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Event listings, the forum, keeping up with existing friends, and very very occasionally making new ones.
I sometimes hide my profile or don't check it for a bit to take a break. I don't delete and come back though as even though I know this is silly, I like that my profile is old/established etc. I've been using this username on the scene for some time now, it feels like it is connected to me in some way. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 15 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"I made a deal with the devil.
I can never leave.
Ah yes the deal with the devil…admin…worse unpaid job ever 🤣"
Oh this was long before I became a mod.
How do you think I got my 12" dick, six pack and long flowing locks......😇😇 |
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By *ornycougaWoman 15 weeks ago
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Depends from day to day. At any given time I may be doing one or more of:
Looking for people to meet
Mooching around the forums
Being an attention seeking whore
Chatting to friends
Looking to see what socials/events are on
Perving over certain profiles
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By (user no longer on site) 15 weeks ago
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"Based on another thread
What keeps you here?
For those that leave and come back, what brings you back?"
People that think or feel the same & can relate to things here . nothing special tbh but people here have some sense of freedom here. |
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The hope of a connection and regular sex keeps me here.
The lack of connections, replies and regular sex makes me leave
And the hope of a connection and regular sex makes me come back.
Hosting picnics is also something that I enjoy when I’m here. |
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"After nearly five years on Fab, I still get a lot - and I mean a lot - of great sex.
Simples.
Talk to me!
What's your secret?
Read the verifications...
It's your tongue, isn't it?"
Oh, dear.
No.
Look again. You read through three or four rave reviews before even seeing any mention of my bedroom talents.
It's about attitude and behaviour... |
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1. I am curious about people and what brings them here....(nosey)
2. Soooo Bored......
3. I like scrolling through the forums
4. The comedy value in the forums, particularly the blocked that moan about not being able to interact with the opposite sex
But most of all, this is a side of life that isn't vanilla, it helps me realise that I am not the only person in the world that wants something more than a curtains closed and lights out sex life! |
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By *lder.Woman 15 weeks ago
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I really, really want to go to a big fab social meet one day, but only being here about 7 years I still dont quite feel ready. And, I would really, really like some sex again but, I am still dead inside, so when that flutter comes back, I'll be away, skirt up, knickers down again. |
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By (user no longer on site) 15 weeks ago
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I think hope is what keeps me here lol. I also love seeing the stuff that gets posted, I'm super nosey and think that some of the stuff on here is hot as fuck! I can't stay away |
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"I think hope is what keeps me here lol. I also love seeing the stuff that gets posted, I'm super nosey and think that some of the stuff on here is hot as fuck! I can't stay away"
It’s the hope that kills you! |
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Loneliness mostly. Social anxiety. The chat.
In the absence of physical like-minded folk to hang out with in the flesh (so to speak), this digital world gives me some semblance of a sense of belonging and being with 'my people'. |
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By *eliWoman 15 weeks ago
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The forums, albeit increasingly less so, my friends. The messages that bring me joy. Socials, quite like those and it's a good way of finding out about them.
I'm actively not looking for anything, really rather content. Life is rather beautiful and all those slightly nauseating sayings. |
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By (user no longer on site) 15 weeks ago
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"I think hope is what keeps me here lol. I also love seeing the stuff that gets posted, I'm super nosey and think that some of the stuff on here is hot as fuck! I can't stay away
It’s the hope that kills you!"
I'd have to agree haha well if nothing ever comes of my time here, it'll still remain my favourite porn site lol |
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What keeps me here? Hope, because I'm an optimistic, and I'm hopeful that one day those younger than myself (56) will wake up, and realise what they are really looking for is a _ornyoldbastard like myself! 😂 |
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To chat with friends we have made and to arrange naughty playtime love to meet up with old and new people when on holiday mainly but do have a few locals usually find we have more luck with meets when we go south to the new forest every few months |
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I’ve made some good friends on fab with whom I miss talking when not online for a while.
Organised socials have become a good way for me to meet new friends (and occasionally touch a boob).
As a middle aged single guy who lives on his own, doesn’t have social media, and doesn’t see much of his friends or family, the lounge gives me a social life of sorts. Sometimes I have to talk to bellends but one runs that risk in any walk of life.
But the main reason is because it’s now become a competition with myself to see how long it will take to put my winkie in a woman not connected to the forums. It’s now well over a year and the riverbed is dry with no sign of rain. Come on Felix!!! 😆 |
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By (user no longer on site) 15 weeks ago
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"I’ve made some good friends on fab with whom I miss talking when not online for a while.
Organised socials have become a good way for me to meet new friends (and occasionally touch a boob).
As a middle aged single guy who lives on his own, doesn’t have social media, and doesn’t see much of his friends or family, the lounge gives me a social life of sorts. Sometimes I have to talk to bellends but one runs that risk in any walk of life.
But the main reason is because it’s now become a competition with myself to see how long it will take to put my winkie in a woman not connected to the forums. It’s now well over a year and the riverbed is dry with no sign of rain. Come on Felix!!! 😆"
You're the forums favourite teacher though, I'd have thought you'd be knee deep in vagina by now! |
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It can be good fun and an escape too. Like chatting to people and of course meeting some of them. There is the odd time ghat you have to hold back from screaming at someone but not often and most people, especially on the forum, are great to interact with  |
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"I’ve made some good friends on fab with whom I miss talking when not online for a while.
Organised socials have become a good way for me to meet new friends (and occasionally touch a boob).
As a middle aged single guy who lives on his own, doesn’t have social media, and doesn’t see much of his friends or family, the lounge gives me a social life of sorts. Sometimes I have to talk to bellends but one runs that risk in any walk of life.
But the main reason is because it’s now become a competition with myself to see how long it will take to put my winkie in a woman not connected to the forums. It’s now well over a year and the riverbed is dry with no sign of rain. Come on Felix!!! 😆
You're the forums favourite teacher though, I'd have thought you'd be knee deep in vagina by now! "
Yes but yours doesn’t count and the fact it’ll take a leg doesn’t do me any favours 😆 |
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Mainly because we still love this lifestyle and this is one on the best places to keep informed about what's going on. Plus we use it a lot to keep in touch with freinds (especially those who we don't keep in contact with over traditional vanilla means). And we do like to be seen and see others. |
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Not a lot. Have met sone lovely people on here but im not hitting anyones checklist. The forums can be funny and occasionally an intetesting thread pops up. My membership runs out at the end of the month, dont think i will renew.  |
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I’ll be brutally open and honest.
Me re-arranging my expectations brought me back.
I find it easy to get along with anyone in real life.
Super
Easy
Somebody suggested I’d do well for meeting like minded people on here.
They couldn’t have been more wrong.
Turns out I’m shit at selling myself online.
I liked the idea of verifications because you wouldn’t have to prove yourself to everyone you speak to.
After not managing to get to a meet point with anyone local enough that I was attracted to for the 6 odd months I was here it started to affect my self worth.
Then I had a few nights out, did well my nights out, analysed my fab life and realised that nobody here knows the real me, and online I probably look like every other guy with guy lines.
So now I meet people outside of fab instead.
When I do a few club visits and gain a few veris I’ll start making effort on here.
Until then it’s just a background site I check in on every now and then.
The only thing that actually kept me here was the forum mandems I spoke to privately before.
Which I’m yet to connect with since coming back.
-fin |
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Not a lot keeps me here now if I'm honest. The only people I can chat to is men lol that's because I get messages from them trying their luck trying to get something haha it's crazy, eventhough I have got straight guy in my profile lol
To be honest I think the upfront abusive, rude guys who are dick heads have ruined it for the rest of us. By messaging "fancy a fuck" and send cock pics and shit like that. So I don't blame the women who don't wanna message back anymore. Plus they are getting bombarded with messages from guys all day long and they can't read them all, which stops them from replying too. I have always gone through their profiles, because that's the only way I can get to know them a little a see what they are like and what they want, and then I always send a respectable message, but it's basically a waste of time now because of the problems I just mentioned. So again like everyone else's answer for this, is the forums. They are the only reasons why I come on here now and then. To read and check out them, but that's it, which makes me wonder if I want to be here anymore or not?? |
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"Not a lot keeps me here now if I'm honest. The only people I can chat to is men lol that's because I get messages from them trying their luck trying to get something haha it's crazy, eventhough I have got straight guy in my profile lol
To be honest I think the upfront abusive, rude guys who are dick heads have ruined it for the rest of us. By messaging "fancy a fuck" and send cock pics and shit like that. So I don't blame the women who don't wanna message back anymore. Plus they are getting bombarded with messages from guys all day long and they can't read them all, which stops them from replying too. I have always gone through their profiles, because that's the only way I can get to know them a little a see what they are like and what they want, and then I always send a respectable message, but it's basically a waste of time now because of the problems I just mentioned. So again like everyone else's answer for this, is the forums. They are the only reasons why I come on here now and then. To read and check out them, but that's it, which makes me wonder if I want to be here anymore or not?? "
Agree totally |
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By (user no longer on site) 15 weeks ago
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"Not a lot keeps me here now if I'm honest. The only people I can chat to is men lol that's because I get messages from them trying their luck trying to get something haha it's crazy, eventhough I have got straight guy in my profile lol
To be honest I think the upfront abusive, rude guys who are dick heads have ruined it for the rest of us. By messaging "fancy a fuck" and send cock pics and shit like that. So I don't blame the women who don't wanna message back anymore. Plus they are getting bombarded with messages from guys all day long and they can't read them all, which stops them from replying too. I have always gone through their profiles, because that's the only way I can get to know them a little a see what they are like and what they want, and then I always send a respectable message, but it's basically a waste of time now because of the problems I just mentioned. So again like everyone else's answer for this, is the forums. They are the only reasons why I come on here now and then. To read and check out them, but that's it, which makes me wonder if I want to be here anymore or not??
Agree totally "
So true |
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"Not a lot keeps me here now if I'm honest. The only people I can chat to is men lol that's because I get messages from them trying their luck trying to get something haha it's crazy, eventhough I have got straight guy in my profile lol
To be honest I think the upfront abusive, rude guys who are dick heads have ruined it for the rest of us. By messaging "fancy a fuck" and send cock pics and shit like that. So I don't blame the women who don't wanna message back anymore. Plus they are getting bombarded with messages from guys all day long and they can't read them all, which stops them from replying too. I have always gone through their profiles, because that's the only way I can get to know them a little a see what they are like and what they want, and then I always send a respectable message, but it's basically a waste of time now because of the problems I just mentioned. So again like everyone else's answer for this, is the forums. They are the only reasons why I come on here now and then. To read and check out them, but that's it, which makes me wonder if I want to be here anymore or not?? "
Yeh I couldn’t co-sign this harder.
Even though my profile stated strongly that I have zero interest in fellas I’d still get it.
1 fella who messaged me for bum fun who I told to read my profile replied with “so why don’t you block all men lol”
Because there are some fellas on the forum that can read a profile and are actually cool to chat with tbh, and I shouldn’t need to block all men because you don’t respect peoples boundaries.
On the flip side, I’d have a bunch off un fabbed pics if it wasn’t for the fellas on fab so every cloud…. |
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"Not a lot keeps me here now if I'm honest. The only people I can chat to is men lol that's because I get messages from them trying their luck trying to get something haha it's crazy, eventhough I have got straight guy in my profile lol
To be honest I think the upfront abusive, rude guys who are dick heads have ruined it for the rest of us. By messaging "fancy a fuck" and send cock pics and shit like that. So I don't blame the women who don't wanna message back anymore. Plus they are getting bombarded with messages from guys all day long and they can't read them all, which stops them from replying too. I have always gone through their profiles, because that's the only way I can get to know them a little a see what they are like and what they want, and then I always send a respectable message, but it's basically a waste of time now because of the problems I just mentioned. So again like everyone else's answer for this, is the forums. They are the only reasons why I come on here now and then. To read and check out them, but that's it, which makes me wonder if I want to be here anymore or not??
Agree totally "
Yeah it's a shame really. I blame the men hiding behind their screens at home trying their luck by sending cock photos and saying some really abusive and offensive messages to women because they are complete idiots and cowards in my eyes. What do they think they are gonna get out of it seriously. It's disgusting and they should be reported and blocked straight away for material like that to women. They wouldn't go and talk like that to them in a pub or club or something would they, so why do it here? Because they are sad cowardly little men who have no respect for anything and are most likely still living with their mums house lol I think there should be categories for the messages that are sent to women, so it gives the nice and respectable guys a chance to get a reply and have a chat. For example. For women they get 3 different post categories. In their msg box 1) that's for quick messages like "hi,hey and hello" and that. In msg box 2) they are for the respectable messages, from guys who have read their profiles and have written a proper nice post and has spent time typing it and then in the last box, msg box 3) they are for the idiots who have no respect, who try their luck by being rude and disturbing in my eyes.
This way the ladies have a choice to pick what they want. I think it will cut time for them to read and respond if they like to. They can choose what sort of message they would like to hear there and then and respond to it straight away, saves trying to read through all the messages they get bombarded with every day. Either fabswingers can somehow categorised them all like that but if not, give the option to the people which box they would like to message in. Maybe this will give the real gentleman on here a good chance to find a chat with someone |
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