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Lots of threads ask to do something or say whatever about the poster above. Most people do just that but very noticeably some just skip the person above and go for someone else. I run quite a few threads and tbh I don't like it, especially if it is new people that will be put off and possibly not join in again. Personally I prefer to include everyone though I appreciate why it might be happening  |
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I usually find that by the time I've checked the profile above and made my comment, at least 2 others have beaten me to it! So instead of pleasuring the lady who was above, it looks like I want to have the guy that replied before me!
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By *rT25Man 15 weeks ago
Rotherham |
I think sometimes though the thread goes that fast its easy to miss someone above.
But I do agree that certain people again and again will just get thirsty over who they want haha
It is what it is  |
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By *rT25Man 15 weeks ago
Rotherham |
"I usually find that by the time I've checked the profile above and made my comment, at least 2 others have beaten me to it! So instead of pleasuring the lady who was above, it looks like I want to have the guy that replied before me!
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We've all been there. I just leave the post now rather than delete it |
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To be equitable, such threads often move at such a swift rate that inevitably a good few people are inadvertently lost amidst the proceeds.
However, it is indeed unfortunate that many will deliberately ‘hop’ over people in order to compliment a specifically chosen person 🙁 |
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By (user no longer on site) 15 weeks ago
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"Sometimes it's a timing thing. Especially when there's a little rush to reply to the hot girl or popular poster.
But yeah. Sometimes people are just rude about it."
I think this is it in a lot of instances, I've done it where I've come after the person who's already replied, but just try and go back and do them... Wow, that sounded unnecessarily sexual 🤨 |
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I get missed out lots on threads but it is what it is I’m a big boy lol
I think partly as someone said it’s that race for men to message the hot girl above and other times it’s just not fancying someone even though it’s not that type of thread |
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By *ir tootMan 15 weeks ago
Burton-on-Trent |
"It's akin to being last to be picked for the netball team. An experience I'm all too familiar with 
I remember those days being picked last, for me it knocked my confidence."
School was the worst for that..
Honeslty I try to take these forum games as abit of fun. |
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By *IXEN200Woman 15 weeks ago
newcastle upon tyne |
"It's akin to being last to be picked for the netball team. An experience I'm all too familiar with
I remember those days being picked last, for me it knocked my confidence.
School was the worst for that..
Honeslty I try to take these forum games as abit of fun."
I left school at 16 due to being pregnant and my confidence is slowly coming back now. School was awful |
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It's not just 'those' threads though MB
I'd say, for many men here, someone picking up one on of your comments in any thread is like 1 in 20 - less so for the ladies
It's no sweat for me personally, but I do understand why, for some, the forums can appear a lonely place |
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"It's akin to being last to be picked for the netball team. An experience I'm all too familiar with
I remember those days being picked last, for me it knocked my confidence."
I knew I was no good at netball, I didn't expect people to pick me and it didn't particularly concern me. I feel a similar way about the 'one above' threads hence I rarely join them. At least we get a choice |
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"It's akin to being last to be picked for the netball team. An experience I'm all too familiar with
I remember those days being picked last, for me it knocked my confidence.
School was the worst for that..
Honeslty I try to take these forum games as abit of fun."
I don't know why they do it at school really, it's no more than a popularity contest when it comes down to it. |
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By *ir tootMan 15 weeks ago
Burton-on-Trent |
"It's akin to being last to be picked for the netball team. An experience I'm all too familiar with
I remember those days being picked last, for me it knocked my confidence.
School was the worst for that..
Honeslty I try to take these forum games as abit of fun.
I don't know why they do it at school really, it's no more than a popularity contest when it comes down to it. "
Yeah, I'm glad school is over and dome with, fucking shitshow.
Just hope don't people don't take the forum to much to the heart, really isn't good for you mentally either.
And that's coming from me 🤣.
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"It's akin to being last to be picked for the netball team. An experience I'm all too familiar with
I remember those days being picked last, for me it knocked my confidence.
School was the worst for that..
Honeslty I try to take these forum games as abit of fun.
I don't know why they do it at school really, it's no more than a popularity contest when it comes down to it.
Yeah, I'm glad school is over and dome with, fucking shitshow.
Just hope don't people don't take the forum to much to the heart, really isn't good for you mentally either.
And that's coming from me 🤣.
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I didn't mind school.
I think the forums can be difficult for some for sure. |
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By *ir tootMan 15 weeks ago
Burton-on-Trent |
"It's akin to being last to be picked for the netball team. An experience I'm all too familiar with
I remember those days being picked last, for me it knocked my confidence.
School was the worst for that..
Honeslty I try to take these forum games as abit of fun.
I don't know why they do it at school really, it's no more than a popularity contest when it comes down to it.
Yeah, I'm glad school is over and dome with, fucking shitshow.
Just hope don't people don't take the forum to much to the heart, really isn't good for you mentally either.
And that's coming from me 🤣.
I didn't mind school.
I think the forums can be difficult for some for sure. "
I'll admit I got bullied a fair bit, but it's all in the past now.
It certainly was for me, all these new people that i have to socialise with.. scary.
I feel alot more confident now though, it's still kinda difficult but it's better then 2 moths ago.
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"Lots of threads ask to do something or say whatever about the poster above. Most people do just that but very noticeably some just skip the person above and go for someone else. I run quite a few threads and tbh I don't like it, especially if it is new people that will be put off and possibly not join in again. Personally I prefer to include everyone though I appreciate why it might be happening "
I get that cos some guys can’t bear the thought of being seen to interact with a bi guy. |
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By (user no longer on site) 15 weeks ago
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People are gonna reply to the one they fancy, or as someone else said it's just a timing thing. Honestly, if people get upset about getting skipped they maybe shouldn't play in the first place, it's not that serious.
What does annoy me is the ones that go back and reply to someone. |
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"Well often get skipped but won’t take it personally..
the timing is sometimes frantic and we’ll often get caught up looking at someone’s profile for longer than we should.. "
You’re not getting skipped this time 🔥🔥🔥 xx |
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"Well often get skipped but won’t take it personally..
the timing is sometimes frantic and we’ll often get caught up looking at someone’s profile for longer than we should..
You’re not getting skipped this time 🔥🔥🔥 xx"
Right back at you..! 
Got lost for a while in your videos..  |
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"Well often get skipped but won’t take it personally..
the timing is sometimes frantic and we’ll often get caught up looking at someone’s profile for longer than we should..
You’re not getting skipped this time 🔥🔥🔥 xx
Right back at you..!
Got lost for a while in your videos.. "
Need to take some better ones but thank you 😘😘 xx |
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I think also that the ratio thing can mess it up sometimes.
Most “straight” men won’t admit to wanting to do whatever to the poster above if they are male so go higher up the thread seeking the woman.
That said I have seen diplomatic answers of “yes for a drink” etc |
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