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Fabs on your pics do you respond
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"Ain't nobody got time for that.
Generally, no.
If I scan through recent fabs and someone stands out to me, it's not unheard of 💜"
This.  I mean a female / trans posting can often get hundreds of fans if not thousands quite fast in short time Good luck replying to that |
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I always respond to fabs with a thank you.
But I don’t get that many, I know I’m an acquired taste so really appreciate the few I do get.
However I totally understand it would be impossible for ladies and couples to respond to every fab they get. |
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I look on it the same way as maybe someone smiling at me when I'm out and about. I'll take a look at who's fabbed me and if they take my fancy I'll smile/fab them back. Very occasionally I might send a message, but in reality most people who fab my pics are hundred of miles away, so what's the point in opening comms? |
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Don’t tend to respond to a fab as I take that as just liking the pic without necessarily wanting anything.
A wink or a message I would perceive as them trying to initiate some contact so would reply to those! Although I dod thank someone for a wink yesterday and was promptly blocked so doesn’t always work  |
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Nope… as with the person above who said the same thing, the majority of my photos are fabbed by men which isn’t my target audience… the rest of the portion that make up my fabbed photos are existing friends.
Very flattering if someone likes something I’ve uploaded but it’s nothing more than that. Certainly don’t message every person who’s photos I fab either… |
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I see a fab as the equivalent of a ‘like’ on fbook. It doesn’t really warrant a message. But I think the volume of Fabs will likely be very different for men, women, couples and TV/TS - some people couldn’t possibly respond to every fab… we’d be here all day 😂 |
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People responding puts me off fabbing them to be honest & it's why I don't fab blokes anymore.
I fab the pic because I like the pic not because I want to fuck them or have a conversation about it, I'd have messaged or winked if that was the case.
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If someone like my pics enough to Fab them, then I smile to myself that I am not entirely invisible.
But I treat fabbing a pic and making contact as two separate things, and both independent of each other.
I will probably perve at them though... |
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"Or do you just take it as a silent compliment have a smile to yourself and get on with your life "
And this is why we never fab male pics anymore, because they automatically think you want to shag em by messaging back. Just because I like a photo, doesn't mean I want to suck your cock. |
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Pic fabs are very much appreciated and are acknowledged with a thank you. I always return the compliment which has led to some ongoing fab friendships.
All part of the fun and enjoyment of the site. |
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"Or do you just take it as a silent compliment have a smile to yourself and get on with your life
And this is why we never fab male pics anymore, because they automatically think you want to shag em by messaging back. Just because I like a photo, doesn't mean I want to suck your cock. "
You mean when I immediately respond to a fab with 9 photos of my glorious member I'm not increasing my chances of getting the ride? 🤦
I just thought they were all fakes!
I'm never gonna get the hang of this fab thing 😭 |
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By *hilloutMan 8 weeks ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Or do you just take it as a silent compliment have a smile to yourself and get on with your life "
The latter. I suspect the reason a lot of women hesitate to fab men's pics is they likely get a message in their inbox afterwards. |
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"Or do you just take it as a silent compliment have a smile to yourself and get on with your life "
As a general rule, I don’t bother to acknowledge because it leads me down a path with 1000 messages that I don’t need.
On the very rare occasion that I see someone fab one of my pics and I like what I see on their profile, and they are within a suitable distance then I might reach out, either by returning the compliment by fabbing a pic or by wink or message.
I don’t think it’s ever actually gone beyond afew messages though. |
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"Or do you just take it as a silent compliment have a smile to yourself and get on with your life
The latter. I suspect the reason a lot of women hesitate to fab men's pics is they likely get a message in their inbox afterwards."
No need to suspect, it’s the EXACT reason why women DON’T fab men’s photos…. Not something I personally do or would ever, but I understand why. A lot of guys when snap at any attention their profile gets when their struggling to get noticed… |
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I don’t really take them as anything, if somebody fires a cheeky wink over then I might get a semi on.
But when it comes to fabs no attention is paid.
Unless they fab all of my work, then I might take it as a sign.
99.9% of my fabs are from fellas though tbf. |
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"Or do you just take it as a silent compliment have a smile to yourself and get on with your life
The latter. I suspect the reason a lot of women hesitate to fab men's pics is they likely get a message in their inbox afterwards."
Yep that’s why I don’t fab them. There’s plenty of nice men’s pics that I think are very nice but I can’t be arsed with the messages that inevitably come afterwards. Same reason I spy in ninja mode - if they can see you’ve looked at their profile you get the ‘Like what you see?’ message… 😶 |
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By *929Man 8 weeks ago
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"I never ever message first even if someone winks
I think if someone sends you a wink then that is a bit of an invitation to message  "
Haha fair point I usually just wink back and see if they message me |
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"I never ever message first even if someone winks
I think if someone sends you a wink then that is a bit of an invitation to message "
You’d think so… there’s been occasions where I’ve been winked, I’ve winked back and followed up with message only for them to unsolicitedly friend request and totally ignore the message, like what was even the point of winking in the first place 🤦🏾♂️ |
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"I never ever message first even if someone winks"
I don’t message first, but that’s only because I know how many messages ladies and couples get, I don’t want to add to that fabmin, however I will always send a well thought out message to all winks. As stated on my profile. |
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"As a female I wouldn't even take a fab as a compliment.
A woman could post a picture of her elbow and it'd still get them.
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Whilst I think you have a point, it's nice to get a compliment.
Sometimes when you get a lot of something, you tend to stop seeing it as specifical.
Most women on this site talk to men like they're pieces of shit, so for a man to get a compliment, even "you don't look like a complete c*nt", is nice |
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By *hilloutMan 8 weeks ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Or do you just take it as a silent compliment have a smile to yourself and get on with your life
The latter. I suspect the reason a lot of women hesitate to fab men's pics is they likely get a message in their inbox afterwards.
Yep that’s why I don’t fab them. There’s plenty of nice men’s pics that I think are very nice but I can’t be arsed with the messages that inevitably come afterwards. Same reason I spy in ninja mode - if they can see you’ve looked at their profile you get the ‘Like what you see?’ message… 😶"
People are free to fab away mine to their heart's content.
I've never sent a message thanking for fabs. I think it's cringe and desperate. If the person was interested in more, they'd either wink or message directly. |
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We will look at who has fabbed us and if we like some of their pics we'll fab them. Also it's a good way of opening the conversation, if someone fabs one of the pics it shows they've looked and could be interested in us   |
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"Or do you just take it as a silent compliment have a smile to yourself and get on with your life
The latter. I suspect the reason a lot of women hesitate to fab men's pics is they likely get a message in their inbox afterwards.
Yep that’s why I don’t fab them. There’s plenty of nice men’s pics that I think are very nice but I can’t be arsed with the messages that inevitably come afterwards. Same reason I spy in ninja mode - if they can see you’ve looked at their profile you get the ‘Like what you see?’ message… 😶
People are free to fab away mine to their heart's content.
I've never sent a message thanking for fabs. I think it's cringe and desperate. If the person was interested in more, they'd either wink or message directly."
Absolutely agree |
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I rarely look at who's fabbed my photos so no, I don't thank people individually. I also don't expect thanks from those whose photos I Fab.
As an aside, a new photo upload can get hundreds of Fabs in a short space of time (talking about women in general) and sending thank you messages to each individual could well trigger a message block for spamming. |
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"I never ever message first even if someone winks
I don’t message first, but that’s only because I know how many messages ladies and couples get, I don’t want to add to that fabmin, however I will always send a well thought out message to all winks. As stated on my profile. "
Oh exactly, I’ll message first if it’s to do with a forum thingy or if winked at but I won’t otherwise for the same reason.
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Depends.
Most of the fabs on our pics are of me from single guys, so I slightly smile knowing fabbing a pic is the closest they'll get to fucking me.
When we notice a couple has fabbed pics of both of us, then we'll have a gander at their profile and see if they're possibly of interest
C xoxo |
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I don't respond to fabs, I see our pics as an advertisement of ourselves, although its nice to get a fab we don't see this place as a popularity contest. I understand some people love the fabs and attention but we are here to have fun, this isn't a social media website x
Mrs x |
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