock they wouldn't get if they were here listed as gay
'Bi-curious' works two ways..."
This just reinforces why some women aren’t interested as they see these men as blatant liars. |
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"It's practically mandatory to be bisexual or at least curious if you're a woman.
I guess there are various reasons why some people don't want to meet bisexual men.
Yea its interesting,
Assumed femininity or STI concerns or an aversion to sleeping with a man who has potentially slept with other men.
Definitely helps explain why some guys pretend to be straight on here. Human social dynamics never cease to fascinate.
Lot of gay guys here listed as bi too
A lot of curious and bi-playful guys won't meet gay men
So it gets them the cock they wouldn't get if they were here listed as gay
'Bi-curious' works two ways...
This just reinforces why some women aren’t interested as they see these men as blatant liars. "
What men? |
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"Fear of sexually transmitted diseases. Whether that’s actually the case I wouldn’t know
Huh, so the fact that they can be involved with both men and women has backfired on them?
Interesting how these things play out."
Flipside is that if you’ll fuck anything, there’s more chance of the nasty stuff.
Again, a generalisation and some do play safe, but as you’ll have seen from above there’s a lot of clouding intentions and attractions and the phrase ‘fab-straight’ is a running joke.
It’s not for me, I’m just too old, set on women but, you get aware of the threads on it |
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"Greater the perception of risk
A subtle but very impactful distinction.
Guess I'll have to look up some studies to see if the fears are based on science. "
Science is only what's reported, and unbelievably it is openly gay and bisexual men who get tested more than most , openly, I think that is what appeals to finding regulars, building some trust , it's a fascinating subject |
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"It's practically mandatory to be bisexual or at least curious if you're a woman.
I guess there are various reasons why some people don't want to meet bisexual men.
Yea its interesting,
Assumed femininity or STI concerns or an aversion to sleeping with a man who has potentially slept with other men.
Definitely helps explain why some guys pretend to be straight on here. Human social dynamics never cease to fascinate.
Lot of gay guys here listed as bi too
A lot of curious and bi-playful guys won't meet gay men
So it gets them the cock they wouldn't get if they were here listed as gay
'Bi-curious' works two ways...
This just reinforces why some women aren’t interested as they see these men as blatant liars.
What men?"
The ones who lie |
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By *uka4U OP Man 9 hours ago
Angus/Dundee/Perth |
"Fear of sexually transmitted diseases. Whether that’s actually the case I wouldn’t know
Huh, so the fact that they can be involved with both men and women has backfired on them?
Interesting how these things play out.
Flipside is that if you’ll fuck anything, there’s more chance of the nasty stuff.
Again, a generalisation and some do play safe, but as you’ll have seen from above there’s a lot of clouding intentions and attractions and the phrase ‘fab-straight’ is a running joke.
It’s not for me, I’m just too old, set on women but, you get aware of the threads on it"
Just got enlightened of the meaning of 'fab-straight' yesterday.
Hilarious on the surface but its definitely indicative of a deeper problem. |
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By *uka4U OP Man 9 hours ago
Angus/Dundee/Perth |
"Greater the perception of risk
A subtle but very impactful distinction.
Guess I'll have to look up some studies to see if the fears are based on science.
Science is only what's reported, and unbelievably it is openly gay and bisexual men who get tested more than most , openly, I think that is what appeals to finding regulars, building some trust , it's a fascinating subject "
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"Fear of sexually transmitted diseases. Whether that’s actually the case I wouldn’t know
Huh, so the fact that they can be involved with both men and women has backfired on them?
Interesting how these things play out.
Flipside is that if you’ll fuck anything, there’s more chance of the nasty stuff.
Again, a generalisation and some do play safe, but as you’ll have seen from above there’s a lot of clouding intentions and attractions and the phrase ‘fab-straight’ is a running joke.
It’s not for me, I’m just too old, set on women but, you get aware of the threads on it
Just got enlightened of the meaning of 'fab-straight' yesterday.
Hilarious on the surface but its definitely indicative of a deeper problem."
Been full threads of arguments on it, so, nothing new and a real minefield |
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By *uka4U OP Man 9 hours ago
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"Fear of sexually transmitted diseases. Whether that’s actually the case I wouldn’t know
Huh, so the fact that they can be involved with both men and women has backfired on them?
Interesting how these things play out.
Flipside is that if you’ll fuck anything, there’s more chance of the nasty stuff.
Again, a generalisation and some do play safe, but as you’ll have seen from above there’s a lot of clouding intentions and attractions and the phrase ‘fab-straight’ is a running joke.
It’s not for me, I’m just too old, set on women but, you get aware of the threads on it
Just got enlightened of the meaning of 'fab-straight' yesterday.
Hilarious on the surface but its definitely indicative of a deeper problem.
Been full threads of arguments on it, so, nothing new and a real minefield "
I'll have to check those out later |
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"Fear of sexually transmitted diseases. Whether that’s actually the case I wouldn’t know
Huh, so the fact that they can be involved with both men and women has backfired on them?
Interesting how these things play out.
Flipside is that if you’ll fuck anything, there’s more chance of the nasty stuff.
Again, a generalisation and some do play safe, but as you’ll have seen from above there’s a lot of clouding intentions and attractions and the phrase ‘fab-straight’ is a running joke.
It’s not for me, I’m just too old, set on women but, you get aware of the threads on it
Just got enlightened of the meaning of 'fab-straight' yesterday.
Hilarious on the surface but its definitely indicative of a deeper problem.
Been full threads of arguments on it, so, nothing new and a real minefield
I'll have to check those out later "
Recent one about ‘straight cock sucking’, so won’t be difficult to find |
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"Fear of sexually transmitted diseases. Whether that’s actually the case I wouldn’t know
Huh, so the fact that they can be involved with both men and women has backfired on them?
Interesting how these things play out.
Flipside is that if you’ll fuck anything, there’s more chance of the nasty stuff.
Again, a generalisation and some do play safe, but as you’ll have seen from above there’s a lot of clouding intentions and attractions and the phrase ‘fab-straight’ is a running joke.
It’s not for me, I’m just too old, set on women but, you get aware of the threads on it"
Is "fucking anything" the sole preserve of bi and gay men? |
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My perspective on bi men is very negative and based on my own experiences knowing them and meeting them at parties.
They remind me a lot of gay men I knew when I was younger but they also fuck women.
I don’t think they are less manly at all, quite the opposite, extremely assertive, very horny, very promiscuous, takes a lot of risks on meets like meeting in public toilets. in groups say things like they’re fine with playing straight and then they will try and grab and suck your cock, loves the powder and blue pills, doesn’t wear condoms .
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"Fear of sexually transmitted diseases. Whether that’s actually the case I wouldn’t know
Huh, so the fact that they can be involved with both men and women has backfired on them?
Interesting how these things play out.
Flipside is that if you’ll fuck anything, there’s more chance of the nasty stuff.
Again, a generalisation and some do play safe, but as you’ll have seen from above there’s a lot of clouding intentions and attractions and the phrase ‘fab-straight’ is a running joke.
It’s not for me, I’m just too old, set on women but, you get aware of the threads on it
Just got enlightened of the meaning of 'fab-straight' yesterday.
Hilarious on the surface but its definitely indicative of a deeper problem."
It's not hilarious at all
It,s not indicative of a deeper problem.
Men who have anal sex with other men are at higher risk of STI,s including HIV & Hepatitis B.You are asked if you have sex with men when have sex with other men , when you get tested at clinic. If you do they recommend blood tests for the above.
It's not homophobic to not want to fuck bisexual men.
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"Fear of sexually transmitted diseases. Whether that’s actually the case I wouldn’t know
Huh, so the fact that they can be involved with both men and women has backfired on them?
Interesting how these things play out.
Flipside is that if you’ll fuck anything, there’s more chance of the nasty stuff.
Again, a generalisation and some do play safe, but as you’ll have seen from above there’s a lot of clouding intentions and attractions and the phrase ‘fab-straight’ is a running joke.
It’s not for me, I’m just too old, set on women but, you get aware of the threads on it
Just got enlightened of the meaning of 'fab-straight' yesterday.
Hilarious on the surface but its definitely indicative of a deeper problem.
It's not hilarious at all
It,s not indicative of a deeper problem.
Men who have anal sex with other men are at higher risk of STI,s including HIV & Hepatitis B.You are asked if you have sex with men when have sex with other men , when you get tested at clinic. If you do they recommend blood tests for the above.
It's not homophobic to not want to fuck bisexual men.
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From the Terence Higgins Trust
The number of new diagnoses is rising. In 2023, the number of HIV diagnoses first made in England increased by 15%. Diagnoses increased by 7% in gay, bisexual and other men who have sex with men, a reversal of the declines seen in recent years. Diagnoses increased by 32% in heterosexual men and women.
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"Fear of sexually transmitted diseases. Whether that’s actually the case I wouldn’t know
Huh, so the fact that they can be involved with both men and women has backfired on them?
Interesting how these things play out.
Flipside is that if you’ll fuck anything, there’s more chance of the nasty stuff.
Again, a generalisation and some do play safe, but as you’ll have seen from above there’s a lot of clouding intentions and attractions and the phrase ‘fab-straight’ is a running joke.
It’s not for me, I’m just too old, set on women but, you get aware of the threads on it
Just got enlightened of the meaning of 'fab-straight' yesterday.
Hilarious on the surface but its definitely indicative of a deeper problem.
It's not hilarious at all
It,s not indicative of a deeper problem.
Men who have anal sex with other men are at higher risk of STI,s including HIV & Hepatitis B.You are asked if you have sex with men when have sex with other men , when you get tested at clinic. If you do they recommend blood tests for the above.
It's not homophobic to not want to fuck bisexual men.
From the Terence Higgins Trust
The number of new diagnoses is rising. In 2023, the number of HIV diagnoses first made in England increased by 15%. Diagnoses increased by 7% in gay, bisexual and other men who have sex with men, a reversal of the declines seen in recent years. Diagnoses increased by 32% in heterosexual men and women.
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Diagnoses increased by 7% in gay, bisexual and other men who have sex with men, a reversal of the declines seen in recent years. Diagnoses increased by 32% in heterosexual men and women???
surely this cannot be true,I refuse to believe that select couples who go dogging and flit between group private gangbangs,local cinema visits and then off to the local club all in search of as much cum has this knock on effect. |
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"Diagnoses increased by 7% in gay, bisexual and other men who have sex with men, a reversal of the declines seen in recent years. Diagnoses increased by 32% in heterosexual men and women???
surely this cannot be true,I refuse to believe that select couples who go dogging and flit between group private gangbangs,local cinema visits and then off to the local club all in search of as much cum has this knock on effect."
Sounds like some of the couples profiles on here. If you seek out those into cream pie/bareback or breeding then risks are involved. Rubber up and it avoids a lot if swapping and ointments in the long run.
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"It's practically mandatory to be bisexual or at least curious if you're a woman.
I guess there are various reasons why some people don't want to meet bisexual men.
Yea its interesting,
Assumed femininity or STI concerns or an aversion to sleeping with a man who has potentially slept with other men.
Definitely helps explain why some guys pretend to be straight on here. Human social dynamics never cease to fascinate. "
Totally agree, yet they're just making people say they're straight and fucking them anyway which is increasing the perceived risk. What they should be asking is when did you last get tested, then it's not as much of an issue. |
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