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By *eli OP Woman 8 weeks ago
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Inspired by the eternally youthful Nora and because I'm in a slightly pervy mood...
So, people. This is for any/everyone. When you kiss someone, do you feel yourself get aroused? Is a kiss enough to start things getting a bit chubby, a bit erm... stickier? Or do you need a bit more of a helping hand?
Are there people you could kiss anywhere and feel that lust kick in? |
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"Oh yes. Especially if he’s aroused and I feel it pressing against me. 😈😈😈. Oh my.
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Oh god yes, kissing is a huge part of arousal for me…
A long and sensual French kiss, hands in my hair, kissing down my neck and collarbone is just the most wonderful thing. My décolletage flushes, my pupils dilate and I get very very wet  |
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"Inspired by the eternally youthful Nora and because I'm in a slightly pervy mood...
So, people. This is for any/everyone. When you kiss someone, do you feel yourself get aroused? Is a kiss enough to start things getting a bit chubby, a bit erm... stickier? Or do you need a bit more of a helping hand?
Are there people you could kiss anywhere and feel that lust kick in?"
Yes as long as our style of kissing matches up and there is passion in said kissing |
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By *eli OP Woman 8 weeks ago
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"Most people I find a kiss is just a kiss.
Some people I can feel my body reacting to it pretty intensely.
That happy swell of lust and need coursing through it 💜"
Right, this is kind of a question that popped in to my stream of consciousness. So... sometimes a kiss is just a kiss, right? It can be nice but it doesn't mean more than just a kiss.
So there are different levels of kisses. Attraction. I don't think we're all turned on by every person we've kissed. |
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There has only ever been one man who literally set my body on fire with just his kiss, don't know if it was the look in his eyes just beforehand but my god it was the hottest thing ever.
Shame it hasn't been replicated...yet x |
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There’s people I could kiss anywhere and want to rip their clothes off. Outside the steps of a train station. On a bus outside the airport. Wherever
I tend to only kiss if I feel it. If I like the person in some way. It’s a show of affection. |
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"Most people I find a kiss is just a kiss.
Some people I can feel my body reacting to it pretty intensely.
That happy swell of lust and need coursing through it 💜
Right, this is kind of a question that popped in to my stream of consciousness. So... sometimes a kiss is just a kiss, right? It can be nice but it doesn't mean more than just a kiss.
So there are different levels of kisses. Attraction. I don't think we're all turned on by every person we've kissed."
I wouldn't kiss someone unless I wanted to have sex with them. |
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By *sWyldWoman 8 weeks ago
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Kissing is everything!
It has the ability to turn me on to the point of having to have them right there and then. It also can be enough to be amazing in it's own right.
However, it can also completely turn me off with the wrong person.
Kissing, good kissing, fireworks and lust kissing, that's what I want. That takes chemistry and lust.
I'm not a fan of mediocre or half hearted. |
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"Inspired by the eternally youthful Nora and because I'm in a slightly pervy mood...
So, people. This is for any/everyone. When you kiss someone, do you feel yourself get aroused? Is a kiss enough to start things getting a bit chubby, a bit erm... stickier? Or do you need a bit more of a helping hand?
Are there people you could kiss anywhere and feel that lust kick in?"
I kiss very few people ( very personal prior trauma reason) but yes if I'm kissing the right person then it can turn me on greatly.
However I do not need to kiss someone to get turned on.
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By *eli OP Woman 8 weeks ago
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"Oh yes. Especially if he’s aroused and I feel it pressing against me. 😈😈😈. Oh my.
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Yes. You get it! Feeling it pressed against is such a turn on. Like they're ready and eager and just 🔥 |
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It's in the kiss, that's where it is....
Good kissing that makes you want more is amazing, that wanting to pull them closer....
Yes! All the kissing!
I don't find that with everyone I kiss though.
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"Oh yes. Especially if he’s aroused and I feel it pressing against me. 😈😈😈. Oh my.
Yes. You get it! Feeling it pressed against is such a turn on. Like they're ready and eager and just 🔥"
It really is! Probably where my dry humping and grinding threads came from. I love it 😃 |
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"Oh god yes, kissing is a huge part of arousal for me…
A long and sensual French kiss, hands in my hair, kissing down my neck and collarbone is just the most wonderful thing. My décolletage flushes, my pupils dilate and I get very very wet "
This!
I’m not really interested in anything else if this is not the kind of chemistry I’m experiencing. |
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"Inspired by the eternally youthful Nora and because I'm in a slightly pervy mood...
So, people. This is for any/everyone. When you kiss someone, do you feel yourself get aroused? Is a kiss enough to start things getting a bit chubby, a bit erm... stickier? Or do you need a bit more of a helping hand?
A kiss for me is the start of foreplay good sensual kissing most certainly makes me hard from my experience, passionate kissing gets both our engine started as you slipped down for a feel to find it all wet x
Are there people you could kiss anywhere and feel that lust kick in?"
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"Most people I find a kiss is just a kiss.
Some people I can feel my body reacting to it pretty intensely.
That happy swell of lust and need coursing through it 💜
Right, this is kind of a question that popped in to my stream of consciousness. So... sometimes a kiss is just a kiss, right? It can be nice but it doesn't mean more than just a kiss.
So there are different levels of kisses. Attraction. I don't think we're all turned on by every person we've kissed."
I came to say this! Sometimes kissing is fun in and of itself. Sometimes it’s a precursor to something more intensely sexual, an amuse bouche. But depending on the sexual dynamic I don’t need kissing as a starter, or at all.
Mrs TMN x |
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On their own it doesn't release a massive lust in me. However, if I spoken to them and I'm already aroused by the thought of them. The instant we start kissing it's like an explosion. So engaging my brain is far more important for me. |
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By *eli OP Woman 8 weeks ago
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"There has only ever been one man who literally set my body on fire with just his kiss, don't know if it was the look in his eyes just beforehand but my god it was the hottest thing ever.
Shame it hasn't been replicated...yet x"
Oh that sounds incredible Sparkle. Do you find that you draw comparisons because he's the only that's had that effect on you? Curious, apologies! x |
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"There has only ever been one man who literally set my body on fire with just his kiss, don't know if it was the look in his eyes just beforehand but my god it was the hottest thing ever.
Shame it hasn't been replicated...yet x
Oh that sounds incredible Sparkle. Do you find that you draw comparisons because he's the only that's had that effect on you? Curious, apologies! x"
No not at all, what others haven't achieved in a kiss they have made up for it in other ways x |
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By *eli OP Woman 8 weeks ago
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"Most people I find a kiss is just a kiss.
Some people I can feel my body reacting to it pretty intensely.
That happy swell of lust and need coursing through it 💜
Right, this is kind of a question that popped in to my stream of consciousness. So... sometimes a kiss is just a kiss, right? It can be nice but it doesn't mean more than just a kiss.
So there are different levels of kisses. Attraction. I don't think we're all turned on by every person we've kissed.
I came to say this! Sometimes kissing is fun in and of itself. Sometimes it’s a precursor to something more intensely sexual, an amuse bouche. But depending on the sexual dynamic I don’t need kissing as a starter, or at all.
Mrs TMN x"
If you don't mind me asking on the forums, NipNips... what kind of sexual dynamic do you not need kissing in? |
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By (user no longer on site) 8 weeks ago
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I can definitely feel aroused during a kiss and while occasionally it might need a helping hand after, I definitely feel more "ready" during a kiss if there's been build up in terms of teasing, flirting, eye contact and then when that kiss happens, it just feels incredible and makes me want more 😈 |
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" But depending on the sexual dynamic I don’t need kissing as a starter, or at all.
Mrs TMN x"
I get this totally.. I'd say 99% of my fab sexual encounters have excluded kissing at all or its been very limited... It is definitely not required to get me going.
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"There has only ever been one man who literally set my body on fire with just his kiss, don't know if it was the look in his eyes just beforehand but my god it was the hottest thing ever.
Shame it hasn't been replicated...yet x
Oh that sounds incredible Sparkle. Do you find that you draw comparisons because he's the only that's had that effect on you? Curious, apologies! x
No not at all, what others haven't achieved in a kiss they have made up for it in other ways x"
How? Did they buy you a box of milk tray? |
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By *eli OP Woman 8 weeks ago
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"I can definitely feel aroused during a kiss and while occasionally it might need a helping hand after, I definitely feel more "ready" during a kiss if there's been build up in terms of teasing, flirting, eye contact and then when that kiss happens, it just feels incredible and makes me want more 😈"
But Joe... you've ruined the innocent impression I had of you now. Darn it. |
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Some kisses are just friendly pecks 🐦 💋 they make me blush and smile. 😍 🤭
Some others give fanny flutters… 🦋
And some others glaze the donut 🍩 😂😂😂😂😂
I love, love kissing. I tend to end a 1-to-1 social that is going well with a kiss to 1) see if interest is mutual and 2) See how things will be afterwards… 💋 |
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By *HUSH-Man 8 weeks ago
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"Kissing gets me aroused quite quickly. Have to be careful, I can get easily embarrassed
Which way does it point though 😝"
It points out but fortunately I have the dexterity to tuck it upwards. Not comfy but saves me from the shame shudders. |
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"Most people I find a kiss is just a kiss.
Some people I can feel my body reacting to it pretty intensely.
That happy swell of lust and need coursing through it 💜
Right, this is kind of a question that popped in to my stream of consciousness. So... sometimes a kiss is just a kiss, right? It can be nice but it doesn't mean more than just a kiss.
So there are different levels of kisses. Attraction. I don't think we're all turned on by every person we've kissed.
I came to say this! Sometimes kissing is fun in and of itself. Sometimes it’s a precursor to something more intensely sexual, an amuse bouche. But depending on the sexual dynamic I don’t need kissing as a starter, or at all.
Mrs TMN x
If you don't mind me asking on the forums, NipNips... what kind of sexual dynamic do you not need kissing in?"
Ummm…
Ones involving a specific power balance or scene. Is that a coy enough public answer?  |
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By (user no longer on site) 8 weeks ago
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One woman sucked on my lips so hard I thought they they were going to be ripped off. She was a very aggressive kisser and left my bottom lip bruised. I didn't think it was possible for someone to be bad at kissing but I have experienced it. Nothing was sexy about it at all. |
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"Some kisses are just friendly pecks 🐦 💋 they make me blush and smile. 😍 🤭
Some others give fanny flutters… 🦋
And some others glaze the donut 🍩 😂😂😂😂😂
I love, love kissing. I tend to end a 1-to-1 social that is going well with a kiss to 1) see if interest is mutual and 2) See how things will be afterwards… 💋 "
Exactly the same for me, although replacing the euphemism of fanny flutters with the equally alliterative trouser tent. |
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By *eli OP Woman 8 weeks ago
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"I came to say this! Sometimes kissing is fun in and of itself. Sometimes it’s a precursor to something more intensely sexual, an amuse bouche. But depending on the sexual dynamic I don’t need kissing as a starter, or at all.
Mrs TMN x
If you don't mind me asking on the forums, NipNips... what kind of sexual dynamic do you not need kissing in?
Ummm…
Ones involving a specific power balance or scene. Is that a coy enough public answer? "
Yes, yes it is. I have various questions but I shall save them and not ask them on here. Thank you Mrs NN. 🧡 |
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"Inspired by the eternally youthful Nora and because I'm in a slightly pervy mood...
So, people. This is for any/everyone. When you kiss someone, do you feel yourself get aroused? Is a kiss enough to start things getting a bit chubby, a bit erm... stickier? Or do you need a bit more of a helping hand?
Are there people you could kiss anywhere and feel that lust kick in?"
I can be aroused just by kissing, always have been if the kiss is passionate and I’m into the kisser.
A good kiss is as powerful as the grope that it builds up to  |
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Definitely get a bonk-on from kissing but is it the same with a long-term partner?
I often think that the malaise of routine in long-term relationships is encapsulated in Springsteen's I'm Going Down: "I remember back when we started, my kisses used to turn you inside out." |
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This is circumstantial. A girlfriend of over 7-8months it no longer has the same effect.
However, a new fling. I start getting a chubby at the thought of them leaning in for a smooch. But that could also be as I know what follows. |
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What’s in a kiss?
10 seconds of French kissing transfers 80 million bacteria according to Dutch scientists… 🦠🧫
To make it count a kiss must last longer than 6 seconds because that’s the time it takes for the dopamine to hit… The brain reconfigures neural paths disproportionate amounts to process the sensation from the lips; this sensitivity causes our brain to create a cocktail of dopamine, oxytocin, and serotonin. The dopamine stimulates the same area of the brain activated by heroin and cocaine (euphoria). Oxytocin fosters feelings of affection and attachment (the same hormone released during childbirth and breastfeeding). Levels of serotonin in the brain during kissing map like the brain activity of someone with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder….
I love a good kisser 💋
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One of my hottest memories is a time in one of my partner's old living rooms. He had music on and I was straddling him on the sofa and we were slowly moving and kissing and touching. It was arousing as fuck 🥵 |
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By *.T.Man 8 weeks ago
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A good kisser is definately chubb inducing and a good indicator that you are in for a good night.
A kiss that does not result in chubb will often lead to a gentle let down and excuzes given.
You gotta set the scene! |
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"This is circumstantial. A girlfriend of over 7-8months it no longer has the same effect.
However, a new fling. I start getting a chubby at the thought of them leaning in for a smooch. But that could also be as I know what follows."
aww I find that a little sad. I don't kiss many people.. but every kiss from Mr has the sparks flying and we are almost at a year together now x |
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"There has only ever been one man who literally set my body on fire with just his kiss, don't know if it was the look in his eyes just beforehand but my god it was the hottest thing ever.
Shame it hasn't been replicated...yet x"
There's plenty more guys you haven't tried yet, 
Funny how someone can trigger something in you, that you were not expecting. |
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"This is circumstantial. A girlfriend of over 7-8months it no longer has the same effect.
However, a new fling. I start getting a chubby at the thought of them leaning in for a smooch. But that could also be as I know what follows. aww I find that a little sad. I don't kiss many people.. but every kiss from Mr has the sparks flying and we are almost at a year together now x "
Fingers crossed, long may that continue  |
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"This is circumstantial. A girlfriend of over 7-8months it no longer has the same effect.
However, a new fling. I start getting a chubby at the thought of them leaning in for a smooch. But that could also be as I know what follows. aww I find that a little sad. I don't kiss many people.. but every kiss from Mr has the sparks flying and we are almost at a year together now x "
I think it depends on the kind of kiss in a long term relationship. Every peck on the lips doesn't get me going but it's those kisses with intent. The ones that linger. When they press themselves against you a little and the kiss really says "fuck, I want you". |
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"This is circumstantial. A girlfriend of over 7-8months it no longer has the same effect.
However, a new fling. I start getting a chubby at the thought of them leaning in for a smooch. But that could also be as I know what follows. aww I find that a little sad. I don't kiss many people.. but every kiss from Mr has the sparks flying and we are almost at a year together now x
I think it depends on the kind of kiss in a long term relationship. Every peck on the lips doesn't get me going but it's those kisses with intent. The ones that linger. When they press themselves against you a little and the kiss really says "fuck, I want you"."
Absolutely this ⬆️
It can be the most vanilla of settings and circumstances….. but if the chemistry is there, then a kiss can light a fire in my belly for sure! |
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