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I don’t personally go bareback but I’m curious and generally want to find out, do the people who bareback regularly with multiple partners actually have any issues? I assume you regularly Get tested but are you having std problems or are they pretty much non existent with bareback play in your experience? |
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Condoms provide good but limited protection. I assume that most people here test regularly but it's reasonable to assume that someone might not have tested or their infection was too recent to show in results. It's not as if those who bareback are riddled with disease and you should take responsibility for your own health. |
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"I don’t personally go bareback but I’m curious and generally want to find out, do the people who bareback regularly with multiple partners actually have any issues? I assume you regularly Get tested but are you having std problems or are they pretty much non existent with bareback play in your experience? "
Asking if anybody has contracted an STd on the forum is the epitome of a stupid question no one is going to answer |
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"The only time it’s given me an issue is when a meet tried to stealth bareback me. Practically had to wrestle the fuckwit off me.
He’s lucky he still has a knob left to fuck anyone else with.
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Jesus what an absolute cunt that guy was! ... I only found out in the last year or so stealthing is treated as r*pe in British law ... |
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"The only time it’s given me an issue is when a meet tried to stealth bareback me. Practically had to wrestle the fuckwit off me.
He’s lucky he still has a knob left to fuck anyone else with.
Jesus what an absolute cunt that guy was! ... I only found out in the last year or so stealthing is treated as r*pe in British law ..."
Same. Else I’d probably have reported him. Save some less vicious bitch copping it from him. |
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"The only time it’s given me an issue is when a meet tried to stealth bareback me. Practically had to wrestle the fuckwit off me.
He’s lucky he still has a knob left to fuck anyone else with.
Jesus what an absolute cunt that guy was! ... I only found out in the last year or so stealthing is treated as r*pe in British law ...
Same. Else I’d probably have reported him. Save some less vicious bitch copping it from him. "
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"The only time it’s given me an issue is when a meet tried to stealth bareback me. Practically had to wrestle the fuckwit off me.
He’s lucky he still has a knob left to fuck anyone else with.
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Can I ask if a woman can tell the difference between bareback and covered or do they have to see the cock to tell? |
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"The only time it’s given me an issue is when a meet tried to stealth bareback me. Practically had to wrestle the fuckwit off me.
He’s lucky he still has a knob left to fuck anyone else with.
Can I ask if a woman can tell the difference between bareback and covered or do they have to see the cock to tell?"
It feels different. We can tell. |
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By *aizyWoman 4 weeks ago
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"The only time it’s given me an issue is when a meet tried to stealth bareback me. Practically had to wrestle the fuckwit off me.
He’s lucky he still has a knob left to fuck anyone else with.
Can I ask if a woman can tell the difference between bareback and covered or do they have to see the cock to tell?"
Can tell without seeing it. |
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"The only time it’s given me an issue is when a meet tried to stealth bareback me. Practically had to wrestle the fuckwit off me.
He’s lucky he still has a knob left to fuck anyone else with.
Can I ask if a woman can tell the difference between bareback and covered or do they have to see the cock to tell?
It feels different. We can tell."
Not everyone can, stealthing wouldn’t exist if this was the case surely? |
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"The only time it’s given me an issue is when a meet tried to stealth bareback me. Practically had to wrestle the fuckwit off me.
He’s lucky he still has a knob left to fuck anyone else with.
Can I ask if a woman can tell the difference between bareback and covered or do they have to see the cock to tell?
It feels different. We can tell."
Thanks for the reply. Even with the ultrathin condoms? |
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"I don’t personally go bareback but I’m curious and generally want to find out, do the people who bareback regularly with multiple partners actually have any issues? I assume you regularly Get tested but are you having std problems or are they pretty much non existent with bareback play in your experience?
Asking if anybody has contracted an STd on the forum is the epitome of a stupid question no one is going to answer"
Agree totally. This is asked by a person with no experience.
With experience, no one would ask such a question. |
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I am just putting this out there as no one should have to go through it ever, stealthing is R*PE it always has been the moment consent is taken away if it doesn’t stop it is R*PE, or attempted R*PE I don’t care what gender you are don’t put up with someone trying it and report them.
I know the investigation will be hard and the evidence might not lead to a conviction but that suspect will be on the radar of officers then and if the same person is getting multiple reports over a period they will slip up at some point and enable the police to get the evidence to get a conviction.
The police are only humans and they get battered with red tape and media bashing daily, every job has it’s wrong-un’s but there are great officers in every force doing there best to protect the public in the U.K. they are also doing what they can to gain the evidence for the Crown Prosecution Service to secure a conviction in court. They don’t pick a side they have to look at all the evidence for and against a case and submit it all and the Crown Prosecution service (CPS) review it and decide if there is a realistic potential for a conviction based on the evidence available if not the case is dropped. Remember people lie and it is hard to prove beyond reasonable doubt in many cases.
All I ask is that people report those that do and try to do us harm whenever they can.
Sorry to rant I will get of my soap box now. |
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As someone said in other posts he took the condom of stealth mode and remarked about wanting to get me pregnant... I control that aspect so I was lucky that didn't occur but it was scary waiting on results in case he caused other lifelong consequences. |
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"I only do bearback and nothing else. And yet I have lived to tell the Grizzly tales."
You savage beast, put your knob away 🧸
With claws I’d say any attempt at putting on a ultrathin wispy featherlite supafeel comfort shape neo air sheath is utterly futile anyway. I bet you can get the packet open in a thrice though…. 😬 |
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Had a condom burst a few years ago on a meet and didn’t realise until after we had both finished so it was unintentional bareback. There were no issues luckily and we were all reasonably calm about it. |
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"I am just putting this out there as no one should have to go through it ever, stealthing is R*PE it always has been the moment consent is taken away if it doesn’t stop it is R*PE, or attempted R*PE I don’t care what gender you are don’t put up with someone trying it and report them.
I know the investigation will be hard and the evidence might not lead to a conviction but that suspect will be on the radar of officers then and if the same person is getting multiple reports over a period they will slip up at some point and enable the police to get the evidence to get a conviction.
The police are only humans and they get battered with red tape and media bashing daily, every job has it’s wrong-un’s but there are great officers in every force doing there best to protect the public in the U.K. they are also doing what they can to gain the evidence for the Crown Prosecution Service to secure a conviction in court. They don’t pick a side they have to look at all the evidence for and against a case and submit it all and the Crown Prosecution service (CPS) review it and decide if there is a realistic potential for a conviction based on the evidence available if not the case is dropped. Remember people lie and it is hard to prove beyond reasonable doubt in many cases.
All I ask is that people report those that do and try to do us harm whenever they can.
Sorry to rant I will get of my soap box now."
I pointed this out at a club the other day and most people were shocked that it's actually r@pe. |
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"Is anyone really going to be honest and say yes?? "
Well. I've never gone bareback with anyone other than my husband.
But that resulted in pregnancy (planned). And that resulted in disability (unplanned). Pros and cons. |
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By *rRiosMan 4 weeks ago
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"Is anyone really going to be honest and say yes??
Well. I've never gone bareback with anyone other than my husband.
But that resulted in pregnancy (planned). And that resulted in disability (unplanned). Pros and cons."
Is the disability the child? Joking, sorry 
Can I ask how it resulted in disability? No need to share if you are not comfortable sharing  |
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"The only time it’s given me an issue is when a meet tried to stealth bareback me. Practically had to wrestle the fuckwit off me.
He’s lucky he still has a knob left to fuck anyone else with.
Can I ask if a woman can tell the difference between bareback and covered or do they have to see the cock to tell?"
Obviously it feels different, or else no one would be saying they prefer the feeling of unprotected sex. Which is the generally agreed opinion. |
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"Is anyone really going to be honest and say yes??
Well. I've never gone bareback with anyone other than my husband.
But that resulted in pregnancy (planned). And that resulted in disability (unplanned). Pros and cons.
Is the disability the child? Joking, sorry
Can I ask how it resulted in disability? No need to share if you are not comfortable sharing "
My child is not a disability, no.
The pregnancy itself resulted in physical injury, which has resulted in permanent disability. That's enough to share.
"But you've got a healthy baby/child..." |
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No issues so far, hopefully it will remain that way. Like anything else in life we are responsible for making our own risk assessments, and judgements. I test every 3mths regardless of if I'm active or not. How I choose to play depends on who it's with, how close we are, if they've also tested too.
Nothing is foolproof in life though |
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"The only time it’s given me an issue is when a meet tried to stealth bareback me. Practically had to wrestle the fuckwit off me.
He’s lucky he still has a knob left to fuck anyone else with.
Jesus what an absolute cunt that guy was! ... I only found out in the last year or so stealthing is treated as r*pe in British law ..."
100% agree |
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By *rRiosMan 4 weeks ago
dublin |
"Is anyone really going to be honest and say yes??
Well. I've never gone bareback with anyone other than my husband.
But that resulted in pregnancy (planned). And that resulted in disability (unplanned). Pros and cons.
Is the disability the child? Joking, sorry
Can I ask how it resulted in disability? No need to share if you are not comfortable sharing
My child is not a disability, no.
The pregnancy itself resulted in physical injury, which has resulted in permanent disability. That's enough to share.
"But you've got a healthy baby/child..." "
Sorry to hear, I assumed they were separate incidents, hence my joke. I didn’t mean to come across so insensitive. My bad |
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"I will only go bareback with someone I know and trust. Not a chance with just anyone. Not worth the risks. "
I used to as well but then you find out they lie just like all the rest, I wouldn't trust anyone now enough to not use protection |
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"The only time it’s given me an issue is when a meet tried to stealth bareback me. Practically had to wrestle the fuckwit off me.
He’s lucky he still has a knob left to fuck anyone else with.
Can I ask if a woman can tell the difference between bareback and covered or do they have to see the cock to tell?"
Totally normal question. 🥸 |
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"The only time it’s given me an issue is when a meet tried to stealth bareback me. Practically had to wrestle the fuckwit off me.
He’s lucky he still has a knob left to fuck anyone else with.
Can I ask if a woman can tell the difference between bareback and covered or do they have to see the cock to tell?
It feels different. We can tell."
I don’t think I would be able to tell. It’s something that makes me paranoid, especially if from behind. I’ll only play in a club if I have someone I trust keeping a very close eye on me and who is putting what where!
I have had a guy try to stealth bareback me too. Twat |
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"The only time it’s given me an issue is when a meet tried to stealth bareback me. Practically had to wrestle the fuckwit off me.
He’s lucky he still has a knob left to fuck anyone else with.
Can I ask if a woman can tell the difference between bareback and covered or do they have to see the cock to tell?
Obviously it feels different, or else no one would be saying they prefer the feeling of unprotected sex. Which is the generally agreed opinion."
I am sure it feels different for the man, but it doesn’t really for the woman. Only reason I dislike condoms is the taste and smell of them, but worth it for the protection with people I am not in a long term relationship with |
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"Reading this thread is a great reminder that women’s safety is more important than men’s egos and their insecure #NotAllMen angles.
Good white horse post dude  "
I’ve had a bad day but this post reminds me, my life can always get sadder.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 |
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"Reading this thread is a great reminder that women’s safety is more important than men’s egos and their insecure #NotAllMen angles.
Good white horse post dude
I’ve had a bad day but this post reminds me, my life can always get sadder.
🤣🤣🤣🤣"
We all pray for you brother 🙏 |
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We are very careful but have had occasional breaks/condom come off. In fact this has happened enough now that I get paranoid about it and regularly check.
While single I have on occasion gone bare - with assurances I chose to believe that the person was on contraception/had been sterilised. I've never had an STD. An ex and I both decided to get checked when we became serious and she had symptomless Chlamydia, another partner who was always very meticulous about condoms but with whom I'd had one come off, also found out she had Chlamydia on a regular check up. Both occasions my results were clear.
I have heard it said that being circumcised reduces the risk but have also heard that is nonsense made up by the religious right to justify the practice so who knows, either way, I've never caught anything.
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I’ve only ever had bareback sex with the father of my children…..my sexual health is important to me so therefore i always make sure protection is used ….. no condoms no action it’s as simple as that. |
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