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Men - how physically exhausting do you find sex?
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By *a Luna OP Woman 12 weeks ago
South Wales |
It’s a quiet day for me and after perving a few vids on here it’s got me wondering.
How physically demanding do men find sex, in terms of energy, stamina, or physical exertion?
I’m asking about the physical side of sex -does it leave you feeling way too tired afterwards. Is it an uncomfortable workout for your muscles and stamina. It’s about understanding how much effort or energy it takes for you during the experience? Because sometimes I watch you men pumping away and my back and thighs ache on your behalf!
Do you sometimes just feel like sacking the whole thing off as it’s just too much effort? Does the pleasure of sex get to a point where the effort it takes to do the sex is just too much and you can’t be arsed?
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Not tiring but….and I’ve mentioned this previously on here - cumming via a blow job bizarrely makes my legs go to jelly as though having just undertaken a particularly strenuous quad workout 😵💫😵💫 |
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By *a Luna OP Woman 12 weeks ago
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"Not tiring but….and I’ve mentioned this previously on here - cumming via a blow job bizarrely makes my legs go to jelly as though having just undertaken a particularly strenuous quad workout 😵💫😵💫"
Does the pleasure from the BJ make that sensation bearable though? Or do you tend to not get a BJ too often as it’s too intense a sensation?
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It's a physical activity like any other. If you're fit, flexible and in shape your performance matches it. If not... Shagger's back is a thing, as are shagger's abs, and shagger's thighs. Some relatively recent, quite physical fun, left me hobbling around the next day (although I didn't notice anything while busy - the power of lust/hormones I guess  ) |
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It's a demanding workout.
I'm known (at least to the women I know) for having some serious stamina and staying power. I can, quite litterally, go for hours and hours (aside from a few much needed water breaks). Thats not a brag. Just how I am and probably why my wife likes to pimp me out so much at the club lol.
Some women want picking up, throwing around. Its physically demanding. And trust me...I get that it's too much for some ladies as well. Some expect 5 mins and 5 hours later I'm still going and they're getting sore. I learnt a long time ago to play to my partners limits, not mine.
If you ladies really want to know how tiring just the basics can get, try dry humping something for 10 mins and see how knackered you get.
But do I want to stop? Not in the slightest. I might want you to do a bit of the work now and again just so I can catch my breath and I might occasionally only want a quickie but there's something about being able to go and go I love. Feels powerful if that makes sense.
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"Not tiring but….and I’ve mentioned this previously on here - cumming via a blow job bizarrely makes my legs go to jelly as though having just undertaken a particularly strenuous quad workout 😵💫😵💫
Does the pleasure from the BJ make that sensation bearable though? Or do you tend to not get a BJ too often as it’s too intense a sensation?
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Oh it’s well worth it 😂👍🏻
But seriously, the muscular exhaustion in the legs is thankfully, only post ejaculation.
Curiously, said sensation is only linked to blow jobs as opposed to full sex - which is the really strange thing though.
I mean, I’m laying on my back and my legs are in no way even involved in the proceedings and yet here they are, trembling as though I’ve just done an intense round of pistol squats 😵💫😵💫😵💫 |
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I guess for me depends on the position. In the frog position it kind of aches the thighs after a while but pounding away from
Behind or missionary is not too much of an issue. I can only last about 10-15 mins first time
Round so no issue but second round tends to get tiring. But as a previous guy said your worth it x |
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To simplify, I guess it depends on two things:
a) Your sex fitness level will probably mirror your general fitness level
b) How easy it is for you to cum. If you cum quickly, you never build stamina for long plan. If it takes you forever to cum, you probably had to compensate by building sex stamina - whether or not you have similar levels of stamina for general physical activities.
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"find sex" as in to locate it? Well, damsel, I have been known to scour the quadrants of this fair isle, traversing ravines, the green pastures and the rolling hills, the tributaries, and the nooks and crannies of every stately home and country estate...and let me tell you: it's very exhausting.
And when I've woo'd and beguiled the most agreeable of women into bed, it's even more exhausting.
Thank goodness for the missionary position — where I can at least rest my gyrating pubic region between her load-bearing thighs, as I thrust and pump with energy-sapping gusto.
Let's not forget the cowgirl position: a chance for me to rest my spine and lie flat whilst she does the hard work on my 'hard work'.
Sex is ennervating but pleasurable. If I make love like a fighter jet then I will tire quicker if I deploy my afterburners too often. |
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"It’s a quiet day for me and after perving a few vids on here it’s got me wondering.
How physically demanding do men find sex, in terms of energy, stamina, or physical exertion?
I’m asking about the physical side of sex -does it leave you feeling way too tired afterwards. Is it an uncomfortable workout for your muscles and stamina. It’s about understanding how much effort or energy it takes for you during the experience? Because sometimes I watch you men pumping away and my back and thighs ache on your behalf!
Do you sometimes just feel like sacking the whole thing off as it’s just too much effort? Does the pleasure of sex get to a point where the effort it takes to do the sex is just too much and you can’t be arsed?
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It's not very strenuous, I'm done in under a minute so I can easily recover enough to get on with watching football. |
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Don't find it physically exhausting, although some positions can be more tiring to maintain for a long time. I do find though post orgasm can be left in a state of catatonic bliss, so relax quickly and can fall asleep especially if cuddled into the person. |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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At the time I don't find it exhausting as I do like sex and I'm not going to pass on it "I am male after all"
But sometimes I get up the next day and feel aches all over but it's part an parcel of it good time = aches lol |
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By *WANDTGCouple 12 weeks ago
Borough of Greenwich |
This is a very good question.
I had blood clots on both lungs and left leg a 2 years ago, so now after a good session I'm hanging out the window taking in gulps of air, plus my thighs cramp up if I'm in the wrong position.
We still carry on as before but it does take its toll.
Saying that we still squeeze in a double or triple session on occasions.
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It depends what you’re doing 😁
For me the most enjoyable sessions are ones that leave my legs like jelly due to physical extension. Not just from pumping/pounding away but foreplay. Massaging her body requires some strength/stamina as well as holding her legs/body in place whilst working away with my tongue and fingers.
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It really depends. A couple of hours of hot sex often leaves me feeling energised and I've been known to get up and make a sandwich while my partner has a snooze. I do tend to pace myself, particularly if my partner is insatiable.
More recently it took me three days to recover from an all nighter.
I get jelly legs after an exceptional climax too |
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Sex is like any form of physical activity. It all depends on how long and how hard you go at it. Also what position you are doing it in. I could do cow girl all day long but missionary where I am supporting my weight on my hands is more tiring. Doggy takes little effort too but because you can go that much harder can fatigue after a while. |
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It can be up there with the best workouts leaving me soaking with sweat , heart racing, struggling to breathe, It’s just phenomenal.
It can also be much more relaxing , slow building , leg shakingly good!
It’s always worth it - the effort, the sore abs, the sore thighs, the burnt knees, the tingling skin, the bruises and bite marks  |
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I have chronic fatigue so it's more exhausting than you imagine and reason why I don't meet. I've met a few people and there's a lot of different types of sex but I certainly don't have the sex people have. Looking at people vid's and a few cam's, it does make me wonder if I could do any better (prob not), as some guys look a fucking boring shag.
I view some and just think that is not turning anyone on, they're not even slightly wet and hubby's done, the women look half asleep, or as you say they are banging as if it's rough sex, when they don't seem to be having rough sex, just hard pumping inny-outy. |
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By *ee69Man 11 weeks ago
glasgow |
When I’m lucky enough to be with a nice girl I don’t find it tiring just happy and exhilarating and obviously concentrating on her needs , after a can be a little tired but a have always had a quick recharge time thankfully and repeat cum too a find staying hard ok but a do notice a slight slow and tired feeling after a few rounds now I’m older , tbh as a get older as much as it’s fun to share time with a girl a would enjoy a couple off nice times with her and have her happy and actually really enjoy cuddles and hugs , maybe a bit vanilla but a really love the closeness and being open enough with a girl if she trust me enough to be that way , a really appreciate it more now , sorry a bit of a ramble there lol |
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I find oral to be really enjoyable, but I'm kinda happy to then spoon. I find that relaxing, and more enjoyable than thrusting myself on top a lady. I also like the fact I can kiss her neck, and fondle her boobs at the same time  |
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"It’s a quiet day for me and after perving a few vids on here it’s got me wondering.
How physically demanding do men find sex, in terms of energy, stamina, or physical exertion?
I’m asking about the physical side of sex -does it leave you feeling way too tired afterwards. Is it an uncomfortable workout for your muscles and stamina. It’s about understanding how much effort or energy it takes for you during the experience? Because sometimes I watch you men pumping away and my back and thighs ache on your behalf!
Do you sometimes just feel like sacking the whole thing off as it’s just too much effort? Does the pleasure of sex get to a point where the effort it takes to do the sex is just too much and you can’t be arsed?
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Even though I'm not at the best end of my life for fitness I don't struggle where sex is concerned, when you enjoy yourself it's easy to find the stamina . |
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I've asked my husband this previously and he said that you get used to the strenuous nature of it, but you need to work on stamina. He has loads of it and can go for hours when we play but he can also pull a quickie if needed or wanted from whoever we are playing with. He used to sprint for Kent County when he was in his teens so he may have some muscle memory going on there too. Basically the more sex you have and the more frequently you fuck, the better and longer you can last.
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it feels too good to last more than 10 mins. Or is that just me lol 
