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It is all the above OP. If you feel sexy, you are sexy. If someone says you are sexy, you are sexy. We all have different perceptions of sexy and what/how sexy looks. It is a look, a mood, a feeling, an image! In my opinion, it is down to the individual to make the call. So does your friend feel sexy  |
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I think confidence (without arrogance) might have a lot to do with it.
I always go naked when I go to Chams, and lots of people over the years have commented to me along the lines of "having the confidence to do that is sexy". But it isn't confidence per se, nor do i personally think it makes me 'sexy', I just don't care if others like it or not, I'm just doing what I like to do 😅 so i reckon it is (or can be) other people's perception of confidence |
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By *sWyldWoman 11 weeks ago
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It's a lovely and empowering feeling when in the moment you feel it or your with someone and they make you feel sexy.
It's something I rarely feel on my own but when it happens it's a rush.
I don't know how to make myself sexy or how to make myself feel sexy. If I try I end up feeling ridiculous
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"Let’s be honest, I’m pretty. Sexy? I don’t know. But pretty definitely.
I’m gonna say no to sexy because I’m a bit fat and I don’t know if people generally find that sexy. "
They don’t (generally)  |
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"I think confidence (without arrogance) might have a lot to do with it.
I always go naked when I go to Chams, and lots of people over the years have commented to me along the lines of "having the confidence to do that is sexy". But it isn't confidence per se, nor do i personally think it makes me 'sexy', I just don't care if others like it or not, I'm just doing what I like to do 😅 so i reckon it is (or can be) other people's perception of confidence "
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"Let’s be honest, I’m pretty. Sexy? I don’t know. But pretty definitely.
I’m gonna say no to sexy because I’m a bit fat and I don’t know if people generally find that sexy. "
Of course you are sexy. |
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Id not class myself as pin up sexy
Im not ugly in appearance but nor am I drop dead gorgeous. Just average looking and figure wise plenty of woman surpass me with their sex appeal
That said though, previous partners and play friends have said they always find me captivating and an extremely sexual person.
So i guess you could say sexiness can be an atttibute or behaviour other than glamour and aesthetic
Think the key aspect is that the other person has often said i made them feel completely liberated, unashamed, and like they felt 100% comfortable on all sexual levels |
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I'm confident not cocky
I know my flaws and I know my assets
I've accepted both
I feel I'm sensual because I honestly enjoy seeing someone else happy. That bounces right back into me. I'm honest and wear my heart and feelings on my sleeves..I also don't hold my tongue or mince my words. I don't do grey areas put out fake feelings fake words or lie to myself or anyone else for that matter...
I think people either find that sexy or intimidating. Either way it's just how I am. |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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Pretty.
People tell me.
Sexy..I'm not sure.
I have a very neutral accent when I speak ...nothing exotic about it at all.
Plus I was born in Wigan.
Which cancels out all sexiness.
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Some days I'm happy in myself and feel good some days I don't although I dress well act good and have respect
I do wonder if people look and think I look good etc
Id say I'm decent above average looks wise
But generally I just get on with my day
No one coming over to say hi or ask for my number if that's what good looking is defined as though
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Sexy is in the eye of the beholder, I’ve gone out before thinking I look rough as fuck ( I did to be fair, work clothes, microphone head and a homeless beard ) and some bird still asked me for me number.
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Very much "no" to most people.
"Yes/no/maybe if there's nothing on the telly" to the majority of the rest.
"Ridiculously sexy/charismatic/drives me potty with the horn" to the very small percentage that's left after that.
It's a bit of a "how long is a piece of string?" question and this is the best I can give you I'm afraid x. |
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By *hilloutMan 11 weeks ago
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I believe I am based on the amount of people I've been able to attract.
I feel that frame of mind certainly plays a role. If you're happy, feeling confident in yourself and in your physical appearance a vibe or air is given off that many will find sexy |
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